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Romance / Re: Are There Still Faithful Ladies? by Diva20(f): 9:02pm On Mar 23, 2010
davidylan:

they exist. I know a few.

They are all cheats David. Going round breaking the hearts of men.
Romance / Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Diva20(f): 8:59pm On Mar 23, 2010
~Sauron~:

We only discuss such in the pubs.
Why tell your woman you have been with 357 babes? Her heart will smash into atoms.

No I mean they lie to their fellas about how many women they've been with. There's evidence even here on Nairaland.
Romance / Re: Are There Still Faithful Ladies? by Diva20(f): 8:57pm On Mar 23, 2010
stillwater:

No, there are no more faithful ladies.

Everyone knows they all went extinct years ago.
Romance / Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Diva20(f): 8:50pm On Mar 23, 2010
@topic, #noshade but many guys would lie about the number and nature of casual relationships they been in.
Romance / Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Diva20(f): 8:13pm On Mar 23, 2010
eldee:

@Chamo

This is a lil off-topic
But come on . . . what have you gys been doing in your uni??
I just found this on the net. . . is that how you guys get down??




Romance / Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Diva20(f): 8:07pm On Mar 23, 2010
~Sauron~:

The one we had wasn't boring until you missed your period. grin

lol but on the real though, it gets old after a while.

chamotex:

FACT!!!
Thats why you need to keep it short and sweet.

Yeah, later you have to suck it up and get serious.
Romance / Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Diva20(f): 7:58pm On Mar 23, 2010
Casual relationships tend to get boring quick.
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys So Afraid To Commit? by Diva20(f): 7:51pm On Mar 23, 2010
Oh and to all the concerned men on this thread, I'm actually in a relationship lol
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys So Afraid To Commit? by Diva20(f): 7:49pm On Mar 23, 2010
I love that there are so many different responses and I'm sorry I can't get to respond to each one of them but I'll respond to this one.

davidylan:

Because men are looking for something very few women can offer. Companionship, understanding, patience and a loving nature.
A lot of women spend too much time on their outward appearance and think that +  intimacy should be enough to earn them a ring. nothing could be farther from the truth.

I understand and agree with where you're coming from. However, you have to agree even when men meet the few who offer all that and more, some of them would still not be ready for a serious relationship. Which leads me to agree with what someone said, men really don't know what they want. It's not even about marriage or even living together, it's just showing that you truly love her.
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys So Afraid To Commit? by Diva20(f): 6:06pm On Mar 19, 2010
iice:

Got what? the intimacy?
Men usually want the intimacy. . .women want to be loved. Men don't have to say it to get it, women shouldn't let men think they need to say it, to get it.

True or false @ the men. Have you not had the 'Tell me you love' during intimacy? i scatter laugh after i heard that. . . women are as much the culprits. They feed the men what the men can use on them.


I feel you on this.
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys So Afraid To Commit? by Diva20(f): 5:36pm On Mar 19, 2010
omega25red:

dating is just that "dating" you can date fall in love have intimacy and meet the friends but what else are you doing to make sure the initial mutual intrest stays the same?
honestly though (poor excuse) men are wired to look for the newest and freshest girl because no matter how hot you look no matter how good your bed game is and all the other stuff our mind is always on what the next hot girl can do.


You shouldn't just be in it for the bed game though . . . that's how you get STDs. Hardly the point though, if you are the type to move on when you feel like like there's nothing new, let her know up front. Often times when guys see a woman "playing hard to get", most times all she's just afraid of being hurt again.

iice:

I don't see why you have to put a ring on it because you're dating or in love.  Sure it's the usual route but not everyone is lucky to be on that route.  Like ebonyeyes, i prefer to have it laid out. 

Yeah that's what I said, I'd rather you tell me, I'm only here for the sex and that's it than tell me you love me and later, break up with me for no good reason after you've got it. If you are going to tell me you love me, you have to be committed.
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys So Afraid To Commit? by Diva20(f): 5:25pm On Mar 19, 2010
pro01:

Commitment= paying a king's ransom for 'something' another goat would sooner or later 'do' for free. Whats the sense in that?

Show me the one LOYAL female that's worth committing to and i'll put a (diamond) ring on it right away.

You wouldn't find one with that thinking.

spikedcylinder:

You ask this assuming a lot of guys are reasonable? cheesy



brutal:

A real man will commit if he finds d right woman. . .

And some men wouldn't commit even if she gave herself up.

