₦airaland Forum

Nawa for some nairaland guys. Person post her story, una dey bash her. Can't you guys respect people's decision.

Why must one be pressurised to fit in a game he/she doesn't wanna play. More women will hide in their shells as you guys become more judgemental.

Until we stop celebrating fraudsters and ritualists as celebrities, this shit won't end.

VDM was correct about societal pressure.

OP I feel your pain. I don't like it when guys feel you can do shits to women all because you wanna prove dominance or a point.

It wasn't a bad thing you spoke up. You are defending your territory and he should know that thus he shouldn't take advantage of it as weakness.

What he did was a total disrespect. Moreover that girl will also disrespect you in the end.

This is an annoying statement🤦‍♂️

phkka1:
The more you cheat the more you are being celebrated.

Bro, that is the new normal in the Nigerian culture.

phorget:
Are people still coming out for campaigns?

Exactly my thought man. Do Nigerians really learn?

I strongly believe after 4 years of this tenure, more people will come out for campaigns regardless

Sundaland:
One of the few most profitable businesses in Naija

As in ehnn. It is just funny how it sounds. Like an apprentice gaining freedom from his master to set up his own.

Men do too much to fit in into women's world. Slavery!

Irrespective of what type of men[Alpha, Beta, Sigma and the likes] you claim, women leave if she wanna.

They deal with men like they deal with Jobs, when bored or need more high pay, they exit.

Emperormartin:
Most people have individually stopped for Nigeria...

Even on a larger scale, churches have stopped praying for the nation

This in particular insidiously spells doom to the nation but people don't know

I can't even envision how it gonna get its stability back. It all looks blank!

Nigeria is a mistake!

As compensation?

If you are still praying for nigeria to be great, you wasting your damn time.

By the end of this tenure, we will congratulate everyone that survived and start preparing for another tenure of pain.

Nigeria has sunk!

Raskimonojendor:
You are right. I had to go and verify.

Under OBJ and Yar'Adua:

Definitely unemployment rates have been declining for years.

Shege na national cake, e go reach everybody.

Nigeria is a country that kills talents and dreams.

Persephone1:
If you like add violet or gradient pills join.... One day you all will realize you paid too much attention on what you seem not to want.

Smiles 😊
Few guys will deeply understand this.

Evolutionism:
The affected E-Hailing drivers should go and join Politics, Oil Bunkery, Scamming, Yahoo Ritualists, Robbery, 419, Drug Trafficking, Human Trafficking, Olosho Business and Pimping.

These Businesses are what sells most in a useless nation like nigeria.

A very useless nation where 90% Of Its Population are Primitive Bvstards.

Your last paragraph 😅😅
So sad, if you can't win them, you join them.

ReubenE:
Ask them when the refinery is suppose to work and it is not working, they will tell you to remember there was a fire incident sometime in the year and how that changed everything

Yeah.

ReubenE:
There you have it.

With this, they've already announced now why the refinery is not going to work as at when they said it is going to work.

Exactly my thoughts.

Nigeria news gives depression!

garriAndsugar:
Things dey really happen for this nairaland

Bro, the story dey irritating/annoying to apprehend. A 33-year-old man acting this way.

Some men are completely finished.

Jewessgratitud3:
You're still struggling and you want to allow someone trap you into marriage with "we'll manage till it gets better" ? Haaa people no dey learn ooo..

Na this e go better land many families into abject poverty and continuous suffering till today and they don't know how or when they'll get out of it. I'm not discouraging you from getting married but do you have the wherewithal to go through and maintain a marriage life for now?

Why do you feel pressured to take a decision you're not financially ready for? Don't use your hand to bring untold hardship to yourself. If you know as you are right now, you can't feed more than two mouths comfortably, don't go into it cos na the same woman wey dey form "we go manage" go still show you how useless a man you are for not being able to cater for her and her children's needs.

She's forcing you to marry her not because she has any solid plans to assist but because she wants to escape that single motherhood status before it's too late and becomes difficult to find a man that will accept her as she may be having the fear that men hardly go for single mothers these days. So now wen she see one she one quickly attach. Fact is, she's not in her right senses now as all she just wants is escape. After marriage now her eyes go open to the struggle and she'll begin give you better heat.

Marriage no be child's play o. Before you enter, think right, left, center, up and down. Check your pocket, propects and account balance and be sure you can chest it for the first three years without shaking otherwise, you'll enter another high level of struggling if there are no solid structures in place now.

Consider the following expenses in double or triple measures.
Diapers
Feeding
Bills
Rent
Medicals
Are you ready to do this for three? Even if she's working, na your own share go big pass. Think on these things.

Apt! OP, if you love yourself and mental health, read this opinion.

Celebrating fraudsters as celebrities.

A man trying to force himself on woman who does not like him, shows he has very low self esteem.

Trash

thesicilian:
If you never get upset, it becomes boring. Sooner or later she'll start rolling with other guys to get that thrill

Then that is madness

From the context, he talked as though he is offering a favor to us Nigerians. This shit is annoying!

Beverlyjean:
No Nigerian Artists have won the number of MTV awards like dbanj .... without people like Dbanj , 2 face and psquare that carved the way for people like these ones u posted.... they were the ones that made the world recognise new Africa Afrobeats ... do u know how big Oliver twist was ...just because social media is helping promoting these news bees ... during the Olympics in London , during the basketball game between usa and Germany... Oliver twist was played during their break... in the longest running TV programme on uk TV ( East Enders ) Oliver twist was played .... Oliver twist was the first Nigerian song that made billboard top ten

Very true. I could remember the Olympics year back then.

It will only get more difficult. I don't like seeing/experiencing insane society, wish I was born in our forefathers' era.

I don't like the way some guys were trashing her virginity scenario up there. Isn't that what we men demand from women?

Why trash it? Y'all guys just wanna push feminine women into doing nasty things then come back and blame them.

Op, I understand your plight. Sit your man down; talk calmly and kindly to him.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Exactly. I have been there before. I know how e be.

Yet women will preach men should show emotions but in the end they punish/hurt them.

The loss effect will really tell on women because men won't take women seriously anymore. And that is what is occurring, men nowadays only want sex.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Women love the emotional type. Dem go manipulate the guy tire lol.

They don't love them, they use them instead.

Fajeed:
Hi nairalanders there is this girl I’m dating she is endowed and curvy I love her so much but I don’t know why I always feel insecure I always feel like she is gonna cheat or she is gonna see a more better guy than me. I know anytime she goes out guy’s must call her she always tells me she don’t answer
So today I decided to test her loyalty I used a different number to text her and I sent a fake pics telling her that I want to take her out she agreed
Now I’m curious cause I will be the one to show up there why did she agreed for a guy to take her out when she has someone she is dating why didn’t she say no
Should I break up with her
I’m also thinking what if she just agreed to go and she has no intention of accepting the guy I pretend to be if he ask her out
What should I do I’m really worried about this cause she is someone I really love
I need your opinions

Bro, everything is temporary. Enjoy the relationship while it lasts.

I think you are the emotional type, and the moment she finds out she will hurt you subconsciously. That is women for you.