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Adultery begins in the heart before it becomes physical. It’s in the Bible,Matthew 15:19, NKJV. “For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies.”

What is adultery according to the Bible?

It is not just physical, but can happen in your mind, with the internet, magazines, movies, or people. It’s in the Bible, Matthew 5:27, 28, NIV. “You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” The Ten Commandments also forbid lust saying, “you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife” (Exodus 20:17, NKJV).

For example,
by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him.

So then, if she has sexual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress if she marries another man.

IT IS BETTER TO BE HEART BROKEN THAN TO BE DESTINY BROKEN.

Stay away from every Relationship that demand sex, separate your self from every man or woman that careless your body whenever you are around with him/her, don't come close to any man or woman that kisses you whenever he/she sees you, don't try to change him/her because you are not the holy ghost that convert people.

Run for your dear life now that your legs can carry you because there will be a time when your legs will be weak and cannot carry you again.

Don't say that you love him/her and for that you can mess yourself up. Listen life is not all about sex but what you have to give to your generation and what you can impart in the life of people.

It’s better you’re heart broken than to be destiny broken .It’s better to cry now for someone that walked out of your life than to cry after destroying your destiny.

STAY AWAY FROM SEX

IT IS BETTER TO BE HEART BROKEN THAN TO BE DESTINY BROKEN.

Stay away from every Relationship that demand sex, separate your self from every man or woman that careless your body whenever you are around with him/her, don't come close to any man or woman that kisses you whenever he/she sees you, don't try to change him/her because you are not the holy ghost that convert people.

Run for your dear life now that your legs can carry you because there will be a time when your legs will be weak and cannot carry you again.

Don't say that you love him/her and for that you can mess yourself up. Listen life is not all about sex but what you have to give to your generation and what you can impart in the life of people.

It’s better you’re heart broken than to be destiny broken .It’s better to cry now for someone that walked out of your life than to cry after destroying your destiny.

STAY AWAY FROM SEX

MrMou:
Na lie! Even if you divorce because of adultery & you marry another person, you are committing adultery. You're only allowed to divorce because of adultery but you can't marry again. And if there's no adultery, you can't even divorce. That's what the holy book says.

For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him.
So then, if she has sexual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress if she marries another man.

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN

LET MARRIAGE BE HELD IN HONOR AMONG ALL, AND LET MARRIAGE BED BE UNDEFILED, FOR GOD WILL JUDGE THE SEXUALLY IMMORAL AND ADULTEROUS.

WHOEVER DIVORCES HIS WIFE EXCEPT FOR SEXUAL IMMORALITY, AND MARRIES ANOTHER, COMMITS ADULTERY.

HUSBANDS, LOVE YOUR WIVES, AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH AND GAVE HIMSELF UP FOR HER.

WIVES, SUMMIT TO YOUR OWN HUSBANDS, AS TO THE LORD. FOR THE HUSBAND IS THE HEAD OF THE WIFE EVEN AS CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE CHURCH

STAY FAITHFUL, OR
STAY SINGLE. . . .

MysticLady:
I mentioned it in one post that men are not left out. They now use voodoo to get rich ladies.
Do as I say spell and Penis sweetener spell. Use these 2 combinations on a rich lady and watch the money flow into your account.

ARE YOU TRYING TO TEACH MEN HOW TO GET RICH WOMEN, COS I DON'T UNDERSTAND

kingbee90:
Many Nigerian Entertainers are HIV+ due to their reckless lifestyles.The Guys sleep with their female fans (without protection) while the female celebs are coded Oloshos and are being pimped to Ogas @ the Top by their record lebels who also sleep with them without protection.

You will always see them slaying on Instagram looking fly & hot but they don't post when they secretly go & buy their HIV anti-retroviral drugs or when they are swallowing the pills.

Last December, my Agency brought in an A- list celeb from Lagos to PH for a show. We lodged him & his crew at Echelon Heights Hotel @ Stadium Road. He requested for a female companion 4 the night & we supplied him a chick.(A finial year student).
The next morning, he started complaining to us that the girl refused to have sex with him & was so furious.
When I interrogated the girl, she told me she insisted they use protection but the dude wanted to 'nack' her without protection which she vehemently refused.

Trust me Naija celebs are too reckless.

