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binger: Another one? Wait! What a coincidence...I was also born on 19th Nov...whats the plan??

Lol... Are you sure this ain't hoax? I am real about this.. I am 19th for real

phineboy1pimple: Are U sure U can handle it?... Its nt about finding sum1 who'll b willing to agree 2 such a relationship bt U accepting d terms...

Can any sane naija man continue in a relationship knwn fully well that he's nt d only 1 nackn his FINEASSCHICK?... Hmnnnn...

Lol... Nope definitely. I was only kidding. My kinda person forbids that entirely. I cant even imagine that in my wildest of dreamz. Infact! I'd rather remain single for the rest of my miserable life. Lol. I stayed as a single for 4 years and I am telling you that its still great with me, but to stay in an open relationship for a week knowing fully well that the one I call mine is exposed to sexual adventure with the rest of the world, no way!!! So, if I can find that fine-ass-chic and she ain't crappy, then its me and her for life... Lol

Open relationship kor, closed relationship ni

MRbrownJAY: frustration comes with the territory, because most women are like that.....but the fact that you rather focus on the negative stuff that women bring to a union instead of also putting in the balance the POSITIVE stuff that they also bring, is the reason why you will always fail in this subject. yes some women are just a waste of space and energy........but if you can find the proper one then your life can only be better. the important point is to know what you want and search for it, not settling for less, and when you find that gem, then ENJOY!!!!

if you RESPECT your partner, TRUST your partner, are fully COMFORTABLE with your partner and only want THE BEST for your partner, then an open r/ship is not that bad of a deal, so long as you have it in you. remember that it goes both ways, as much freedom as she gives you, is the same freedom that she will get.

Yeah... Its just ridiculous.

binger: That's good of you,dude.i understand.but there are so many things involved and i dont think anyone is ready to see this to the end

Yeah thats correct. I probably didnt think outside of the box before now...

MRbrownJAY: if you have an open r/ship, then you cant "stumble" upon your partner because you fully well know whats going on, and if you REACT or feel JEALOUS then it is a clear sign that you are not READY or EMOTIONALLY STRONG enough to be in an open r/ship....remember not everyone has what it take in the guts to be in such r/ship......its all about your emotional strength. if you know that your partner is lacking, and you cant give them what they desire/require in the bedroom, then let them go and get it elsewhere instead of having them be miserable for the rest of their natural lives because of YOUR LACKING STATUS. a miserable being is not good for any family/unit!



bro, i am sorry to say that being single is the worst possible state in life (no offense to you)...... yes its better to be single than with the wrong person, but it will NEVER make being single better than having a caring and loving partner. ALSO, you have to remember that people who are in open r/ships are NOT forced into them, they CHOOSE to enter such r/ship on their own accord because thats what's best for them at the time, and they are very happy with it. so again, it is ALL about what works for you as an individual. if you'd rather be single, then fair enough, i wont look down on what you want in life, to each their own!



sadly you dont understand the mechanics of open r/ships. how can you call it multitasking, when you simply meet a person "sometimes" and have a good time with them, before going back home and be with your partner? is that so difficult to do? how gifted must one be to dedicate a few hrs a week to a lover?

the important question any of you must ask yourself IS: if you love your partner and have a few kids together, but sadly after a few yrs of relationship (or marriage) the satisfaction is not there any longer, what would you suggest a person do?

Hmm... I see. Well, I really don't fancy the frustration that alot of gurlz bring into a relationship that is why I'd rather remain single. Anywayz, I think I might try it in the future, that is if I find someone who could live with the possibilities of being in an open relationship... Just to feel what its like..

phineboy1pimple: When U said U r "Single n Proud", do U mean U dnt ve a gf/bf?.... If U do, r U completely faithful to d relationship? Dnt U tink its OK if both parties ve an agreement on seeing oda ppl rather doing it secretly?

It means I do not have a gurl friend... If I were to be in a relationship, then its faithfulness to the core. That is my blueprint for keeping my loyalty intact.

[quote author=Mynd_44]I am just messing with you man. Noting serious[/quote]No p

Kennyinusa: cool, [/b]

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Hope that you are high on enery because to me you aint. And there isn't really somethng like mate, because if he is better than you then he would always be better, so the best thing i can say to you is to just take it upon yourself to be better and then set your long terms and sort terms target and [b]always, always [color=#006600][/color]make sure that you meet them.

Do not set outrageous target for yourself and always remember that there is always time for improvemenet as nobody is perfect and some people would always be better than you do. Just develop yourself and do not kill yourself

Java Rocks

Thanks bruv..

[quote author=Mynd_44]Toad face[/quote]Lol. Guy na wa to you ooo. I just joked over something and the next you could type was NONSENSE.. I mean, thats absurd.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Toad face[/quote]Lol. Guy na wa to you ooo. I just joked over something and the next you could type was NONSENSE I mean, thats absurd.

[quote author=gree-die]beans guy. Lol[/quote]Lmao...

