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What you cannot endure now will be unbearable in marriage! This man is an unrepentant cheat! If you can endure such a trait then go ahead with the marriage but if you can't, then take a walk before it's too late! If I where you... the moment I see that chat is the moment I would have made up my mind to call off what ever we have! Don't wait till asoebi has been bought and cards are printed before you make up your mind, this is the time

Pretty girl! Why flavour no wan marry her

Cheating also doesn't stop a woman from loving her husband

What's her snap chat ID biko?

Nonsense! What's she promoting?

read blogs/social mediarize and think of how to make more $$$!

Interesting! $1000 now N345,000

I'll like to see what she looks like currently

Number 4 just got me ticked off! So when it comes to the men, it's okay to cheat because he 'supposedly' has an upper hand in the marriage but when it's the woman, she should leave the marriage. This mentality has to change! It is the reason why there is so much wrong going on int today's Nigerian society! Infidelity by either sex is WRONG!! And both parties should be subject to same consequences regardless of their sex!

For the young couples, it's not advisable. Older couples (25 years of marriage and above) they can if they want... I don't see anything wrong, it's up to them to decide what they want. My parents are 30 years in marriage and they have their seperate rooms in their 9 bedroom house.

How can a woman just go missing? I suspect foul play somewhere !!

I totally agree! Marriage is not a do or die!

Nice red interior

What about the men that destroy their own marriages without knowing it and some even when they know that what they do affects their home they still keep doing it ...

itsy:
Thanks @all
I've been at home for a while now and hubby is more comfortable with it. He says what do I need a job for as he can conveniently take care of our bills,which is true but there is an inner longing to do something that I have. After spending all the years I spent in school, I don't want to ever be a full housewife and I'm scared that if I have to wait till when the children grow, I might be really outdated by then and no company would hire an outdated married woman.

How can your husband still be thinking the way he does in this modern day where nothing is uncertain? What if something happens and you need finances of your own to fend for yourself? My dear, marriage is great but the benefits of a good career and having your own money is sweet as well! Don't be the woman who has to depend on her husband for every single thing. One day he will turn around and use it against you. Be wise, get a job close to home, get a nanny to watch your young kids or better still enroll them in a day care or Montessori and get your money girl! It's 2016, last time I checked ... The word 'housewife' is outdated

Equalizer:
She's just a cheat on the lose who got married by mistake.. I've said it before and am gonna say it one more time.. After God the next person to fear is women... OMG! Am just so paranoid about this thing called marriage.

Funny how everyone has a million things to say when a woman is the one cheating. But when it's a man cheating... It's presumed 'Normal'. I don't support infidelity but let us not be biased when we judge. Marriage is a nice institution if you marry for the right reasons and to the right person. Don't be paranoid or scared

No be today na! A lot of women are into this same act! She should try and stop before it's too late!

Yes they do! They all do unfortunately

omonnakoda:
Do not be silly. Go and look through the dozens of photos when wives of heads of state stand with their spouses in SUCH pictures. They DO NOT carry bags.That is the point...It has nothing t do with being a man.Why is Buhari's wife not carrying a bag. There is a time for bags and a time for NO BAGS
Your comment about the PRICE of the bag is a sign of ignorance.How is that relevant? That it cost so much is something to be proud of? Sorry....

You are evidently very stupid! Please show me the rule or written constitution that says that wives of presidents or head of states are not allowed to carry bags at certain times. Just because others do it doesn't mean she has to do it

RaeMystix:
Google it

No need

RaeMystix:
Class is judged by character and not materials/possessions

Says who? societal definition of class is not defined by character alone. Maybe you are confusing the word charisma for class

omonnakoda:
Actually that is the exact opposite of class. A handbag is TOTALLY out of place in that photo.It is as necessary as holding a puppy or a goat. That is why no one takes many women seriously

Kindly explain WHY is she holding a bag of ANY description.WHAT could it possibly contain that is so important? The keys to Bakassi?
This particular photo does NOT call for a bag.It is just a showcase of vulgar vacuity

That's why you are a man and you will never understand my point of view! Those bags that she's carrying are very expensive bags. Yea she might not be fashion forward in terms of hair styles and makeup but that's just one of the many things that judge class! That Hermes Kelly she's holding, the Chanel and the Dior bag she came into nigeria with are probably worth your annual salary x4 and over!! That Hermes cost nothing less than $14,000

Love her photoshoot pictures... You can tell that she's a classy lady just by looking at her choice of handbags. Her love for big hair cannot go unnoticed too.

She get mind! Why jeopardize your future for such! Not worth it.

I'm happy they didn't burn him to death. This is the way it should be, no more jungle justice, just catch them and hand them over to the proper authority for prosecution

texazzpete:
People are actually bragging with an MK bag?

LOL

I tire!

The ironic thing is that this man is most likely a married man who has never bought his wife a handbag that costs that much but would rather spend on a random side chic!

Secondly, michael kors is the cheapest of all luxury handbags. Let us know when he buys you a $5000 Chanel bag!

Thirdly I don't know why a girl would wait for a man to do these things for her when she can make her own money and buy herself anything she wants. So many lazy girls out there who would pay for everything and anything by spreading their legs!

Every time I see this man, the only thing that comes to mind is "woman beater"

So true, surprised they gave us 169th, we should have been number 180!! The current exchange rate doesn't help either

She's okay

His wife tho

All through out my stay in camp, I never ate camp food for one day. I was always eating at mami market...