₦airaland Forum

Mynd44:
When he was broke in Nigeria, bro was not called a narcissist. But when she gain financial independent, it jumped out.

I am not saying the guy was not an abusive prick just wondering why she didn't leave him when they were both in Nigeria

kai.. Mynd77 u don talk my mind finish

Kobojunkie:
Huh? Who in the world did this to your brains, abeg?

Nothing do me.
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learn that Akwuna-ma-toto is a saying that means "don't worry, for the rest of your days"
Akwuna-ma-toto to you

Kobojunkie:
Fellow women wey no get name? Even the reports from your own Government sufficiently counter the claim, so how can such a claim be considered of substance without even names or data to back up the claim?

e pain this one

Kobojunkie:
I would ask you for a stat to prove this claim, which you make here, suggesting that most divorced women go on to become sidechicks. Where is the backing for this claim? An unnamed analyst makes a claim, and we are supposed to believe it is fact? Nonsense!

There is nothing Juju about it at all. If you reason it without biases coloring your view, you would see it yourself. Anyways, as for the reasons why some divorced women go on to become sidechicks, well, there are several:

➜ Society claims it is wrong to commit adultery, but then, rather than penalize the man and sidechick, lets them off, and in some cases, Society turns the blame on the wife for not being wifely enough or not having the prowess to protect her marriage from the other woman. All this is pressure placed on the wife, who now finds herself fighting depression, rejection, and also having to continue her wifely duties, all while the man and his sidechick continue to enjoy their lives as though nothing ever went wrong. Imagine a situation where even the man's family members receive gifts and entertain the sidechick behind the wife's back as though to say that they approve of the relationship, even as they continue to insist their son's wife continue to serve him judiciously in the home.
➜ Most Nigerian men treat their sidechicks so many times better than they treat their own wives. I mean, this ain't a hidden secret at all, as even very poor men are known to go out of their way to ensure their sidechicks are well fed before even their own children, talk less of their wives. The position of sidechick in Nigeria is so many times better than that of the wife, who, in many cases, is no more than a provider of free labor in the marriage.
➜ A sidechick has more opportunities for growth than a typical wife would have access to. A sidechick has greater control over her time and freedom than the average wife does, and for an ambitious woman, that is a benefit that is of great importance. Having the man while holding on to her independence is a valuable place to be in.
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Yes, there are lots of benefits to being a sidechick than a wife to a Nigerian man, that is why I believe a wife trading places with a sidechick is a sort of promotion, not a demotion, for a divorced woman.🥱🥱🥱

no be ur fellow women do the analysis?

Goodlady:
God forbid brokenness.
I m not of your level.

ah ah! no be diamond junction again?
na which evening u go dey there?
try comot today

Nackzy:
Are you sure because i aware of 5 Children that tuface has before the natasha saga

and so ? dem no dey with their various mama?
abi na 2face must put dem for one house?
and make I tell u, na 7 children him get.
Pero get 3
Sumbo born 2
Annie born 2
Natasha go add one in some months making 8 children
so na wetin u want make 2 face do?
pack all the 7/8 children come put for same house?

Na people wey dey use their money vote for this rubbish
I no fit pity person wey get misplaced priorities

Nackzy:
You can just imagine, he's gone astray, left his children

which one be he left his children
no be only one pikin annie born?
make una dey think sometimes

pain oh pain
oh pain ooooooo pain

omoredia:
Islam and democracy dont go together. Anybody that thinks of democracy to be compatible with islam is a joker

dem say na reeligyon of piiiiss

Jennyclay:
This judgement is not a fair judgment for just criticizing someone

And we have rapist everywhere walking freely especially in this country

d ones wey dey waka freely never sample u and i come d wonder

princeade86:
African and power drunk. Hmmmm.

Seun add the remaining characters

u for say Arabs

Sheuns:
This may be the beginning of the end to the administration of that president.

In ur dreams

Marriage of convenience because she hooked you with pregnancy.
the only regret i see is not being able to be active in ur children's life at that time.
any woman wey carry belle for me go born am waka
thank God for this generation now na only mumu dem dey use pregnancy hook.

Kdon2:
Nobody has monopply of madness. It's simple. You can't force your religion on people telling them accept or die and you think their won't be consequences

just 0.001 milligram of their own medicine and they are complaining

Walai:
Those miscreants no dey use eyes see fresh banny. As per UK babe wey she be, her body go fresh and they must definitely touch her or even kidnap her to their coven to exploite her their. So sad

are u saying dem for explore am chop?

amaridigital:
Tinubu lobbied for the Refinery to be built in Lagos state and you think a man like that would want to destroy such a company? Are you comparing Tinubu with IPOB destroyers? An investment worth over #40 Trillion?

Thank God dem no build this refinery for south east

Goodlady:
People set fantastically of.
Corrupt of people fantastically.
Fantastically corrupt set of people.

how i go take see u for the abuja wey u dey?

Sultana wey sabi contain Amu for mouth
oya seun complete d characters

43Ronin:
The shoe for jobless girlfriends of yahoo boys & OS

The services of jobless girlfriends and OS make the congo dynamics world go round.
how man for dey do?

Ilamina:
White people suck

They won't let me stalk them

Looks like I can only dream about them for now, later i won't

They are not that welcoming

e be like say u and mamagee3 carry d same DNA

Goodlady:
Say no to genocide, say no to hypocrisy

My sweetheart e don tey chai..
I bin d think of u when i been pass that ur side for Abuja.

Person wey be teacher for this country nor get future

HelenaWills:
I ran out of gas yesterday and wanted to go refill my 12.5KG cylinder.
Last I refilled was about #12,000, it was #950 per KG or thereabouts.

But yesterday, it took my "fine girl privilege" before I could refill at #2,500/KG in magodo.
The station didn't even sell to almost 80% of the intended buyers.

The price hasn't just skyrocketed in my area, people don't want to even sell.
Is it same in other locations?

PS.

Picture is lifted from the Internet.

Nice back... but not cuppy enough

OneCandleAway:
The oath she took only barrs her from men.
Not women.

na u come dey lick her plate?