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ginggerxy:
you are a disgrace to humanity. Now you can go and read the post again, fool.

You're a big disgrace to your wretched father.

@OP, I wonder why you didn't find it necessary to tell the forum that you culled the article from yahoo.

CaroLyner:
That first paragraph is crap.

Your boldness in terming that first paragraph a crap amused me. However, your failure to point out to me the reason why you took such a stance isn't pleasing to me.

Well, I'm a seeker of knowledge, so kindly give me your reason and educate me on why you opposed my submission. A responsible lady will not object my humble request in this regard.

Well, I'd rather say if you have been good to your man and yet another woman take him, then he's not your man, or the man is either or both foolish and greedy.

So, as a woman, first make sure that you're good to your man. . . It's better to be on the offensive of life than to be on the defensive side of life.

ExcelNG:
U have acid in your brain... U need brain surgery if you are truely an Igbo man!

Read the news again but with your brain this time!

I really don't join issues with a no bodies like you and your ilks. You don't have a surname, so vamoose from my mention.

Even if the Hausa guy first named his own dog after an Igbo man's name - which make him petty too - that doesn't justify the Igbo guy's action of naming his Muhammad (if not for anything citing the reverence of the name to Muslims and more so for the fact that he's within the fortress of them).

Meanwhile, I remembered vividly when a certain delta guy resident in Ogun state named his dog "Buhari" and how most of you bigots showed solidarity to him after he was arrested - so I'd expected this guy in Kaduna to be happy that a dog was named after him instead of showing dissatisfaction and retaliation. At least if he had gone through a civil way to seek a redress it had be the wisest thing for him instead of naming his own dog after his opponent's name.

Self-effacing and disingenuity are never a signs of lack of confidence and intelligence. And two wrongs can never make a right. If you cannot fight to have victory in the end never go into a battle. . . My principle.

Now this particular issue aside also, having witnessed how some of you guys always try to goad and domineer others within and outside the country, I've no regret whatsoever in using this golden opportunity to express my reservations. Let's embrace live and let live principle.

Hey! Non of you can love the Igbo nation more than I do. But I'm first a human being before been an Igbo man and a Nigerian. I owe no one any apology.

In summary, I'm saying let's (human beings) always be conscientious in our dealings with others at all times, irrespective of whose ox is gored.

May thunder fire the dog owner. I wonder why some of my tribesmen are so petty. They are always fond of goading others and when a retaliation in opposite and equal proportion is meted out towards them you see them cry victims.

The problem that existed between them while the marriage lasted was ethically enabled. They are of different ethical leanings.

It takes only someone who understand (not knowing) about psychological functions to grasp what she passed through (assuming that her stated side of the happenstances are true).

It's good that they are separated, else either one of them would had eventually killed another.

To hell with the dead foolish man. And kudos to his father.

Sense of entitlement complex is evil. His covetousness - which is a major hallmark of someone with a sense of entitlement complex - killed him. Petty grown-ups (people) are always looking for whom to assume them as a responsibility.

Psychological oppressiveness is their working tool, give them a privilege and see them abuse it. Then resist their psychological abuse and see them resorts to denigration and gloating. Retaliate once in a while to their evil and watch them cry victim and if care is not taking you see them kill you or mar you in anyway possible to them.

Most religious people and hypocrisy are like bread and butter. Nothing irritates me more than knowing that someone's decision not to partake in a vice is because he fear's to offend/incur the wrath of his church/organization/people rather than because he's conscientious.

Worse still is like this case under discussion where the hypocrite of a man had tasted almost all marital blisses but still acted sanctimonious.

Kindly discard that idio.t with alacrity. I don't see any reason why a sane, sound, conscientious, altruistic, honest and confident person would like to maintain a close/intimate relationship with a hypocrite - Unless one is a hypocrite too.

It's obvious he's experiencing testosterone deficiency. Anyway, there's a solution for it.

Otegah87:
Mr discoverer, write ur own, let's see.....ekpa

Petty you. Vamoose from my mention and look for your parochial fellows elsewhere. Conceit is truly God's gift to petty men like you. Ewu.

Parochialness and conceitedness are big diseases. No wonder conceit is God's gift to little people. @OP, you need IQ upgrade. I can help you out. . . Let me know when you make up your mind to seek for solution to your problem.

The same recycled surface/ashawo businesses that requires little intellect. The real (goldmine) businesses are out of the knowledge arsenal of someone like the OP.

One who follows the crowd can never make a discovery.

Enemies within. . . If you can contend them, then only natural death (which is normal) can fall you or cut your life short. They come in different shades.

RIP.

Largas:
Prophet suleiman prophesied his death. Hmmmm. Prophet suleiman also prophesied Niger delta militants would become influential in government and few weeks ago TOMPOLO, government and co got federal appointments. Hmmm suleiman also prophesied victory for Goodluck at the pools even tho apc will re proclaim self - victory. Hmmmmmm.

