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Romance › Re: How To Answer A Gal That Says "All Guyz R by dmcdad: 2:52pm On Dec 16, 2012
What's the essence of this?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Corinthians Vs Chelsea (1 - 0) On 16th December 2012 by dmcdad: 2:48pm On Dec 16, 2012
chemashie: Did you buy this torres or sent as a gift? Iyam wondering....
Was given to Chelsea as a gift on x-mas.. Lmao
Romance › Re: Romance Section's Slum Book :P by dmcdad: 2:46pm On Dec 16, 2012
caseless: *gives him roasted corn*
Thankz a bunch... **Gives him a bottle of ice-cold h2O**

Loading mine.... 0-20% & counting...
Nairaland General › Re: Nairalanders Shud Help A Soul! by dmcdad: 2:18pm On Dec 16, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]Don't live there. But you can check the travel section[/quote]Exactly...
Romance › Re: My Brother S Wife Has Been Entising Me by dmcdad: 2:14pm On Dec 16, 2012
Nansense!
Romance › Re: Romance Section's Slum Book :P by dmcdad: 2:06pm On Dec 16, 2012
**Following**
Romance › Re: Am I Making A Mistake? Need Some Advice by dmcdad: 1:57pm On Dec 16, 2012
[quote author=miss-sweety86]Hey,

I need some help regarding my situation:

I've broken up with my ex about a month ago. I got tired of having to do all the work (calling, sending sms, asking for skype dates,...) and I felt my bf wasn't really loving me, making so many plans but never anything really involving him. I broke up because I didn't know what else to do. It was my last attempt to make him understand that his behavior wasn't right. We got engaged last february, but I already broke up with him in April because we were having issue.

Now I'm dating a new guy. He's a friend, I've known him since January when we were volunteering on a project together. He was pushing me to take a stand and do something with my bf. I kinda knew he wanted to date me but didn't want to face it. Right after I broke up with my ex he asked me out. And I said yes because I didn't want him to feel sad. I like him, and I thought maybe it would work. We have a lot in common and we have a similar way of thinking.

But I realized I don't feel the same than I did with my ex. I really like him, but I don't really feel the "thing". For example, last night he called me while I was sleeping. It just made me angry because I was sleeping, I didn't want to wake up and talk with him. But with my ex, even when he called me while I was sleeping, I still felt happy and wanted to talk to him even though it was late and I had to go to work in the next morning. I don't feel jealous when my bf told me he's seen some girls that were looking at him, but if my ex tells me he went to club then I'll just imagine things and get jealous whenever I see a picture of him with another girl.

So I'm wondering: am I forcing myself in that relationship? I want a relationship that works, and with my ex it was very complicated because we were in a long distance relationship. And we've had issues in the past, and it's difficult to imagine how we could be together in the future. With the new bf I think things will be much easier, but I'm scared I will still be thinking about my ex.

What do you think I should do? Please, give me some mature advice.[/quote]@bolded.. That was the genesis of your predicament...

Don't have much time to spare now, I would have told you what to do..

Well, I believe there are people that have better things to tell you. Just hang on.
Romance › Re: Am I Making A Mistake? Need Some Advice by dmcdad: 1:49pm On Dec 16, 2012
[quote author=190-the-clown]I'm not in the mood to-talk right now
Chelsea lost so I'm really pissed off
Wait for others to-advice you
[/quote]You neva c nofin! Chelsea is dead! Burial rites follow immediately. Lol
Romance › Re: Dangerous Reasons To Get Married... by dmcdad: 10:36am On Dec 16, 2012
tpia1: Whats the point of the thread?

Una nor dey tire undecided
Abeg help me ask...
Nairaland General › Re: Most Popular Guy & Girl on the Romance Section by dmcdad: 10:32am On Dec 16, 2012
chronique: DONT U GUYS THINK WE SHOULD LEAVE SEXKILLZ OUT? HE'S A MOD & MIGHT PROBABLY HAVE ADVANTAGE OVER OTHERS.
You are right...
Romance › Re: Am Sleeping With My Boss. by dmcdad: 10:30am On Dec 16, 2012
Please fellaz... Let's halt a bit with the scolding and inquire from the op the kinda help he's craving for..

@Op, you asked for help. What kinda help do u crave? So we know the kinda response to give...
Politics › Re: FG Drops Planned Refinery Projects ! by dmcdad: 5:52am On Dec 16, 2012
Kobojunkie: Stop looking to blame others . . .you elected these monkies into office expecting them to perform magic for you. Accept responsibility darn it!
Lol...
Politics › Re: Jonathan Continues To Impress!! by dmcdad: 11:48pm On Dec 15, 2012
[quote author=Sisi_Kill]I'm confused. . .which country did all this happen? huh[/quote]South Africa, cuz this is definitely not Nigeria, else we would have seen them...
Romance › Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by dmcdad: 11:29pm On Dec 15, 2012
k2039: You actually love struck, if he really loved you, he would have made sure you guys are married now, he wouuld have waited for you to say yes.

