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[quote author=Mynd_44]I have seen the PM you sent her already [/quote]Ha ha ha ha ha... I dont even have her as a follower or... I know you are indirectly telling me that's what you have done. But, it's ok cause it's approved. Lolzz [quote author=Mynd_44]I have seen the PM you sent her already [/quote]Ha ha ha ha ha... I dont even have her as a follower or... I know you are indirectly telling me that's what you have done. But, it's ok cause it's approved. Lolzz

abubello: so those rules and regulations should override ones religious injunctions? Why should a muslim girl who wants to cover her modesty be forced to expose her nak.edness to the public?

unclothedness? Are you kidding me? C'mon! Be real...

[quote author=Jaidey-one]Nice move!!! if hijabs would be allowed then traditionalists should also be allowed to wear their igbadi, ifunpa, onde to schools [/quote]Ha ha ha ha ha. .. Lngkm

[quote author=Mynd_44]Send yours first. I am sure Dmcdad is dying to get it[/quote]Ha ha ha ha ha... Guy na wa u ooo. She has made a friendly offer, why not act accordingly? Besides, I know say u...

^^^Lolzzz. Badt guy

To be candid with myself, I wouldnt want my father if I had the choice. Its not like anyone is a saint or something but... una no go understand.

But my mom? I would choose her over any woman a million times. She is a true mother and I have learnt a lot from her.

That's just me.

This is definitely a joke... Dang!

Hmmm... this one na really rough play ooo.

Anyways, me for one would not come out openly at first, neither would I take ages to act accordingly. If I were in your shoes, this is what I would do....

I hate to be suspicious about anyone cause I would definitely know whats cooking behind the door. Since my kinda person doesn't like worrying about anything that comes to mind, in order to get such thoughts off my mind, I would get to the bottom of it thereby satisfying my cravings. Now to the nitty-gritty...

Due to the fact that coming out to lay down your worries to her would make them change venue or location, and also act more carefully, that is if they have started, I would be stealth about my approach and try not to raise any obvious suspicion. I hate to spy on someone, but when it comes to this kinda pressing matters, then I would definitely go for the CCTV thing (although there are other ways I could get to catch every action but...) and keep my cool...

If what you brought to the fore is the truth, then I can bet something is already going on. Just keep your cool man and see how to catch them. if you go with questioning your wife she might deny and it would also prompt them to be more careful in their dealings and it might take ages for you to get them ever again. If you dont wanna go for the CCTV thing, you can use other means that would be functional and less obvious.

I pray God help you to get to the bottom of this and after you must have found out, whatever decision you take is up to you.

May God help you.

@op Ehya... I understand the frustration that must have befallen you but then, to be sincere with you, revenge won't make you feel better. The best way to handle situations like this is to pick yourself up and move on. I know it's sometimes hard to accept it this way because you feel you have been taken for a ride, but the ugly truth therein is that payback will never erase the stigma.

So, my advice for you is to walk away and leave everything where they are. I know it might be difficult to let go completely but then thats the best there is to do as any action taken other than that will be regretted, trust me!

Moreover, you sound like a good guy. Please dont let that good seed in you die becauee of one biatch that doesn't deserve you in the first place.

What goes around, comes around. In other words, whatsoever one sows, same shall be reaped. Leave her to karma.

I just don't know what is wrong with these guys. What's the foolishness about catalan or la masia players? They are beginning to prove that they have little or no vision in getting future players. I love this club but the people at the helm of power now are jokers cause they are just too short-sighted to look beyond their perimeters.

Anyways, I no go kill myself. if them like make them buy Reina and some worthless or meaningless players, they would have themselves to blame at the end.

Barca are always complaining of insufficient funds in buying players. Does that mean we are the poorest or among the poorest of clubs? Cause even average clubs spend up to 50million during summer re-enforcements much more a club like FCB.

I just tire for all those yèyè people wey dey that board.

teeo: The BIS has stopped working

Story....

[quote author=Mynd_44]I do my best[/quote]I hear you....

[quote author=Mynd_44]Nah.... You can have her. And what makes you think she knows me.

Have her and I wish you two happiness[/quote]Lolzzz.... You make me laugh bruv.

