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Romance / Re: Young Women And Their Insane Expectations by Dimaya: 9:52pm On Oct 13, 2023
Jking20:
I can see you doesn't have anything bothering you, that's why you're spent your precious time listening to that trash and yet still rebroadcasting it here. Any lady serious about getting married is responsible than ever.
If not for their delusional mentality, what does a 22yr girl posses that she thinks she's worthy of a man owning a house and an account worth 500M.

It's quite eye-opening
Romance / Re: Young Women And Their Insane Expectations by Dimaya: 9:50pm On Oct 13, 2023
Fahvvy:
This OP, it's like you've been living under a rock grin...

How this is a mystery to you at this time and age is still a mystery to me grin...

We all know that the average modern female is purely delusional in the realest sense grin...

So please eh...
Allow them have their standards grin...
We all know that the man they want will NEVER breathe the same air as them grin...

But please, let's not ruin their dreams grin...

Of course, this is known. But the expectations seem to have entered into the realm of the insane.
Romance / Re: by Dimaya: 9:37pm On Oct 13, 2023
Fryx:


Well, women are weird though…but they will say men are to be blamed.

Truth is, your grandma wanted to be collected. Nothing more, nothing less

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Romance / Re: by Dimaya: 9:22pm On Oct 13, 2023
Fryx:


True…

I understand the money perspective. But this is not even about money. We aren’t very wealthy, but we are very powerful and respected in our town.

The woman former husband is doing ok too. I don’t just understand what played out there.

At the time they collected your grandma, that man wasn't doing fine. You cant just collect a rich man's wife and nothing will happen.
Romance / Young Women And Their Insane Expectations by Dimaya: 9:19pm On Oct 13, 2023
I have come again o to shake the tables. I know my opinions will fetch me enemies but what's with this current epidemic of delusional women? I used to think it was only western women that had issues until I started following this podcast on YouTube - the darkpore show.

Anyways, there's this episode I just finished listening to right now. Young women, not more than 22 years old were asked what the needed for starting a family. These are Nigerian women o. Living in Nigeria. Not just anywhere but ikorodu part of Lagos for that matter.

And their answers just confounded me. They expect their boyfriend to have a house in banana Island and have 500million naira in their account.

Worst part of it is- they're not even joking. These girls are speaking with all seriousness. You can listen for yourself.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHAn0vFXeek

Just makes me wonder if there's hope for the common man looking for a reasonable wife today.

Ladies, what's with this recent wave of unrealistic expectations. Don't you know that the county is hard?

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Romance / Re: by Dimaya: 9:11pm On Oct 13, 2023
Nothing has changed. In today's world, same still is happening.

For example, listen to all the women on this podcast narrate what they expect their man to be able to provide - 22 year old demanding a house in banana island.

Do you think if she has a husband and a rich man asks her to leave , she won't?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHAn0vFXeek

Just pray that God gives you someone whom you both have understanding with each other.


Peace
Forum Games / Re: What Can You Say About This Photo by Dimaya: 9:06pm On Oct 13, 2023
Hello
Politics / Re: World Bank Admits: Our Advice To Nigeria Caused Problems In Health, Education by Dimaya: 8:43pm On Oct 11, 2023
Interesting
Romance / Re: How Has Your Childhood Trauma Shaped Your Adult Love Relationships? by Dimaya: 12:14pm On Oct 11, 2023
Great day to be alive
Business / Re: Why Many African Businesses Fail: Debt, Greed, Jealousy, Bankruptcy by Dimaya: 12:13pm On Oct 11, 2023
interesting
Romance / Re: What Do You Think About This Wedding Invitation by Dimaya: 12:03pm On Oct 11, 2023
grin
Politics / Re: Wike: Our Preferred Candidate Is A Man Of Integrity. No PDP If G5 Is Expelled by Dimaya: 9:17pm On Oct 06, 2023
Reading this now is quite eye-opening
Celebrities / Re: ‘I Have Reported My Husband To EFCC, US Embassy’ – Kess’s Wife, Della by Dimaya: 4:50pm On Oct 05, 2023
hmmn
Romance / Re: An Unidentified Young Man Attempted Suicide. What Happened Next Will Shock You. by Dimaya: 4:50pm On Oct 05, 2023
sorry for him.

hope his business didn't fail like these folks.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U48DKuadQvI
Romance / Re: His Wife Don’t Care To Check On Husband In A Distant Marriage by Dimaya: 4:45pm On Oct 05, 2023
Odingo1:
Please in a distant marriage where the husband is the only one that greets the wife in the morning or call to ask about her but the day the husband will not greet in the morning or call the wife there will be no response from the wife the whole day or the wife will not care to ask about the his husband. What does that Suggest ?


