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Beync: if I did sweep u off, u shud be letting me into ur inner most secrets 'ur bank details'

Who says I wasnt ready to spill the bean? You never bothered to ask in the first place....

Beync: op have u got other suggestions these aren't working

These aren't working? You used it on me and it worked really fine. What else do you crave for after sweeping me off my feet?

Beync: me on d floor doing wat? U r even stubborn to do d sweeping. Get to work already.

Why won't I do the sweeping when you refused to do the sweeping? Abi you no dey sweep for houz? Lol

Beync: can anyone sweep off my feet now that am not wearing shoes

There is no need. You are already on the floor. Lol

gilmaro: In a situation where your girls sexual appetite is stronger than yours, and though u've been trying to meet up. Will you marry such girl as an offshore worker ??

Lol... If you marry her, you will be her husband less times than other people will be her husband because you wont need a prophet to tell you that she wont be able to keep herself with your kinda job

Tribalism is one big issue with Nigerians and that's the more reason I predict Nigeria will never be united (not being pessimistic) because different tribal groups discriminate each other. Anywayz, if the guy really loves you as much as you do to him, then I think there is a way things could still work out for the both of you. This is not so common with males as you seldom hear men being given restriction on certain places to marry or not, its always common with females. Anywayz, the guy should make his parents see reasons, after all what have they got to loose? the family name remains the same so personally I dont see reasons why they should be perturbed about this. Well, if you really love him and wont wont want to loose him, I guess you should put it in your prayerz (If its God's will then nothing shall stand in your way despite the hurdle) and also try to convince the guy to stand his ground and make his parents see reasons with his decision. If all effort proves abortive, then I will advice you to move on with life. Meanwhile, since its like this at this juncture, prepare your mind to face your fate if you try the above and it fails to work.

I wish you well my dear...

I think its true to some extent. From what I have noticed, ladies always have an Achilles heel on their ex and I dont really know why. They might not love the person or want to be with the person anymore, but they always fall especially when it comes to a ONE NIGHT STAND situation... I dont really know whats with them..

phineboy1pimple: I guess d high level of unfaithfulness is d reason Y its gradually becoming a phenomenon...

Dnt U tink...

Yeah! And its gradually becoming a norm...

ID69: Mine wont even have any key at all....very quiet.

Ehen... That is your own go dey off-key be that. Lolz

sanb: I agree with you on your point below...

Thank you.... Lolz

roymary: NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE NOT ROMANTIC.

THEIR IDEA OF ROMANCE IS AWWWWKWARD...REAL TALK

God bless you...

sanb: Lol at the point below.... You still need to remember that there are good ladies out there so you don't have to feel as if you're going to get a heart break all the time from a lady.

In essence, there’s no need for guys to always prove stubborn to the tactics and strategies the lady might use to sweep him off his feet....

Sure there are some good ladies as there are also some good guys but the thing is that they are not easy to come by. And the chances of finding a good lady amongst the crowd is kinda minimal you will agree with me. Thats the more reason why one have to be very careful in falling for their tricks.

gregtochi: maybe, but I need u to tell me if that is wrong, ie is when you have no erotic feelings attached.

Guy! Firstly, in this part of the world, we seldom use the word "LOVE" and secondly, for you to use it to refer to a man, I think it goes more than just the eyes meet.. Capiche?

lefulefu: hope say u remember dat oyibo proverb wey say if u dey rome make u behave like romans,if u dey russia make u behave like russians and if u dey madagascar make u behave like the madagascans.for oyibo land the oyibo women go fall in love with u for who u are and not wetin u get but for naija a naija babe go only love u for the amount of money wey dey ur bank account and the number of pepper soup joint and fast food joint wey u take her .na so e be for naija ooo

Gbam!!! Tell her...

sanb: Okay..Nice. But in this 21st century there's nothing wrong for a guy to be swept off his feet by a lady. I agree with you on the point below...

Yeah! There is nothing definitely wrong with it. The thing is that, guyz are weary of gurls that is why they might not want to be swept off their feet which will mean that he has fallen for the gurl hook, line and sinker and as such he might be afraid of getting heart break from the gurl. So, thats why they can prove so stubborn to all the tactics or strategies the gurl might be using...

sanb: I just had to laugh at the comments here from Guys...oh dear... You guys ain’t smiling and it’s obvious that a lady can’t use these 3 points (which I think were okay) to sweep you off your feet. Then ladies are in trouble and ladies ain’t smiling too.

For the guys that have commented, what exactly can a lady do to sweep you off your feet if I may ask

I don't need to be swept off my feet. I just need a gurl to be herself and be unique in her own way. Thats all!

ThiefOfHearts: maybe you should date your fellow man. <b>If you dont have the SENSE</b> NOT to compare the body of a man to that of a woman considering you have more testosterone than we do and we have more estrogen than <b>you should consider homosexuality and leave women alone</b>.

6 pack ko. 6 abs ni. who dash monkeys. pot bellies everywhere like Papa Ajasco and they wanna talk about other people.

My dear, the fact that we have freedom of speech doesn't warrant you to be insulting. I just aired what I felt and besides, I wasn't talking about the nature of women as against that of women, all I am trying to point out is the fact that they care less about their physique especially when it comes to doing work-outs and stuffs like that. So, I would really appreciate it if you do not take this personal. Besides, if you are talking about someone like me having pot belly, then maybe I will have to drop my facebook id to you so you can see for yourself....

Try as much as you can not to take certain things too personal. Capiche?

