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ideamonster:
The saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies. Just pray that her loyalty to you is never tested.

And if you plan relocating without your wife, I suggest you watch this conversation till the very end


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lWqppErCr60

ideamonster:
great content. Useful.

Zigzagman:
Today, all hope seems lost. The economy appears bleak, food inflation is up, salaries are almost useless and there's generally a dearth of hope.

In the middle of all these, you need to keep a calm disposition, and begin to plan how your actions can pull Nigeria out of the shadows. Today, the country doesn't project dreams or a vision that young people can believe in.

We need visions of the future that will inspire and catalyze a global movement. The solutions to Nigeria's ills lie in the dreams and visions that you can bring to life. Here's a vision for Nigeria that we can all believe in.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=56z57Nej06E

Don't panic, help is on the way

Zigzagman:
Today, all hope seems lost. The economy appears bleak, food inflation is up, salaries are almost useless and there's generally a dearth of hope.

In the middle of all these, you need to keep a calm disposition, and begin to plan how your actions can pull Nigeria out of the shadows. Today, the country doesn't project dreams or a vision that young people can believe in.

We need visions of the future that will inspire and catalyze a global movement. The solutions to Nigeria's ills lie in the dreams and visions that you can bring to life.

Don't panic, help is on the way


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=56z57Nej06E

Dyfynezz12:
Wow!, She is not only an olosho but she is dumb 2

Aaaaarghmed:
God forbid broke woman.God forbid

meobizy:
Dimaya, this topic will not hit front page no matter how many accounts you open to discuss with yourself. Give it up already.

ideamonster:
baba just dey post

ideamonster:
and will those girls fall out of heaven

ideamonster:
can't imagine how judas felt after his betrayal

bukatyne:
A man is expected to provide; a woman is expected to keep her youth, beauty and take care of the home. Children are expected to make their parents proud and care for them in future.

Each party has something expected of them.

All these half truths peddled to sell a delusional ideology.

@OP:

The major stress comes from the fact that he wants to eat his cake and have it.

When he is the major provider, he thinks it gives him the right to be in control of the house/wife and exempt from domestic chores and housekeeping which the woman peacefully accepts.

When she becomes the major provider, he frowns if his wife treats him same way and starts to postulate theories. He still wants to enjoy the privilege of the major provider while not bringing in the money. So he wants a beast of burden who is fine with bringing in most of the money, allow him control and exempt him from domestics.

Marriages whose dynamics are not based on money but mutual respect, love, equity and understanding need not experience this change Irrespective of who brings in more money.

Bluezy13:
I will share my opinion whenever I will watch it; if I will watch it.

ogawisdom:
Just get a woman with her own regular source of income not necessarily rich. A woman that won't depend on you or expect you to pay her allowance to lazy around.

A woman that wants to work to earn a living not somebody that wants to be taken care of like a child

DelilahMakinde:
Yes, unfortunately.

Wisswhales007:
Really, Should I say you Cap too much. Why generalizing it? How about women giving birth at age 33 to 38 or Early 40. I don't seems to agree on your write

Obierika:
So in order words you're saying that ladies over 25 should not be hopeful of marriage?

ideamonster:
you dey abuse me wey fit help your destiny. Na God do help you.

Tayorshd87:
Don't mind the poster he is a kid that's why .
All the rich ladies have met in my life are mostly hallot and d likes but when I tried a lady with notice but humble and respectful also wife material 😊 immediately I got married to her and now we are doing fine.

What Abt if I go for rich lady and d home breaks after a year 🤔

aisha1314:
The answer to this question is, you can't. Her body, her choice.