₦airaland Forum

Biodun556:

Naijabad:
I know alot of people will come for my head for this thread.

But the truth is, if you are a Nigerian, please marry from your tribe. You will be fine.

A lot of women and men are crying in secret today because they married outside their tribe.

Please, consider the words of your parents, do not make the mistake of marrying outside your tribe.
It almost always end in premium tears.

Learn from what happened to others. Ask questions, do research, you can find love among your people and folks.

I have seen alot. A greater percentage of inter tribal marriage is on manage mode.

Finally, 50% of marital problems are solved when you marry within your tribe.

Olunmercy56:

jaybenugo:
Lecturer Smashes Student’s iPhone For Ringing During Class (Photos, Video)

A Lecturer smashed a student’s iPhone for ringing during class, IgbereTV reports.

See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1o2i47PGA_w

https://www.instagram.com/p/CZox2wcrVfk/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Lordshoggy:
After so many failed attempts trying out different relationships, I finally found a woman whose attitude is similar to my mother, someone who understands me, matured and encourages me.

During my failed relationships attempts, I started to think that, I am the one who had attitude problems making this girls to break up, until I met this girl in my country of residence and I can conclude that MY OWN LOVE WAS THERE IN ANOTHER COUNTRY WAITING FOR ME.

Well, she said yes to me. I have a wedding to plan.

newbornmacho:
Please how can a 44 year old be coming to marry a 17 year old girl?

And my sister is excited, and my mom is saying if shes happy she has no problem?

What is money?

And I'm looking like I'm a mad man for telling my sister I'm not in support.

I wish I could nail this guy on something...like if he's ever been married ( which he denies) or some sort of scandal....
How will my only sister get married to someone 27 years her senior?

For God sake

Please help me, what should I do

If I talk now they will say I hate women

We've had a very angry family meeting this night and this girl is bent on going...
Abi na jazz?

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

browngh:
A shocking video seen online has the moment a sea goddess also known as Maame Water got to the beach of one of the nightclubs in the country and could not return.


In the said video, the goddess ( Maame Water) who has part of her body being that of a human and part of it a fish was seen sitting on the floor with her head buried on the group.

Behind her were residents who saw her and could not believe their eyes.

Without wasting much time, let’s watch the video below;


https://www.browngh.com/maame-water-caught-along-the-coasts-of-popular-beach-at-night/

Almaigaa:
The reason is that, you hardly see a virgin in the East. Most of those girls don phuck before.

SATANICALLY:
This is too bad!

As revealed by Ngozi

Himtulie247:

Bring Togo bread when you dey come back

Togobroz:
Happy new month to everyone and I wish to thank God for his grace so far.

I have been a hustler for long trying to make ends meet and at a point I was able to save about 1.5million naira to travel to China but unfortunately I was duped and my hard earned money went to voicemail. I kept struggling and saving money to go to Europe but I was denied visa twice to two different countries and then I gave up.

I decided not to travel again but the stress and insecurity in Nigeria has been worrisome especially in my region so I decided to travel to any french speaking African country and just experience a whole new different life outside Nigeria. My initial plan was to go to Burkina Faso or Equitorial Guinea and I did some research that would guide me as I didn't know anyone in both countries and I was just determined to go on this adventure myself.

I saved up some money which got to almost 3 million naira and then I crossed my heart and made my trip. From Nigeria I crossed into Benin Republic and then to Togo where I was supposed to cross to Burkina Faso. On getting to Togo it was quite late so I had to pass the night in a cheap hotel of 2000cfa franc. In the hotel I met some Nigerians going to Ghana with some friends based in Togo. I was hearing their conversations as they drank at the bar while I sat alone with a bottle of their local beer Castle.

