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Jokes EtcRe: The X-Family°° IAAPMOO's chat room. by DkJay: 6:30pm On Apr 23, 2022
The gangrene has eaten deep.

It's a shame, really.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester City Vs Liverpool (2 - 2) On 10th April 2022 by DkJay: 5:24pm On Apr 10, 2022
Foden and KDB in this game. Wawu. I doff my hat.
CareerRe: Chicken Republic Sacks Staff For Dancing On Duty by DkJay: 4:20pm On Mar 03, 2022
Front page with just two comments.

This life truly no balance.
FamilyRe: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by DkJay: 3:05pm On Mar 03, 2022
Brighton1

You lost your dad four years ago and the girl is 22?

Could hardly be a time when she needed her father's presence more in her life than as at that time.

First of all, don't try to do it alone.

Discipline her, yeah, but be a "friend"; a confidante. Lol. That would be super difficult because you're out there working for the family, but force doesn't always solve problems.

She's a human being with a brain to think for herself. People say if you carry a carrot and a big stick, you'll go far.

The stick is just a deterrent. The carrot is the real OG.

Enlist the help of your brother to become close to her and get her to open up. Since you said he's hardworking, then he may be eager to help you with this.

Tell your mom to help you get to know this girl too. She may be going through stuff you don't know about.

And yes, she's definitely rolling with girls you wouldn't want to be associated with. And you may have to deal with the fact that she's already sleeping around.

Not a pleasant thought, but regardless, you need a lotttt of patience and finesse to deal with it.

Your biggest weapons are going to be your patience and your family's help.

Good luck.
Foreign AffairsRe: "I Want To Help Beat Ukraine From My Computer" - Russian Vigilante Hacker by DkJay: 7:16am On Feb 26, 2022
The rate at which this is going, many countries are going to be drawn into this aggression by the end of the year.

Y'all should pray and be ready in any way you can.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Lille UCL (2 - 0) On 22nd February 2022 by DkJay: 9:53pm On Feb 22, 2022
Times like these makes you really miss Chilwell
EducationRe: ASUU To Go On One-month Warning Strike by DkJay:
This is going to be interesting
EducationRe: Breaking News!! ASUU Embarks On An Indefinite Strike. by DkJay: 11:08pm On Feb 13, 2022
Omo
SportsRe: All Three In Their prime Who You Taking? by DkJay: 7:52am On Feb 13, 2022
Purely for the sake of entertainment, I'll pick Hazard. His dribbling would be fun to watch.

Second choice is Salah. Because he would be dragging defenders up and down the field.

grin
SportsRe: Israel Adesanya Shuts Down Fight With Kamaru: 'it's Bigger Than Money' by DkJay: 7:46am On Feb 13, 2022
With so many animals ruining the country's name at home, it's a relief to find two people abroad with common sense.

Congratulations on your win, Izzy.
SportsRe: Israel Adesanya Beats Robert Whittaker To Retain His Title by DkJay: 7:43am On Feb 13, 2022
Congratulations, Izzy.

"A King and more"

grin
EducationUse Audio Recordings To Study Better by DkJay(op): 7:28am On Jan 14, 2022
My family started a tradition this year where each member of the family suggests a book every month and we all read it. Then we discuss what the book is about at the end of the month.

That is not a big deal in itself as we are a family of readers.

But there was one challenge--time.

We are all adults with busy lives and sometimes, it is difficult to settle down and concentrate on reading a book. Some of these books are up to 400 pages, and they are not fiction which are fun to read.

Self-development books are awesome, but to be honest, they could also be very boring and tedious.

But my brother shared this tip which helps him consume books at a blistering pace.

What is the tip?

The use of audio books.

Now audio books are not a novel idea as they have been around for a while. I've listened to a couple of audio books but I'm more of a print or e-book reader myself.

However, when I tried it, I listened to an audio book within two hours that would have taken me a week to read. I was amazed. Even more interesting is the fact that I was able to do other things as I listened to the book.

Then, I decided to apply this to my studies.

Go to class. Turn on your phone's audio recorder for the duration of the class. As you go back home, plug in your earpiece or air pods and listen to the lecture over again.

