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That's a form of restitution but if we are to restitute for everything we attained via falsehood, how many years back can you restitute? Like the cheating in primary and secondary school. Why don't you trace it back to primary 6 or Js3 and start anew? Ridiculous right?

Several threads has been created formerly for this. Ensure to google a topic with the last keyword "nairaland". To ascertain if it has be created afore.

Embarrassed....

Trust has to be earned, not given freely like a piece of cake. Goodbye to blind trust.

MONEY MAKES POT BELLY SEXY. If you don't understand ask Alhaji, Senators etc. 6packs is just a bonus. It's nothing without money and power.

Joliecoco: Name some guys, Don't be ashame to write about compliments that people usually give you.

nope, before some miscreants will hijack this thread and construe it to be pride.lol

chux76: Just pondering...
If MARRIAGE was that IMPORTANT..why didn't our Lord Jesus Christ Marry??

Because he didn't and cannot fornicate unlike you mortals. Marriage is an alternative of enjoying sex life without commiting sin which is fornication and furthermore, marriage is benchmark for raising offsprings. If you can live without fornicating, then marriage is not necessary.

A lot.

ubong560: @djeezy, and u never paused to think if we must go by ur post, then the rate of illiteracy shld be times in millions within a yr as the illiterate couples would keep churning out illiterate children? Wat then would b d fate of our future wen every three children equate two illiterates and one literate? How abt many of those whom i know thier wives/husbands were not educated as @ wen they met? The educated ones (mostly males) happened to take it upon demselvs training the spouse to his/her standard? Will u say anything is wrong wit dat? Dont forget most of them are illiterates because of circumstances not because they desired such.

Apart frm wife issue, i think is very socialized that we all shld try wit whoever is next to us to be educated in life so as to wipe away illiteracy in our society.

No lost if u sponsor a stranger in school OR AM I THINKING WRONGLY?

I do not agree with the fact that you opined that illiterate couples are bound to produce illiterate children. Because someone is an illiterate does not ipso facto mean they have no value for education. I have beheld some illiterate couples who eke out and ensures their children goes to school. Do not confuse illiteracy and poverty. Do you think they would want their children to end up like them?. In strictu sensu I answered based on the definition you gave ab initio on who an illiterate is and by that definition I do not think I can marry one. I am a lawyer by profession and I'd like to marry a woman who is educated and sound enough to understand me without wallowing in sheer ignorance. If you can marry one, then it's your choice, a decision reached on preference.

To be hardworking and make a lot of money.

Of course i would. Disobeying God can lead to grievious consequences, even more severe than the one that may suffice when i tell the truth.

Op and Channel 190 are the same person. I move a motion for their ban. Lol, horrible attention seeker.

My post is in line with the definition the poster gave on illiterate woman. I cannot marry an illiterate. I have set a standard and i cannot settle below that. Illiterate men should marry illiterate women.

k2039: Just ensure you kneel to greet her tomorrow.

Not necessary in some cultures. I presume you're Yoruba.@op, just be yourself.

I always tell my female friends, don't date for dating sake. Date because you want something out of it(marriage) and there should be a limit to how long you date a man and if he's not talking about marriage you flee.@op am sure during this past 8yrs, some men has been asking her out which she abruptly turned down because of her supposedly love for the other guy. Well life still goes on.

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Ada Nri1: Nairaland is filled with "I belong(s)"
There is nothing wrong with an honest person that is still struggling, but people on this site make you feel like a looser.
See the way some ppl r mocking the meat seller. Na wa º°˚˚˚°º‎​oohh

lol, welcome 2 9ja.

Nothing to comment.

project8: they make call each other a lot,and the guy is desperate to meet her.she gave him her BB pin,and she even deleted me when I told her to choose btw me n the guy? Is this not enof to conclude that sumtn is definatetly goin on btw them?

You wrote earlier that you were advicing her before she deleted you. Anyway if you're really convinced that she's cheating on you, and that you don't love her anymore, then I presume you know what to do. You do not need our consent.

@op, If you don't love her anymore like you averred, then I suggest you open up to her and say so. You have to be a man and adhere to your decisions.@the issue of her cheating on you, you're not really certain of that. Its allegedly, a state without proof and it may feasibly be that you pissed her off with your persistent accusations and she deleted you. From your story above, I can infer that you and the girl are not really compatible.

Good for them, they are really expanding their horizon.

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@op, he's only dating you and not married to you so I wonder why he'll consider you first before his family abi you want to use love portion and tie him down? Why don't you wait until he marries you before you raise this issue. How many years/months have you been with him for you to want him to consider you first like you're now a wife.

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Mtchew! This rubbish topic again.

Nice piece.

You consider compatibility,love, family background and then the financial aspect therefrom. He doesn't have to be too affluent but at least can afford to take care of the family.

Rubbish. If you think it's all about you, the only person you'll end up with is you.