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Tashamania: The break in transmission in the 'bolded didn't allow me get the full message

Cause I didn't want you to. You can take a shot in the dark of you like...

Truckpusher: Waiting for the love of my life to come back ,unfortunately this love will never come back.....but, i'll wait.

Even if u have to wait till eternity

Lol

Tashamania: You crave for qualities you ALREADY have in girl? Already have?
Sounds like greed to me. Nobody can be like you, you are you. And why do I get this feeling that such marriage would be so boring and one-sided? . I think its okay if we have a little mixing here.
Anyways, since you say the 'Core' qualities again and not all, I'll not crucify you and hell yeah what everyone looks out for. Nobody needs a 100% and nobody can get it. But if you do, then trust me, it is questionable.

Hmmm... To see it as greed would mean you never understood what i meant and as such had a misconception or rather a misinterpretation.

well, Let me justify my previous post.

You know, I always tell people not to always look out for what they dont have, in the sense that, very many people want a decent guy/girl whereas they themselves aint such. Some look out for a very intelligent partner or whatever it might be, but in reality they themselves lack such a quality. Now its not as if its bad to crave for something you don't have, the thing there is, a lot of people make it the core feature they crave for and are not ready themselves to be what they crave for in others... And, what happens with the saying; you attract what you are?? That is you attract your type. Now, in countering what I said, it would mean that you are not in support of that saying.

Anywayz, like I stated, there are core features a girl must share to make things work. There is no one i would be comfortable with someone who does things contra bonos more. There is no way I can deal with someone whom is not honest. There is virtually no way I could cope with someone that is not homely and down to earth. So, you see! These are just some amongst others

There are many more... These attributes are things I hold in high regard. So, what I stated in my previous post stands...

Tashamania: Just say you are "choosy"
I wonder the kind of gurl you are looking for that makes you think they are scarce. Remember, there's never a 100%

Besides, I am never looking out for a 100% kinda gurl because in reality there is none.

Just someone with the right mind and...

dlex21: Cos I've not met the gal that I'll willingly ditch chelsea's match just 2 be wiv her...

Lolzz... Wahala dey ooo

Tashamania: Just say you are "choosy"
I wonder the kind of gurl you are looking for that makes you think they are scarce. Remember, there's never a 100%

My dear, u don't get it. I don't date for the fun of it but to make out something good in our union. Since I look out for something reasonable, its only normal that I get someone that really suit me and not just any kinda girl..

Moreso, I only crave for qualities I know I have, although sometimes when i tell people the kinda attributes I look out for, people say they are too much and as such, I aint gonna find a girl with such. But the thing is, I only seek for things i know I already have and nothing more. That would invariably mean that my qualities are too much, that is judging by people's response.

Anywayz, if I can sure as heck find someone with the core features or values i crave for, then that'd be great and then I can help out in making the person grow in other areas. But, even to have someone with just the basics aint easy.

I hope u do see right through me...

byvan: No responsible girl in a good relationship will let go of her man and follow you.Try and find the single ones,they are everywhere.

Everywhere Seriously?

Barhackheart: lolz...@dmcdad

Na so na... You go form say coke dey make u purge.

uche16: there is a big difference between a broke man and a lazy man,i think you are all mixing it up.the broke guy doesnt want to be broke but situation has resized his pockets to the shape of a single naira note and ladies start spoiling yourself with your own and stop waiting for a guy to take you out before you go out............i mean must a guy buy you meatpie or whatever before you actually eat it.start thinking and spending independently,no wonder all nigerian girls are serial daters

Gbam!!!

I think 6 is best for me...

I no like coke... Besides, I go just rush my own finish.. Abi na u wan fall ur own hand?

Cause my kinda girlz are scarce...

charlesazeh: pls brodas, i need help..i have an iphone 3g 4.2.1, i cant install facebook and other apps.. please i need to have apps on my phone...make una help mi abeg ooo

Ahh! Wahala dey oooo. Majority of the apps have their minimum iOS requirement as iOS 4.3. Meanwhile, iPhone 3G can't be upgraded to iOS 4.3. My advice is, try and upgrade to an iPhone 3GS at least in order to continue to enjoy all or most of the benefits of iOS...

tomakint: I never knew there is a thread like this, now that I know will keep visiting from time to time

Good... You welcome bro

[quote author=frank3.16]you are making it sound like it is a must that if the man is broke say ten years into a relationship, then girl must also be broke and never earn anything, what role do u actually play in his broke years? how do you expect to recieve when u are not willing to give.

it is even wrong that you are putting his financial statues before anything.

why are u surprised that u are being judged? read ur post once again? ur post gives broke guys no chance for love. havnt u seen rich girls dating broke guys and making them rich? i guess in ur world such girl should be hanged.

these words coming from u does not make u nice at allllllllll. it also says alot about ur family background (no offence meant) only broke girls or rich spoilt girls talk like this.

well for ur information i have seen plenty broooooooke guys in sweet loving relationship. perhaps u should try it, then u will fins another side of love that u have never seen before. forget all these fake love u have been into, sometimes broke assed relationships gives u unexplainable comfort.[/quote]You got points broda... The lady definitely needs enlightment.

mariannlove: jst want to knw how possible this is. Someone once told me that he loves me with no reason.

Yes!!! Cant go in details now but, the reason comes in the form of attraction, but the love itself(real love) has no reason...

No one can help you... You are the one to help yourself by taking the bull by the forelock...