[quote author=Mynd_44]She wants you bro[/quote]Its obvious she wants you cause she barely knows me. Anywayz, lets share her then. You will have your turn and I will have mine. Lol

Whats your take on that?

[quote author=stargal_ameena]habaaa.y wud you say dat.dat wus harsh[/quote]Harsh? How? I just thought I should put things straight but it seems u didn't see it in that light..

Anywayz, sorry for that.

Why do I find this hard to comprehend? Or is it because they are all in caps...? Smh

I thought marriage was suppose to be for better or for worse... Correct me if I am wrong anywayz

Like mind would say... www.postithere.com

What do you do? Continue liking them... I think that would help you in the long run. Abi no be so? Abi wetin u dey expect as advice?

[quote author=stargal_ameena]hmmmm....somebody help oooooOO!!! i think am in love with Dmcdad and mynd44 [/quote]With whom are you in love with? Dmcdad? Mynd? Now I think thats mere fantasy. Stop fantasising and be real. Anywayz, I think Mynd has given the green-light, so... I think u guys are good to go

Lamba tinz

Like the above poster rightly stated, she is into you already. If i were u I would tell her point blank that, it seems she has chosen to live in the past rather than the present and with that I would move on with my life. Guy, there is no time or point waiting endlessly for a girl whom is indecisive. She should decide on what she wants, if she wants you good and fine and if not, move on. I bet she would run after you thereafter. Don't force her or something cause if she gives in outta conviction from you, she might run to the past at some point or the other when there is trouble between you guys. So, give her space. Lock up! No send her again, if she is really for you, she will come looking for you.

Abeg man pikin no go kill himself jare...

Exponental: If a woman is reluctant about marriage cos of honeymoon, she's not worth a wife.

I wonder oooo

aanumama: Say what you want, men are first on fish brain list
Who tell you eve was lured she's enjoying her self joor while adam dey siddon look,

So na so u see am? Ehya...

[quote author=Mynd_44]Half the time, ladies need to sort out their lives and not wait until they want to make a decisiom to sort it out.

If your life is complicated, make it easy. E hard?[/quote]What does she even mean by sort out their lives? Ohh! I get it. Their lives are always complicated as a result of them being confused all the time.. Is that it?

[quote author=Mynd_44]I meant I like a girl who takes the initiative. It shows that she knows what she wants unlike the kids around now.

But when it comes to divorce, do you think a woman should make the first move?[/quote]Well... I can never say yes to that and thats obviously because I for one am not in full support of divorce.

In as much as I like it when a woman knows when to be decisive in whatever that comes to the fore, yet on the part of divorce, I think a woman should be more patient and containing than a man in such grounds. I think a woman should more than the man put in more effort in salvaging whatever situation that is on ground and see how to turn the table since women are by nature home-makers.

But, if in extreme cases whereby the situation cannot be salvaged or its headed to the rocks such that saving it is almost impossible, then a woman should be able to opt out via a divorce.

Yet, I still think there is always need to bring about a truce whenever there is tension in the family because those times are the decisive moments that spell out how much someone has given to make something work out for good and how much they are willing to give to make sure they save it from crumbling.

Bottom-line is that, a woman shouldn't be too quick in filing for a divorce but should weigh her options more carefully and try to save the day by doing what can be done when necessary. Nevertheless, there are cases whereby a drastic decision has to be taken, in that case, she can go for it.

[quote author=Mynd_44]But it is annoying seeing them run around without brains[/quote]Yeah you are right. And believe me, even the married ones are becoming more brainless than their single counterparts. I just don't understand why most have decided to be less sensible than a chicken. Jeez! Smh...

[quote author=Mynd_44]If a girl makes the move to me, I would respect her and see her as matured cos she sees what she likes and goes for it. Inlike the kids out there who wait for miracles but no offence but what is your view if a girl makes the first move as regards divorce?[/quote]I don't get it. What do u mean make the move as regards divorce? Rephrase please...

You are yet to find a wife at that age? Honestly, something is obviously wrong with you. Please check on yourself thoroughly before u assert that there is no wife material available anymore.

I think the problem is with you and not the girls. Check well abeg

BabaAlabi: Rubbish...
Naija girls take off their panties for anything involving money....If extra cash is added they will take off the guy's boxers too.

Lolzz. As funny as it seems, its true.