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A guy went on a talk show and accidentally revealed to the audience that he is cheating on his faithful girlfriend.

Now his girlfriend is pissed and doesn't quite know how to handle the situation.

So how did you handle a boyfriend who cheated on you?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6x9LCYM1TYk

Zigzagman:
not lamenting. just stating reality

long time no see

ideamonster:
it has gone

o ti lo

Thank God nairaland is back up

Thank God nairaland is back up

True.

Having relationships across continents is a big NO NO.

If you need advice on whether you should consider a long distance relationship or not, here's a few things to keep in mind when considering a long distance relationship


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdivu1ASuAw

ExudeLoveToAll:
There are few person's around the world who can actually go into relationship with mutual benefits. Most go into relationship to avoid accountability and responsibilities. Most go into relationship to transfer their financial burdens to another.

Unless you go in with someone of same financial status, most wills hide their character flaws in order to dig into your financial source.

That's the world we live in, greed and selfishness rules.

Everyone acts in their own self interest. Women and men both want partners that'll make their lives better or make them appear better.

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

A place to go and continue thier gold digging business olosho

not nice

TheFinesseKid:
Wow. Olosho doings. Mama the mama!!

WorldRichest:
You go Explain Tire.

Dey play

[quote author=Swiftgrp post=127505789][/quote]This is interesting

JustPowerApps:
People still use that flower pickup? Unbelievable

Better believe it bro

lordnkem000:
When I realized she had nothing to offer outside her pvssy. And she kept expecting me to become her father at the same time

The stories you read on nairaland. Smdh

TheFinesseKid:
When she started squeezing my balls too hard.

shaking my damn head

dkidd:
This is a useless thread. No man owes any lady marriage! Marriage is no one's right. U earn the right to be his wife if he sees it with u. If u like open kpekus everyday, do all the domestic chores,cook his favorite food daily and suck his dick and balls every morning to wake him up if a man can't find peace and respect with u, ur just a very good girl he will be with until he gets a better option. Highest u become Lord Of The Rings.

Respect ur man and be his peace of mind the rest things will fall in place like magic

It is a very useful thread. Getting settled is an important milestone for women and the economy isn't smiling. Women don't have the luxury of spending time with men who can't or won't settle for them.

If you don't agree, you can always debate, but just because you don't have a problem doesn't mean several other women don't.

How do you know if a man is wasting your time or if he intends to marry you?


Since the time when romantic relationships began, women have sought after clues and signs from potential husbands. It was way much easier in the past, when suitors declared their intentions to the lady and her parents. Then a man could just walk right into a maiden family house in the village and be like:

“ I found a Beautiful flower and I would love to pluck it”

With the lady accepting to the proposal, the parents consenting to it, a date will be fixed for the wedding and that’s just it .

Over the years,emotions and intentions of both men and women have grown a bit dubious, and it’s silly for two grown people not to be open and forthright about their intentions towards one another.

According to Rohan sinha, BBA in 18th August 2023, she stated below signs a every lady in a relationship should look out for:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BPxKN0rk32s

1. He introduces you to his family
2. ⁠he is consistent
3. ⁠he supports you through difficult situations
4. ⁠he asks about your plans for the future
5. ⁠he doesn’t show interest in other women
6. ⁠he frequently use “WE“ and not “ME”
7. ⁠he discusses long-term plans with you.


So men, what can a girl do to know if her boyfriend plans to marry her?

ideamonster:
It's no surprise that things are getting harder every year in Nigeria. Even before the subsidy removal, the cost of everyday items are on the rise.

You may have noticed that the size of bread that sold for N200 about 5 years ago now goes for N1000. This means that families today need to allocate 5 times amount of money to bread than they used to five years ago. What even makes it harder is that every year since 2015, Nigeria has added a minimum of 7 million children every year. This is more than the size of singapore. It is worth nothing that 63 million Nigerians are alive today, who had not ben born when Muhammadu Buhari was elected in 2015. And with Nigeria's current fertility rate of 5.31 children per mother, each additional birth is creating an increase in the number of people who need to be fed.

