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Joliecoco: Are you willing to marry an African Ameircan man or woman and what will your African parents say if you decide to marry and AA person?

junnymercy: Straight from the heart.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and everything was looking right. He is older than me so we have touch on marriage and we basically waiting for the right time since im still in school. He is very ready and settled and for him the only thing left is a wife. Me on the other hand still have school and also my parents are not expecting me to get married soon since im still in school. Since we already knew that our relationship will lead to marriage, we have had sex several times; but as a Christian the conviction came and I told him no more sex for now. That's when the fight happened and now we on the verge of breaking up because of this. I am not going to compromise because this isn't really about me but my relationship with God. I am trying to make right all my wrongs and I feel like he is not supporting me. Pls what should I do. I really love this guy and would hate to see our relationship go down the drain because of sex.

Thanks

phineboy1pimple: Just too tasking n demanding of too much attention n time...

phineboy1pimple: Man go out there n get ursef one jaree.... There loads of them out there...

phineboy1pimple: Mad hustle... Haven't really had time 4 mesef n all these hotnfineass chics.....

phineboy1pimple: U won't b askin moi this if U had a fun filled thrilling seeking n outgoing kinda girl 4 a chic...

phineboy1pimple: Sup man?... What's seleing?

phineboy1pimple:


Not surprised... If ma memory serves me rite, U still are very Single....


Not surprised... If ma memory serves me rite, U still are very Single....

phineboy1pimple: Fridays as we all know is the beginning of a "rest period" so to speak in many homes n people's lives.....

Some spend their Friday nites clubbing, movies, parties, chilling at home n et al...

How do U spend yours?


What's d most outrageously wildest Fridays U've ever had?...

Mind sharing?

WackyJ1: Yes this is a very good question. lets be factual, assume that as women say, men are dogs, they are liars and they like cheating, what about the women that open their leg and allow them to enter in between , if women closed their legs would men continue to bother them? if they closed their legs no matter the kind of money and attention they receive would the men that are cheating see where to cheat?
Okay then you say it is a weak argument for me to blame the cheating nature of men on women but answer this? can dogs be dogs in this sense without bitches, if there are no bitches or if one dog for one bitch would we be hearing of cheating?

okay now your next argument would probably be this, the guys are cheating with single women and probably the women don't know, my reply is this, how many women are really single out there, forget all this ones that some nairaland ladies will come and talk here that they are single and happily so, how single are they really? ( those ones are busy keeping one guy around and are not officially in a relationship and as such are 'single so to speak). if guys are really chasing after girls then very few girls will be single, in a normal neighborhood or close environment you find yourself, if a guys can be hanging onto as few as two girls then for like 10 guys there are 20 girls who have a boyfriend, then this means that the girls that other guys cheat with also have boyfriends, except all guys are trying to cheat with the same batch of single girls (which are few in number) then if this true then what i have said repeats itself again plus from what i have observed girls never really stay single for long, if all i have said is true the guys are cheating on their babes with girls who have boyfriends and if you want to say that some girls don't know then you are also saying that those girls do not have the sense to know when they don't have the full attention of their supposed man and i'm sure their pride will not let them admit it.

so in summary, all blame should not be on men alone, dogs cannot be dogs without bitches being bitches and if a guys goes and is sleeping around with 3 different babes a week, and those babes have boyfriends (girls don't like being alone plus boys are always on their necks for dating) then girls cheat almost as much if not more

amyg: Dat is ehn

ayobase: Sometimes in the middle of the night!

amyg: E tire u abi?but u should b happy nah,guys r incharge

vivian chinaza: Fallacy!

Are you trying to tell me that most people who got their hearts broken went into a relationship for the wrong reasons? This is myopic!

k2039: Your comment made 100% sense
I just ordered some beer for you,it will arrive in no time in your apartment.

candygosh: Dunno if they are but u should be throwing the buffday bash tinz. Dnt tell me we dnt get to see any show. Lol

onila: Why do girls think a guy should keep a convo going...? It takes 2 people to have a conversation, not one. #smh

unecesarily quiet bitc-hes thatsthatshitIdontlike

omotola1: This is normally done at wedding reception.
Very disgusting!

1ndidi2: I know its long,just hear me out,thanks.


Sarah is a girlfriend I met during my service year, we call,chat on bbm and facebook occasionally. One day she pinged me and said her elder brother would love to chat wit me,I agreed and since then we became friends even though he has never seen me except my picture. He also calls/texts me(normal paroles). Anyway he wants 2 meet me someday and startup something though he is aware that I have a man! Now one day at the early stage of our acquaintance he called and asked why I hadn't been online for some days and I answered that my subscription had expired! He didn't even waste time, he sent me credit for my bis! When I received it i did the 'yimu' mouth sign, smiled and said: see this mugu! . A couple of seconds later I hated myself 4 that thought/gesture, I mean d guy was just being good to me,someone he has never met nor has any guarantee of meeting!! WhY would I just hate on him like that? Why would I have such a pathetic thought about him?

It got me thinking,

ladies, I don't know if its our nature or nurture that programmed us this way, But I feel that despite all the sad issues about our men(we aren't saints either), they are also surprisingly nice(I mean check d little things they do for us like@busparks,market,churches,parties and all that. They are more considerate than us,don't u think? trying to please us @every oPportunity they get! Do you think he doesn't know that you are "chopping" him? he ain't that stupid-yet d guy keeps pleasing you? I mean think about it for a second! Why are we getting carried away with the "I get sense pass u" game? We think they do not know,but they know that we do not know that they know!! So who is winning the game? Whether they have ulterior motives or not(just be nice wise and not wicked wise) Most guys indeed are reeeeally awesome...that he spends on you anyhow doesn't mean he is gullible- it just might be that he has a good heart/generous nature! If I were a man,I'd feel terrible about myself if one damsel I admire is calling me that name or something worse!! let's not turn d goodness of their hearts into labeling them as MUGUs... I know I have been guilty of that notion,but I've decided to stop,its really not fair to them. Nice guys please do not change for no Ms wrong. Keep being nice till u meet Ms right.

To those I might have called that name- ndo e ma binu

blink182: them lie before? You be confirmed mugu, otondo white fowl. See the way your write up timid self.

Seriously, you no sabi ask for sex abi u no sabi where socket de? You just de deceive yourself say you no wan lash. My friend go and blow all the gbuzuazo. Na so you go do marry, ordinary phuck u no go sabi.

candygosh: As much as am not nov born, am so not missing in this show.
My friends are nov born, 6th, and two 19th.
So where the parrie at!! Lol