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Romance › Re: His Facebook Girlfriend Dont Want To Leave His House by dmcdad: 10:40pm On Nov 29, 2012
P4VS20: she talk pidgin sha! lmao! first she couldn't read it, now she writes it. What a miraculous transformation.

(clapping) ..... shaking head too.
Guy! Miracle still dy happen o
Romance › Re: His Facebook Girlfriend Dont Want To Leave His House by dmcdad: 10:40pm On Nov 29, 2012
poshdiva: No Time!
i don talk
i don comot
Ohh! U even sabi yan pidgin sef.. See levelz o
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 5:02pm On Nov 28, 2012
aribisala0: I recommend you google the expression

HOW WAS YOUR NIGHT?
I did buh couldn't find any contradiction to the expression.
Romance › Re: After 1 Year, She Said Yes But....... by dmcdad: 4:30pm On Nov 28, 2012
webizone: Over sense dey worry am. If we no fit beat am, we fit use am make money well from fellow gamers. *winks*
Na so...
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 4:13pm On Nov 28, 2012
War Horse: I am shocked that many Nigerian see the question "How was your night?" a problem. I use it a lot and I am yet to come across objections. I fell in love with that question when I heard kenny Rogers' song "She believes in me". In the song, Kenny just came back from a stay-out-late-at-night-and-play-my-song and his lady woke up "and quietly she says how was your night?". Was he expecting Kenny to say he had bad or good fun making---love with his guitar? Why do some Nigerian think rotten all the time?

may be we should stop saying good night :

because not everybody is married!
because not everybody is in good terms with their mate!
because not everybody enjoys s..e..x!
because the word night means s..e..x!
because some literate illiterates are Nigerians

Please, is it also bad ti tell someone "Have a nice night?"

Nice and good, are they synonyms ?- I mean like saying nice food or good food? any thing wrong with that? huh
Ur head dy there jaré
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 4:07pm On Nov 28, 2012
aribisala0: Most people are not complaining about grammar but they find it too intrusive . There has to be some basis for what seems to cross a certain social boundary. If someone spends the night as your guest it may be appropriate or even among friends but at work it seems inappropriate. As far as grammar goes there it is a nonissue
I understand you and I made it clear in one of my previous posts that, like slangs and jargons, it can be used informally buh should be avoided in formal settings like in corporate organisations or even unfamiliar people..

The way some people are taking it, it seems it's even a sin. Lol
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 3:53pm On Nov 28, 2012
aribisala0: There is nothing Grammatically wrong with the expression "how was your night?" What rule exactly is it that is breached in that question?
You do not know what you are talking about!! You do not make your case by citing other examples of solecisms. WHAT EXACTLY is wrong with "HOW WAS YOUR NIGHT?"
We should distinguish social proprietariness from grammar. As far as grammar is concerned one may ask
"how was your day,morning night,week month year? etc" No harm done.

Actually Language is very distinct from Math Formualae and nobody climbed Mount Sinai and came down with any tablet prohibiting "How was your night" tell us EXACTLY which rule has been broken in this troublesome expression.

I fail to see the relevance here of your "Ice Cream " lecture .
You see! This is my point. If one may ask questions like; how was ur day? How was the party? How was ur examination? How are your family members faring? What then is wrong with "how was your night?" (at least grammatically speaking). If this question is wrong grammatically, then the aforementioned questions must be wrong too.. I don't know why people term it as bad english. People have different perception with the way they see it but that doesn't make wrong.

