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Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

3pointsagree:
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Goodluck E. Jonathan
@GEJonathan
A brief stopover in Lome and a great time visiting His Excellency Faure Essozimna Gnassingbe, President of Togo, and sharing thoughts with him on the sub-region's current challenges as well as prospects and opportunities for peace, stability and growth.
-GEJ

https://mobile.twitter.com/GEJonathan/status/1507016635982352401?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweet[/quote]he doesn't rock the suit like his father.

treesun:
https://punchng.com/full-list-us-sanctions-six-individuals-for-supporting-boko-haram/

etokhana:
https://twitter.com/HQNigerianArmy/status/1507722857635319818?t=rVLQomXT-1Xq81jL3ytwvA&s=19[/quote]na so the country big reach?

BKayy:
Chechen leader Ramzan Kadyrov says that forces from his Russian region have taken control of the city hall in Ukraine’s besieged southeastern port of Mariupol and hoisted the Russian flag.

Kadyrov posts on Telegram a video of a phone recording in Chechen, which he said was Russian parliamentary lawmaker Adam Delimkhanov speaking to “our valiant men”.

“The guys are radioing to say that they liberated the building of the Mariupol authorities and put up our flag over it,” the Chechen leader says on his Telegram, which has more than 1.4 million subscribers.

The former rebel-turned-Kremlin-ally writes that Ukrainian “bandits who remained alive did not risk it and abandoned their positions… and fled”.

“Other units are moving in parallel through the city and clearing it of Azov filth,” he adds, referring to Ukraine’s far-right Azov Battalion.

“God willing, soon Mariupol will be completely cleansed,” he writes.
https://www.timesofisrael.com/liveblog_entry/chechen-leader-says-his-forces-liberated-mariupol-city-hall/

NwaAmaikpe:




Poor people think that being poor is the worst problem man can have.
They don't know that being excessively wealthy is the greatest curse a person can have.

A poor man goes to bed not worried that his wealth may deplete or vanish overnight but a rich man's only quest when sleeping or awake is to strive that his wealth doesn't ever drop.

envoymedia:
Couple Take Pre-Wedding Photoshoot On BRT Bus, Said Their Love Started There (Photos)

A couple who met on a Lagos state BRT bus used the same vehicle for their pre-wedding photoshoot, IGBERETV reports.

@lollypeezle shared the photos on his Twitter handle with the caption;



https://twitter.com/lollypeezle/status/1506693300513918982?t=SRl1ekrEsNGULWXVMOJr7Q&s=19

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

EmperorHadrain:
Like rats fleeing a sinking ship, the pestilence race has done the 110th mass exodus since they were expelled out of ancient Egypt.

This was foreseeable as those rats are the reason why Ukraine is facing war at the moment. But what should be considered is how the Jewish comedian PM banned all males from 18-60 from leaving Ukraine.

So Jewish rats who caused this war are allowed to flee but the Ukrainians must fight Russia to preserve the Jewish oligarchs criminal corrupt govt that seized power in 2014.

Enemyofpeace:
This issue of EFCC arresting politicians in Nigeria is nothing but a huge joke...

*Danjuma Goje*
Accused of mismanaging N25bn state funds by the EFCC
Where is he now: Senate

*Stella Oduah*
Accused of diversion of N3.5bn by the EFCC
Where is she now: Senate

*Orji Uzor Kalu*
Accused of mismanaging N7.65bn state funds by the EFCC
Where is he now: Senate

*Rochas Okorocha*
Accused of mismanaging state funds by the EFCC
Where is he now: Senate

*Ike Ekweremadu*
Accused of conspiracy, money laundering and other illicit dealings by the EFCC
Where is he now: Senate

*Ifeanyi Ubah*
Accused of N43bn subsidy fraud by the EFCC
Where is he now: Senate

*Ibrahim Shekarau*
Accused of N950m GEJ Campaign fund mismanagement by the EFCC
Where is he now: Senate

*Theodore Orji*
Accused of mismanaging N27bn state funds by EFCC
Where is he now: Senate

*Ibikunle Amosun*
Accused of stockpiling 1,000 AK47 and 4 million bullets
Where is he now: Senate

*Godswill Akpabio*
Accused of mismanaging N100bn state funds by the EFCC
Where is he now: Federal Minister.

Nigeria is a thearter of comedy...

It's only a matter of days or weeks and Obiano is a free man.

Now tell me, what is all these gra-gra and Maga-Maga wey EFCC dey do?

Ejima1:
https://naijalatesttrend.com/?p=803
Our Record Shows Nnamdi Kanu Still In Kenya: President Kenyatta’s Office

The Kenyan government has denied its involvement in the arrest and extradition of Nnamdi Kanu, the leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB).

