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udede:
I did something similar today about an hour ago. I was going home from a nearby village to mine on a small Scooter that is popular here, called "today" I passed this slim young and beautiful lady of about 25 years of age and she waved me down for a lift. She ask if i was going her way and i said yes picked her. As we moved i asked the normal things like how are you, were are you from and where she dey go. After that i just refused to ask for her number, i just told her that I want a young girl like her wey i go give double belle at once. As she was laughing over the "joke" I was busy pointing out the direction to my village and house (meanwhile she was from and going back to a neighboring state.
When i stopped her, she thanked me and asked me " so how do you give me the belle when you don't even have my phone number? I simply told her to collect mine and flash me and sharpaly sharpaly she brought out her phone and collected my number flashing me immediately to make sure we connect.

I'm still thinking about what to do with her.

One thing is, in the event of not being serious women will take you seriously.

IconicR:
Are you minding them

Thank God they will all marry from the mess they created


Only decent men deserves decent women

Imagine luminouz too looking for a virgin kikikikiki

The way I read your texts on Nl makes me laugh. Only if guys understand you well, you hardly put emotions regarding your texts.

I just view you as someone who has the vibe to shake up a space or cause some dramatic scene to keep everywhere lively. The cruise and care-free type, thus if a guy carry your matter for head na headache he dey give himself 😅

American Odyssey

Oooh Bleep. This is really funny 😅
Sorry bro

Little21:
Good girls may fall for bad boys, but if you find out he is just player, why would you still stay with him?? A girl knows a bad boy if they see one, but if she fall for him despite that... It means she only chose what she want too choose. As a girl if you know the kind of person you are, and the kind of person you want.. You won't settle for the exact opposite. Some were deceived. I won't evade that part. A bad boy can start acting all good for you. Even though it's all too get in the girls pant.. but the girl will fall for it, thinking if he is becoming a new leaf, just for her. No matter what others say, that the guy is a player, and will never change. Cuz people don't change. She will still wanna believe, it's a miracle, that a guy change, just for her. And in the end she will end up as a victim.

Same goes for guys too.

Bro, women know they are players yet they are wired to fall for opened minded person with less emotions -- bad boy. Women are careless being, they just wanna have fun but not accountable for its outcome.

Just want a free-from-obsession lifestyle. Sadly, in the end both the good guys and bad guys are called scum. Funny gender😅

Little21:
It's a law of attraction. You attract what you are like. No good woman will be attracted to a player, than a player woman. If you are good, go for the good type and if you are bad, go for the bad type.

Nope. Good girls love and will die for bad boys. Good girls feel comfortable around bad boys. The pressure of being the Good girls is less when around bad boys, they display their hidden naughtiness and their dark secrets.

A bad boy is an opened person who just wanna have fun.

BiGVEEN58:
Victim mentality.

You smart bro. It is in a woman's nature to be the angel of any situation.

The victim card game.

I understand you, the naturally good men are not attractive sexually/sexually appealling. The sexually attractive ones are not in for long term romance hence they come clear with bad intentions or at most hide it then unleash after a lady is hooked.

You cant blame them either, past experiences taught them harsh lessons. Now being good is called all sort of dejected names.
No one wants to fall prey.

Klass99:
Why do men (husbands) stand by and watch their wives maltreat helps, without intervening, stopping their wives and putting an end to the maltreatment?

What I find most annoying is how you men who are supposedly the head of the family/household, allow these things to happen and repeatedly occur in your homes. While saying nonsense like madam will accuse me of taking sides with the help or accuse me of sleeping with her.

Where does all that logical, alpha male energy you like flexing, suddenly goes to, in the face of cruel treatment of helps? Is the logical thing to do not to caution your wives and end the maltreatment? You people will not do it but will continue to shout we are logical.

Some of you married folks will sha not make heaven because of this issue, both of you, as in, husbands and wives, who do this.

You typed out of emotion. But you know the responses men will get from their wives if intervened.

AllenSpencer:
A body is the best atonement.

Someone needs to be sent on same journey Mohbad embarked!

Brooo, you wan dey count scores 😅😅.
Brutal 💔

saphiere:
Why do men sleep with their house helps?

Naivety in women is a feminine trait. It turns men on.

Mind you, being naive is almost equivalent to being teachable. Men don't get turned on with augmentative women.

Gratefullheart:
there contract started with the record label...so it's good to start by banning the record label that initiate young artist in to cultism along side music contract

If we will go by this, then 90% or more record labels will go down. They are all cultists parading as celebrities.

Op, just advice him to calm down that you know he cares but shouldn't worry being emotional about it.