There are even people who take the word "goodbye" as offensive. Them dy feel say u mean say dm no go come bk again or something like that...
Romance › Re: What Do Girls Do When They Like A Guy by dmcdad: 3:21pm On Nov 28, 2012
etudaddy: one very wowo girl just meet me one day tell me say she like me oo. Oboy i stayed 3day for hospital
Ahan! The thing make u enta coma?
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 3:14pm On Nov 28, 2012
aribisala0: By the time dem give you answer you sef go regret say you ask

You: How was ya nite?
Mama Francis: em My nite? Hmm You sef know say for our area the transformer don blow so no light and Papa Francis no gree me rest. Me I no dey like to do if no fan.Anyway heat is too much and the noise from our other neighbour generator is too much. Because of Papa Francis wahala I say make Francis come sleep with us but small time I just wake up Francis don piss for bed. Imagine 7years old still dey piss. Our neighbour say make I carry am go see.............,,

You : Okay Mama Francis we go talk later (hurries off)

Mama Francis : Neighbour Come I never Talk wetin Papa Francis do naa.....
Lol...
Romance › Re: His Facebook Girlfriend Dont Want To Leave His House by dmcdad: 3:04pm On Nov 28, 2012
P4VS20: i see say she no talk again
As in ehn...
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 2:58pm On Nov 28, 2012
aribisala0: Yes it is Nigerian English coined by Nigerians you are absolutely right.
Does that make it "bad English"
Do Nigerians have a right to coin expressions using English words just like
Americans,Australians,Canadians,New Zealanders etc
Is it Colo Mentality when we condemn our selves but gleefully adopt expressions
like "for crying out loud" or the moronic "that's lame" or "what's cooking" etc
By the way "what is wrong is wrong" is another Nigerianism grin grin
Thank you for that... British owns english buh 2day we have British english, american english, australian english, south african english and even international english, just to mention a few. If these other countries can have their own version, what stops Nigeria? I am being taken aback when people complain about Nigeria having certain terms or phrases. Is english not our ligua-franca? Infact! The American version of english has nearly taken over britain. Central London is where one is certain he can get (the queen's english or received pronunciation)..

So, make them leave all those ones wey dm dy talk about Nigerians bringing their own version or whatever
Romance › Re: Nigerian Guys Are Obsessed Of Nigerian Girls by dmcdad: 2:46pm On Nov 28, 2012
ItsModella: blah blah blah...get the f*ck off if it's lame, I'm sure you were not forced to comment.
I never meant to make u feel bad.. Buh, you are now being rude. It's all good sha
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 2:35pm On Nov 28, 2012
aribisala0: Lame??
You are not very bright are you? really?
Is that what you think? Don't you think that word has several meanings aside the adjectival meaning?

Lame(leym) noun - Someone who doesn't understand what is going on.
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad:
aribisala0:
That verbs are not transitional indicate Non-language -ness??

Sometimes when we are silent we conceal ignorance and speak to remove all doubt.
Have you ever studied language at all. What makes your language "NATIVE" ?? I weep for the black man really.
It is clear you have absolutely no knowledge of linguistics and you come here PRONOUNCING with the certainty of the ignorant. There is a world of difference between translation and transliteration and I suggest you study that. Finally all languages have their peculiarities and there are many thoughts ideas in different languages that simply cannot be translated because embedded within the language are also ideas on worldview which are often unique and this is reflected in idioms such as ; Fi owo mewa jeun(Yoruba) Transliteration = Eat with ten fingers. Asian languages serve their people e.g Chinese quite well and do not have these "INGREDIENTS" that you talk about.
Y do u treat issues from mid-way instead of starting it at one end? That's lame. Did u read the post I responded to? If you did, u'll discover why I brought that up about transitional verbs. I brought it up to elucidate my point to him that translations are not always correct because he translated "how was ur 9t" to yoruba and said it sounded somehow.. So, try to take things from the omega so you can understand hook, line and sinker. Capiché?
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 2:19pm On Nov 28, 2012
sleekshedy: If his night is none of your business, his family should also be none of your business. Dem tell you sey na every oyibo sabi English language? Talk Less the once you see on construction sites.
All those ones no b white oo. Whites/Caucasians are Americans and/or Europeans. All those lebanese, chinese, indians and d rest no b white o. Besides, I don chat with 1 American woman b4 wey tell me say I write english far more than halve the entire America. So c'mon, no b by white jhor
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 2:12pm On Nov 28, 2012
[quote author=N_girl]I never thought about it like this. I've never really liked the question though I don't think there's anything wrong with it. Maybe the woman cheated on her husband the night before and her concience is pricking her so she didn't want anybody to remind her of the incident....if not I think it's quite unnecessary for anyone to read meaning into a question as simple as that..[/quote]No mind her.. I actually use that line buh, whenever I use it, its usually followed with "I hope u had a pleasant rest" to let u know I was concerned about ur 9t rest and no other thing.
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 2:07pm On Nov 28, 2012
sleekshedy: Even though I don't do It, to me it's the same as asking someone, how was your day?
Exactly! If 4 any reason it's bad, then how was ur day will b bad 2
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 2:05pm On Nov 28, 2012
nagoma: nonsence!So it is not a greeting , it is a question and after we finished greeting each other you still want to know how my night was? So sorrry but it doesnt make sense to me at all.
WTF! Do u regard that as a greeting? Like 4 real? Jeez! Thats way too lame. Which means "how was ur day?" would be regarded as a greeting, right? C'mon! Dnt be so naive
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 1:54pm On Nov 28, 2012
flops: Indeed it is not entirely wrong since the English language is a mix of different languages and slangs but it is more appropriate between
people who are not ordinary colleagues.

