story story.

this battle is a spiritual battle. you cant fight satan with sticks and stones. use the weapons God has given you. call on Jesus. Matthew 19:26 nothing is impossible with God.

it my be a narrow and long road but wait for Gods timing. God bless you

God did not condemn us while we were in sin so why condemn the robbers? if they repent God will have mercy on them.

@ poster

firstly i will say please do not be scared of satan for greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world.

Why do you want to live forever? in this world full of evil? na wa o. i think we are all scared of dying because we think it will be painful and also because we are not sure where we will spend eternity. If we live for Christ we will not be scared to go "HOME" at anytime where there is no weeping and sorrow.

There is alot to enjoy on earth though but one day we must die. Still dont know why

We are the visible image of the invisible Jesus people cant see thats why we are called the body of Christ. We are the gateway to heaven. We should show forth love, peace, kindness,meekness, patience and make allowance for other peoples wrongs. Forgive all who offend you as Christ forgives you. Awesome message today Colossians 1:15-18, 3:12-16

pray and love her. thats all you can do and God will do the rest. we cant force people to serve God then it wont be real in their lives. FAST AND PRAY. God works miracles. I am fasting and praying for people in my world as well and i believe and know God answers prayers. God bless

Jesus is Lord and at the name of Jesus every knee shall bow and every tongue shall confess that He is Lord. Even the mountains and seas tremble at His name.

i also understand that men being men always want to be in charge of their lives and if possible every other persons life. They feel going to church will rob them of this freedom to be in charge rather they will have to turn to God for complete control of their lives.

Men please, whats so wrong with serving God? is it sin in your life that is stopping you? Remember we all are sinners. even the pastors and born again christians sin. God has not condenmed you. He wants you to come to Him and he will save you.

Do not be deceived. God is not mocked. Whatever a man sows that he will reap.

I heard someone say the other day that satan deceives people that there is still time.
What a pity. we fail to understand that the fact that we wake up in the morning everyday doesnt mean we deserve it. Its Gods grace and mercy upon our lives. Do we know what happens in the night while we are asleep?

I pray we have this reverential fear of God and live each moment as if it is our last. That way we will have a better life.

Sin is fun for a season but at the end it destroys the person.

May God help us all.

The bible says do not forsake the gathering of Gods people.Where 2 or three are gathered in my name i am there in their midst. thats what Gods word says

I agree when you say all these negative things about churches. Unfortunately some pastors and Christians have put people off. But ask yourself one thing. When Jesus comes will you blame the pastor or the christians for misleading you? He has given us a free will. He will never force us to do anything but also He has set before us life and death and has asked us to choose life so we can live.

Church is a place of worship. A place we go to share Gods word and minister to one another. Go to church for that and leave all the people doing the wrong things as they will answer for it.

Church doesnt take us to heaven. No!! but we can not be islands. Its easy for satan to attack and deceive us when we are alone.

There is more to say but i hope this ministers to you.

There is no best or perfect church. Wherever God ministers to you is fine.

@geegee

God really cares for you. He says you are fearfully and wonderfully made. He loves you. Please open your heart to Him and just call on the name of Jesus with a sincere heart and he will help you and heal you of all the hurt and pain.

The bible is really deep. There is alot to know. God promises to heal and deliver us through our circumstances not out of our circumstances. He also says his ways are not our ways and his thoughts are not our thoughts so please do not be discouraged or disappointed when he seems quiet. He is not. He is fighting battles for you behind the closet.

Be strong and i will be praying for you.

God bless

@poster

You need to know that God is not the author of confusion.

I didnt read your post thoroughly but if you are confused go to God. study the word and pray. There you will find answers to all lifes problems.

God bless

@ seundammy,

the best thing to do is to live an examplarry life. We are the visible image of the invisible God. People do not see God so they do not want to believe Him and serve Him. We as christians are called to be Christ-like and silently probably without us knowing the lost are looking at our behaviour thats why if we do wrong they will say "after he/she will say he/she is born again".

We will still go wrong, thats human and God knows we will but He will give us the grace to overcome our shortcomings so that even if we go wrong people will see that yes we went wrong but changed from our ways.

I think thats the best way to show forth Christ to the world. Also we need to pray for them

@sly do you know how david danced? lol.

When i think of all the wrongs i have done and yet i am still alive i see Gods love, mercy and grace.

I praise God in alot of ways. Crying (not cos i am hurt but cause i am in awe of His love for me), singing, praying, lifting up hands, loving people.

We can praise God in so many ways

the man will always in most cases want to sleep with you before marriage but i tell you a man who marries you as a virgin will respect and cherish for for all his life. Virginity is a virtue if you call it so.

@pastormi

God bless you for taking that stand. i agree with you totally

i am sorry but you are not in love with this other lady. You both are being deceived and heading for destruction so flee. The feeling may seem so real and sweet but its all to destroy you.

As a christian you know what to do. The enemy satan is moving around seeking for who to devour and if we open the door he will gladly enter. You are opening the door for him to destroy your life.

PRAY

if you can stay single then stay single otherwise marry. thats what the bible says. dont compare this crooked and perverse generation with Jesus and his disciples atall.

ending the relationship is easier said than done. how about forgiveness and realizing that God hates divorce and nothing is impossible for Him to do. This is a very tough and difficult road to take but better than the easy way out.

@turvy
holier than thou, whatever, wrong is wrong.

please stop dating the married man and spare yourself the consequences of this sin.

dont pray to experience it my dear. Sometimes you feel you'd be better dead and alive.

@nwa-uwa and bundee.

God talk. you will have great marriages

Why not. I wan marry footballer die!

Sex is necessary in a marriage but the lack of it doesnt kill. I will stand by my husband no matter what. I believe that marriage is for life. I believe in the vows taken for better for worse, in sickness and health, till death do us part.

I am been realistic. Thats what i believe in and i will live it.

its destrustive to the person who is into it and eventually it destroys the marriage.

Depending on how you look at it.

Medically i think they say alcohol affects the liver when taken in excess. The liver gets affected and gradually death sets in. Yeah death is inevitable but when it happens due to our alcohol related issues then maybe you can say it affects a marriage.

A man who drinks and gets drunk is a nightmare. He will stink. Yuck!! no one wants a stinking man. He will fall asleep in the gutter on the road, he will fall asleep on the staircase, fall asleep naked in the parlour, etc. He may begin to beat up his wife when he is drunk. Dont forget that the kids will be watching all this. Now thats been destructive. It is also very embarassing.

The question is How necessary is marriage?

I think it is a choice we have to make. it is not by force and not a do or die thing.

If you marry the society respects you more, if you dont esp for ladies there will say something is wrong with you or you are loose thats why no man has seen you as a good wife material. If you dont marry the guys will think you are always available to use.

If you choose not to marry they will also say that you are too proud bla bla bla.

Based on all these and more me thinks it is necessary but it all depends on choice.

@almondjoy

is that the way you want to leave your life? i hope you are joking sha

Etin,

i do not understand with the poster and i am not in support of her affair with a married man.

Unfortunately one man cant change a a country. Even if we have values they are loads of people out there who dont care.

You havent really kissed thats why. It gets into your bones!!!!

money, time, affection, bla bla


When you know the things that matter to a girl you will then know why she cheats.