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Hmmm Pple are talking pounds and dollars and nigeria is talking yuan

Lazy girl ...

Moral of the story... Never lose hope!

From grass to grace, nice one....

Seen! Now do a post on '7 reasons why married women cheat'

I guess this marriage don park! Cos after discovering that his wife has been servicing men in a brothel for over 3 months, I'm sure he wouldn't want to remain married to her.

How is this even possible? Do people who are already sentenced get bail? Isn't bail only applicable to people who haven't been sentenced yet. How unfair and unjust is this issue? I hope the family of the deceased gets justice! No one should be able to evade the law just because of their societal position. For those of you saying the law should tamper justice with mercy, just put ur self in the shoes of the family of the deceased. Imagine that was your relation....

99 days for the theif, 1 day for the owner He should resign ASAP! Not fit to be a leader. He is unfortunately extremely corrupt

Wow this is so brutal and cold May her soul RIP!

In Igboland, it's the brides family that is responsible. They are hosting in their house, so it's their responsibility to carter to guests and the Inlaws

She's cheating on you... You can take this to the bank and cash it! I don't see why she would be so secretive if all is well.

Beautiful lady! I love the way she carries herself

powerfulsettingz:
Trial as usual
At the end no conviction

Says who? She's going to end up like ibori

Says who? Her brows are penciled, you can see the obvious contour and highlight she did on her nose( you can only achieve that with makeup) and her lips look like she has a nudee lipstick on. This makeup is just not as heavy as she usually has it done, that's all

Money money money! That's the only reason why we are still hearing about this couple oo! This woman would have left him since if not for the financial benefits involved...she get sense!

Are they still together? Internet sources have it that the marriage crashed earlier on

AccidentalGenius:
once she cheats, she Leaves!


it's something she carefully thought of before she did it

Oh! But if the case were reverse you would want her to understand and forgive you... How much more selfish could men possibly be?

The risk that comes with doing such jobs.

That's fine!

Tekevwe:
I'm not the clingy type, if anything I used to be the exact opposite and decided to work on it when I got a few complaints. We both go to work and I get back home by 6pm. He gets in by 9 and just wants to eat, bath, and sleep.

His office is just five minutes from the house and he works for himself so I know its not Lagos traffic. I just feel we should share how both our days went sometimes. He also does the same on weekends when he's home and keeps to himself. I let him be for a few hours and when I try to go to him he's cold still, like he wants to be alone.

I'm beginning to feel lonely.

I know exactly how you feel dear. I'm beginning to believe it's not stress from what you have described but that there might be something distracting or troubling him. The only problem is that it's hard to know what the hell is going on because he barely communicates. I don't want to believe he has started cheating and is putting in more energy into someone else when he should be giving you all that attention(I will give him a benefit of the doubt), all I would still recommend is, give him space but be very observant. Watch for more red flags and also communicate and always express yourself even though he's repelling you away. For better for worse....All the best!

i think your husband is going through stress. Give him some time, he will come around. Stress changes a man, I know this because I experienced same with my husband sometime in the past. It's a phase that will come to pass, so I will ask you to bear with it and be patient. Keep talking to him and expressing your concerns, let him know how you feel. Marriage is not easy, I know u had that fairytale picture of how it would be lovey Dovey all year round... Every experienced person will tell you the first year is very difficult because you both are still learning to live with each other and your differences. evidently you never lived with him so there's no way you would have seen these everyday behaviours. it is now up to you to handle it properly because the way you handle issues will determine peace in your marriage and its longetivity.

Who this their beef don elp? I trust that they will settle themselves soon ... Next!

All these fat ladies have no excuse again

ireneony:
No.5 is so true

This remind me of when a guy invited to an eatery.
After ordering fried and chicken for me, he ordered take away meat pie for himself. I was eating the food gel gel gel.
He was looking at me and couldn't contained his feelings. He said " how which I knew this restaurant is expensive, we wud have gone to a cheap restaurant"

In my mind I was like why can't this guy just be quiet "nor be everything eye see mouth go talk"

With that vexation I ate everything including the bone of the chicken. He was swallowing his saliva

It was time for us to leave, he stopped a bike. Abo0ki bike man to be precise. U need to come and see the way this guy was pricing ehh. He was like" you know I priced 80# instead of 150# so we are going to enter this bike together, when the bike get to your destination he will drop you at the junction and he will also take me home from there"


Some guys are jst stingy.
N.b: I never begged him to take me out.

He's not stingy, he strikes me more of a broke/poor guy

Ever heard the phrase " stealing is in someone's blood"... It's either a habit that she cannot help(habit she started at a younger age and grew with) or there is something seriously wrong with her. There are some people who have it all but still steal for those of you shouting that the man should provide. It's just a terrible habit and she needs help

Seriously?

That's my Lagos, beautiful city

Wow that's a big cobra, very dangerous snake

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Wow this is terrible

Since its an igbo marriage.
Simple.
The middleman with one or two elders should return the money and whatever that is needed to be returned.
Don't u guys have kingsmen?
Its their duty to do the needful.
Not a court thing at all.

Traditionally, that's the kinmens job but if they were also wedded at a court. They still need to annul/file for divorce because valid court marriage still means that the marriage is still in place in the eyes of society.

@op, since your sister doesn't have kids or anything tying her Down, she has huge chances of resettling. I'm sure she moved on fine. What's the current update?

She's okay