I personally don't use it because think its a bit wrong.

But if asked, a simple "fine thanks" works. no need to give any details.

One thing to try is to translate it to your own language and see how it sounds.

Yoruba would be "Bawo ni ale yin" doesnt sound right....
@bold... That was why I said "formal settings"

If u wanna talk about native language interpretations, u'll agree with me that most translations are not really correct cuz our native languages lack certain ingredients that makes up a language. Take for instance, in our languages, verbs dont change from present to past or vice-versa. Ex: I went to the Church, yesterday & I will go to the Church for prayerz. Plz, translate these statements to yoruba. The essence of this is to let you knw that, the verbs "go/went" will maintain "ló" in yoruba. That is to say, u can seldom get the actual translation when dealing with our native languages. Don't you agree with me?
Romance › Re: Help!!!girls That Demand For Money by dmcdad: 1:41pm On Nov 28, 2012
2sexy: yeah based on school things na.. but since I am don with school and back home, we go hook up.
Badt guy...
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 1:38pm On Nov 28, 2012
aribisala0: No need to ask Professors they do not create Languages and a phrase or word exists the moment it has several subscribers. It might be annoying but it does "EXIST" and we need to we wary of the Colo Mentality that prescribes language being disseminated from the top down. Languages NEVER stand still and keep evolving.Take the word GAY for example it means something completely different today and those so called PROFESSORS had to surrender to the change.

Just as they resent What's up,What's cooking,popping etc those are all recognizable forms of greeting. Language is a servant not a Master and its users always change it to meet their needs.

By the way ,, How was ya last nite??
God bless u jare.. Na by Prof?
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad:
nagoma: What is it then? An Inquest?
It's just a question.. And that's why it comes after any form of greeting. Can u see someone in the morning and the first thing to emanates from your mouth is "how was ur night?" without the usual greeting? Surely u must have greeted each other first
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by dmcdad: 1:31pm On Nov 28, 2012
[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Guiltyhuh[/quote]Of what?
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 1:27pm On Nov 28, 2012
flops: The question is awkward and sometimes it is simply inappropriate between ordinary acquaintances
and office colleagues.

I have searched English greetings on the internet and asked Professors and
the answer is the same, such a greeting does not exist.

Its better to simply ask "how are you" or "how do you do".

If one must ask such a question, then its between family members or close relatives or people who live in the same house,
Ideally then you can answer how your night was. ( if it was bad, you can explain why)

If of you ask any other person, it cannot be answered properly.

