₦airaland Forum

victorian: Hello guys and babes, am here again but unsure ... my employees, two females want to matchmake me with, one her elder brother who is single and wants a good wife and the other her uncle whose wife died after one yr of marriage through natural causes and he has been wary of women... they introduced them to me , on different occassions in the guise of consulting. Then later, they both came to me differently that their brother and uncle like me and will i please think abt dating them. the two of them do not know they asking me of the same request. Although, I like the uncle of the 2nd one, but is it ok?
i feel abit shy, sha for my workers to get a guy in their family to marry me....is right ?...pls matured answers, abeg.

My dear there is nothing wrong with it at all.. There are different ways we are meant to meet the ones we will eventually spend the rest of our lives with. There is no special route or place or wherever and however we are meant to meet live partners. You should be glad. The fact that these gurls are wanting to hook you up with their family members means alot to your reputation and it means they know you to be the perfect type for their sibling or whoever. Actaully we all have flaws so its accepted when you say you aint really as perfect as one may think. Anywayz, try as much as you can to get to know them in-toto (that is individually) and choose wisely.. Wish you all the best...

190: Its very common with Nigerian girls


When you outsmart them - they get pissed
When you don't give them money - they get pissed
Don't take them shopping - pissed
Tell them the-truth- see vex


We association of Nigerian men are tired!

That is ehn... No be lie abeg. Virtually everything get them pissed and stuffs like that. Like you said, if you tell the truth, that one na the worst. NA wa ooo

petokey: That most relationships fail not because of the absence of love, but because;
(a) Women love too much
(B) Men care too less.

Nah.... Neither of them is correct

Ericmillion: Absolute nonesense,i wud neva think of gettin married to such a person.

I dey mad ni...?

Duduconfirm: How do you view marriage is it a necessity, tradition, all or none of the above

Marriage is neither of the two.

Likewise... Nt seen 19th yet

dabrake: dey there dey talk your own. Nigerians go rush the 666 sotey, them no go get ink to inscribe 666 again. Satan sef go dey beg us sey e don do.

@topic, I even plan having the arsenal badge tattoo on my right arm

Ha ha ha ha ha... Badt guyz na im u b. Na there u go c wey boiz dey chance eachother for line say I 1st u come (to collect 666 o). Lmao

Exponental: Keep asking her for sex (if truly she is a born again as claimed), tell her no sex, no money. She go waka..... But if she doesnt mind, she is a pretender, she can ruin u. Talk 2 ur legs!

Lol.. Badt guy

Manweysabi: No, i'm no longer with her... 'Told her she's too demanding, got pissed off and left, and i ranaway frm her *4ever*

Thank God for ur life bruv... **Happy**

andyanders: complete truth. With celebrities, Yes, but any sensible human being should know that it is even wayward to see a man or woman having tatoos as normal person.

As in ehn... It doesn't speak well of a person at all.. Two core values; moral and spiritual values are dead. There is degradation on the ethics of the society also. God help us all

REALITY101: Don't worry about it bro, the world is ending next month anyway. There're way too many Virgin Angels to be fu cked

lol

abrahkyn: Hell no as the sight of tattoo gives me the impression of irresponsibility on the part of whoever that applies it and there won't be room for verification. Civilisation has eroded our core values and many won't see anything wrong with it.

God bless u... Society norms changes incessantly buh people forget that God's standards remains the same.. This civilisation and modernisation thing is killing us in almost every sphere of life and is bringing about moral decadence...

ambrosini593: Tatoos seems to have negative feelings in Nigeria. Seeing people with tatoos as rough, dangerous and ill-mannered. Will you marry a man or woman that has tatoos all over? Let's hear from you

Frankly speaking, my kinda gurl doesnt think about it let alone stamp it. Nah!

binger: Quite creative...buh many won't understand what u are driving at

Because they have shallow minds. @op, nice one jare

teewai27: I know a lot of pple are still hung on their exes so hopefully this topic will make it easier for you to move on.

what do you wish you could tell your ex in one sentence.

eg..how you like me now?
...I told you id find someone better
...I miss you
...I hate you
i'm still in love with you...

etc

just let it out pple. it'd be fun to keep it all i'm one sentence though.

I'll go first...naturally :-)

YOU DIDN'T KEEP YOUR PROMISE TO ME BUT I FORGIVE YOU. :-)

Would tell her being single is better of...

onila: hehe

naija men are too wild n rough

All? Or most? Plz lets be rational and considerate in our assessment

sexyzeeno: Hi peeps! How long does heartbreak last? Its been 6months I broke up wit my guy n I find it difficult to move on n most especially every guy I meet complans dat I nag. Pls wat do I do?

What u must do? Continue living in the past and remain single forever.. One thing with most gurlz is; after a heart break or something, they tend to pour out all the frustrations on the next guy in-line and constantly compare and contrast them evry now and then. The thing is, if u continue like this, u will never last with anyone (no be swear) unless u let the past remain in the past and go on ahead with life as a new being. The ball is in ur court; dwell in the past and remain unfulfilled relationship-wise or let go of the past and be fully disposed to give in ur best in present relationships and watch the turn-around.