Being that in Togo I discovered they hardly speak English, I decided to introduce myself to those Nigerians so that I can make some enquiry from them and that was how we all got talking and gisting till late night. The guys based in Togo told me alot about Togo and how life is cheap if one has some capital to get accommodation and start a small business. I was made to understand there is steady light, water and security in the small country. The next day I was suppose to leave for Burkina Faso I decided to pay for the hotel room for a week and explore Togo a bit. The guys I met that were based in Togo already were really helpful and they took out time to show me around, know the prices of stuffs and where to buy cheap stuffs as well. I began to fall in love with the country except for the fact that most people don't understand English, though some try to understand and speak a little so you have to scatter the English for them to understand.

I decided to find a house and few days was enough for that. I got a room and parlor self contained house for 30,000cfa a month and paid a year which is 360,000cfa. They hold 6 months as deposit and after six months I start paying 30,000cfa monthly or anyhow I wish to stretch it based on my pocket. I just furnished it a little and I am just chilling with steady light on a brief. The house has a prepaid meter so I recharge and use according to my power.

After making some deep enquiry about what business to start at least for now, I bought a tricycle they call Apsonic here in Togo. It cost 1.4million cfa brand new plus the plate number registration and all. Then I found a driver who took it on hire purchase to balance 2.5million cfa at 25,000cfa per week.

My good people, I know I have not reached where I am going but I bless God for where I am coming from. Right now I just relax myself planning my next move while every Saturday I wait to receive my weekly salary. With life here if you are someone that knows how to manage, even 1000cfa can feed you a whole day so I am really doing my best to see how much I can save by the end of this year over here and know my next move.

Please you all pray for me as I also pray for you all. The journey of a thousand miles always start with a footstep.

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

redon12:
My fiance blocked me on WhatsApp three years ago, I couldn't reach her on phone either. I couldn't reach her mum and two sisters, trying to understand why she blocked me and why I couldn't reach her Family.

Two days later I saw her traditional wedding pictures on Facebook. It was the cruelest thing that ever happened to me.

I didn't have much money then so I could understand why she left. But I spent every dime I had on her, the sex was good and I was always there when she needed me.

All this happened three years ago, I felt that because she left me abruptly her life was supposed to be miserable, but she really is doing well, I have been stalking her all the way, I attended her wedding and her graduation, though quite conspicuous in the act, she drives the latest cars now, the last time I heard about her she was leaving the country to the UAE to deliver her second child. And still nothing bad happened to her.

I still can't get over her my life is miserable. But then all those years she left and I had time for myself to think clearly and learn web development skill, I was able to build my self a site that quickly transformed itself, it had a fast growth, an e-commerce/fintech company, which i am now officially it's CEO, with a company size of 11 people. I just got a seeding of 1.2 million dollars, to buy riders for dispatchers and also for advertisement.

But with all these she's thriving and she's doing well, It makes me wonder if life is really fair, I still have pictures of the day I proposed at ShopRite, the kisses, the hugs, the time we spent together, I still can't believe she forgot all that.

I am doing well now I have my own house and two cars to it, and a thriving company. But I can't stop stalking her, because of her I moved to Enugu where she lived. Some days whenever I come back from work Early I give this secondary school boys small cash to go to her husbands mansion to see if there is any activity there, then come back and report to me.

I believe she doesn't know I am still unto her, almost any day I am coming back from work, I drive through her beauty spar just to catch a glimpse of her.

I convinced my kid sister to move to Enugu, also convinced her to enroll her child in the same nursery and primary school my fiance's child goes to.

No matter how hard I try to meet other women, I always see her face on the wall behind them. I have tried to meet women from different countries from some of my trips to Dubai. No matter how gorgeous they never appeal to me.

Even till today I still see her as my fiance, I don't know what to do or how to get over her.

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..
She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men)
She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve
And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only support me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

HeWrites:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nn0Z0hL3KOI

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CZT55SoMv5S/?utm_medium=copy_link

nnennachiji:
I did this to my son’s hair
It’s my third time at it.I hope am improving
I can’t be spending $10 every two weeks
He is a toddler so not easy cutting his hair.

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

Witches were reported to be flying somewhere in Congo for their annual display of magical powers for fun every January.

