₦airaland Forum

Sixfeetbelle:
Nobody is asking you what you earn and what you don't earn. The main point is job security and integrity. A banker wife Vs a Teacher wife surely won't give you the same integrity when married to them (aka in terms of cheating tendencies)

For me, I can't marry someone in the Forces, especially Nigerian Army. I don't want to turn widow one week after my wedding day. I'd rather marry a mechanic than a lieutenant in the forces. See the difference?

lmao. You funny. Continue

bukatyne:
I also find it worrisome that instead of her parents to fend for her, they are comfortable living off a child that has no visible source of income.

Keep up the good work and I hope she utilizes the opportunity you have given her.

yeah she is. Its day two of her training and she has gone to the barbing salon, by weekend I should be buying her barbing kits.

mignone:
Maybe not. I know a professor who refused his para-medic wife frm practicing, simply cos be doesn't like it. She became a worker in a neighbourhood nur/pry sch.

well, that's his personal problem. If i were his daughter, i'll be having constant fights with him regarding my choice of career.

AnanseK:
Thank you for a sincere response. But the boiled water part is unnecessary. I’m sure you can be more civil than that.

well, it wasn't necessary, but then, you would have deduced from my earlier comments that a Yes would most likely be my answer so i didn't see a need for you or any other nairalander to ask further. Thank you

Useless goverment.. Make it a law banning open defecation.

tujays:
Abject poverty, bitterness and ignorance is the root cause. only in Nigeria you see someone that doesn't have a bicycle calling out someone with a Camry muscle. like "this one na car?", "this na pure water na" or you see one ugly looking person saying things like "obasanjo is too Ugly" you see many hungry folks here on Nairaland, making mockery of Buhari and calling him names like Illiterate and shitt... for someone that has achieved that far in life that no one In your entire Lineage has ever attained a quarter. just plain Bitterness

swears my brother.

Ungrateful woman

AnanseK:
I think you should answer the question. There are certainly some jobs you wouldn’t like your spouse to be doing.
Can you marry a professional masseuse ?

Dear AnanseK,

Your question is a close ended question so i'll reply you with a single answer which is Yes.

And I can also marry a professional dancer too, as long as she is not jobless like the op and her supporters.


If my mention does not satisfy your curiosity, you can try to drink boiled water for better understanding.

UndauntedYOCA:
This is true to some extent.
I was learning furniture making in my final year, I initially wanted to train as as automobile reapaire but had the opportunity to get trained in furniture making. Iwould be required to carry MDFs, HDFs and other boards and things, I'd gum, tape, smoothen boards/wood etc that weren't the most tasking. I even started to make Kolo for everyone from bits of woods and boarded. I went everywhere with my boss unless I couldn't make it to work that day. We went to sites and market, I'd get home late s lot of times. I even ate bread, groundnut and coke taya, drank garri also
I'd get smiles and admirations from people who'd be surprised to see a lady training in that aspect. I had to pause when UI exams and project wan kill me before time.
I went for service and stayed there for a year and half but the good furniture making places I saw were really far from where I stayed.
I sha don dey hustle. before Nigeria will make someone's life frustrated and I'll begin to wonder if my life is having any meaning.
I have basic knowledge of other things.
Even if one doesn't have full knowledge, it's really good to know some things in other areas of life, makes life a bit simpler when you have an idea of different things.
Honestly, I'm certain my kids will acquire these skills (automobile repairs, furniture making, shoe making, plumbing and co).
Nigeria is tough, just continue with whatever it is you're doing if you don't have time to acquire skills that's take years to fully gain knowledge of.

very sensible from you. Please keep it up and ignore negative comments from nairalanders.

ukaface:
This one na IELTS essay question.

Hahahha..

Iyaebe:
Come off it,don't be stubborn Ben

i'll just ignore you because you don't match up.

Iyaebe:
I cautioned against this, stop it.

excuse me..TF you say?

Magnoliaa:
None...that I can think of. As long as it is a legit job and source of livelihood. When I like someone, everything else is secondary... So maybe if you'd asked this question like, 'jobs you don't like' or 'work you don't fancy' or 'careers you dislike' bla bla bla...but in dating? I don't know. I can't think of any that turns me off.

spoken like an adult.