YOU KNOW THESE SO CALLED CELEBRITIES VERY WELL, THEY GO ABOUT SPREADING HIV/AIDS EVERYWHERE IN THE NAME OF LOVE, THE EVIL THAT MEN DO LIVES WITH THEM AND AFTER THEM

kingbee90:
Many Nigerian Entertainers are HIV+ due to their reckless lifestyles.The Guys sleep with their female fans (without protection) while the female celebs are coded Oloshos and are being pimped to Ogas @ the Top by their record lebels who also sleep with them without protection.

You will always see them slaying on Instagram looking fly & hot but they don't post when they secretly go & buy their HIV anti-retroviral drugs or when they are swallowing the pills.

Last December, my Agency brought in an A- list celeb from Lagos to PH for a show. We lodged him & his crew at Echelon Heights Hotel @ Stadium Road. He requested for a female companion 4 the night & we supplied him a chick.(A finial year student).
The next morning, he started complaining to us that the girl refused to have sex with him & was so furious.
When I interrogated the girl, she told me she insisted they use protection but the dude wanted to 'nack' her without protection which she vehemently refused.

Trust me Naija celebs are too reckless.

YOU'VE SAID IT ALL

WHY IS IT CELEBRITIES ALWAYS HAVE SEX WITHOUT PROTECTION STILL WE'VE NEVER HEARD THEM CONTACTING HIV/AIDS OR EVEN STD'S, IS THEIR BODY METAL? OR ARE THEY HIDING SOMETHING FROM THE PUBLIC, I DON'T UNDERSTAND.

VIRGINITY TEST

A virgin girl has a bit of this natural modesty. She does not have firsthand experience in the process, so sex talk makes her uncomfortable. She would not be easily engaged in it.

VIRGINITY TEST

what does she say when you ask her if she is a virgin? In most cases, (if the girl is not a feminist), she would react calmly or shyly. The one who has lost it, may get irritated by your inquiries or angry with you. She has it no more and those questions make her nervous. Unless, she is a very self-confident girl, who knows who she is with the hymen or without it!

CHIOMA - CHIOMA JESUS

SO LOADED - CHINYERE UDOMA

REMEMBER ME - ROSEMARY CHUKWU

SOME FOOLISH THINGS THAT LADIES SHOULD STOP DOING FOR THEIR BOYFRIENDS:

1. Stop begging him to eat your food; he is not your husband. He is just a boyfriend.

2. Stop begging him to date you. Dating is by choice, not by begging

3. Stop begging him to marry you; marriage is by choice not by begging or by force. If you beg him to marry you, then you will continue to beg for the rest of your life in order to keep and save your marriage.

4. Do not move your loads to his house when he has not yet paid your bride price or seen your parents. Make yourself valuable and don’t make yourself cheap.

5. You can cook for him, it is okay; but stop making it your duty to cook for him everyday and every time. You are not yet his wife, you are still a girlfriend.

6. Stop sleeping in his house every night. No man has the right to share the same bed with you except the man who is legally married to you as your husband.

7. Do not turn yourself into a housemaid for a man because he promises to marry you. Help him sometimes to do some house chores but do not make it your daily routine or duties. It is not your duty to wash his clothes, sweep his house or cook for him. It becomes your duty when you get married to him. Even some married men don’t use their wives like maids anymore. Some married men wash their own clothes by themselves. So why should you wash a boyfriend’s clothes for him?

8. Stop being rude or disrespectful.

9. Do not allow your boyfriend to start enjoying the benefits of a wife, or else there is no need for marriage and bride price again and so you are a cheap commodity. So he will treat you like a cheap maid.

DEAR LADIES : BITTER TRUTH YOU MUST SWALLOW :

1. Sex doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn 360% on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn't notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you.
2. A man who win your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men doesn't settle down with fake women who love money.
3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keep them.
4. Material things definitely has its merits but it cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life.
5. Being sexy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend.
6. Sex can bring pleasure but it can never bring love, sex is a product of love, love is not a product of sex.
7. Sex can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him stay for a lifetime.
8. There are some things that money just can't buy like manners, moral and integrity.
9. How you dress will definitely determine how men will address you.

