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Yemi Alade is in.

Piro18:
The host just carry masquerade full everywhere

😁😁
It looking like more of a cultural thing than the regular soccer ceremony

Sisqó_-_Thong song

Asa_-_Maybe

Dr. Dre ft. Snoop Dogg_-_Nuthin' but A G Thang

Dr. Dre_-_The watcher

You are just a stepping stone to where she is headed for. Your subscription renewal has expired; Biola is her fantasied man.

Just let her be. At least you enjoyed the moments you both had -- romance between opposite sex is temporary.

I love farming. It is an activity that excites me. I love the mystery that comes with it.

leisuretym:
Joyce of Nigeria info has misled a lot of women with her feminist programmes, I told my wife she will eventually move in with Joyce the day she started acting like the man in my house, if you want to be like Joyce , pack your load to Nigeria info, not asking for anything from you apart from peace of mind

Joyce is too masculine for my liking. I will pick Sandra over her.

He probably must have lost interest. If your friend is assertive, she could make things easier by being friendly with him whenever both of them meet then see if he could re-ask for her number or better still she makes the move.

We4all:
For most couples, years of togetherness means years of sleepless nights and years of endless fights. Only if couples can learn to leave peacefully, then marriage will be so much better.

Yeah. Our imperfections are part of our belongings.

Everyone is acting based on scripts.

There is some sort of joy that comes to my heart whenever I see couples celebrating years of togetherness.

Fahvvy:
Seeing the comments of some people here makes me shake my head ...

First of...
The stereotype that Nigerian society treats men better than women is not necessarily true! ...

If you report a man for abuse here in Nigeria, he will certainly get what's coming ...

No law tells a woman to stay and tolerate abuse in a marriage, none! ... Women choose to stay in abusive marriages for reasons best known to them ...

Secondly...
The stereotype that it is "bad men" that get ruined by women is trash! ...

Let's be real here, if there are any sets of people on earth that get taken advantage of the most are supposedly "good people" ...

Ask yourself a question, if the men there really did maltreat their wives that bad or are the beast that we're painting them to be, why on earth will they take their wives to a country where they know she can ruin their lives in return? ...

I mean...
If I've been terrible to you, it will be fo.olishness to take you to a place where you can ruin my life with just a snap of your finger ...

So those men whose lives have been ruined by women are not necessarily the problem here - the women are. Yes, the men may not be perfect, however, not all cases such are this are the men to blame ...

Thirdly...
It's no news that women in general are naturally abusers of power - they can't handle it ... Even here in Nigeria, a woman in power is far more likely to abuse it than a man ...

Check out military females ...
Check out most female bosses ...
Who is most likely to brutally abuse the maid? A man or a woman? ...

So I'm not surprised that women act that way when they go there ...
It's just their nature ...
They can't handle power and as you well already know, the laws of the West give women so much power it makes men look like second-class citizens ...

So, dear men, it is fo.olishness to take a woman abroad - no matter the amount of Illusion love you have ...

There's too many cases of men having their lives ruined on account of trying to better the lives of women ...

Apt! You women know the truth, most just wanna be defensive.

Ladies this is one of the major reasons guys now insist on sex. There came a time when most men would not touch their women while dating, then women would gist about it amongst their friends/close male friend, and term those set of men "mumu" -- the guy no sharp and the likes.

Another guy who knows the game will f.uck these same women and brag about it to their main boyfriends. Thus this continually happened to a large extent, booom most men had to wake up from their slumber and never wanna fall victim.


Women said they weren't sharp guys nor smart as regards making sexual moves. But now these men are more than smart, they ain't in for deceptions; yet ladies cry that all men just want is sex.

Y'all ladies cast your games, you gotta deal with it!

Jeferious:
While this is true, there are still some exceptions. I have a girlfriend who I started on a "bestie" level with. She was my next door neighbor during my university days. At a point in time, she started demanding full commitment from me. I succumbed, and we started a full-fledged serious relationship.

I noticed that during the "bestie days", she wasn't asking for even a pin. The only thing she wanted then was compliments, time and attention. But now, I dey collect billings like never before. She once told me that her people are having issues financially, so she isn't as buoyant as before. I understand, and I have trying my best. But mehn... it's starting to choke me. I don't mind giving up on the relationship. I value my money abeg.

So Bro, no be must say the relationship started on a "commercial" note. My own is just I also desire someone who's financially stable too

I get your points. But execptions Don't make the rules.

How you start with a woman is how you gonna end with her.