[quote author=Mynd_44]Nonsense[/quote]scallywag

[quote author=Mynd_44]She was referring to me[/quote]Yeah sowie.. It was after responding I realised it wasnt for me... No worry we no dey drag her na for you full time... Lol

[quote author=gree-die]im just wondering too.... Do you do guys? [/quote]Ehn! I dey mad ni? I dey run from gurls na guyz I go come go for? When I no dey mental... Instead of doing guyz make I dey sleep for Ashawo house...Lol

[quote author=gree-die]hmmm... Na so you hate me reach?[/quote]Ehn! If I hear... I love you from the buttocks of my yansh... Lol

[quote author=gree-die]hell no! I dont do girls! Yuck[/quote]Ohh! I was just wondering.... lol

binger: Union ko...reunion ni...Believe me when i say the whole thing will begin and end online:-)

Yeah you are right.. But just trying to make something good come out from our ghost friendship on here...

[quote author=gree-die]nope. I have a boyfriend and my boyfriend has a girlfriend... We are part of the 10%. Lol[/quote]Lol.... I can deduce that since your boyfriend has a gurlfriend, you also have a gurlfriend for yourself... Right? Becos we know trust again. Lmmfao

1ndidi2: Its because of our traditional attires, they need the tummy so that the ankara/george can sit comfortably and balance well on their bodies.
Those of us without big tummies look funny/scraggly wearing those attires

You should be glad you dont have a big tummy. It makes them look kinda old

sigmainfo: You need to update yourself by reading and doing technical experiments. Also you can understand more once you start talking small projects.

No one will upgrade your skills.

You can go for an online tutorial as well.

I have countless e-books and even a video tutorial. Just hoping to see someone that shares the same passion with me and as such would want to do more of bringing practical ideas on what to do...

[quote author=Mynd_44]You are gonna need serious support plus how can this be a re-union?[/quote]Hmm.. Not necessarily a re-union, more like a union although I don't know if such has happened before.

ThiefOfHearts: You are making a generalized statement about Nigerian women in general, how is one not to take it personally?

Even to using insulting words? Haba! We are sharing ideas here and if you are able to give me convincing reasons why you think its like that maybe it would help me think it differently. Dont you think? Not to use insulting words. You know for sure if it were alot of other people they won't react to your insults lightly, but then, I just hope you see that its not worth it

I would really love to have someone that I can upgrade my Java programming skills with...

Joe50: of course...

Please end me the source codes of some of your applications so that I can build on them and get more acquainted with it also.. d.mcdad@yahoo.com

sammykaffy: Anyone interested in
visual basic programming language?

I am interested. I have a foundational knowledge of it already

[quote author=J ø $ h ù á]Hi everybody, i just recently started android programming, and saw how easy it was. i would love to help anyone who is also interested in android begin.[/quote]That will be great. I have the necessary tools already. I do know VB, C, JAVA to some extent. I think I will like to join the moving train...

I have Android SDK, I have Eclipse cos thats what I use in writing java codes, etc

What language do you wish to learn? Anywayz, I will advice you to learn C first and after that you can go to Java... C gives you the basic foundation in learning Java

Sequel to this post Romance Section Reunion In London This December!! I thought we could get to organize something like this. What do you guyz think about this idea If Yes, then how do we go with the planning

If you were born in November, drop your date and lets see if there are possibilities in hooking up with out birthday mates...

It might be fun getting your birthday mate and who knows, you might get to hang out together on that fithful day...

Mine is 19th..

MRbrownJAY: many people are clueless about the pleasures of an open r/ship, so let me educate you all on the matter:
- FIRST and foremost, you should understand that being in an open r/ship does NOT mean that you both should go out and fukc as many people as you want, but simply that you guys are open minded enough to understand that you cant please your partner fully, and therefore you let them fully indulge in what they desire in life. yes, you can be in a r/ship with such person, as whatever "extra" they have is nothing but some spice in their lives, and nothingmore.

- SECOND, being in an open r/ship allow people discover themselves FULLY, rather than being zombies like many are in r/ships. it is not easy to be honest with your partner OR with yourself. many of you lot should try it someday. how many of you have OPENLY told your partner about the fantasies that you guys have?! if you have the audacity to come here and claim that you aint got any fantasies that i suggest you go lie to someone who believe your crap.
if your wife would like to try being with another woman, then let her indulge in it and DISCOVER HERSELF, instead of enslaving her.
i'd rather know who my partner really is and let her be HERSELF than living with a pretending ZOMBIE.

- THIRD, is it the action that scares most of you lot away, OR is it the fact that someone may actually do a better job than you?! i certainly understand why so many are turned off by their now baby whale of a wife (or pot belly bveast of a husband)......and if there is no chemistry any longer, then an open r/ship is recommended by Dr MBJ.

- FOURTH, if you CANT satisfy your partner, but yet LOVE THEM very much, what else but an open r/ship do you propose?! or do you think that they should be sexually miserable for the rest of their natural lives?

- FIFTH, many men will gladly cheat, but look down on the fact that their wives could possibly do the same thing. many people cheat on their spouse simply because they are NO MORE ATTRACTED to her, yet the simplest thing to do would be to let HER do the same thing in an open r/ship......... but sadly it is never the case as most men's ego is in the way.....while gladly fukcing their secretary.

- LAST BUT NOT LEAST, why be single when you can have a very understanding partner?! makes no sense!

I am single and proud. Are you insinuating that being in an open relationship is better of than being single? HELL NO!!! You see! Everyone has its own way of treating and reacting to certain issues.. Anywayz, thats just your logomach.

You are welcome potential friend

[quote author=gree-die]Married men, fathers![/quote]Ehen..? You for example abi?