I was laughing really hard as I read through this post. Are you still a protege of this man?

TINALETC3:

Although I don't no English but I sure know that opposite of sorry is glad.

Hehehe! OP before you intentionally or unintentionally mislead the gullible minds, kindly let them know about the need for due diligence on whom the principal company/entity they are dealing with is, before they will unwittingly be used as a shill in a scam.

Affiliate marketing requires proper tutoring.

Even though I know that the story is just a fiction having read it in many shades since many years now, yet the attitude exhibited by the man pre-wedding at best makes him a weakling.

I dislike feeble-minded people. According to him, he suspected she was pregnant pre-wedding yet he went ahead and tied the knot but now he wants to bailout from the union. A self-willed person in his position would have satisfy his curiosity before tying the knot.

All wise people are intelligent but not all intelligent people are wise. Wisdom is superior to intelligence just like knowledge is superior to information.

Formal business schools anywhere in the world at best can only teach you how to know business but they cannot teach you how to understand business (only you can teach yourself this).

Meanwhile, trading is really quite different from entrepreneurship. Almost everyone can trade and succeed, but just few among the multitude can become entrepreneurs and succeed as one.

OP kudos to you.

Greed is evil. As far as I'm concerned culture isn't the way the dead agreed unanimously to do their things while they were alive instead its how the living individually and in some instances majority unaniously chooses to do their things conscientiously. Absence of conscientiousness in any action at any given time is evil.

The man in question was only being petty. He's greedy. By the way, isn't it the same Igboland someone like me come from that they are talking - we don't practice oppression in my family. My beloved sisters (even as they are married) remains bona fide members of our family, thus they are entitled to whatever estate in place, more so the ones they acquired by themselves through their sweats.

To hell with all greedy/selfish/opportunistic proponents and practitioners.

Great leaders knows the importance of delegation. He need to be tutored better.

Petty people won't understand.

People like you with too clever by half attitude are always bad losers - no sportsmanship attribute at all. You goaded him and as an unassuming person he's, he did the needful thing to avoid bigger and unnecessary altercation in the future but here you're crying victim. . . . The usual last resort of a defeated manipulator in his own initiated battle of wits. Lol.

Show me two people that mutually fancy (have physical feelings for each other) each other, and shares same ethical philosophies (possesses mutually altruistic, honest, unassuming, self-effacing, contented but ambitious and faithful attributes) and I'll point to you a marriage or relationship that will always stand the test of time.

The word love (just like money) has no real value on its own, however, summation of values makes it meaningful.

Selfless love I concur. Unconditional love I abhor. OP, next time look beyond fancy because it alone can never metamorphose to love. Don't expect happiness and loyalty in any relationship with a partner you accepted her negative attributes and attitudes which normally you dislike to see others exhibits.

Man know thyself.

I don't need a soothsayer to tell me that Emeka Ike has a domineering attribute which obviously is the root cause of whatever problem(s) they had while the marriage lasted. All the same, sorry for them - the children to be precise.

I'm glad to know that you're quoted out of context. Because contrary to it, I would've concluded that you're not a sagacious politician I used to presume you to be.

Kiakia:
Quite correct, considering the Obasanjo/Atiku altercations when they were in power, or is it feud?

Actually the two regimes and the personalities involved are of different ethical leanings. Both OBJ and Atiku were/are of the manipulative ethical leanings, thus their individuals domineering, conceited and opportunistic attributes made it nearly impossible for them to co-exist peacefully together. What existed between them from the year 2002 until their tenure finally elapsed was a frenemy relationship.

However in the case of GMB and Osibanjo, so far, I see two men of same diplomatic ethical leanings. No one is undermining another believe you me. And so long as they continue to ignore goading from third-party (mischief makers) they would move mountains together.

malton:
Did you not mean grin?

So much for a smart lady who considers someone else illiterate and unintelligent.

You're the illiterate between you two. Her statement was in order. . . It's "green with envy."

I wonder when some parochial people will stop to misinterpret and misconstrue the "never outshine your master" mantra. A subordinate only owes his master loyalty but never servitude. More so, since law courts are yet to start deciding cases based on prejudice, therefore I see no reason for anyone to cast aspersions on the effectual acting president since he had never made any derogatory statement against his boss. They are a team, thus his success or failure is proportionally his boss gain or loss.

Niceiroko:
u r not loyal

Since when did servility become loyalty? For your information submissiveness is different from enslavement. By the way, I'm a man. As far as I'm concerned loyalty is a two way traffic. And I still insist that no sane person should dare deprive another sane, faithful and altruistic person the great divine gift of free will.

Most of you always misconstrue and misinterprete the true meanings of loyalty and submissivenes respectively.

As an egalitarian I stand for the propagation of a man being a primus inter pares in a union (marriage/romantic relationship) with a woman - a woman isn't and will never be a slave/subordinate to a man. Any man that sees a woman as a subordinate and treat her as a slave is simply a lowlife - a petty. I say no to any form of oppression organisation.