I am a guy who doesn't believe in all these stuffs but seeing this now has made me to question my stand.

DonCrack:
https://hgsmediaplus.com/2022/01/27/man-dies-during-sex-romp-with-prostitute-in-delta/

lalasticlala
mynd44

MangekyoAlt:
All my life I've never seen a group of people that are as stupid as the current leaders of Ukraine. I just read one of their generals saying if Russia invades, they would destroy them and even kill them with their bare hands. He said they would send them back in body bags.

Do they not realize the caliber of weapons currently stationed at their borders? There are thousands of Russian troops and military hardwares including nuclear capable iskander ballistic missiles, yet they're telling russia that they would kill them even with their bare hands if they cross their borders.

Do they think they would stand a chance? Because to me, It seems they actually think they would even stand a chance against a russia going ALL OUT!

They claim they have upgraded their military since russia annexed Crimea. They don't realize russia too has been upgrading and their troops have been seeing combat in Syria.
Their military budget is even less than £1Billion (Far less than Nigeria; £2Billion).

If I were in Ukraine position, I would try to strike a deal with Russia. Ukraine has always wanted to join the EU. Russia would allow them to join the EU, as far as they don't join NATO. if they're able to strike that deal, it would be a win for them. But no, somehow they think the anti tank weapons and javelin they're receiving from the west would make them stand a chance against russia

They don't realize that if Russia is ever going to attack, they won't send troops and tanks first. They'll bombard the shit out of Ukraine with their long range artillery, rocket artillery and ballistic missiles at all major strategic locations, annihilating every major resistance. Then, they will send in the troops and tanks as a cleanup crew.

If it is the USA that is boosting Ukraines moral and telling them to act tough against someone with capability to completely annihilate them, then it is obvious the USA doesn't mean well for them.

Mrshocker:
Brainwashed lol. Seek wisdom and knowledge

Hisbah21:
if they like,lock it for decades,who will suffer?

Datboredberry:
I am bilingual... I speak English fluently and Nigerian pidgin...

How about you?

Lalasiclala
Mynd44
Seun

illicit:
There's no free water there

illicit:
Not a nice move

Common water is sold in Cote d'ivoire

It's not better than what u earn here

Only thing is u get to speak French

Ogt1:
Good day Nlers?

I have a teaching job which pays 30k monthly for now. I am not paying for an accommodation as I have a free accommodation presently.

I got a contact who connected me to a proprietor in cote d'ivoire who needs teachers. He said the pay will be 90,000cfa monthly. He offers to allow me stay in the school residence for a period of 6 months till I find my own residence.

I want to know if 90kcfa will be enough to live comfortably in cote d'ivoire after paying for house rent which I inquired is paid monthly and can be as high as 30k-50cfa monthly.

Will this be a better move than the 30k job I have presently?

How much is 90kcfa in naira?


Kindly advise.

Thanks.

Yemex001:
Get a conversion machine(50k), read the manual. The machine is used for making electricity with the use of heat energy. Ur sukaway is where the heat come from. The machine is used to absorb heat from surkaway in homes to power electricity, u dnt need to pay for light bill again. I have been installing it in different homes in porthacort and getting my money.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Quick recovery to them

But wait o....1 Tongan Paʻanga equals 182.78 Nigerian Naira

Make them first recover first
Because many many things just dey my mind right now..I don dey reason many many things.....

This is why I love nairaland....they keep on giving me update

Ezehillary:
Where is naira

Omicron007:
This particular fruit makes me remember childhood.
We had the tree in our yard and in the school premises.
I and my friends got into trouble severally while throwing stones at this fruit both at home and in school.

We all called this fruit 'fruuit of frunt'.

Do you remember this fruit?
What is the English name and how do you call it in your native language?

jaybenugo:
https://igberetvnews.com/1412111/2023-prepared-presidential-candidate-nigeria-orji-uzor-kalu/

Lalasticlala
Mynd44