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Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

CrownOfClay724:
Mtcheeeeew.

While I do not support the highhanded approach of the Dean, I feel all these shalaye and show-body no necessary.

If she wants to be a stripper, there are strip clubs to go to. No be to turn school to whorehouse.
There are behaviours one ought restrict to private places.

Cubana should getat if he don't know what to do with money.

BornorBang:
Update from

Read Previous Thread : https://www.nairaland.com/6825640/protest-tasued-soldiers-invade-school

Nigerian Soldiers have stormed Tai Solarin University of Education (TASUED) protesting ground to disperse students who are protesting against the arrest of their colleagues, including the Students’ Union president by the same soldiers, Siggy reveals.

The soldiers were said to have arrived in three armored tanks and two Hilux vehicles.

In a video which has gone viral, the protesting students chanted anti-oppression songs and dared the soldiers to “kill” them.

Recall Siggy reported that soldiers had on Thursday raided the varsity’s campus Thursday and allegedly brutalised and arrested the SUG president and some other students.

The students’ union in a statement by its Senate President, Moradeyo Johnson, and Chief Judge, Ayobami Kareem, claimed that some of the students were extorted.

It reads in part; “Uniformed men of Nigerian military invaded the students’ community of our dear university and melted absolute injustice, extortion, and assaults on peace-loving students.

“TASUEDITES who are going by their legitimate and calm businesses were cornered at CONOIL Filling Station, the Express Road that leads to the University second gate. They were arrested and assaulted for no reason. To make things worst, the soldiers asked students to bail themselves up with N50, 000 and those who could not do that were detained and taken away (most likely to the barrack).”

https:///tasued-protest-nigerian-soldiers-return-with-armour-tanks-to-fight-students/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeCs1OQ7lFE

Mercychen:
Ify is not happy and instead of chioma to be strong for him, she's there getting drunk and misbehaving.

Davido is not being fair to his heir apparent. He always attends his other childrens birthday celebration but chose not to attend ifeanyins'. That's heartless of him. No matter what, he should have just breezed in and breezed out.

If tomorrow, chioma prevents him from seeing the boy, he'll start wailing.

My own is, they should stop taking out the frustration and anger between them on the innocent boy. He didn't ask to be born.

Happy birthday, Ify.

UncleKoboko:
Fúckíng WHÓRE

Limassol:
Nothing aggressive. i wil just try to make her understand the effects of what she did and how it will finacially affect me. Wetin man go do! Fixing That mess will disrupt my budget/savings sure, but do i have a choice?

Bornsinner7:
Why does mason mount have more assists and goals than Fred??

My point.. they keep talking about goals when one plays up front but the other is a winger

You can see where Ronaldo fan boys are getting it wrong in the goat discussion.. he has had 4 goals as a lone striker which are all tap ins while Messi is a winger with no goals yet but will still level up with the striker..

TarOrfeeek:
Na only this sandals this boy get?


That's bad of David

After spending so much money on 30BG and Olosho you can't buy sandals for your son.

YahooSon:
I may end it all today

This life is full of suffering
Let me leave

Emergingnation:
Hisbah and Sharia law has turned blind eyes!

Sharia law are for the poor , not for the Rich!

Baawaa:
God will bless this union as Yussuf's father is blessing Nigerians

nairalandankrah:
https://m.guardian.ng/news/yoruba-nation-protester-charged-with-murder-of-jumoke/

Iseoluwani:
Op just lied....

Police killed the young guy. He was shot on his joystick. Legend has it that the boy proved stubborn when told to leave. Been a young graduate with big boy vibe so to say, he refused and the police wasted him

Chatflick:
Anybody supporting Buhari and his evil brothers will experience sorrow till eternity

Newsmic:
“Pete Edochie Once Had Only 4 Pairs Of Trousers While Raising His Children” – Yul Edochie

Popular Nollywood actor, Yul Edochie has narrated via his Instagram handle how his father, Pete Edochie had difficult time in raising his children, IgbereTV reports.

He said that eventhough his parents didn't have much, they raised their children to be upright and content with the little they have.

Celebrating his father, he wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CPsepFjnkqa/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

MadamExcellency:
You lost the peace and sanity that true religion gives hence you think that everyone is like you.

Jesus Christ is the way, truth and life. He gives peace that endures forever

SMI2020:
Those expired brains?? What do they know? There's vpn on 7 out of every 10 phones owned by a young UANrian youth.. Wetin dem know

centoke30:
Unprofessional conducts.. These guys needs monthly psychological evaluation

Born2Breed:
Edo n Delta or Bendel can be a country on its own.

Maxymilliano:
So Tompolo still get mouth like this despite being declared wanted by the government of the day ?

Barbiturate:
He obviously doesn't understand the context of the clause.

What God cannot do for me, doesn't exist. By this I mean, everything good in life! God can give me a good job, a good wife, house, car.... anything good in life that God cannot do for me, does not exist.