Singles:
Falling in love with a married person is wrong; no matter how you look at it and regardless of the state of his or her marriage. Never be the reason for the failure of someone else's marriage. Don't bring a curse upon your life and upon your future. Stay away from married people. You cannot destroy someone else's a marriage and expect a blessing form God. Even if his/her marriage seems to be falling apart; it is still holy. Stay away from it. “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.”

Adulterous Affairs Don’t Begin with Sleeping Together; they begin with inappropriate friendships.
Friendship and emotional attachments with people of the opposite sex can spell danger for your marriage. Protect your marriage by avoiding private communications and intimate conversations with people of the opposite sex. Beware of workmates who seem too concerned with your personal private life; those that tell you “let me know if you need anything.” Beware of those that give you exaggerated and suggestive compliments about the way you look. Regardless of what is happening in your marriage don’t give the Devil a foothold in your marriage by falling victim to this trap. Let your workmates know there are things you won’t tolerate. Keep a healthy physical, social and emotional distance between you and people of the opposite sex.

WHEREFORE BY THEIR FRUITS YE SHALL KNOW THEM [MATTHEW 7:20]

SOME PEOPLE ARE HIV POSITIVE

SOME PEOPLE MAY NOT BE AWARE

BUT WHEN I SEE YOUR PICTURE I WILL KNOW

I DON'T NEED TO TAKE YOUR BLOOD FOR TEST

YOUR PICTURE WILL TELL ME IF YOU'RE POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE.

SOME PEOPLE MARRY WRONGLY

SOME PEOPLE MARRY BECAUSE THE PERSON IS RICH, HANDSOME OR BEAUTIFUL,

WHEN YOU MARRY SOMEONE WHO IS NOT YOUR DESTINED PARTNER, YOU'RE BOUND TO FAIL,

SUCH MARRIAGE CAN NEVER LAST. THAT'S WHY WE HAVE DIVORCEES EVERYWHERE.

EVERYONE HAS HIS OR HER DESTINED PARTNER, THAT'S WHY YOU HAVE TO SEEK THE PRESENCE OF GOD BEFORE GETTING MARRIED.

lonelydora:
My thought too. I hate spiritual women

I LIKE SPIRITUAL WOMEN

MARRYING A SINGLE MOTHER.(MARRIAGE EXPO FOR MEN).
Most folks, especially Nigerian men, do feel they are doing women favour when they marry them as single mothers, but it's a paradox and a social myth that must be educated. In my research as a counselor, I have discovered that 90% of single mothers are BEST wives in the marriage market when we go to buy.
Firstly, why do women become single mothers? Some are DELIBERATE, some are TRAGEDIES (widows) while some are MISTAKES. So if you happen to like a single mother, investigate her motive before you configure the drivers of your feelings. If it's deliberate because she doesn't want to marry a man, you can just date her and walk away; but if it was a MISTAKE OF TRAGEDY, trust me she can be the best WIFE you can ever think of.12 EXPO
1. Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes the made in the past.
2. If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.
3. Don't forget that as a woman that has put to birth before, there's 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.
4. Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what they err.
5. If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children's budget, see them as equals so you don't sprout the seed of jealousy.
6. If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child's father is alive, both of you should have an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don't deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife; it implies the gateway should be defined while you monitor the parameters; trust me, the child will grow up to love you as the man that made his/her mother happy more than the biological father.
7. Ensure the child is in the same school with your kids, if not that child's educational setbacks will influence your kids negatively when they play together. If the father supports good, but if he does not be ready to train the child alongside your kids for uniformity of knowledge.
8. If the child is a female child/children, you will have less parenting to do because female children easily relieve parents once the are adult or even get married.
9. 90% of SINGLE MOTHERS are faithful in marriage and wouldn't pull infidelity string to damage the engine of TRUST in the marriage system; they feel you have sacrificed enough to win their trust and faithfulness.
10. Single Mums are SUPERWOMEN. For a woman to play the role of both parents and bear the responsibility of raising a child/children, don't joke with such a woman, because even if you die in future she can take care of your family.
11. Single Mums are SEX SATISFIERS. They will lock you down in bed for good sex so you don't look outside to avoid stories that will touch the heart.
12. Most Single Mothers are good cooks and God fearing; the fact that she did not abort the child justifies her SACREDNESS AND GOD'S FEAR. Go Brother! It will go well. Buy her a ring and pop the big question"Will You Marry Me?"... I see tears of Joy in her eyes as she says.."Yes I will". You won't regret the step you have taken brother.

