₦airaland Forum

What is the difference between modern relationship and prostitution. They are both transactional.

If both are transactional, why involve in relationships?

To avoid conflict, whenever you women need help or free things, call your fellow women, not men.
I think that will solve the case.

One of the rare qualities I hardly see modern day women have is Resourcefulness. A woman who is resourceful will have her man's mind and home at peace.

She can manage the home when needed, as well as she can turn her millionaire hubby into a billionaire. it is a very rare trait.

omooba969:
Lol 🤣 🤣 Everyone will be alright.

Yeah bro. It is telling on everyone. Even celebrities and the rich ain't left out. Even the ones in relationships will tell you he or she is single because there is no trust -- which gives way to open relationships.

Mind you, what we have in this modern day is open relationships. When the guy or the girl knows the partner is cheating, he or she plays along then find alternate route to satisfy oneself. Meanwhile they still dating, lol

Our mindset is bleeped up.

omooba969:
There are many decent men out there, just keep your head up, HE will eventually show up.

Bro the thing is there are many decent men but everybody dey guide him heart. Decent men way dem Don hit am with breakfast no go guide him heart?

The thing is: we have many many Decent and good men, but they do not wanna show the good side any more since they were taken advantage of in their past experiences. Everything is mixed up! Same with women. We gave some Decent ones but they have also been taken advantage of so they don't show the good side anymore. So what most humans show is that dangerous side. No-one wanna be a prey. It is telling on everyone

We are all in a mess!

The weird thing about women is, they get pregnant for guys who they know won't stay nor look back to care for them. The non challant attitude guys, jerks! This same guy will pipe and dump as many ladies as he wants.

The guys who would really care for you women won't be looked at twice. He will be tagged -- maga, slow poke!
Notice the exes of these single mom's-- they are dead beats, drug addicts, jobless mothefuckers, pyschopaths and the likes.

Probably why most single moms are toxic and emotionally unstable. It is just so sad they are littered everywhere. Unfortunately, most men are wise, since when they get involved with these single moms, these men still get cheated on by the single mom toxic exes.

Women, get down the aisle with a good man, not jerks nor psychopaths! It will be beneficial to you in the end.

Gracias🍷

MrBroke:
It ain't a must to get married. People just create problems for themselves to please or to feel relevant to society. If you want to get married do it because you want to do it not because it is something you came to see as a human being.

Only if humans can think this way, it would have been better. Societal pressure pushed many into marriages.

Humans are small gods! It is very hard for human to control fellow human in a union.

Helper1000:
Marry a girl you can control

Put it like this: marry someone who is teachable. Someone who takes corrections and also willing to adjust.

Not a defensive person. With that, both can enjoy marriage.

Lifeomann:
This marriage of a thing is getting worse. Only God can save us

Honestly bro. The way I view it keeps dismissing in my eyes couple with the things I see happening around.

Complains from married men these days is becoming worrisome.

From the look of things, this institution called marriage could go instinct in years to come, because peace of mind is getting scarce from it.
It is from one problem to another.

Irrespective of our bad leaders or government, an average Nigerian is toxic!

If I could find my way out of this country, I would settle in one of those low populated, organised and good loving African countries.

Nigerians and Nigeria 💔

This country is beyond repairs. We are damaged beyond the things we see, we are damaged mentally. Corruption is rooted in our psyche.

I think every Nigerian should know, all hope is lost!