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Career / Re: Nigerians Share Their Experiences Dealing With Society's Pressure To Succeed by Dimaya: 4:36pm On Nov 06, 2023
spot on
Family / Re: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 4:35pm On Nov 06, 2023
Always
Family / Re: Nobody Wants To Marry A Broke Girl Also by Dimaya: 4:26pm On Nov 06, 2023
Aaaaarghmed:
God forbid broke woman.God forbid

grin
Family / Re: Man: How Do You Stop Ex-girlfriend From Aborting Your Baby? by Dimaya: 4:23pm On Nov 06, 2023
meobizy:
Dimaya, this topic will not hit front page no matter how many accounts you open to discuss with yourself. Give it up already.

you'd be surprised. no be motivational speakers dey talk say winners never quit grin grin grin
Romance / Re: Young Women And Their Insane Expectations by Dimaya: 4:21pm On Nov 06, 2023
SIMPonPatrol:
Oga if you no get money make you comot for road.

Do you want to bring another man's daughter to come and be drinking garri in your house?

crazy submission
Career / Re: Your employees don’t hate their jobs, they don’t just like you by Dimaya: 4:17pm On Nov 06, 2023
OP, are you referring to these employees lamenting about the crazy things they are experiencing at the hands of their bosses


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rdbg7Xqg1cQ

People need to realise that the marketplace is hard for everybody. If you have a boss that pays you regularly, on time and doesn't owe you, please cherish that workplace.

cherish it o

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Family / Re: Men In Marriage: How To Play The In-law Politics! by Dimaya: 12:54pm On Oct 19, 2023
Great move
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Passion Over Paycheck: Is It Worth Taking A Lower-paying Job To Do What I Love by Dimaya: 12:45pm On Oct 19, 2023
No
Politics / Re: Why YOU And Your Dreams Are The Solutions To Nigeria's Problems by Dimaya: 10:17pm On Oct 18, 2023
These are the projects that government should be embarking upon
Romance / Re: Love, Money And Control by Dimaya: 10:16pm On Oct 18, 2023
ideamonster:


baba just dey post

Hit me back. I have a proposition for you.
Career / Re: Man Leaves High Paying Job To Follow His Passion. Wife-to-be "Unfollows" Him by Dimaya: 10:14pm On Oct 18, 2023
ideamonster:


and will those girls fall out of heaven

I tire o
Romance / Re: How To Prepare Yourself Against Personal Betrayals by Dimaya: 10:12pm On Oct 18, 2023
ideamonster:


can't imagine how judas felt after his betrayal

It doesn't matter how he felt
Career / Re: How YOUR Dreams Can Catalyse Nigeria's Transformation by Dimaya: 10:11pm On Oct 18, 2023
These are the types of projects that our government needs to fund
Family / Re: Fuel Subsidy Removal: Men With Rich Wives Complain About Control by Dimaya: 10:10pm On Oct 18, 2023
bukatyne:


A man is expected to provide; a woman is expected to keep her youth, beauty and take care of the home. Children are expected to make their parents proud and care for them in future.

Each party has something expected of them.

All these half truths peddled to sell a delusional ideology.

@OP:

The major stress comes from the fact that he wants to eat his cake and have it.

When he is the major provider, he thinks it gives him the right to be in control of the house/wife and exempt from domestic chores and housekeeping which the woman peacefully accepts.

When she becomes the major provider, he frowns if his wife treats him same way and starts to postulate theories. He still wants to enjoy the privilege of the major provider while not bringing in the money. So he wants a beast of burden who is fine with bringing in most of the money, allow him control and exempt him from domestics.

Marriages whose dynamics are not based on money but mutual respect, love, equity and understanding need not experience this change Irrespective of who brings in more money.

You have a point
Romance / Re: Young People Love Delusions by Dimaya: 10:08pm On Oct 18, 2023
Bluezy13:
I will share my opinion whenever I will watch it; if I will watch it.

grin
Family / Re: Nobody Wants To Marry A Broke Girl Also by Dimaya: 10:07pm On Oct 18, 2023
ogawisdom:
Just get a woman with her own regular source of income not necessarily rich. A woman that won't depend on you or expect you to pay her allowance to lazy around.

A woman that wants to work to earn a living not somebody that wants to be taken care of like a child

Spot on.
Romance / Re: Young Women And Their Insane Expectations by Dimaya: 10:06pm On Oct 18, 2023
Caleb15:
What were you expecting in ikorodu of all places with the highest rate of ........ Abegi

Wetin ikorodu people do you
Romance / Re: Marrying Women Older Than 25 Is Risky~ A Brutal Truth For Men Who Want Children by Dimaya: 10:05pm On Oct 18, 2023
DelilahMakinde:


Yes, unfortunately.

