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Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by BluntCrazeMan: 1:11pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
NovesaTillie:Madam, even if you're going to be 50 tomorrow, it has nothing to do with this story you just told us about your sister's marriage. .. (In fact, the age you added there made me believe you cooked up this story, and you added the age there so that we can use the age and consider telling you to accept the proposal) .. Now, how are we sure that their marriage was not even having problems because of the guy’s deep hunger for you? |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by BluntCrazeMan: 1:17pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:A clear Fact is that You have deep problems.. But funny enough, you're not aware of such a Fact yet.. |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 1:19pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
BluntCrazeMan: |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by bepositive11: 3:50pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
PoliteActivist: In any failed marriage, both partners have their contribution to the problems. No one is innocent in such cases |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by PoliteActivist: 4:50pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
bepositive11: What if one gets home drunk every day and beats the other up? |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Beholdjoan: 3:44am On Jan 24, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:Shut up and learn...u are brainless |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 3:46am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Beholdjoan:Did I hurt you? You sure ain't brainless like me so why not be polite? |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by omolasho: 4:38am On Jan 24, 2022 |
oObviousely you are cause of the seperation OLOSHO! |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Ajimusty2: 12:03pm On Jan 24, 2022 |
Monkey |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by mummymum: 1:35pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:You know what, an idle mind is a devil's workshop, engage yourself in something relevant so that you will not be too regular in nairaland to comment on every post, because it is not all posts that need your pre-mature comment. |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by ejay273(m): 1:52pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Hmmmm.... fear God abeg! Cos ur 30yrs doesn't mean you should be desperate. The man sef no serious |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 3:51pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
mummymum:I love it that way don't you? Tell the devil to make me more idle cos I love it.. |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by mummymum: 8:11pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:Lol, I don't blame you. |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:14pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
mummymum:Exactly.. |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Ghoxt: 6:00pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
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Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by bepositive11: 2:17pm On Jan 29, 2022 |
PoliteActivist: The person getting beat up should assert their boundaries and stand up for themself. For example, "if you get drunk again and come home and beat me up, I'm gone" If someone keeps doing something you don't like and you say or do nothing about it, they will keep doing it |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Prettygirl200(f): 3:35pm On Jan 29, 2022 |
Hmmm as a woman I will not advice u to marry ur sisters husband how do u tink ur sister will feel? B patient and pray for urs no collect wetyn no b ur own |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by PoliteActivist: 11:40pm On Jan 29, 2022 |
bepositive11: So how are both responsible for the failed marriage?? |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by bepositive11: 4:10am On Jan 30, 2022 |
PoliteActivist: Abuse doesn't just start out of the blue. It builds up with time What usually happens is the other partner sees signs before getting married but ignores them - maybe because they are desperate to get married, desperate for money, and so on People who are genuinely content with their lives and have healthy self esteem set the standards and settle for nothing less We attract people on our level. Toxic people attract each other |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by PoliteActivist: 4:33am On Jan 30, 2022 |
bepositive11: With all due respect, you sound like you live on the moon. Sometimes divorce is is entirely one person's fault (and they'd tell you so themselves). One partner may start using drugs, join a cult, etc. Sometimes it's nobody's fault, just circumstances. |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by bepositive11: 5:07am On Jan 30, 2022 |
PoliteActivist: That mentality is the problem If you ask divorced couples, the majority will blame the other person entirely and not take responsibility in any way If you look closely, toxic people attract each other How do you define a good person? Someone who's extremely selfless? That's what many consider as good, but in fact, someone who's extremely selfless is toxic because they are not assertive enough to stand up for themselves A typical toxic couple mix is a narcissist and a codependent. Many would consider the codependent a good person when they are in fact very toxic People who start using drugs, or join cults, why do they do so? If you really dig deep, you'll see that they have a deeper problem. A void they're trying to fill which always existed even before marriage As I said earlier, a healthy balanced individual will only tolerate a healthy balanced individual as a partner A lot of divorced couples were so consumed with escaping from their own personal problems before marriage that they overlooked the red flags. They saw their partners as a form of escape until their eyes cleared after marriage |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by PoliteActivist: 4:18pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
bepositive11: Like I said, living on the moon. PEOPLE CHANGE!!! Sometimes for no reason at all. Or they find religion. Or they lost their job, or had an accident, etc. And become impossible to live with. Stop generalizing. |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by sherlock229(m): 4:55pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
NovesaTillie: accept it... since you're dumb ASF |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Miner13: 8:59pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
Ormorlehwah:longest time bae |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by bepositive11: 5:42am On Jan 31, 2022 |
PoliteActivist: People don't change. It's just that you didn't really know who they were. Hard times reveal the true nature of people because then, they can no longer put up a front If you haven't seen someone go through stressful times, you don't know who they really are. You haven't seen all sides of them yet Anyway, it's ok to agree to disagree. We have our reasons for believing what we believe I agree that people grow and evolve with time, but not change drastically for no reason at all. It's just that you didn't see that side of them before but it was always in them. You may have even seen glimpses of that side of them but overlooked it |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by PoliteActivist: 6:18am On Jan 31, 2022 |
bepositive11: You are simply wrong sir. St. Paul changed completely virtually overnight. Testimonies abound of people who were radically changed by religion, bad company, drugs, etc. |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by bepositive11: 6:31am On Jan 31, 2022 |
PoliteActivist: I repeat. People don't radically change. It's just that you never saw that side of them. That religion, that bad company, those drugs just encouraged them to reveal that side of themselves that they kept hidden For example, if person A is genuine and humble, no amount of money will make him proud. If person B is proud, when he has little money, he cannot show off so he may look humble, but when he makes a lot, that prideful side of him will reveal itself Have a good day |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Ormorlehwah(f): 4:48pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Miner13:hmmmmmm abi nao. How una dey ooooo? |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by PoliteActivist: 4:51pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
bepositive11: I know this is what you were taught by some crackpot teacher. But sometimes look around you and use your own common sense. See the story of St. Paul below. He was headed to Damascus to go kill Christians. Explain to us how he had it hidden inside him to become a Christian!
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Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by bepositive11: 2:46am On Feb 01, 2022 |
PoliteActivist: I don't define my beliefs based on Bible stories. I define my beliefs based on my life experiences and introspection Keep believing what you believe. You don't have to agree with me but since you can't present logical arguments as opposed to Bible stories to support your beliefs, I'm done arguing with you |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by dnawah(m): 6:35am On Feb 01, 2022 |
NovesaTillie:NO! Let me ask u,do u like ur sister? If she vomit can u take it and eat? Only a dog eat vomit.okarika good but ready made is better. |
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by robosky02(m): 7:58am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Put yourself in your sdisterrs shoes and see how excited it feels If you're OK then go a ahead |
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