In a letter to the office of President Uhuru Kenyatta, dated September 29, 2021, it is noted that Mr Kanu had not been processed to leave the country.

“According to our records as per the PISCES system, Nwannekaenyi Kenny Okwu-Kanu is still in Kenya because he has not exited the country,” the letter said.

Last June, the Attorney-General of the Federation and Minister of Justice, Abubakar Malami, had announced that Mr Kanu had been arrested.

Mr Malami, in a joint press briefing with the State Security Service (SSS) in Abuja, announced that international collaborative efforts with security agencies led to Mr Kanu’s arrest and repatriation to Nigeria.

This raised speculations as to the involvement of the United Kingdom, where Mr Kanu was residing, or Kenya.

In July, Kenyan high commissioner to Nigeria Wilfred Machage had denied that Mr Kanu was arrested in Kenya. Mr Machage said the allegation was made to incite Nigerians in the South-East against the Kenyan people.

His denial was made despite evidence compiled by Mr Kanu’s family and attorneys to prove Kenya’s involvement in abducting Mr Kanu.

Mr Machage died in January ahead of his testimony in the Biafra separatist leader’s abduction case in Nairobi.

Click on this link below to read more
https://naijalatesttrend.com/?p=803

ignis:
https://www.pulse.ng/news/metro/tamale-37-year-old-nigerian-fined-for-attempting-to-get-ghana-card/39bt676?utm_source

BluntNigerian:
FROM MY INBOX.



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Please He Needs Advice.

VictorUSA:
My cousin sister is living with us...she came of recent.Sometimes she expose parts of her breasts or laps and comes to me in a sexual way.

She sits on my lap and always deny that we're biologically related.

I tried all I could to avoid her but she's always on my neck.

Giveaway2022:
Happy sundays to all nairalanders home and abroad.

We @GIVEAWAY_2022 have decided to be doing giveaway here on nairaland on selected days, from today untill june ending 2022. After which we will decide whether to continue or not. But for now, the giveaway is starting life and direct here on nairaland today.

I wanted to post this in the business section of nairaland, but i can't due to the fact that i'm a new user.

This giveaway is just to support that young girl/guy out there trying to start up a business. Here is your opportunity, The litle we have for you can go a long way in your business today. you can give it a try and become todays lucky winner.

Todays giveaway is; 20k for two lucky nairalanders. Which will be shared 10k each.

*what business can you start up with 10k

*the first two comments with the highest number of likes by 12:AM midnight today will be the winners.
Their account details will be requested & credicted 2morrow.

This segment of todays giveaway is sponsord by #GIVEAWAY2022.

tizteezy:
Good morning Nairalanders

I know this might not impress Lala due to size ���

But I just came across this tiny snake I'm my compound. It was entangles with the lizard which is also seen on the picture attached.
Seems the lizard was already dead, but the snake was struggling to move - looks like it was already wounded seriously on the body before I arrived.
Since I wasn't sure at first sight, I still hit them both again with a stick.
Who understands what went on between them? And what type of snake is this?

Flahyuq:
Guys,How much do you spend on haircut
Please be sincere!
Highest i have paid so far is 700naira cus of the fuel scarcity and all that
Normally,I spend 500naira

airminem:
Ukraine and Russia abi...

Stay away from cultism folks

Patrioticbreed9:
Tamuno nengi: Degema
Rivers.

The niger deltan militants have threaten to deal with the US and NATO regarding their in human sanctions against russia. Acording to the head of the group, Rivers branch
COMANDO DE II Enetimi preye, he said, the us and nato risk recieving rains of missiles from them if the sanctions continues.
WE ARE NOT CHINA! The second COMANDO in charge, Ikenga ninikachi, disclose that unlike china and other countries, the niger delta avengers dont beat around the bush, We are going to send multiple asualt's to the white house and other important goverment locations in europe. He also disclosed that their sub marine are less than 50,000 km away from the coast of the us as we speak. When asked why they stand in soliderlity with russia despite the world santion, "what is the world sanction, if i may ask? Has europe and north american become the whole world? I dont think so" he also added that the republic of russia and them signed a weapon deal in 2020.

ChizzyBuna:
Something weird has been going on today
Since i left house to work.
While waiting for bus, a beggar comes there he ignores everybody there except me.
Went straight to me to beg for money.

I shock as the beggar only locate me. While they are other men and women there.

As im there a lady also from nowhere comes straight to my direction to ask if i can help her load credit as she has eye issues and cant see clearly.
I said no, thinking she will ask other guys there to help her but to my greatest suprise she left.

So im wondering what is it that makes a beggar and random strangers choose only me in the midst of other people.
Is there something written on my forehead or what.
Why do they approach only me??

Adejoncy01:
Hello Nairalanders,

In my area, Ilorin, Kwara State where I stay, we do have at least 12hrs power supply everyday. But these days, we haven't had light up to 30mins for the past two days.