You feel he is not happy with his wife, I quite agree with that, what that means is just that you are just a option, he is using you to gratify his desires, you think he loves you, I know he is using you.

You siting on a time bomb that will explode soon, when he gets back fully with his wife then you will be in serious shi.t then.

Frankly, I just think you guys are strongly infatuated,because the LOVE I know is objective and sound enough to know when to leave.

With 100 percent certainity I can confidently tell you that he doesnt love you, but he is using you. A man will pretend and decieve a lady well enough just to get what he wants.
When he resolves his differences with his wife he will dump you.

I'm not giving any advice after this, I'm done advising you, it's up to you to take full responsibility for your life.
Gbam!!! I think it's redundant for me to give further comment on this.. I believe it has been trashed, except if u are yet to comprehend this hook, line and sinker.
Romance › Re: Which Of These Names Is More Appropriate To Females? by dmcdad: 8:01pm On Dec 15, 2012
**Following**
Romance › Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by dmcdad: 6:14pm On Dec 15, 2012
[quote author=femishosho@gmai]thank you for your advice people . i just wanted to hear other peoples opinions and it seems no one thinks he loves me which maybe true I'm just in denial.
but if he loves his wife then surely he wants to have sex with her , then why does he need me .which makes me think that it cant be all that he says it is. and sex is sex yes our relationship is based on sex but he can get that from her or any other woman why me
this is where i get our relationship side from because theres some connection there?!
to be honest i shared this because lately it has been playing on my conscience and it feels weird to call it an affair because i've never thought of it like that until lately.
2 weeks ago he tried to end it and sed we cant see each other but we cud be friends in the future even be friends with his wife which made me abit angry . i didn't really have a choice in the matter he decided .. then he comes back 9 days later wanting to carry on . im not easy to other men or have any other men but i cant say NO to him because wen we are together its a nice feeling.

i really appreciate all of you comments i know what i need todo but saying it is one thing doing it is another and theres always that problem of saying this is the last time every time you do it.
if he didn't love me then why wud he still be with me when he cud be with his wife. he hasnt said it but i thinks he loves her as a person but hes not happy with her. its bad but it nice and i do have a life and occupy myself so im not always thinking of him but at the end of the day when i come home it nice just to relax with him and i also feel like fair enough he's not my husband but its alot to throw away.

i DONT want her to find out that would be AWFUL and id never ever forgive myself. but i do wonder what shed say , i know she dosnt suspect because ive seen them out together and i get the vibe shes really inlove with him and believes everything he says to her .
if i didnt really like him i wouldnt do this with him id find sombody else but i do . and really dont think i can like anyone else as much and i have tried dating other men its not the same. and its true im not growing younger i should be thinking about who would want to marry me but i cant . we both dont end it wen we say we will, its so irrating[/quote]Busy now... Will tell u whats up when I'm done
Romance › Re: My Ex Is Dieing With Frustration. . .and She Desperately Wants Me Back! by dmcdad: 6:12pm On Dec 15, 2012
2sexy: she think say na home-boy I be. I be hard core business man. No time. As from January sef, she go hardly see me here to talk about my looks again.
No dy bother urself.. She dy front
Romance › Re: Her Sister Is More Beautiful! by dmcdad: 6:09pm On Dec 15, 2012
2sexy: I like dat and will replace d former in my dictionary. Mondi_cheeks don go my other thread again and go comment on my looks. I just tire for her ooo. make ina helep me beg her ooo. haba..
You knw say she dy trip na.. Buh she no wan cûm out plain.
Romance › Re: Her Sister Is More Beautiful! by dmcdad: 6:07pm On Dec 15, 2012
2sexy: I tire for her ooo. O boy any small thing, she go go dey peep on my profile picture and even dey Mastur/bate on top. She go just dey follow me everywhere.

She just dey make mouth... Okujwku no fine but Bianca marry am, no b so?

No mind anything wey woman tell you oooo. If you get heart like lion, them go follow you anywhere.

If you get money and even resemble monkey, dem go open for u.

U no go believe this. but e get one of my friend wey we finish ND togeda. So Total come employ am. wen total emply u, u go for like 10 months training, and after that training, dem pay dem like N 5 million . ,y broda Naija woman,many of them just want that money.

The bank staff wey see him account see the guy account, him name, phone number and the company wey pay d money.

U no go believe say this lady get mind control my guy and dem com go her house. my guy say na so dem talk so tey d next wey she do na to seduce ma ooo. she comot everything. The bobo no gree. Him just tell d chikala say him get fiancé.

Why him even share this tori with me be say na when him hear say the pimples destroyed babe wey I talk aboit dey fvck me up. Na him e tell me say y I dey kill myself because of girl. him come nack me d whoel tori.

As I dey talk sef, me and am go discuss my own job parole. maybe january . O boy leave all dis chikala to dey deceive demself.
Hmmm.. Wonder shall never end. Buh guy, u knw say wen d bar finally come, getting to find the true one no go dy easy o
Romance › Re: My Ex Is Dieing With Frustration. . .and She Desperately Wants Me Back! by dmcdad: 5:17pm On Dec 15, 2012
2sexy: babe, y cant u just leave me alone ehn? wetin I do u oooo.