I believe its one of those Nigerian terms that although generally used,
are grammatically wrong.

e.g mr. X is "not on seat"
or "I met his absence"
Slangs and Jargons are part of the english language. Do u know that? Buh they are not accepted in formal settings. That could apply here too. U can say it shouldn't be used in formal settings buh that doesn't make it entirely wrong. Don't you agree?
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 1:20pm On Nov 28, 2012
mrscolite: LOL! It a non issue to me. How was ur night? Oh it was fine,thank u. No one is asking u for details like oh I slept nnakedd or whatever.
I think the lady was sorta frustrated and snapped or maybe the guy bn eyeing her& she doesn't like the attention. undecided

Some people don't even like a simple HOW ARE U? It demeaning to them huh So u can't pls everyone. Maybe nigerians at home should just skip all greetings and just ask R U OK? grin *fry pan to fire* tongue
You wan cuz trouble abi? Go ask person "are u ok?" weda no b curses e go rain put 4 ur head weda na u dm send... Lol

we 9jerians knw how 2 read silly meanings 2 tinz
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 1:16pm On Nov 28, 2012
AdoreKIZITO: Some1 asked me the same question this morning, so i was very anoyed becos he reminded me of my unpleasant night rest.. Pls, Don't ask that question to some1 who slept uner the bridge......
Lol
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 1:16pm On Nov 28, 2012
kennytidistar: YOU GUYS AND GALS SHOULD KNOW THAT NIGHT IS VERY CONFIDENTIAL, MORE OVER THE NIGHT IS DARK AND NOBODY SEEE ANYTHING SO SEVERAL THINGS MAY HAD HAPPEN AT NIGHT UNKNOWN EVEN TO THE PERSON YOU ARE ASKING.
Even in the day.. Can u actually take cognizance of everything that happens during the day? Don't you see that question as a remark.. The thing is, how was the 9t 2 u? (general remark)..
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 1:13pm On Nov 28, 2012
nagoma: "How is your night?" is not an english greeting and there is no answer to it. "Good morning" is the standard english greeeting and the reply is "good morning".

I dont know where Nigerians got that from. I dislike and always ignore that probing nonsensical greeting/question.
WTH! Who say its a form of greeting?
Nairaland General › Re: What Is Wrong In Asking Someone "How Was Your Night?" by dmcdad: 1:10pm On Nov 28, 2012
Nah... I've thought this through and through and I can affirm that, there is certainly nothing wrong with that line; "how was ur nite?"

This is used to get a general remark of how it did go. If some proposes that it's wrong, then questions like: how was the party?, how was your day?, etc would be wrong too. The fact is, people usually make mountains out of mole-hills. Dnt be surprised that, that same woman can be be greeted "good morning" and she'll respond with "what's good about the morning?"

i no knw wetin dy bite many pple sef. Even tho say sumtin dy wrong with d statement, buh she undastand d reply wey d guy want. Y not just answer "fine" or "my 9t was good" blah blah blah
Romance › Re: After 1 Year, She Said Yes But....... by dmcdad: 12:43pm On Nov 28, 2012
webizone: Eis. E don do. Abro, abeg dump these girls come make we play ps3 together. I wan get pes 2013. Omo, na d bomb!
Ehen? E make sense wella?
Romance › Re: His Facebook Girlfriend Dont Want To Leave His House by dmcdad: 12:37pm On Nov 28, 2012
lefulefu: my brother poshdiva na correct ajepako.make u look her face nah.dat one na proper warri ajepako babe wey dey form jardon grin grin grin grin grin
Since we fire her, she don run o
Romance › Re: When Your Partner Is Addicted To BBM, 2go, Whatsapp Et Al. by dmcdad: 12:34pm On Nov 28, 2012
sleekshedy: A bad girl will always be a bad girl, even her name is goodness.
Lol... Na by name? If na by name, everybody go dy answer saint na

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