In light of the following, several people are exploring the possibility that should Nigeria place limits on child size per family similar to such a policy enacted by the government of China in the late 1970s. In the special report exploring this topic below, population scientists, policy analysts, statisticians and everyday people ask the question: Is it time for Nigeria to start limiting children born into each family in this economy?

Do you agree? Do you support it? What alternatives to such a policy exist? Should Nigeria limit children born into each family in this economy?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X9NqnySifX8

this has become necessary

minasu190:
Let by gone be bygone

that pastor's interview with kingsley okonkwo comes to mind

Savedday2:
The day I realized that, no good thing can ever come from dating a 9ja girls.

The bottom line is that, the fact that you have not caught your GF/wife doing ashawo doesn't mean she is not an Ashawo. They are all the same...... Some do it codedly while others openly.

hmmn.

Thazard:
Painfully true

spot on

Yugoslavia247:
Nice a big yansh is an advantage

you said so. Not me

Offkey:
This love thing is all about benefit .its just get clearer everyday

Before nko? Men are valued for the resources they bring. Only women and children are loved unconditionally

Yugoslavia247:
This is where the helpers are.
No prayer point will get you closer to them


But how do you get in when most of this are by invitations.

The ones that actually give room for interactions.

Again this is in house like a company can organize this and inform subsidiaries.

How do people who are not in the industry gonna get in and know the info.

Truly info leyan fin fo

You have to look for such events and register. If it's a paid event, send the organisers email that you're an industry blogger and request for journalist/media passes. Media passes are usually free and you can get to meet men under the guise of wanting to interview them about their work and industry.

That's the trade secret. You can thank me later

Offkey:
So women like men like this them go dey form😂Gold diggers award night thread🤣🤣

Women want men who can provide. Take it!

Zidoh:
Let me carry chair and seat down here ...

No need to carry chair siddon. This is just a public service announcement for those eligible women who didn't get married this year. At least they can formulate an action plan for next year.

XAUBulls:
How's it going?

I've known these for years now, but the fantastically done video posted on this thread and the discussants featured just re-inforced the specifics in very simple and clear terms. The male anchor too is calm, very eloquent and well-dressed.


1. Formality and due diligence... You have to get a professional business name and register your business so as to access quality funds at lower interest rates.

2. Second you have to draw up a comprehensive business and sales plan and ensure that the small business (or business of whatever size) has a large demand for it's products and/or services in order to be able to turn up good profit margins and repeat customers (which is the primary purpose of being in business in the first place).

If you don't have good profit margins after taking into consideration the type of products and services you are going to offer (and the overhead costs or cost of production) in order to find solutions to existing challenges, then it's much better to STAY OUT and just remain an investor in the financial markets. A physical bricks-and-morter business isn't for everyone!


All the best.

This was spot on!

This year is coming to an end, and if you're yet to find a husband, here's some advice to change where you're looking. In today's relationship market, you frequently hear women lamenting that they don't know where to men who are financially stable to marry.

Well, I have an answer:

If you're looking for a responsible man, attend conferences and exhibitions. You're likely to meet men who are well employed at real estate conventions, energy conferences and oil& gas exhibitions.

For example, In September this year, I was at this energy conference with my colleagues and noticed a lot of single, working men as you can see from this video about the event. See if you can count the number of women who showed up for the three day event. Very few.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68lHaOu2bzc


I overheard two women at the conference remark that this was a rich pool of employed, high earning industry men. Most of them are so busy with work that the only places they could meet women was at such events.

One of my female colleagues must have also overheard their convo too because she ended up exchanging numbers and going on dates with three men from the conference.


So, if you're single and looking for love, make sure you search for industry events to attend in 2024. That's the conference industry's best kept secret.

Where else do you know one can meet single, high earning men?

XAUBulls:
Very insightful takes on sustainable business growth.

Really? What did you find insightful about it

just keep hope alive. don't give up.