Manweysabi: Hooked up with this girl couple of days ago. I thought i've found HER. But i realised that each time we see each other, she go wan kill me with demands and complains. And she's a born again fah!

Dey there make pant dey wear u.. Born again kor, born twice ni

Ucheosefoh: I hope u are nt trying to present women folks as saints mind u it takes 2 to tangle and no smoke without fire btw 4rm ur posts and threads it seems u are having problem in ur relationship becos I read where u mention dat ur bf was disappoint with u when u could nt make love to him after promising to do so and that ur former classmate has been on ur neck asking u out even when u told him u have a bf sometimes u guys kiss but he want more which u have nt let him have access 2 and now he no longer care so my dear I know what u are up to but u need 2 stop showing ur frustration here cus nobody care

Ha ha ha ha ha ga ga ga ga ga.. Badt guy

holladele: Folks, it is possible. But for me, I just need to spend sometime with that lady and understand her very well. Thereafter, surpass her and outsmart her. Smartness and brilliance comes through power of knowledge that is relevant to the society. With my God-given potential, I believe, I will meet and overtake her. Simple!

I believe u bruv.. To be frank with u, it would be very difficult(almost impossible) for ANY gurl to outsmart me cuz of my kind of intelligence and vast knowledge in almost all spheres of life

MaisseD: Oh oh, so u agree dat men are dogs. One point noted. When u say women are chicken s**t to know when a man is truthful or not,then u fail to take cognisance of the fact dat men are also chicken s**t when they are duped by 419's. The point is,u never know when a smart guy is out for d kill,except u av meta-physical powers. A man could spend 4 days a week wit u for two years,just to keep enjoying wats between ur legs. He will go to d extent of introducing u to his family and friends. Call u all d time,and he knows he aint 4 real. Y don't u guys act dis way instead,meet a girl,tell her u like her and u wnt to spend most time wit her,but u re not looking toward marriage @ all. U guys should say it straight from d onset,rather than acting like born liars

Quote me anywhere gurl.. Gurlz(most) are dummies and will neva stop being dummies. The fact is, I dont do those things, infact! I dnt have time for gurlz let alone act awkwardly buh the thing is even though sometimes I feel most men are unfair with them, other times I feel they deserve it. If gurlz knw guys are bad, y not they be without a guy so u dont face all those trash? And if a gurl can't b without a guy and yet she complains when she has one, it means she is too chicken-shi*t to work her patch. Gosh! @op, dnt you have a guy? Is he not a perfect epitome of what you complained? And if he is, why are u still with him?

1ndidi2: Holes? Really? Hmmm! I give up

you should understand.. I dont do those shi*ts but thats what they are

dabrake: dude, any guy who would rather spend on his girl than on his guy should be in the grave. One thing that will never change is that your guy will never abandon you in times of trouble/need. You get it? FYI, my tightest paddy's birthday was last month and he didn't have anything to celebrate it. I personally made his day worth it.

Nice 1 bruv... Holes will come and go buh ur buddy remains 4 life. I no dy play with my guyz o

Easy miss... U seem infuriated with the way things are going especially with the men. The thing is, in as much as I agree with you that men are guilty as charged, I think the women are also guilty as much as the men, because you failed to take cognizance of the fact that women are too chicken-shi*t to know when a man is truthful or not. Infact! If you ask me, the women are more guilty because most of them know quite well that men are dogs (just as they say) and yet cling to the dogs, making themselves bitches. Well, I dont have to write much. We all know the reality

2goodbobo: The rate of ladies protruding belle now is really a cause for concern. In every 10girls you see, 7out of them get big belle. Naija gurls make una try develop exercising mentality na. Imagine how d belle go increase after dem come born pikin

Abeg help me tell them o. After them go say naija women dy fat cuz of rest of mind. Imagine! Na them get rest of mind reach their oyinbo counterparts?

SELFWORTH: Not on NL. Even when they are virgins , the gutter men will claim they have sleep with 40 women so they can appear cool! Please look elsewhere.

Buh even at that, it ain't all male nairalanderz. Personally, I knw I have never wrote anything ar regards sleeping with anyone

[quote author=Nwa-oma]Because there are no virgin men anywhere!! It is amazing how men who have lived their whole lives jumping from one woman to the other end up looking for virgin wives! Who will marry all those holes you ve been digging?? I tire for u oooo[/quote]Who says there ain't virgin-males?

[quote author=Felix_L]No I am not. NL is for me just an english big and fast all-in-one forum where I can find always something of interest. Check my profile.

OnlineDating seems to be more serious at my place. They learned, do better scam-checks. I got enough from it.[/quote]I see.. I thought as much. Anywayz, hope you learnt ur lessons

martfrank: Can you go out/marry a girl that is far more brilliant,intelligent than you.

Sure I can.. Buh frankly, it would hard 2 see a gurl that would outsmart me in terms of intelligence cuz I've got lots of it. Anywayz, if I find someone like that, her intelligence won't stop anything

Whats up with the lucky thing? I cant term any of the two to be luckier than the other