Beync: why na? i no follow u again

Lol... I dey fear you ni. You na badt gurlz. Lmao

Jasmine Jetz: :DMeeeeee! My tummy is so flat,I can take in A big bowl of eba and banga soup,two cups of rice and beans,a small tuber of yam,popcorn and icecream,and it still remains flat and I still remain thin,6 packs all the way,that's why I havent.......in skul

Ahh! Make God no carry person like you give me ooooo. Else, I go just run leave you. Lol

cork2011: 190, with all due respect We feel sorry for your parents, particularly your mother.

Wasting 9 months of one's life to ultimately bring an imbecile into this world must take a toll on one's senses.


Do Not Mess With The Corks

Ha ha ha ha ha ga ga ga ga ga... Me sef dey wonder who dis 190 of a guy be sef cos ehn!..... I no fit talk infact..

Beync: thank God o

Thank God for you too ooo. But, I no really trust this your follow-up. Na skimming

Beync: u r too much

Lol... Na God

rkout4luv: Thanks....@dmcdad Right now am not sure if I would be able to tolerate that..... I see her trying to make effort to change but like you said its just her nature. I dont want to believe she is really begging because of $$$ because she has been with me in my struggling days and even now that she knows my worth, she has never demanded anything from me...

Ehya.... That kinda gurl happens to be my kinda gurl cus I dont really fancy having a social gurl... Well, everyone with what works for them. Since you are not comfortable with her that way, its settled.

phineboy1pimple: Yea I guess.....


On a 2nd tot, y do U fink its seen as normal with "oyibos" n Americans?

Mind you, its not normal among the whites. Despite the fact that its getting common among them doesnt make it normal. Its just as a result of high rate of infidelity.... Its like the way they go about divorcing themselves like hell, its still cos of unfaithfulness among spouses.

Beync: gentle man

Sure now... I am proud to be a gentleman and not just a gentleman but a good one with mouth-watering qualities.... Lolz

cindyrella: Different strokes for different folks!

Sure thing!

Beync: who tell you say no me and him hey now as I hey type this?

Him say na my stubborness I take sweep him legs fall for ground.

Ehen! I for say. Na una stubborness dey even make me run from una sef... Make una carry una wahala go

rapmike: abeg no use dog name beg me, i no go answer......lolz
but seriously, i think its time ppl generally begin to understand certain things.
u cant expect to be sexually loose all ur life and get a virgib guy and age 40 and be comfaortably happy.
dont expext to marry a good man when u dont even have simple courtesy (to other ppl, not to him).
and please dont expect a good man if u
1. dont know how to cook and dont want to learn
2. dont know how to encourage and help him achieve a lot in life.
3. dont have an eye for the future( that is the problem with most of these gals)
4.dont know how to take care of the house
5. and[b]MOST IMPORTANTLY U DO NOT KNOW GOD.[/b]
of course if u can learn these things( if u are young enough to or patient enough), then u still hav hope.but if not please respect urself and live a peaceful single life, COS MOST OF THE TIME, THAT IS WAT U WILL GET

There is one thing I dont fail to ask God for, and that thing is; as I have kept myself intact and remain a good guy, no woman will reap what she never sowed. In that, no woman will inherit a good guy like me after living a wayward life, cos that will be cheating of the highest order. I don tell God sha ni

cindyrella: Erm op, me I prefer no 2 o!

I like owambe well well! Everybody is invited!


Rice Stew Very Plenty! (RSVP)

I know for sure that the second alternative is more your bag... Lol. Anywayz, I am a melancholy and as such I dont fancy creating too much awareness. The first one is more my bag

rkout4luv: I was her first guy and we dated 3 yrs b4 I left Nigeria. She really loves me and I very much loved her before I left Nigeria I already made up my mind to marry her. My problem with her is that she is too reserve and does not know how to relate with both my friends and family. and sometimes she take for granted little things that she knows i take very serious. She always keep saying sorry for things she suppose to do and even after saying sorry she does not take the correction until I get angry with her. For these and some few reasons I decided to call it a quit. Ever since I explained to her How we cannot cope together and the reason we should break up... she felt very bad and was down for so long after almost three month she kept calling and begging me and trying to do all the things that caused the problem, but I still kept mute.... she is still saying she cannot do without me.
Do I still give her a chance as this is the second time we are having such problem? She is decent homely and ready to learn but I think I got very tired of her slow way of learning and her unsociable attitude.
Am very far away from Nigeria and may even find it difficult to get any Nigerian Girl except from online or any form of arrangement which I strongly would not take as an option. As for settling wit Oyinbo it is also not an option for me.
Since she is still begging and saying she cannot do without me, does taking her back mean just pity or do I just let her Go? useful and logical advice would be welcome.....Thanks

There is one thing I tell people about getting together, and that is the fact that in going into a marriage with someone, you will have to convince yourself through and through that you really love the person and would like to spend the rest of your life with the person. Also, you should appreciate the person's virtues and be able to live or tolerate the person's shortcomings or vices. This is where everything is based one. If within you, you are not ready to tolerate the person's shortcomings, then its advisable that you don't venture into that union with the person. Its very hard to change a typical melancholy, so don't even think you can change her from being the secretive type and someone that loves standing aloof. Anywayz, if you really love her and you are able to brace yourself up and accept her flaws, then I will encourage to accept her back and try as much as you can to take things easy with her. Try to condone her deficiency, its just in her nature. Also, try to correct her in a mild way and make her understand everything and help her to see reasons with whatever that comes to the fore.

I wish you good luck.

phineboy1pimple: U n I knw that we live in a society wia ppls opinion about U matas a lot...


It boils dwn to "hw does our society/tradition sees it?...

But at the end of the day the society will not be blamed for your misdeeds. You will be the one to blame. Like they say, there is no excuse for failure. Right?