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op just say u 're fine,which one is finest boy on NL

Well for the 1 year+ period i lived in the barracks i can say that the few ones I have meet 're nice and friendly,because I had them as next door Neighbours..

Most guys find it difficult to approach them due the fact that when u approach one and it turns out she is not interested,in most cases,(not all cases)the guy gets humiliated and the manner she will show her disinterest will be in a bad way unlike when guys approach a civilian lady it will be that even if the lady in question is not interested the guy can just bounce and go,and least that could happen is the lady saying she is not interested or something.

And guys get rejected every single day because we keeping trying to toast different women and it difficult to predict the that will like u by mire looking at her so trying that with a military lady is a difficult thing to do because they might appear friendly but they 're otherwise when u approach them.

Chinostuff:
So today i was just fiddling with her phone and a message popped up, i got curious and decided to see more....

The messages are not recent but before we met(about 6 months old) she had been sleeping with her pastor and several married men and single ones too all at the same time going by the date.. Painful part she is young n pretty

I haven't noticed any form of cheating since we met but i know that once a thief always a thief

Op am almost in the same shoes with u....and she was the one that told me all that has happened in the past which all she told were terrible stories especially for a young gal like her to have gone through all those stuff at that age.

And the thing is I have been trying my best to see that I don't mess up,and I can say my past isn't that bad,so op it's something to worry about,because last time I checked some gals find it difficult to let go of their past your girlfriend might be one of them...so just keep a close watch and observe, trust nobody but God

No I can't
I can't imagine myself spending a life time with a woman who has slept with numerous men in the past mehn that isn't going to be easy

Yes I have.
It happened last year December when I went for a concert which I never wanted going but I was bored that evening so I said let me go just to while away time.
On reaching to the venue, I decided to stand out side for some time before going in,while standing,I don't know a dude was at one corner observing me all those while.
I later entered and got sitted,like 1 hour into the concert a guy approached me and was like he will love to have a word with me maybe after the concert and requested for my num,and I gave it to him thinking he's a guy like me probably he just wants to become my friend.

After the concert,I was already going out of the building when he approached me from behind and we started a conversation.
The guy started telling on how cute I am and that he's attracted to me,thou at that time I didnt get what he was up to,and I then appreciated him for the compliment.

To cut the long story sort the guy then opened up and said he is gay and and gets attracted to guys,and this same guy is an instrumentalist in that Same church.
I told the guy am not like him and am attracted to only girls and more over I even have a girlfriend,the nigga started convincing me to agree just the way guys do to girls,and was like maybe we should hang out something,and then told I wasn't interested that he should go and find guys who do what he does and nigga wasn't happy he said he couldn't handle rejection and we spoke for like 2 hours before I left for home.

I immediately blocked his num,and I recently saw his friend request on fb

AmConfused:
lol so are u gonna call it quits or stay?

I always feel like quitting most of the time ...but I will stay and see where the relationship will take us to..

But I miss being single

AmConfused:
OK! so there's this current guy I'm dating. we've been going out for like 2years now and TBH, a day hardly passes that I don't think of calling it quits with this guy.

Not that he's bad bad sha or he does really bad stuff.
just that sometimes :
1) I desperately wish to be single again, like just have my freedom without a monitoring spirit in disguise monitoring my every move.

2) I was kinda a spirikoko b4 we got serious, and somehow, he's derailing my spiritual life. I honestly don't know how people combine been in a relationship and still have an active spiritual life.

3)Then the distance barrier sometimes! Jesu!! I get mini heart breaks each time we get separated by distance (like now) �� I just wonder and wonder if he's faithful esp when I call him and his number is switched off or busy.

So tell me, how often, and with what reasons, do u think of breaking up with your current spouse?

this is just me...except for the spiritual aspect

Kingdolla:
Fear girls that cry for any little thing. They are dangerous.

that's the kind of gal am currently dating...she cries at every little thing or mayb just for me to pity her I don't really know...but if u have any experience pls do share so I can learn one or two tinx from u...