You're not the only person passing through this. The guy in this video is in the same situation as you also.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdivu1ASuAw

Let me know if this helps. Cheers.
Romance / Re: Sad Reality, by Dimaya: 4:43pm On Oct 05, 2023
Odebayo4010:
I only taught at school that you only need Capital to start a business but unfortunately the rule is now working for relationship

These days things have gotten so bad that to even start a relationship, you need Capital.


This is why businesses fail.. and yes, it is not capital alone


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U48DKuadQvI
Romance / Re: Why Did He Die by Dimaya: 4:42pm On Oct 05, 2023
he died because he tried running a business in Nigeria grin


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U48DKuadQvI
Romance / Re: Health benefits of apple by Dimaya: 4:41pm On Oct 05, 2023
graceilina:
A certain lady asked me to come and work as a contract staff in their organization. I accepted and started working, a week into the job, she started frustrating me to leave, she never gave me a contract letter to sign, I just kept working. At the end of the second week, she managed to frustrate me to give up the job, telling me that she would calculate the number of days I have worked and pay me by month end. I accepted. Month end came and she refused paying me. Telling me company policy BLA BLA BLA. That I should take her to court, asking if I signed any contract with her. I have my own mapped out plans of dealing with her. I need your contributions. I would have let go of the money but the period of time that I worked, the job was so stressful and I received a lot of insults and disregard from her for the period of 13 days I worked. If u were in this situation, what would you do?

The dude in this video found himself in your situation. Let me know if it helps


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-z8Z4dvgE80
Romance / Re: My Ex Owes Me by Dimaya: 4:34pm On Oct 05, 2023
my friend, you need help.

This is why African businesses fail


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U48DKuadQvI

debt and bankruptcy. May God help you.
Romance / Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Dimaya: 6:11pm On Oct 04, 2023
okay
Family / Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Dimaya: 6:08pm On Oct 04, 2023
oweniwe:


Kobo like argument for the sake of argument. It's better to take a bow cos person no fit argument with am finish cool


grin
Family / Re: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 6:07pm On Oct 04, 2023
Zigzagman:
still on this story

been a while bro
Romance / Re: Is Romantic Love Just A Delusion? by Dimaya: 6:07pm On Oct 04, 2023
ideamonster:


possible

spot on
Family / Re: Is This Updated Cost Of Living In Lagos (Food, Housing And Transport) Accurate? by Dimaya: 6:06pm On Oct 04, 2023
ideamonster:


things have become more expensive since i first posted this video

Naira to dollar is now 1000 o
Politics / Re: We Will Save Nigeria | Here's How You Can Get Involved by Dimaya: 6:05pm On Oct 04, 2023
ideamonster:
the future belongs to the people


bro, please reach out to me when you have time
Family / Re: Should Nigeria Limit Children Born Into Each Family In This Economy? by Dimaya: 6:04pm On Oct 04, 2023
Incognito403:

Only a poverty-stricken nonentity says he can feed someone he has never met.

Moreover, only lower middle-class people have wives who do a job that contributes to the family. Upper middle class wives don't work because of contributing to family. They work to support their luxury personal life.

Elite wives run financial sinkholes disguised as businesses.

Ibechris is a deluded poverty-stricken nonentity.

this is brutal
Romance / Re: The Most Difficult Age For An Average Man Born In Nigeria by Dimaya: 6:03pm On Oct 04, 2023
Chhiiibuuezzeee:
God as if this time.....I'm confused and lack what to do.
God help me
This case is worst on me
#depressedsoul
God will show up for you. Amen
Career / Re: Nigerians Share Their Experiences Dealing With Society's Pressure To Succeed by Dimaya: 6:02pm On Oct 04, 2023
dust yourself up and move on
Food / Re: How To Feed The Next Generation Of Nigerians by Dimaya: 6:02pm On Oct 04, 2023
good one
Romance / Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by Dimaya: 6:01pm On Oct 04, 2023
Chris2863:
Mtcheeeew. You better get yourself busy with something else

hmmmn
Business / Re: Why Many African Businesses Fail: Debt, Greed, Jealousy, Bankruptcy by Dimaya: 3:30pm On Oct 04, 2023
you can thank me later.

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