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[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=420268.msg5775524#msg5775524 date=1269638226]Yoruba person? Unless she's directly related to Harry Akande. ![]() The bride has no say in the tasks. It's the elders of the family and the MC that map out em rigorous tasks.[/quote]That sucks! |
[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=420268.msg5775494#msg5775494 date=1269637876]I am a lucky geezer. I am marrying a Calabar babe in December and her father said i could turn up with a bottle of Whiskey. He wants nothing else. [/quote]Boo! You have to marry a Yoruba person lol.Does the bride get to pick the tasks or just the rest of the family? |
[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=420268.msg5775447#msg5775447 date=1269637393]It's a way of showing a man values the bride. They will set a certain price, make him prostrate(Yoruba Tradition) and go through a lot of "military drill" before handing the bride over to him. I dunno how that is expected to stop the divorce rate/infidelity in marriage but they believe in it anywayz.[/quote]ROFL!!! You know what, I kinda like that lol. Can you make him sleep in the bushes or something? |
chic2pimp:Exactly! I mean killing twins was once tradition too and that didn't make it right. |
ayettymama:You give gifts freely not because it's customary. [quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=420268.msg5775353#msg5775353 date=1269636395]Paying to change a woman's last name. [/quote]lol I'm serious. |
lol I guess, sure. |
Don't bother yourself too much trying to interpret that. Men don't really know what they want lol |
What's the purpose of the bride price again? |
One who is intelligent should know to be well-behaved. |
CuteAngel:lmao that's so weird. I would have never thought of that. Abygul:Hi. |
CuteAngel:lol forgive my ignorance but what does fall my hand mean? |
CuteAngel:He likes you =) |
I'm sorry, why is this in romance? |
They need to sit down and talk. It's obviously not the first time it happened. |
I find myself attracted to bad boys but I don't see myself in a relationship with one. |
I'm pretty much ok with any name as long as it's not degrading. |
1. The “WHERE ARE YOU” question:I feel like both of them apply more to men. Women don't ask those questions directly, it's usually subliminal. |
They exist. Some are really obvious and some others aren't. A few go the extra mile and get a va-gi-na too. |
eldee:Yes then you can use the money to pay for the child support! |
davidylan:In addition to the STDs and other fun stuff unprotected sex brings. |
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=417101.msg5753471#msg5753471 date=1269379570]ppl still get pregnant using rubber so what if that was the case and he guy wants an abortion and she refuses, what next?[/quote]He pays for child support. |
davidylan:No emotions or commitments attached. However, you are still responsible for your actions. [quote author=na2day? link=topic=417101.msg5753416#msg5753416 date=1269379107]the problem here is, it was casual and the guy might not be ready for a child and he was only doing the lady a favor anywayz, so why burden him with a child. if the guy tells her to abort the baby and she refuse why shld he pay child support, she wanted the baby not him. i am just trying to have an open mind abt all these remember [/quote]Then he should have used a condom. He can't be that silly not to know that if he nuts in her, she could get a baby. You can't come around and tell her to abort like it's nothing. If he doesn't want to be burdened with a child he should get a vasectomy. eldee:Exactly! |
If you've tried to explain it to him and he still doesn't understand, I think you should try to limit any interaction with him during that period. That way your anger doesn't get the best of you. |
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=417101.msg5753353#msg5753353 date=1269378390]i have a question, if u decided to have casual intimacy with a guy and u get pregnant, will u keep the baby? if your answer is yes, will the guy have to pay child support? remember this was casual ooo[/quote]I don't think it matters. As long as it is his child, he has to pay for child support. |
One, disgusting! Two, I'm calling bullshit on this one. |
chic2pimp:I see you tryna instigate something lol. Dayo love and I are cool. I'm just saying casual relationships happen naturally for cute people. You don't need to go that extra mile. |
Speed dating is for losers lol |
First, putting someone's picture on Facebook is not the epitome of love. Secondly, you're the one marrying the female not your mother. You don't really need her telling you who to marry or not. You have to realize that at 30, you cannot be living under your parents roof. You need take responsibility and move out which you should have done years ago. If you had your own place nobody would be telling you who to talk to or who can visit you. If you show your mother than you can assume your responsibilities, she wouldn't be all up in your business. |
I don't think the information given is sufficient. How many times have you tried to leave and why? |
dayokanu:I don't think it stops at teenage-hood. Just like how men brag about how drunk they were the night before and who they made out with at the party. |
[quote author=Area_boy link=topic=418203.msg5753028#msg5753028 date=1269374855]speaking for yourself alone or all ladies?[/quote]For both of us. |
[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=417101.msg5752988#msg5752988 date=1269374521]Only boys do that. Men don't brag about such non-event. [/quote]LOL don't try to do that separation thing now. You know that I ain't lying that's why you're smiling.dayokanu:Maybe he doesn't want to feel less of a man. What better way to make everyone at work respect you than to tell them you're screwing the hot secretary or the boss' wife? |


” That is annoying. If the woman is asking for a specific reason then thats understandable but to ask a man who all the time shows that a woman doesn't trust her man when he’s not with her.
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