FOR COUPLES AND THOSE ABOUT TO GET MARRIED

STRICTLY FOR MEN:
Carry your wife to the bed when she sleeps off in the sitting room, make her feel like a baby at times. The truth is, every woman wants to be treated like a 2yrs old girl at times, that's why women behave childish or silly at times. You may have an argument with your wife and the next thing is that you will see her putting her bags outside the house, it doesn't mean she is asking for a divorce, she is just being childish, she simply wants you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say "I am sorry for the argument".That's women for you. Every brother needs to study in the university of women before getting married, read books about them, learn what the Bible says about them and you will hardly have a problem with them. Though there may still be some challenges, because you're both from different background and your imperfections are bound to stand. So, read books about marriage, an ideal home, child upbringing, importance of marriage and the likes. Don't just jump into marriage with an empty head about matrimony, you will have problems. How many men can tolerate their wives nagging let alone shouting?It's said that, you should be quiet when your spouse is angry, when one person is fire, the other person should be water. Brothers, when your wife steps on your feet intentionally or mistakenly, don't let your eyes turn red, just smile at her, if she did it intentionally, she is just playing with you, if she did it mistakenly, its not her fault. So why shout at her over every small mistake? As a man learn to ignore some things, don't be petty. Some men are feminist; Do "hide and seek" with your wife, sing poems for your wife in the garden or inside the house, even if she is teasing you. Assist her in the house chores, pound yam, fetch water, don't make her look like your maid. Bathe together, wake her up for prayers, swim with her if it's available, cook together, teach her how to cook if she doesn't know how to cook. Cooking is not the ticket to Paradise. It's not only a feminine duty. Use blind folds to cover her eyes and tickle her, scare her at times, call her from work/ school, text her, write "I love you" in a small note and put it under her pillow or in her purse or in her bathroom or in her cosmetics box or inside her cupboard. Kiss her always, cuddle her, pamper her and play with her hair. Always tell her, she's beautiful and that you're happy to have her as your partner. All these are part of being romantic...When a woman tells you that you are not romantic. It means you are not doing all these things, its not the romance in the bedroom she is talking about. That's why, you brothers have to study "women's language" it's a 10 year course. FOR

STRICTLY FOR LADIES:
It is part of your duty to be romantic too. Your shyness shouldn't get to your marital life and that doesn't mean you should be shy to express your love to your husband. Send sweet text messages to your husband at work, sometimes even if you are in the room discussing with your husband, still be chatting with him on social media (Facebook, Whatsapp, Viber, Imo, bbm etc) even though he is right in front of you, it's fun and romantic! Discuss how lovely he is on your facebook timeline, this will trip him a lot. You should be chatting with your husband, not other men on social media networks. Buy gift such as boxer short , singlet Etc. When eating, give him the biggest meat. At times, bake cake for him to surprise him. Ladies, use your soft voice to sing for him, be creative, a poem like (twinkle, twinkle lovely spouse, how I wonder what you are, up above my world so high, like a diamond in my heart).Sing poems for him, no shyness is allowed. Don't just be welcoming your husband with an angry face because there is no money in the house, God is our provider. Don't welcome your husband with your body smelling maggi, don't only play with your husband when he receives his salary. Welcome him with a warm hug always, and when he is going to work, pray to God to keep him safe and for him to be successful. Support him, advise him, wipe his tears, be grateful to him, it's not easy to be a man, when you see his faith waxing cold, encourage him, don't threaten him that you will seek for divorce, don't compare him with other men, buy him gifts, wash his clothes, sing for him, praise him in a way that he wouldn't think of an alternative, be the best cook, wash his car if u have the time, dress him up, pamper him when he is sick. Wake him with a peck and don't complain about his snoring habit. Let kiss be the messenger between you. Read books on intimacy, don't learn it from what you see in movies..Most of what you see there are not real. Call your husband pet names. Though you can also call him by his name even if he is 30yrs older than you, as far as he is comfortable with it. Remember that, God said, men are the protectors and maintainers of women. So respect him and honour him even if he is younger than you. Marriage isn't a bed of roses but a bed of sacrifice. It's said that, there is nothing better for two people who love each other than marriage.

