~Sauron~:

Yoruba person? Unless she's directly related to Harry Akande.
The bride has no say in the tasks. It's the elders of the family and the MC that map out em rigorous tasks.

~Sauron~:

I am a lucky geezer. I am marrying a Calabar babe in December and her father said i could turn up with a bottle of Whiskey.
He wants nothing else.

~Sauron~:

It's a way of showing a man values the bride.
They will set a certain price, make him prostrate(Yoruba Tradition) and go through a lot of "military drill" before handing the bride over to him.
I dunno how that is expected to stop the divorce rate/infidelity in marriage but they believe in it anywayz.

chic2pimp:

That's what we keep saying. 'Tradition, Tradition, Tradition'

Most times it has less to do with tradition and more to do with the greediness of Inlaws.
Some peeps 'Bride Price' list are just Insane

ayettymama:

^^ its not commodity

its tradition

certain things are done when certain things are done
u give gifts to people to show u appreciate them dont u??

~Sauron~:

Paying to change a woman's last name.

CuteAngel:

someone who messes things up, or makes silly mistakes  

Abygul:

hi diva.care to knw me?am abygul

CuteAngel:

Why din't he say it, see how dis guy just the fall my hand because of shyness.

CuteAngel:

bros wetin you the yarn sef. Where u come from sef

1. The “WHERE ARE YOU” question:

When a woman calls a man and the first thing she ask him is “WHERE ARE YOU” That is annoying. If the woman is asking for a specific reason then thats understandable but to ask a man who all the time shows that a woman doesn't trust her man when he’s not with her.

2. The “Who You Talking To” question:

When a man is on the phone and this question is asked, men find this to be very rude. Asking this question co-insides with the above question, it shows that a woman doesn't trust her man and makes a woman appear to be nosy.

eldee:

Sue the effing condom company

davidylan:

maybe those who think casual intimacy is ok should think twice about this. I cant tell you how sweet it is to sleep each nite knowing u're not going to get a pregnancy allegation in the morning.

na2day?:


ppl still get pregnant using rubber so what if that was the case and he guy wants an abortion and she refuses, what next?

davidylan:

why? I thot it was just casual intimacy . . . no responsibilities attached.

na2day?:

the problem here is, it was casual and the guy might not be ready for a child and he was only doing the lady a favor anywayz, so why burden him with a child. if the guy tells her to abort the baby and she refuse why shld he pay child support, she wanted the baby not him. i am just trying to have an open mind abt all these remember  

eldee:

If you weren't smart enough to use protection, then you have to bear the burden of the risk you took.

na2day?:

i have a question, if u decided to have casual intimacy with a guy and u get pregnant, will u keep the baby? if your answer is yes, will the guy have to pay child support? remember this was casual ooo

chic2pimp:

Are you in anyway calling DayoK a looser?

dayokanu:

At a certain age It expected you are getting it. So why make an announcement of it. But as teenage boys when its difficult, any of such conquests would be seen as having climbed the top of Mt Everest or won the US presidential election

Area_boy:

speaking for yourself alone or all ladies?

~Sauron~:

Only boys do that.
Men don't brag about such non-event.

dayokanu:

Thats for teenage boys and under 22. How can a grown man be bragging to his colleagues at work he got some last night when almost everybody did get some bootay