Most Nigerian men buy women.

fashrola:
Ask me Anything about Ships or how you can become a crew onboard, I will gladly answer your questions, Nairaland doesn't have a forum for ships, hence the car section might be a perfect fit

Note: I don't give jobs, but I can guide you on navigating through the maritime career path

I have been looking for an opportunity to give you an inner experience of how an offshore vessel looks like...

They are different types of vessels

1. Roro ship
2. Container ship
3. Bulk carrier
4. Crude carrier
5. Gas Ship (LNG)
6. Oil tankers

You can Google each of them to get an insight on what they do

I work onboard offshore vessels, that's why I'm gonna narrow my explanation on this type of vessels

We have vessels which provides vital services to offshore installations which include

1. AHTS - Anchor Handling and Towing vessel
2. ASD Tugs - Azimuth Stern Drive tugs
3. DSV - Diving support Vessel
4. PSV - Platform Supply Vessel
5. Seismic Vessels
6.Pipe Laying vessels

The above mentioned vessels are all available in Nigeria carrying out services for IOCs

Though I've only worked on AHTS, ASD Tugs even though other vessels are of the same configuration but they perform different tasks

The duty of AHTS and ASD tug is for static towing

Onboard a ship, we have ratings and officers and it has two departments

Deck & Engine

The Captain is the overall, that's why he's also called the master but the certification of the captain and Chief Engineer is the same

Officers
Captain
Chief Engineer
Chief Mate or chief officer
Second Engineer - This is my rank onboard
Second mate or second officer
Third engineer
ETO

Ratings (Depends on the type of vessel)
Bosun, also called QuarterMaster
AB
Oiler
Cook


Onboard the ship, my responsibilities are enormous, ranging from Main engine maintenance, generators, Steering gear systems, Air conditioning unit etc

I'm onboard, and the bandwidth is crazy to upload pictures, I may do that much later if the network is good

Hello sir, I am about to begin a path/career in the maritime industry. Can I pm you so you can give me some guidelines amd certifications to acquire.

Coastal Maritime Academy at ikoyi, lagos is where I wanna obtain these certifications.

Hints to ladies: any time your boyfriend tells you "whenever you see someone better than I, you can leave/get along with the person, that he doesnt mind" just know you are a fuckmate to him.

Secondly, if he doesn't set boundaries with you in a relationship, then you just dating yourself. You are a fuckmate to him.

Coldie:
Seyi vibesz is wasting his prime singing off keys songs

Have you seen his previous photos before fame. Young, fresh and fine. But now he looks like someone who is sick!

Experiences like this make men have trust issues with women. The circle continues and keeps increasing.

Where is IconicR?
She shakes up nairaland threads funnily.

There are a lot of men with very very low self esteem.

Men apply believe/healthy self esteem when in search of jobs and/or interviews with high paying companies to secure healthy/fat paying jobs in order to get financially comfortable; morever why can't this same healthy self esteem be applied when in search of one amongst the pool of women to spend your life with?

I will repeat my words -- Generation of men with poor and absolutely poor standards!

Fountainofyouth:
A very stupid assumption

Men and women say a lot of things to those they are close with either male or female jokingly, that doesn't mean they've had sex.

How would you feel if a married woman tells your husband this?

donmik:
I don't think they pick pocket as you guys hype it o.
Lagos problem mainly na almost unaffordable accommodation and dirty environments

Go cms, idumota, with isale eko, as well as ikeja [computer village area]; you go know say pick pocketers plenty.

Karlifate:
Lekki - Ajah traffic na your mate

The traffic na suicide mission. Very very annoying.

ThatCEO:
A man makes money, he wants to marry a woman.

A woman makes money, she will say she doesn't need a man n all d men within her standards are suddenly below her.

The human male specie is the most foolish animal in our eco system.

Most men herd mentality is slavery.

Men against virgins, I think this solves some equations for y'all.

Non virgins exhibit and carry the traits of every of her exes -- combativeness, aggressiveness, dominance, non agreeable, and the likes. All these which are masculine traits are possessed by most women who have had too many exes.

A non virgin woman is an average man.

I sense jealousy around especially from nairaland men. Bad belle plenty. A virgin woman with quality feminine traits, is a high value woman.

As for the men against virgins, here is my advice: pick up one of the those whores in the street and wife her up, then also train your female child to become a LovePeddler so that you can be proud of her as well, at least to emulate her mother[your wife].

Generation of men with poor and absolutely poor standard!

Then there won't be any testosterone in men. Men and women are made to compliment each other.