FOR COUPLES AND THOSE ABOUT TO GET MARRIED; FOR OUR MEN:
Carry your wife to the bed when she sleeps off in the sitting room, make her feel like a baby at times. The truth is, every woman wants to be treated like a 2yrs old girl at times, that's why women behave childish or silly at times. You may have an argument with your wife and the next thing is that you will see her putting her bags outside the house, it doesn't mean she is asking for a divorce, she is just being childish, she simply wants you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say "I am sorry for the argument".That's women for you. Every brother needs to study in the university of women before getting married, read books about them, learn what the Bible says about them and you will hardly have a problem with them. Though there may still be some challenges, because you're both from different background and your imperfections are bound to stand. So, read books about marriage, an ideal home, child upbringing, importance of marriage and the likes. Don't just jump into marriage with an empty head about matrimony, you will have problems. How many men can tolerate their wives nagging let alone shouting? It's said that, you should be quiet when your spouse is angry, when one person is fire, the other person should be water. Brothers, when your wife steps on your feet intentionally or mistakenly, don't let your eyes turn red, just smile at her, if she did it intentionally, she is just playing with you, if she did it mistakenly, its not her fault. So why shout at her over every small mistake? As a man learn to ignore some things, don't be petty. Some men are feminist; Do "hide and seek" with your wife, sing poems for your wife in the garden or inside the house, even if she is teasing you. Assist her in the house chores, pound yam, fetch water, don't make her look like your maid. Bathe together, wake her up for prayers, swim with her if it's available, cook together, teach her how to cook if she doesn't know how to cook. Cooking is not the ticket to Paradise. It's not only a feminine duty. Use blind folds to cover her eyes and tickle her, scare her at times, call her from work/ school, text her, write "I love you" in a small note and put it under her pillow or in her purse or in her bathroom or in her cosmetics box or inside her cupboard. Kiss her always, cuddle her, pamper her and play with her hair. Always tell her, she's beautiful and that you're happy to have her as your partner. All these are part of being romantic...When a woman tells you that you are not romantic. It means you are not doing all these things, its not the romance in the bedroom she is talking about. That's why, you brothers have to study "women's language" it's a 10 year course. FOR LADIES:
It is part of your duty to be romantic too. Your shyness shouldn't get to your marital life and that doesn't mean you should be shy to express your love to your husband. Send sweet text messages to your husband at work, sometimes even if you are in the room discussing with your husband, still be chatting with him on social media (Facebook, Whatsapp, Viber, Imo, bbm etc) even though he is right in front of you, it's fun and romantic! Discuss how lovely he is on your facebook timeline, this will trip him a lot. You should be chatting with your husband, not other men on social media networks. Buy gift such as boxer short , singlet Etc. When eating, give him the biggest meat. At times, bake cake for him to surprise him. Ladies, use your soft voice to sing for him, be creative, a poem like (twinkle, twinkle lovely spouse, how I wonder what you are, up above my world so high, like a diamond in my heart).Sing poems for him, no shyness is allowed. Don't just be welcoming your husband with an angry face because there is no money in the house, God is our provider. Don't welcome your husband with your body smelling maggi, don't only play with your husband when he receives his salary. Welcome him with a warm hug always, and when he is going to work, pray to God to keep him safe and for him to be successful. Support him, advise him, wipe his tears, be grateful to him, it's not easy to be a man, when you see his faith waxing cold, encourage him, don't threaten him that you will seek for divorce, don't compare him with other men, buy him gifts, wash his clothes, sing for him, praise him in a way that he wouldn't think of an alternative, be the best cook, wash his car if u have the time, dress him up, pamper him when he is sick. Wake him with a peck and don't complain about his snoring habit. Let kiss be the messenger between you. Read books on intimacy, don't learn it from what you see in movies..Most of what you see there are not real. Call your husband pet names. Though you can also call him by his name even if he is 30yrs older than you, as far as he is comfortable with it.Remember that, God said, men are the protectors and maintainers of women. So respect him and honour him even if he is younger than you. Marriage isn't a bed of roses but a bed of sacrifice. It's said that, there is nothing better for two people who love each other than marriage.