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AdexOmoby: Thank u somuch...Dis is so so so so sweeet, coming from u!Thanks for ur prayers as well. God bless you
I most confess, I av a very successful relationship.
My elder sisters always wonder aw come, well, the truth is, dey made the mistakes and I watched dem and learnt frm deir mistakes.
Most importantly, its simply God. He says he is blessed av me, but I knw I am more blessed to have a man as him. I simply stand in awe of God!

I am really happy to hear that you are having a whale of time in your relationship. And for you to have taken the time to learn from your sisters' mistakes is very clever of you. You see, a lot of people have had experiences (both personal and impersonal), but the problem with them is that they fail to reflect upon such experiences because experience well reflected upon, is the best teacher. More-so, like you said, it was more of God's blessings to you and I am happy that you grabbed it with both hands and legs inclusive.Lol.

I pray both of you take it to the altar against any odd that might wanna stand in your way.

Take care and have a nice day.

AdexOmoby: Haaahahhahahahha...u are right though...I am absolutely enjoying my relationship ooo.He is simply the best, my best friend...We dnt hide stuffs frm each other and he's bin a great friend all thru the years. I simply stand in awe of God for making him the kind of man that he is and for giving him to me.Its one blessing I can never take for granted. I am enjoying my relationship o. Dough we have quarrels becz we are two diff pple coming together to form an entity, we are however quick to settle, learn from our mistakes, accepts our faults and move on....!

God bless the both of you.. I like it when I hear of successful relationships like yourz.. May God preserve the happiness both of you share.

tendercharles: @dmcdad....but u claim to be mature na..u'v said too much.

I claim to be mature? How much have I said that made you to say I have said too much...? You want me to allow people to make assertions for me without knowing me? C'mon! Don't be so naive.. You can only speak for yourself and what you feel. Why would someone that is ignorant of my kinda personality tell me that the way I chose to live my life (Being single and happy) is awkward? I mean, does it make sense to you?

tendercharles: those that want to remain single or prefer singleness dont av a sense of responsibility and wats d point postponing the day of evilwen of cus u intend to get married someday.

What do you mean by sense of responsibility? Are you insinuating that being single is synonymous to being irresponsible? Like for real? And what do you mean when you said "postponing the day of evil?"

The fact that one wants to get married means that one must be in a relationship even when you ain't ready to shoulder the marital cross? Or do you go into relationships just for the fun of it?

Let me ask you: What is your take on relationships?
What are your plans when you enter into any relationship?
Do you believe in abstinence?
Can you be faithful with a gurl that you hope to marry when you gives you the "NO SEX CONDITION?"

Answer those questions then I will know where to categorize you...

Thanks.

larrymoore: cheer bro! Check out time, l got to go to work now to avoid d fire.

Ok. Have a nice time

k2039: Big issues at that.

If we tell them that Love is a verb and that you choose to be in love and you choose not to, they will say we are mad. Frankly my honor is greater than my mood, feelings etc.

Most people dont even have control over their emotions that's why you see most of them spewing shi.t.

People who think and act with their heart instead of their mind.. How many of the people talking trash can be in a relationship without sex and have marriage planz? Instead of them to confess that they can't do without sex thats y they can't stay out of a relationship, they are here spilling shît...

[quote author=P4VS20][/quote]Bringing up cock and bull stories every now and then... Na wa to that gurl o

ChopUrMoni: I don't disagree with you BUT I'm certainly NOT one of them ladies... Thank God. I think as a Christian my culture is defined by the bible and if God doesnt say its wrong then... Why cant it be done? Anyway... I just think it should NOT be a taboo! If a woman wants to marry the man she loves there's no reason why she can't propose.
Yes because we have been taught that it's a mans responsibility... We are on here talking about this because we want a change of mindset and need to know WHY it's so wrong. Every one is saying "it's just wrong" but no valid reason... But "gender".
When it comes to equality i think men and women DO have different roles. But we are talking about LOVE... expression of LOVE should not be gender based.

Gbam!

sexkillz: [color=#000030]I'll wait till you heal. . .
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Lol.. Badt guy

larrymoore: dmcdad, mynd 44 and larrymoore, early morning derailers, 2hours ban.

Lol...

larrymoore: no hate my guy, we ar just been humour, knwin bettr in a hard way, mind u l ve been a nairalander since 2010, knwin u is my pleasure. Sometimes, we test one another' patient here, sorry my man

No hard feelings bruv... I try to avoid faceoffs with people both on and off-line... Despite Nl being a virtual place, I still respect myself & people to the core..

Anywayz, it's nice knowing you too. Thankz.

k2039: See me see trouble, this is a fallacious statement. Their are better things to give my precious time to for now, I have not even built myself well enough to be able to say I'm ready for a relationship, I must be a blessing to my partner and she also must be a blessing to me.

Besides I believe dating should be with the intent of getting married not just having fun, so finding the right person isn't even that easy on it's own, when the time comes I'll though, but for now I have a life to build.

Frankly, the reason why most people cry when they are heartbroken is because of this statement you made, what it simply means is that for one to be happy, one needs a partner, which is not true.