Kgdavid:


that would be tantamount to him shooting himself in the foot

It's more honorable to say you're looking for a friend with benefits than to lead her on.
Romance / Re: How To Play A Player? by Diva20(f): 4:59pm On Mar 19, 2010
I don't think there's a definite way to play one.
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys So Afraid To Commit? by Diva20(f): 4:56pm On Mar 19, 2010
spikedcylinder:

Guys like to be able to do the same thing with 20 more females and half the time, they are not really in love.

I agree, but then why waste her time letting her think you're in love? Just let her know what you want up front. If you want sex tell her, you might not get it but at least you're being honest.
Romance / Why Are Guys So Afraid To Commit? by Diva20(f): 4:42pm On Mar 19, 2010
You say like her, she says she likes you, you both go out. She meets your friends and you meet hers. You both engage in sexual activities, you like it but basically you don't want to put a ring on it. What is the point of dating and then falling in love, then call it quits for some odd reason? What are you afraid of?
Romance / Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Diva20(f): 4:35pm On Mar 19, 2010
The keyword is "as it is fitting unto the Lord".
Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerian Man Prefer S. A Women Over Nigerian Women? by Diva20(f): 4:28pm On Mar 19, 2010
It's the inferiority complex in them. They believe Nigerian women don't take orders from them well enough and it is really not about the women in South Africa. If they had gone to any other country they would have tried to date the women there too.
Romance / Re: The Many Erroneous Assumption Of Most Nigeria Lady by Diva20(f): 4:19pm On Mar 19, 2010
Rs: What do you expect? For him to leave his territory for other men to prey upon. Please understand it’s a matter of his ego and he will always stand up to protect that which makes him a man. All you need do try to politely inform him when he is overdoing it (Don’t shout or be public about it you will only get negative results).

What else haven't women been called?
Romance / Re: Ugly Professional Babe N Handsome Working Guy by Diva20(f): 3:34pm On Mar 14, 2010
He's handsome but hasn't had any luck with beautiful girls, the irony. Some men just never see the Queens they have in front of them until she's gone.
Romance / Re: What Do naija Girls Offer In Relationships? by Diva20(f): 3:02pm On Mar 14, 2010
It's easy to see the guys who have been dumped by a Nigerian woman. Hardly the point though. If you attract girls who have nothing to offer, you're either looking on the surface or offer nothing yourself.
TV/Movies / Re: Avatar, Insult Or Exaltation To Nigeria by Diva20(f): 2:52pm On Mar 14, 2010
Nigerians were talked about and killed in X-Men: The Origins. Are you gon' make a thread about that too?
Romance / Re: Valentine's Day Is Chivalry by Diva20(f): 8:28pm On Feb 12, 2010
Blah blah blah! Women give their men gifts too.
Romance / Re: Unofficial Valentine NL Match-up Thread. by Diva20(f): 5:38pm On Feb 06, 2010
Why is Doyin13 still single? I said I wanted him.
Romance / Re: My Missing Wife To Be (with Pic) by Diva20(f): 7:13pm On Feb 05, 2010
I'm sorry but
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I Have A Mad Crush On Flavio: He's Damn Tooo Tooo Hot: Gawsssh Can't Help It by Diva20(f): 7:08pm On Feb 05, 2010
death@ Flavio ignoring this thread.
Romance / Re: Ladies: What Do U Like In A Man's Body? by Diva20(f): 6:48pm On Feb 05, 2010
His lips, height/weight proportionality and muscles.
Romance / Re: Unofficial Valentine NL Match-up Thread. by Diva20(f): 6:46pm On Feb 05, 2010
Abekeade08:

olojukokoro, madam abeg choose one. grin

Doyin too get big mouth sha, I hope he can back it up with action

I need a backup plan. In case, one calls off the date.
Romance / Re: Unofficial Valentine NL Match-up Thread. by Diva20(f): 6:42pm On Feb 05, 2010
Valentine's Day - Sauron

Valentine's Night - Doyin13
Romance / Re: Things You Wish You Knew Before Your First Date by Diva20(f): 1:07am On Feb 01, 2010
Ebonyeyes:

He should be a gentleman and avert his eyes or pull his trousers and give to the girl tongue tongue

lol
Health / Re: Second Handed Undies, How Good Is It For The Ladies? by Diva20(f): 1:04am On Feb 01, 2010
I'm sorry but. . .




















roflmao0o0o0o0o0o0o0o
Romance / Re: Things You Wish You Knew Before Your First Date by Diva20(f): 12:59am On Feb 01, 2010
Kenny_G:

can u blame him?
@poster
her orientation, i.e. that she is not averse to a one nighter, it helps to know she can be interested,

LOL wow. . . I'm sure you still screwed her down though

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