Creamish: Broke men are human and as human, they have as much rights are the rich. . . One man's meat is another man's poison. There will alwayz be a babe for dem. We all dont have equal money-making opportunities and one will not force a broke man into rituals just to satisfy a babe.

However, its not an excuse to lay on the roadside doing nuttn. . . He can always find sth doing to keep body n soul together as well as his pride.

Derz no rules to dating. It depends on what u want/ are okay with.

Wow... Thank God there is someone with a good head here...

Nice one girl...

HisRib: Do you guys think it's okay for a guy who has NO money to have a girldriend?

Let's be realistic for one second.

I don't think I could date someone who can't buy me beautiful roses here and there, take me to a nic restaurant during the weekend or spoil me with little gifts here and there.

I am not saying he has to be rich but he can't be broke. A man's gotta hold his own.

Jeez!!! Are you serious or you kidding

The fact that a guy is broke means he is not entitled to love and the likes? Well, I can bet my life on this that you don't know what love is.

Good and fine, I know money plays the role of enhancing things and making the relationship more colourful amongst other treats. But c'mon, money can never bring love and money ain't love. Despite the fact that a lot of people deceive themselves these days that they are in love and all, doesn't mean they are really in love but lust or some other feelings of sought.

The fact is, a guy might be broke today and be heavily boxed-up tomorrow, so there is no need to underrate anyone. Anyways, that is not to say u shouldn't watch out for someone with direction and focus. But never you write anyone off and the fact that a guy is broke is not to say he cant love and be loved.

One other thing that is worth mentioning is the fact that, if the guy is to take you out every now and then or every once in a while, when will you give such treat to the guy too? Oh I get it, you are the type that believes in the men-should-take-full-responsibility-of-all thing right And tomorrow if the guy misbehaves all we hear is whining and the likes... If you know what is good for you, work your patch and see how things go and stop depending on a guy alone. Besides, men respect u more if you are not all that dependent on them...

I think u need to be more logical in viewing things else you will make costly mistakes..

Maximus85: The thing is, I feel she's not saying the truth. I can't seem to see traces of any guy around her.

You feel she ain't saying the truth? And she doesn't wanna agree to your proposals? Then thats easy... Just let her go and forget about her. If she is really yours, she would come for you in total realization.

But, please and please, there are better things to do with your life rather than sit and wait for her to give u a favorable response. Stop wasting your time... Get on with someone else if possible. Its not really advisable to sit around in such fashion cause you might end up waiting till eternity.

And also, be careful not to be relegated to the dreaded friend-zone as a result of you waiting endlessly...

Daffydoc: @dmcdad... Abeg bro no vex. Am using a gevey unlocked phone, apple don show me pepper before, so I luv asking questions before I do anytin.

I get u bro... Sorry for the harshness...

Daffydoc: @suntemi .. Like how much data (mb) should I have on my phone before I proceed with saving the 6.1.3 shsh

Guy stop asking and start acting... It doesn't take up much(around an MB I guess)..

[quote author=soft-touch]Ahhhhh... Nothing wrong with your phone. It was Cydia that was sick... painfully any SHSH you can't see have gone forever.
Cydia has been caching invalid shsh signature for many devices, since release of iOS 6. Just like when Apple introduces APTicketing in iOS 5, most developer were sharp enough to notice the changes, but when iOS 6 came everyone thought Apple will follow same pattern.

For all 4s and i5 running on iOS6, shsh saving is useless, even if you got all iOS5 shsh for ur 4s, no way back.

Apple holds the joker this time.[/quote]Gbam!!! Your head is there...

Mehn... Its gonna be war. But I am optimistic we are gonna go through..

I just hope its gonna be Dortmund...

Mcleo007: Don't despair Bro. Messi is working hard to beat the clock. My bet is he'll play even if he's to come off the bench.

On the game vs PSG:

1. Its not a deadlock game that we must go all out for. The important thing is ball retention and possession. We need to keep the ball and frustrate the French.

2. If I am coach, I'll gamble on Bartra to partner Pique. The formation would be 4-2-3-1 with Song and Busi doing the double pivot protecting the back four. Valdes; Alves, Pique, Bartra, Alba; Song, Busquets; Xavi, Cesc, Iniesta; Villa.

You are right bro and I like your idea as regards the formation and the match line-up... It makes sense

Temi 23: Yes sir

Thanks for your understanding My Lady..

Shollypopz: There's nothing called "love @ first sight", my brother. Love is a verb, a decision.

God bless you jare... Ignorance wont allow a lot of people to comprehend...

Temi 23: Man, there is always love at first sight... If you have not experience it before then you wont know what it means.

You are wrong woman! I stand on what I stated above that there is nothing like love at first sight. What you did experience was attraction at first sight and not love...


Please be sure to know the difference between the two before you claim what is not in existence. Attraction lights the fire and ignites the passion and act as a fore-runner to the nitty-gritty which is love...

Attraction is the genesis because you might be attracted to someone for the person's look, personality, charisma, intelligence, you name it. But in reality, the aforementioned are not wht brings real love, at least not in the first day or moments..

Very many people confuse attraction/lust and likeness/love... These should be understood hook, line and sinker so as not to use one wrongly in the place of another.

There is nothing as Love at first sight

sunny t: Pls wat are the right things?

They simply like deceit, have u eva tried being honest to a gal? She will hate u for it

You are right... And thats why I stay away from girls. What most want (lies and deceit) are things I cant offer...