Responsible people understand that they are fully responsible for their happiness and comfortability, it has absolutely nothing to do with relationship status.

Gbam! Seriously, people have issues. Jeez!

cyril83: you talk as if singlehood is d best in life...for you have a dissapointment in your relationship doesn't mean you can't go into relationship anymore....why I shouldn't take you so seriuous is either you r a small boy or hailed from local environment...boredom kills, tell dat to your fellow cockies

WTF!!! Disappointment? That's ridiculous. Last time I checked, I was yet to face disappointment and still the last man standing that is yet to be heart-broken.

I sounded like a small boi? Like seriously? That's lame of you. I think you need to read majority of my posts so as to know the kinda stuff I'm made of (mentally, emotionally, psychologically and otherwise). If you are half as mature as I am, u won't ever make such silly assertions. Let me regale you.. You are yet to come across rare breeds like me. If you think I'm local becuz I'm hapi being single, then maybe u are suffering from mental deficiency... Don't make me to take it out on you. I hate to do so. Do u think u are half happy than myself? What is the reason for being in the relationship u are into? Surely! You are the type that believes that relationship is sex and vice-versa... Gosh! Plz, dnt test my patience more than this.. U dnt make truancy assertions on people u don't knw

[quote author=Mynd_44]Have you also changed your username? Cis he was asking me na[/quote]I wonder oo.. I don't knw why, I've gotten tempted too many times... People using insulting words on me, yet I try to spare them... Smh

larrymoore: chump! ve u changed ur name to mynd 44 lately? or u just want fame

Please respect yourself... I didn't insult you in any way. Y do u want to make a mountain out of a mole hill? Don't u think u are the one seeking attention? Try to be reasonable plz, I didn't say anything bad and stop the hate

[quote author=Mynd_44]he feels because he has been silly everyone else should be[/quote]Lol

[quote author=Mynd_44]You dey mind them?[/quote]I just dy wonder y dat guy dy question u on d matter.. Na wa o

davidylan: wow you must be a very unpleasant person. How old are you?

Lol..

[quote author=Mynd_44]The problrm is that a lot of ladies are drawn to the wrong men. They are drawn to men who might show maturity on the outside but on the inside are cavemen. Men who still hold on to the old notion that a woman has a place and the man has a place.

I don't blame the women because you attract who you are. The women also have that believe of what they should and should not do, what their duty is what it is not.

You see most women come here to say they can't propose because they alreasy see it as the job of their guy but this same women might come 2morrow to talk about gender equality.

Deep down they are also not matured enough to put themselves out there just like the men they are with are not so matured to accept a proposal from a woman. It is a crazy and vicious circle.

Sit back and watch them deny this.[/quote]You are very correct.. Let them come and deny it, I'm with you. We will sort it out with them...

[quote author=Mynd_44]I have not!!!!!![/quote]Is doing something silly a yardstick for falling in love or having a crush?

lalaosky: lmao...its romantic for real...the banned monikers re-created new ID's and were busy crying out the poor hearts at the derailers paradise like lost souls.itsmodella became WATABAMBAM(funniest name ever), oahray became something HORN, ikekings beacame KICHISO, binger became KYLE(e remain for him to put XY to become the actor even though he is as black as night)...aint that some romantic shit?...lwkmd..buwahahahaahahahh....

The most romantic thing i saw this year was one of the banned souls created an alternate account named SEXDNTKILL and ABSTENANCEKILLS just to prove how romantic h/she is to sexkillz...lwkmd.this section is so romantic, people gets banned for being romantic....buwahahahaha

Ha ha ha ha ha.. Lngkmj

izyrach: i must say dat u are nt saying d truth,cos dere is no one dat will he/she is single and and d person is comfortable

For ur info... I am comfortable. what makes u think its impossible to be single and hapi?

[quote author=Mynd_44]What is the big deal in asking a guy out anyway? I see nothing bad in it. It does not make a girl look cheap, instead it makes her look more matured as she knows what she wants and she goes out to get it[/quote]Gbam!

ignis: Am sure you are an arsenal fan.
Why not come to chelsea?

Chelsea that's already buried?

*Following*

larrymoore: Lad! Face ur study n stop viago n viagra. Why on earth would u bring such a dry n sour thread? Face ur study, l repeat! Go to d ant n learn its way!

Lol... Copying and Pasting... Smh.

lalaosky: 190 and hardon?....*grabs a seat*

my most memorable romantic moment this year is getting banned by SK.it feels so romantic.ask 17 other imantes like me

Lwtmb

I've not done anything that can be regarded as silly cuz of a crush..

I seldom act silly general, come what may.

ivy5: Pls I need a boyfriend I am so lonely[color=#770077][/color]

Lol.. Try again

P4VS20: 1. u were naive enough to allow your relatives to bang u., where you 5? or 12? wth!. u allowed em, why didn't u report?
2. they were married too u know
3. if u were wiser, we all wouldn't be having this discussion with u.

or u think nairalanders were born yesterday

We are yet toddlers...

Blackbody20: you've being scammed bro.

So u mean say the gurl dy do am yahoo-yahoo?