That way, you don't miss anything the lecturer says. Listening to something over and over again also helps it stick to your memory so you're able to recall better when tests or exams come around.

It also gives you better understanding when you pick up your book to revise.

By the time you're ready to read, you're already familiar with the topic at hand and reading will be a breeze.

The best part of this is that you can listen to recordings while walking, or doing the laundry or just about any other thing, so that's a big boost in your productivity!

Hope this helps someone. cheesy

Try it out and share your experience.

Good luck!
RomanceRe: Ever Asked Yourself This Question ? by DkJay: 3:04am On Dec 26, 2021
Long Note Alert!

Thinking about loneliness on Christmas evening. Hm.

I was about to type a really long note, but I realized some things. Pardon me if I'm wrong but I have two assumptions:

1. You're young, and not yet financially independent. If this is correct, then you should have higher priorities than attracting girls.

2. Second, you're not too comfortable with where you are, but you are not willing to stress yourself to get out of it. In other words, you want something for nothing.

If you have these problems, you know what you need to do to solve them.

Back to your question, you don't need to be an extrovert in other to enjoy the company of beautiful girls. There are a lot of things within your control that you can do to change the situation.

>> Dress good. This would give you a confidence boost like a drug addict gets super high on cocaine
>> Get busy. Be a problem solver. This is the attraction part of getting female companionship. It's not all about chasing. You need to make them come to you too.
>> You need to go out. You can't avoid this. You cannot catch fish in the forest. You need to go to where your prospects are. Go to the river to find some fish.

I'm not saying you need to become Mr. Sociable. Just move out of your environment once in a while--church is a good place to start if you're having doubts. See a friend. See a movie.

Lots of other things you can do, but these should help you get started.

Good luck.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Need A Mentor For Coding by DkJay: 7:58am On Dec 23, 2021
Ejirekenny:
Your email address please.
Click on his profile. Scroll down. You should see the option, "Send an email to this member"

Click on it and Nairaland would send an email to him.

If he's interested, he'll respond to you via email.
RomanceRe: A Nairalander Is In Love With This British Actress by DkJay: 7:18am On Dec 23, 2021
Lol. Um, I don't even know where to begin.

As someone rightly posted, this is just infatuation, not love.

Something else, if you're really thirty, and you're really thinking about marriage, then you have a long, long way to go in terms of changing your mindset.

Besides, I think it's inherently selfish for you to want something so bad that you don't even consider what the other person wants.

Did you stop to think about what she wants and desires? What would help her along her career path? Do you know the kind of future she envisions for herself? Can you provide that?

Lol.

Another mistake is you've fallen in love with what you see on TV. Celebrity or not, white lady or not, everyone's personality traits, character, financial and social status comes to bear when thinking about long term relationships.

Even if this lady agrees for you, do you know the kind of character or habits she may have that would drive you crazy?

FuckYouPorn:
Boss you get am. Her voice is killing and the Russian accent fits her.
That thick Russian accent in Black Widow was for her movie role. She's a proper British lady and has a lighter, more feminine voice. Just FYI.

I could go on.

Do you know anything about the hassles involved in dating a celebrity?

Lol

Check out your Hollywood superstars and find out how many of them have good marital relationships. They're actually way more effed up than we are in that regard.

Mehn, you're living in a bubble.

Get out of your head and face your life.
InvestmentRe: Giveaway Giveaway Giveaway!!! by DkJay: 11:42pm On Dec 01, 2021
Nawa o
BusinessRe: What To Do To Make Money Online? by DkJay:
Hm
BusinessRe: What To Do To Make Money Online? by DkJay:
shocked
Jokes EtcRe: Giveaway Thread by DkJay: 6:24am On Sep 23, 2021
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BusinessRe: ...... by DkJay: 7:45pm On Sep 17, 2021
Awinneralways:
Lol. You’re doing many things right and many more wrongly.

1. You’re playing the game backwards. The guys you take recommendations from on here regarding joints to visit, do you even know who they are? Some may be street urchins whose prayer point daily is to make it to your level.