Is she single?

ayobams:
Job turnoff is a show of ingratitude. Women looking for who to fleece and weak men to devour. I smile when a lady says a banker turns them off.... He should give you the money to the vault to show his unflinching love ...? Wake up lady. Does their money turn you off too?

apt

hopexter:
Which State this your friend dey make we know our boundary

ok, i'll ignore you

bukatyne:
What about her parents?

Keep up the good work.

her mum recently called her for money to subscribe for gotv, her dad barely gives her money and she finds it worrisome.


From her conversations with male friends on phone, she always asks for data or recharge card, i try to advise her against such as they would take advantage of her as she doesnt have to depend on men for her day to day needs.

manoflove22:
sequel to this post i created about discovering some bumps i thought to be genital warts if you miss it, just check it out

https://www.nairaland.com/6746335/genital-warts-shaving-bumps-photos#105686390


i was saddened,depressed and full of regret,i thought my life had ruined especially thinking about living with virus

i head straight to hospital to check my self up, i show them my private part, they removed some bumps and ran some scrutiny check on it,but thanks to the almighty God I'm serving it's came out as MOLLUSCUM CONTAGIOSUM

They described it as a round painless bump with a dent or dimple in the middle of the bumps, and i checked it and luckily it exactly what they described it

Was told it will leave on it own and won't returned,but i can apply medication on it, if i want it to leave soon


Ultimately, I'm done with anything sex,I'm gonna celebrate and practise celibacy till my marriage

THANK TO GOD FOR THIS SECOND CHANCE!!


come celebrate with me

First pic how it looks from Google
second pic mine

what medications were prescibed? I want to buy it for someone

bukatyne:


Women enjoy more patronage and leeway in male dominated blue collar jobs if prospecting customers can get past the gender.

I notice that agberos do not collect money from women drivers (buses/cars and Kekes).

If the woman's vehicle breaks down, the men quickly jump out to help her push it. Peeps are also willing to leave their change with them.

In retrospect, I think it goes both ways.

Male hairdressers also enjoy more patronage and leeway.

true it does go both ways, it is a pity that many ladies do not really understand the vast opportunities that await them when they fit into such roles. I'm currently sponsoring a lady on barbing training and when she is done, i'll set up a barbing shop for her so she can fend for herself. I really don't like the way she asks men for little things like data or airtime.

And how old are you, Ms Moondimples?


I'm sure you also need to state such details just as you demanded.

Limassol:
And you think you are smart with such a comment?

oh yes he is.

Iyaebe:
lol.Can you marry a banker as wife?

that is a very unsensible question to me.

I've observed through life that a lot of ladies are dominating job roles meant for men and this is commendable. As a woman doing such, you get to find out that people encourage you to continue and never give up, while some who are kind hearted even bless you financially as a form of encouragement. When you hammer, people would be like, eh, she don go sleep with one Alhaji like that, na why she go buy venza, not knowing it was your hardwork and doggedness that paid off, or someone liked your work and gave you a mad ass contract running into millions.



Benefits

1. You get free pass as a woman

2. You get more customers

3. Customers could even encourage you by telling you to keep the change.


Businesses/jobs you can engage in as a woman


1. Keke driving business

2. Barbing business


3. Painting jobs


4. POP jobs


5. Stamped concrete fixing (juicy)


6. Auto engineer


7. Tiling


8. Electrical wiring


9. Carpentry design


10. Roofing.


Make that bold decision as a woman today and take up jobs that the society thinks are only meant for women.


Bless you.

Iyaebe:
We ain't talking about who is better or not,we talking about turn off's

at my age and time, no job turns me off. You'll soon grow to reason like that soon as it is obvious you are still young.

Iyaebe:
Ben the banker no vex

i'm not pissed, i just feel that nigerians judge alot, and those who even do arent even any better, it is not even like they can even feed themselves anyways.

Lmao.. Jobless people dey get turned off by people making a living.

Smoking

Enter instagram na.. First you didnt even state your location so people can patronize you..


It is true that you arent even smart sef. Pffft

this is funny

You can go ahead and give into the desires of your flesh.

The driver must pay