This has been happening for two weeks now. It has affected me badly. How's power supply in your area? What is this government doing about it?

This is frustrating to say the least.

Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

alphaNomega:
I am posting here because it is used a lot in this section (including Family section) and I'm tempted to blame the poor quality of education in Nigeria. We have the internet today and the people who use this "abomination" every time have access to the right information?

It is double shame when the moderators move the topics to front-page and still including "cousin sister/brother" in the title. Scroll through front-page history to see what I'm talking about. I won't make any screenshots.

Maybe that's what English teachers are telling these kids in school these days. Who knows?

If I happen to be an examiner and my candidate makes this blunder, I will stop the exam immediately and correct them before the exam resumes.

For the "English is not our mother tongue" army, it is better you write everything you want to say in your mother tongue, than speak foul language and call it English.

RaymondEasyLife:
As for me I Discovered Nairaland in the year 2012, During the Era of Java phone and free browsing cheat.

Phock2sweet:
Who dash monkey banana


Where sharks dey do meeting Wetin crayfish wan go do for there?

seunny4lif:
Arab should be on the list because it’s language by people from the Northern Africa.
I don’t how those people can’t speak other languages like the rest of Africa countries.


Igbo language should be number 1 because I think we have more Igbo people in USA than Yoruba people.
My observation

ULiTv:
Credit: BBC bidgin

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ulPW0_WpaQ
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"If the animal dey sick, me self dey feel sick"

Meet Malam Abba Gandu from Kano, who has been feeding Lions for the pass 50yrs
.
He has been on this job since the zoo was commission in 1971

https://fb.watch/bHmUspk9sB/

It's mid night and heavy rains and I hear the sound of glass breaking and my car horn....

Picked up my phone touch and a stick, ran straight to my dad's room to get the main door key, opened his room door; and boom.....I saw @$@$$#@$$2@#$_@.

The really annoying thing is that I froze for like 3 seconds with touchlight in hands (wasn't with my glasses so really didn't see well) until my mum screamed at me to get out.......I feel so embarrassed and how do I get that image off my head......

It's my bad habit of not knocking before entering that put me in this situation but you can't blame me......am in my 20s and have never seen my Nigerian parents intimate with each other plus I was raised in a semi Deeper Life family so am sure you understand how shocked and embarrassed am currently feeling.

Just had to share this anonymously on Nairaland probably to get it off my chest......

AutoChick4U:
Please guys is anything wrong in dating a lady who bets? Like one that can use their brain and cognitive ability to forecast games?
A friend found out I bet and was talking thrash as if he gives me money. How can you ask someone to stop what gives them a Lil joy. Lol.
So Can you date a female tipster?

MansoryMX:
I will make it brief and mix my English with our local pigin English so expect a poor write up base on area wey I be. I won’t say the school name for security reasons but this matter xup yesterday!

My wife went to celebrate matric with her kid sister. Initially I told her I can’t make it but i planned on giving them a surprise visit with two of my friend who accompanied me since the school is my zanga I graduated from years back. I was already driving close to the close gate when I noticed my wife calling me, I picked up the call only for me to hear my wife raging so angrily that one guy approached her, she flashed her wedding ring for him to get lost and this guy had the guts to grab her hands and tell her that he will give her 50k if she follows him to an hotel let them get down that he likes her. My mother in-law is there as well and overhead all the idiot said and shouted at him for disrespecting her daughter and a married woman for that matter! he cursed at my wife’s mom. I told my wife am at the school gate and she was so shocked! I got there just in time, the goat is still there sitting at the front of his Benz. The mending, beating and brutality my hommies who accompanied me gave him! Plus the flying heading I gave his mouth! He won’t forget it in a long time!


Have we lost our morals as young people? Is this the best way to approach a lady even if you want to toast one! Only God can help this country! Yahoo yahoo has crippled sanity in this country. Las las the school CSO picked him up and hand him over to the police. I showed them my Navy Mess ID card and showed him that he messed with the wrong married woman. Bro begged liked a puss*. Told them to let him go. Young lads be careful how you harass young women. Some are married to educated hoodlum like me.


Note; I see a lot of negative comments saying thrash and seeing nothing wrong in groping someone’s wife. Those of you lots doing this will meet your Waterloo very soon. Under no circumstances should you grope a woman be it married or single! You could be beaten to death or injured severely and nothing will happen! I repeat! Nothing will happen and you will be arrested and charge to court after beaten thoroughly. Una need strong thing for this country!

Gemid94:
https://www.thequesttimes.com/breaking-nnamdi-kanu-reportedly-removed-as-ipob-leader-details/

OyigboUpdate:
https://www.facebook.com/103078598857069/posts/144254061406189/