2. Poverty and wealth are nothing but energy states. Wealth is a state of high energy and poverty is a state of low energy. Ejaculation on the other hand, involves depletion of energy. Do the math. This is another reason you hear people who abstain from sex or keep it at a bare minimum say things start to miraculously work in their Favour.

There is no way you will conserve all that energy and things won’t shake in your life. The dangerous risks you take to abuse sex right now are the kind of risks you will begin to take to be more successful if you flee from sexual abuse. These things happen unconsciously.

3. You’re not young but still quite young. This means your testosterone (T) would be raging right now and it’s not uncommon for most people of your age to be into different forms of sexual degeneracy. E.g masturbation and all sorts. This is where you differentiate yourself. If you abstain from what 99% are doing, you will surely produce different results.

Consider that raging T as a blessing rather than a curse because it’s what makes you a man. The more raging your T is, the more special you are because that’s your engine room for all kinds of achievement in life. That’s what gives you energy/power/motivation/good luck/ risk taking ability, boldness/ good vibe/ etc.

4. Sex with the wrong person can destroy you spiritually. Most prostitutes especially the ones in brothels engage in all sorts of voodoo and charms to protect themselves. Imagine sleeping with a witch? Do you really believe you would remain unscathed? I don’t care how successful you may seem, you could have been 10x more successful if you walk the narrow path.

Outwards success is usually different from inward success. You could look rich but deep inside you may be suffering from all sorts eg mental health, depression, sickness etc.

5. Bad habits are incremental in nature and so are good ones. If you abuse sex, it’s easier to be a smoker, a cultist, a druggie, a liar etc. Vice versa.

Remember how I said everything is all about energy state. The reason you feel as though you can’t let go is because of your current energy state. A low energy state brings along with it, all vices associated with that state e.g gambling, smoking, masturbation and all other forms of addiction.

A high energy state would make you have a natural disdain for all those vices.

6. In my years on earth so far, I have come to realize that the flesh and spirit have an inverse relationship. Whatever the flesh craves for, makes you weak spiritually and vice versa.

There are two things that strengthens the spirit like no other I have seen. These are abstinence from sex and deliberate starvation (fasting). It’s a mystery I cannot even begin to explain. These two things weaken the hold of the flesh over you.

If you think you’re blessed now, go for a month without sex , then come back and tell me what changes you have observed in your life with respect to luck, relationships with people, grace, Favour, spirituality etc.

Ask any confirmed yahoo plus boy you know, they will tell you that some people’s spirit cannot be locked and when they go back to their jazzman, it is usually recommended that they tempt such people with sexual sin and then their spirit becomes weak.

7. It’s true that relationships with Nigerian girls is a Herculean task but then again, would you let them drive you into the hands of strange women that may take your life? If a prostitute can do all what she does to herself, what do you think she will do to you?

Why not take the nonsense attitude of Nigerian girls as motivation to move out the country and meet other kinds of people that are way different instead of letting it drive you to your doom?
Would you destroy your life and future and then go to hell because of Nigerian girls?

8.Sex is meant to be an exchange. As you ejaculate into her, there is also something you’re meant to pick up from her vaginal secretion. In a case where you use condom always due to sex with prossies, you’re only loosing and not gaining.

9. It’s hard to live a straight life but that’s how you know it’s the right thing to do. Nothing good comes easy.

The choice is yours really, you can either live like one who is alive or live like a dead man walking.
I need to frame this answer and hang it on my wall.

You're too sensible, sir.
BusinessRe: See What I Found In My Kolo In Just A Month (pictures ) by DkJay: 1:40pm On Jul 03, 2021
iLegendd:
I went out with a female friend yesterday to see my carpenter and we saw 4 of those boxes at his shop. "Oh, I love this," she said. "Buy for me."

"How much, Oga?" I asked and he said it's 500 Naira each. We picked two for 1k.

Before we got home, I had stuffed mine with money (we went to the bank) — only 1k and 500 note are allowed.

I have never done this before, but decided to do it fun. I'll give my mom the box on the 30th of June, 2022.

My main money is always in Dollar or Pounds to avoid devaluation. I don't trust Naira, but lemme just do it for fun and have a story to tell.

Tips to readers:

If you want to be successful at what you do, have a time frame and it will build your discipline to keep you focused.