Fine, his actions might look irritating to you but it is something that can be handled. If you leave the guy, na Bleep boys full street. Most guys no smile, they just wanna pipe and dump.

akwesenana:
Good news is you came a long way. Bad news is you came the wrong way.

For what's money without happiness...
Love yourz by J_cole

What is the difference between modern day relationship and prostitution?

After all, it is jumping from one dick to another just to cover bills and expenses.

Mohbad's death will expose the entertainment industry hidden secrets. Bella shmurda should also be careful.

Bunch of cultists claiming to be celebrities. No artiste is excluded in this frat of a thing, all of them sabi as e dey go.

Goodlady:
To butress the op, Nigerian men lacked empathy. Empathy ll place them in the position of not questioning a lady that they are dating or married about finances, gifts, sex etc.
They don't realise that relationship is responsibility. They ll say what your father can't give you, you dey ask from me.
Why you come toast me (woo)?
As I come gree, am I not entitled to your resources?
They also lacked empathy of hurting their wives or female partners deliberately with cheating. They don't put themselves in women's shoe that how ll I feel if she's the one cheating?
Abeg make I no tok talk in order not to be misquoted. 😂 😂 😂😂😂😂😂💕💕😘😘😘😘😂
The violence is needed for cleansing of the minds of the reprobate dirty boys here that can't feed themselves but talk anyhow here against females.

If from your write up, men coming to woo women is equivalent to women entitled to men's resources as agreed to his toasting then women making this statement that men should make the first move is a manipulative construct.

AllenSpencer:
Exactly!

I watched his interview where he claimed Marlians were knocking him off shows. Watched some others where the guys was assaulted and never raised his hands.

That dude was really oppressed by Marlians! If he had a crew that would stand-up, they are suppose to catch a body in the coming months.

He was really really oppressed. There was one I watched, zlatan and he were seated on a wheel chair to shoot some shot clip video before these set of guys came in, one held a cutlass but zlatan had to step in else he would have been seriously injured.

The thing is: The Nigerian music industry is occultic! The scenario shows it.

AllenSpencer:
Lies!

They did everything to defame that dude!

Yeah. Will they also say he forgot what to say when he was interviewed regarding the threats.

shadrach77:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L3DPxYbejFM?si=2ai5CaCp6dUNjAcl

Rest in peace Imole

This is my favorite from his songs. I too like the guy.

So sad 💔.
A non competitive young lad

So sad 💔. One of my favorite artistes

The Love practised these days is an illusion. The love everyone fantasised doesn't exist among us humans.

JustPowerApps:
I have been disappointed a couple of times by females likewise but that doesn't give me the right to treat anyone less important.

Give your best and don't expect the energy back. That's how to live a happy life, it is too much drama to pretend you don't love someone when you actually do.

I like the last statement. Sadly this is why relationships are difficult in this age, thus termed mind games.

Gadafii:
That sex video was her work, she knew she was being recorded, at some points she cautioned the guy he was distracted, and also mentioned that he should focus on the camera, she wanted that to be outside and it’s outside, I can not surprised


Someday somehow she may desire to get married and have a family, but she will tell you to forget her past and you as a man will agree to forget this kind of past

Bro, many and many more men are willing to wife her. Kim did hers, Kanye had her as wife.

Not just Average men are willing to wife her, but high status men.

Truly those in relationships are stuck! Someone once said, Nigerian men are in an interesting kind of bondage. If you are broke, you fear your woman will leave you; if you have money, you feel threatened when a man with more money approaches your woman. And when your woman earns more, you fear the relationship is doomed!

A very sad way to live.

Rayban25:
the next generation of children are going to be so dissapointed. they will just be seeing their parents blockbuster tapes everywhere.

Nope, they won't be disappointed, they will continue from where their parents stopped because by then, it will be the new normal.

BItt:
Humans are not meant to be lonely, if you have no intention to be lonely and depressed at your old age, it's best you get married.

And it's best you get married while still young and but since life has no definite path, if you can't get married at an age lower than 30, just make sure you work and have money, men will come

The last part is funny: have money and men will come 😅. This world is too competitive.

Adulthood is a trap!

ExudeLoveToAll:
You are correct, the scam is just unbelievable.

We term it relationship but its scenario is open relationship done codedly. It will take a while before men get this.

Humans change irrespective of the years spent together. When one has the mindset that humans change, one will have less expectations.

My question is: Of what use is the union of man and woman when it is certain humans change? Cos we always wanna foresee unions/relationships/marriages forever.

We hoping but effect of fuel subsidy is biting hard.