Thank you
Career / Re: Is Japa Worth It? by Dimaya: 10:04pm On Oct 18, 2023
wwwtortoise:


You’re spot on with this.
As far back in 2016 Lamido Sanusi made this revelation on currency arbitrage but Nigerians hate to read. He decried the state of forex dual window operation highlighting the economic havoc that accompanied it.
He stated it that some bigwigs make a fortune daily that even the likes of Aliko Dangote will be jealous just by exploiting the forex dual market window.

https://www.ft.com/content/c0c0876c-cd8a-11e5-831d-09f7778e7377

Unfortunately the leaders of tomorrow were busy glued to their 40inch television watching BB9ja and sharing the reel all over social media.

I started converting my salary when I was in Nigeria to USD upon understanding these concepts and it really helped me to preserve its value and also make gains. I had to split my portfolio between USD and cryptocurrency then kept just enough naira to sustain my basic expenses for the month until another inflow.

Nigeria is on economic comatose.

True

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Romance / Re: Marrying Women Older Than 25 Is Risky~ A Brutal Truth For Men Who Want Children by Dimaya: 5:09pm On Oct 16, 2023
Wisswhales007:
Really, Should I say you Cap too much. Why generalizing it? How about women giving birth at age 33 to 38 or Early 40. I don't seems to agree on your write

Just go back and read the original post. And state your rebuttal with objective evidence. I offered my sources, you can provide yours.

You're the one generalizing based off anecdotes.
Romance / Re: Marrying Women Older Than 25 Is Risky~ A Brutal Truth For Men Who Want Children by Dimaya: 7:07am On Oct 16, 2023
Obierika:


So in order words you're saying that ladies over 25 should not be hopeful of marriage?

Just saw this.

I'm saying younger women who want kids should prioritize having them earlier. Waiting until late 30s is a recipe for disaster.

That's all

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Food / Re: How Much Should A Single, Unmarried Person Spend On Food Daily? by Dimaya: 7:04am On Oct 16, 2023
ideamonster:



you dey abuse me wey fit help your destiny. Na God do help you.

Baba, you cant help anybody

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Family / Re: Nobody Wants To Marry A Broke Girl Also by Dimaya: 6:58am On Oct 16, 2023
Tayorshd87:


Don't mind the poster he is a kid that's why .
All the rich ladies have met in my life are mostly hallot and d likes but when I tried a lady with notice but humble and respectful also wife material 😊 immediately I got married to her and now we are doing fine.

What Abt if I go for rich lady and d home breaks after a year 🤔

If all the rich ladies you've met are harlots, don't you think it says a lot about you as a person?
Family / Re: Man: How Do You Stop Ex-girlfriend From Aborting Your Baby? by Dimaya: 6:55am On Oct 16, 2023
aisha1314:
The answer to this question is, you can't. Her body, her choice. smiley

I hope you'll accept 'His money, his choice' if tables were reversed

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Romance / Re: Single Mother Pandemic by Dimaya: 10:52pm On Oct 14, 2023
We've been talking about it. But no one pays attention.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wnluQ3AdnOE
Romance / Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Dimaya: 10:46pm On Oct 14, 2023
ideamonster:


As long as this makes you sleep better at night. undecided

grin
Romance / Re: Young Women And Their Insane Expectations by Dimaya: 6:51pm On Oct 14, 2023
Rucheen:
Sometimes I wonder

Could it be that they don't think or they don't have brain

they're ill-advised
Romance / Re: Young Women And Their Insane Expectations by Dimaya: 11:07am On Oct 14, 2023
SIMPonPatrol:
Oga if you no get money make you comot for road.

Do you want to bring anither man's daughter to come and be drinking garri in your house?

I would have gotten angry but your name says it all
Romance / Re: Young Women And Their Insane Expectations by Dimaya: 6:09am On Oct 14, 2023
Fahvvy:


I agree with you sir grin...
But the only cure to that insanity is TIME grin...

Let's just be patient grin...
The clock is indeed ticking grin...

Hmmm. I wish I could agree. But those delusional ideas are spreading. Young girls are infectIng themselves with these ideas.

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Romance / Re: Young Women And Their Insane Expectations by Dimaya: 12:51am On Oct 14, 2023
Rayban26:


Where there are mumu and spineless men who simp a lot, you will have deluded girls. It's as simple as that.

If men start actually acting like men you wont see this nonsense. Men are the enablers of this rubbish

You'll always have some men who will encourage female delusion for what they're out to get

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