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Thou am not married but I will be some day.I sometimes have fears of what if the good and well manned wife I married changed from good to bad over night,can I be able to handle all the drama.because am a kind of reserved person I don't like too much drama

What if she cheats on me? what if she is no longer faithful after the wedding,am saying this because some married women do cheat on their husbands this days with anybody even their ex..And infidelity is a difficult thing for me to handle,I just can't imagine my wife sleeping around.

argent412:
I don't even know how my relationship ended. He just texted me one morning and said, "I’m done," and blocked me on everything.

That was the same way I ended it with my ex,and she's from ph too

That what some of them do,they will claim they were raped and blame it on something ,thou there 're few cases that 're true.

That was how one told me she went to her boyfriend's place and he raped her and that was how she was Deflowed

You 're asking if u should give him chance,op chance for what if I may ask?

I don't know what's even wrong with some people self,look at op now,from her write up she claims he loves her,if he is really into you he won't cheat on u period. And even if he does,he won't allow you find out..

Hope u know u can't stop him from chatting and socialising with his female folks..
Even if we advise you now, u wont adhere to
what we will tell you because like u said he d!!cks u real good..

I know u will still go and tell him all what we said here

It all balls down to you,can u cope with the distraction of having a gf?and the kind of girl u will roll with is another factor too.

Why I said it all balls down to you is the fact that u know your self more than we do and talking about performing well academically,I know of some persons that performed well and graduated with good grades while in School all they did was they discovered what works for them and what doesn't.u see those guys am talking of had girlfriends,they had lots of fun,they attended parties but all those things didn't get them distracted from achieving their goals in school why? because they understood their selves and they knew when to be serious with thier academics and when to party I know some people will say how's that possible? well it is very possible to be in a relationship and still graduate with your desired grade one just have to understand what works and doesn't work for him/her

I can't stop laughing

Op I have been in your shoes time without number and am currently in one now I as I type this.Just tell her the truth,that you 're only interested in being friends with her. Unless u 're a player and u just want to catch fun..

If u feel u can't tell her over the phone then u text her and let her know u just want to be friends with her.

nice one from Samsung,well me I still thy with my j1

Assu is it truly you speaking through that Twitter handle? if yes then imported thunder strike u their,you better keep thinking o till I graduate.

Ilamina:
Because she's ashamed of me

Just like that? because she is ashamed of you?..that means u have really crossed the line,well sokoto is not that bad,just the harsh weather condition but it's a nice place to stay

Two 're things 're usually involve here,it's either she moans due to the pain, or pleasure she receives during the action .Even in the case of adult performers who usually fake the moaning,most of them moan due to pains.

Chi59:
When will some women just accept this simple truth?
It's only a man who wants to stay that will stay. You can't keep an unwilling man. He'll just frustrate you.

One painful thing most guys do is that the moment they're tired of the relationship, instead of them to just say "I can't continue", they'll just be frustrating someone till you get tired and end it.

Well you can force a horse to the stream but can't force it to drink water.

like wise most girls don't usually like to be told the truth...The moment u decide to be honest with them regarding your disinterest in the relationship,they will automatically hate you and call the guy all sorts of names just because he decided to call it quit.

So u want to disactivate because of the truth u were told...even thou some people can be abusive with words sometimes, but u really fuked up nd u needed to be told the truth.

Just try to make amendments,because even if u disactivate now,that won't change anything

You should have made him noticed u when u had the chance,because the probability of coming across him now is very slim since u even said he has graduated already.

You don't even know his name I will have said u should search him on fb,probably u might find him through your mutual friends who 're in the same school with u.

And u describing only his physical appearance will not help in any ways because there 're guys too who have the same characteristics of this your unknown crush,but never the less if u have more info,like a detailed info about the guy I might be able to help in my own way.

Nice write up op

cc: lalasticlala

It was later this friend of mine raised an alarm with a post that there is a person that uses her name on Facebook to scam people

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It all started when i got a friend request from this friend of mine a female,who I haven't contacted for a long time,so I accepted thinking maybe she created another account because I was already having her on my Facebook friends list.

Not knowing somebody created the account impersonating this my friend to scam people.

This was how the chat began

With the compliments u have given that new guys means u have fallen for him and u have already made up your mind to break up with your fiancee and date the new guy,.and its obvious u 're enjoying every bit of the attention from this new guy too,if not u can possibly ask him to stay away since u re already engaged.

Just go ahead and do what is on your mind because I know u came here looking for one of two approval so as to go ahead with your plans...

And I believe if u truely love this fiancee of yours,u will over look some things and give things time to work out

Which one is parting s☆ex again?..my ex is my ex and she will remain were she belongs no matter what,and the moment i decide to move on,am moving on for good no turning back.

More over I can't even keep in torch with my ex talk less of having se☆x

op just say u 're fine,which one is finest boy on NL

Well for the 1 year+ period i lived in the barracks i can say that the few ones I have meet 're nice and friendly,because I had them as next door Neighbours..

Most guys find it difficult to approach them due the fact that when u approach one and it turns out she is not interested,in most cases,(not all cases)the guy gets humiliated and the manner she will show her disinterest will be in a bad way unlike when guys approach a civilian lady it will be that even if the lady in question is not interested the guy can just bounce and go,and least that could happen is the lady saying she is not interested or something.

And guys get rejected every single day because we keeping trying to toast different women and it difficult to predict the that will like u by mire looking at her so trying that with a military lady is a difficult thing to do because they might appear friendly but they 're otherwise when u approach them.

Chinostuff:
So today i was just fiddling with her phone and a message popped up, i got curious and decided to see more....

The messages are not recent but before we met(about 6 months old) she had been sleeping with her pastor and several married men and single ones too all at the same time going by the date.. Painful part she is young n pretty

I haven't noticed any form of cheating since we met but i know that once a thief always a thief

Op am almost in the same shoes with u....and she was the one that told me all that has happened in the past which all she told were terrible stories especially for a young gal like her to have gone through all those stuff at that age.

And the thing is I have been trying my best to see that I don't mess up,and I can say my past isn't that bad,so op it's something to worry about,because last time I checked some gals find it difficult to let go of their past your girlfriend might be one of them...so just keep a close watch and observe, trust nobody but God

No I can't
I can't imagine myself spending a life time with a woman who has slept with numerous men in the past mehn that isn't going to be easy

Yes I have.
It happened last year December when I went for a concert which I never wanted going but I was bored that evening so I said let me go just to while away time.
On reaching to the venue, I decided to stand out side for some time before going in,while standing,I don't know a dude was at one corner observing me all those while.
I later entered and got sitted,like 1 hour into the concert a guy approached me and was like he will love to have a word with me maybe after the concert and requested for my num,and I gave it to him thinking he's a guy like me probably he just wants to become my friend.

After the concert,I was already going out of the building when he approached me from behind and we started a conversation.
The guy started telling on how cute I am and that he's attracted to me,thou at that time I didnt get what he was up to,and I then appreciated him for the compliment.

To cut the long story sort the guy then opened up and said he is gay and and gets attracted to guys,and this same guy is an instrumentalist in that Same church.
I told the guy am not like him and am attracted to only girls and more over I even have a girlfriend,the nigga started convincing me to agree just the way guys do to girls,and was like maybe we should hang out something,and then told I wasn't interested that he should go and find guys who do what he does and nigga wasn't happy he said he couldn't handle rejection and we spoke for like 2 hours before I left for home.

I immediately blocked his num,and I recently saw his friend request on fb

AmConfused:
lol so are u gonna call it quits or stay?

I always feel like quitting most of the time ...but I will stay and see where the relationship will take us to..

But I miss being single