PresidentAde:
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so I saw some romantic sent & received text msg on her phone, I stylishly asked her if she sends SMS to any guy, she said no flatly then later said she sends romantic text messages to her male friend for him to send to his gf that the guy doesn't know how to compose text..............
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The heart of some girls are desperately wicked mehnn...
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To think I was serious with her, had to do an emergency strategy meeting with my brain.....

lol...well done miss composer,some people can lie ehnn

her legs don't look nice

Mehn! It wasn't really easy for me then, hearing all that has happened to her in the past.thou it was something she choose to tell me without me asking due to the fact that I always spoke about honesty from the beginning of the relationship and maybe she felt I had the right to know at that particular point in time.

And the thing is,all that has happened to her is something I will refer to as unavoidable incidents that can happen to anybody but,but what surprises me till date is how same thing will repeatedly happen to a person like 4 times,which I think it's not normal...and I just had to believe her because I didn't really know what exactly happened at that time( her past)

battery,camera and ram 're my main priorities

Oct 15th

Landowner101:
OK will try the later, but how will I go about distancing myself from them (married women ) because I can't just be chasing them away (they are older than me). and can't relocate from that area, because my parent wouldn't agree, (they don't like the idea of staying in school hostels ).

You don't have to literally chase them away, let me ask,what do most of this women want from you? is it sex,a relationship,marriage, if what they want is among what I listed then you politely let them know u 're not interested,you can also make use your body language to communicate to them of your disinterest.

I believe nobody can force you into doing what you don't want to.

You 're the only person that can help your self by choosing the kind of people u want in your life.start by distancing your self from the older ones and mingle with girls of your age,and don't tell me all of them won't find u attractive because that's impossible

it seems na fine boys full here,make I run comot...

I don't knw why a guy will say he doesn't know wat to say to a lady..

Start by complicating her on the dress or any new stuff she puts on it can be her hair style or anything at all.

Tell her u have been her customer for some time now but u have not really meet her (get to know her),then u can introduce your self properly nd she gets to introduce her self too.

You can then proceed by asking her about her hobbies and what she does for fun and its good u start by making assumptions like not asking the questions directly nd u also tell her about yours too....

I believe u can take it up from their

the guy self,why u go ask babe out for whats app slf

she is really endowed

Good luck with your search

I have not experienced any yet

this one is strong

I wan upgrade my phone and laptop

it's normal,and op if u watch p.0rn stop it

Don't stress your self too much op,but I believe for her to just come out one day exhibiting those attitudes shows something has really been bothering her even before now,just try figuring out what the problem is .And it might have happened in the past who knows.

it's possible, but rarely happens that way..I will say only few lucky ones date and end up with their first partner,some will have to go through numerous relationships before finally meeting the right person which means they went through numerous break up

The Same olosho that was picked from the club could also be someone's girlfriend, the difference between a girlfriend nd an olosho is how u view the girl,to you she's your girlfriend nd u probability trust her not to use a condom on her,and when she goes out side their people she her as olosho(someone that has slept with numerous men) and with the fear of not wanting to contract a form a disease,protection is then used.

It's not that easy but it's possible thou and yes I can date a girl without sex

is this a joke or something

twosquare:
@Nelbless Remain as friends. Why?

1) First, I know you desire to have children. She is entering menopause already. Except you don't care about kids.

2) The age gap is wide. It shouldn't be more than 4 years. Anyway, what do I know?

3) A red flag there... authoritative and rude. You might end up beating her like her exes. I do not support violence in any way. Perhaps that's part of the reason she was jilted and yet to get married at that age. Anyway, it's just an assumption.

4) The love go clear for your eyes well well when you no say love is commitment not euphoric feeling. Be ready to take shit

5) Can you take ageing, wrinkles, belly fat, of this woman when you start seeing young fresh gals outside. Remember, unfaithfulness will kill you faster than HIV.

6) Lastly, she might just want to test you to see if you truly love her. Find out her true age.

U said it all esp no 6

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I can't really say since I have not tried it before,but I will one of these days sha and when I do I will give u feed back