Have a "start date" and an "end date." Also, don't forget to have a "purpose" for the money.

This is one of the keys to success. A lot of people ignore it.
Hey, big man.

What platform do you keep your dollars and pounds and how do you fund it?

Is it a dorm account or a platform like PayPal?
TV/MoviesRe: Hot & Romance On My Birthday by DkJay: 5:52am On Jun 24, 2021
Foolish, foolish, foolish...
AdvertsRe: What Does A Man Who Made $100m In 23 Months Selling Have To Teach You? by DkJay: 6:19pm On Jun 23, 2021
Do you have the soft copy?
BusinessRe: Money Is Attracted To Value by DkJay: 5:55pm On Jun 23, 2021
@OP

So what's the value you have given from this small post of yours?
CelebritiesRe: Eucharia Anunobi's Becomes A PhD Holder (Picture) by DkJay: 6:54pm On Jun 22, 2021
Bring out her father let's hire some Hausa men to flog him.
FamilyRe: Mid Year Giveaway For Your Mom by DkJay:
Yum
FamilyRe: Mid Year Giveaway For Your Mom by DkJay: 4:25pm On Jun 21, 2021
igbowoman:
I am a mother and I love people who care for their moms and I imagine how it must hurt not to be able.

You must be unemployed to qualify.
It doesn't matter if you are Igbo,Yoruba or Fulani.
As long as as you are a regular poster and have not made any derogatory comments about Igbos you may qualify.

Using a dormant account with no recent posts disqualifies you.
I will look though.

The amount is 4k but you must give it as a gift to your beloved mom or any woman that is a mother figure in your life( for those whose mothers are late)

Make a post and tell me about that mom why I should pick you and if I do,I will ask you to send me an email.


Winners will be announced and money sent to account provided privately.
Mom is my first love. Breadwinner. School owner. Mother of a large family. Witty. Intelligent. Patient. Leader in church.

More things than I can mention here.
InvestmentRe: Access Bank Palava by DkJay: 9:07am On Jun 18, 2021
It's the same thing for me. I don't think the number means anything. I just ignore it.

When I had some ish in the bank early this year and the customer care service guy asked why there's an extra account there, I just told him that's how it has been.

He didn't seem to know anything about it either.

If you check the banking app, you'll see only your accounts there.

This happens only in USSD.
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Rate My Bros Work by DkJay:
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: My First Job Experience After School As A Lady. by DkJay: 12:28pm On Jun 07, 2021
BlackSan:
Oh that's good
Are you familiar with flex Job?
I actually applied for subscription Job
Because they pay well between $15 - 25$ per hour.
Although they are required procedures before giving the Job, my problem is Paypal
I don't have a PayPal account and you know it has been banned in Nigeria?
This country is really frustrating
Nah, this is the first time I'm hearing about Flex Jobs.

People create PayPal accounts different ways today, some are working; some are not.

I paid about 30k for a certain information material last year detailing how to get a stress-less PayPal account.

It involves you registering a company in the U. S. through a law firm. As a bonus, you get a fully verified Stripe and PayPal account that won't give you any trouble. All perfectly legal.

You don't have to worry about phone number or address because it shows up on your profile as that of the company.

I haven't created mine yet, cos I wanna think carefully about the brand I'm creating. Secondly, it costs about $700 to set it up.

I'll be looking at it in the future.

If you spend about thirty minutes on Nairaland, you'll find some information that would help you create a PayPal account, I'm sure.
FamilyRe: Men, What Could Warrant You To Hit A Woman? by DkJay: 9:34am On Jun 07, 2021
When I was younger, I did something that pissed my elder sister off, I don't remember what. She came after me, teeth and fist, tore my shirt. When I had taken all I could, I swung around and hit her. Just once.

When my dad heard of it, he woke me up that night. And flogged me senseless. That insulated cable used for running underground installations, he used it till it broke and the inner components were showing.

For every stroke of his hand, I got six to eight markings. My hand was swollen for a week afterwards.

He didn't ask whether she was the offender or not. I learned my lesson that night.

No matter the provocation, a man's not meant to hit a lady.

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