Those pics u see where all taken in school. My school no beans u hear?
Lol... It is not a small sumtin.
Romance › Re: Her Sister Is More Beautiful! by dmcdad: 4:58pm On Dec 15, 2012
2sexy: see you... I can tell you that I am a fresh grad but already making more than those I graduated with just 3 months ago.... Lady, I have come a long way and it can only get better come 2013!


And let me also tell you that by 2013, I will be doing my NYSC, a time when most Nigerian graduates often referred to as the worst year of their life... but I will refer to it as the BEST year of my life. When money talks, bullshit works!
More preferably... When money talkz, bullshit runs the marathon..
Romance › Re: Her Sister Is More Beautiful! by dmcdad: 4:49pm On Dec 15, 2012
2sexy: Bro, no be my fault na... Mondi_Cheeks even they mock me say whether she give me back my money... you can imagine that coming from a woman. I had make her understand that, I have made back 100X what the girl got from me and as a result, she was the last bus stop and a road block for other girls. Because now, I prefer to spend that cash for my bele. no time. If you ask me how I take spend 80k, o boy I can't explain but the good thing is that , I no spend for any useless girl.

And on top of that, with the knowledge God has blessed me with, I will continue make that cash ceaselessly.
Amen!!!
Romance › Re: Her Sister Is More Beautiful! by dmcdad: 4:39pm On Dec 15, 2012
2sexy: for mind u think say u fine? abi? With money you go open tunnel. No time.
Y dis ur potential babe no wan free u na?
Romance › Re: Her Sister Is More Beautiful! by dmcdad: 4:36pm On Dec 15, 2012
2sexy: Bro, well spoken and God bless you. I would want to point out that I didn't just decide to not to look at her face on the basis of beauty alone; there is more to it. I could also summarise it as: There is a thin line between love and hate. Till date she does not believe that I could stay a day without call her because at that time, she felt she was controlling me. That was why she didnt ask for forgiveness till after 3 years( probably hoping that I will come back automatically). But as she beg me seriously nko,even in the name of God, I had no choice than to forgive her completely.

It is matter of someone laughing at your down fall and at the end, you find out that you have risen beyond where she left you and even looking better.

Besides, my purpose of going there was just to show off... it's about silent revenge and psychological torture and this is just the beginning.

I am only grateful to God for everything that I have achieved to this day, the people I have met both here and off it.


I am also not the kind that, if I really want serious relationship, lay more emphasis on the outward beauty. Even if the lady is a beautiful as a goddess and lack the intrinsic values that of my heart desires, she cant get anything from me. I am all for 70% values or inner beauty and 30% beauty. That is if I really want a serious relationship. But if na game I wan play, all that wan no matter.
Badt guy... Anywayz, nice one there..

Like what u said, frankly speaking, if I don't like someone, it would be very difficult to have a firm gaze at the person..

4 ur mind nw, na ur turn to yèyè her abi? Lol
Politics › Re: FG Drops Planned Refinery Projects ! by dmcdad: 2:34pm On Dec 15, 2012
emmysenior: I just typed this just to excercise my fingers...
Lol... Same here bruv. No be small tin o
Celebrities › Re: "I Will Consider Plastic Surgery If..." Omotola Jalade Ekeinde. by dmcdad: 2:18pm On Dec 15, 2012
Balderdash!
Romance › Re: Her Sister Is More Beautiful! by dmcdad: 12:45pm On Dec 15, 2012
k2039: dmcdad you already flogged this thread, the level of intelligence and wisdom you exhibit still amazes me, about time I subscribed to your school of thought.
Thanks for your benevolent and magnanimous words... Buh hey, you deserve as much as well, cuz you are very good...
Romance › Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by dmcdad: 10:04am On Dec 15, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]I know it is true but that she does not know how to cut the man off is amazing.[/quote]You should know she has been sunk into it that getting out is phantasm...
Romance › Re: Top 10 Relationship Advice To NIGERIAN GIRLS . . From 190 by dmcdad: 9:54am On Dec 15, 2012
jhydebaba: "190, Pls forgive ur 9ja girl friend and move on with ur life" (Sexkilz)


I commend u bro, no 9 got me rolling on the floor cuz I have tot of this severally.
@bolded.. That is a fact and not hoax.. I've confirmed it several times from many reliable sources
Romance › Re: Top 10 Relationship Advice To NIGERIAN GIRLS . . From 190 by dmcdad: 9:51am On Dec 15, 2012
Wow! Wait for haterz to come and bombard you.. Anywayz, I dey ur back.

Ladies plz, do not take this as a form of lambasting. Try to look at the positive side of this and not to read negative meaning into them..
Romance › Re: Her Sister Is More Beautiful! by dmcdad: 9:08am On Dec 15, 2012
^^You welcome... Anytime

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