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Megfrivolous:
lol
i mean like your monicker has DNS ...Domain Name Service (in windows server administration)
i'm a bit into IT though, that's why i asked

BiggyB242:
She kept saying "No" to your proposal (from your write-up) because she didn't want a relationship with you.

If she liked you she would have said yes. When a girl sees you as someone she can have a future with she doesn't waste your time. Only, if there is more to what you have posted you didn't mention.

BiggyB242:
Nah, I'm speaking from experience. Is is what it is.

mumu9gerian:
Stop spewing rubbish

BiggyB242:
Bro let give you a little secret, if a girls likes you she wouldn't give you a hard time trying to win her heart. She only called you because she was feeling lonely at that time and see if she could try out things with you (like a second choice).
The only girls who makes shakara are those still in uni probably below 23yrs.

Megfrivolous:
bro do you do server stuffs ??

MJBOLT:

the guy promised her marriage,you had nothing to offer,she chose the better option.i see nothing special here.

Originalsly:
Hmmm.....so you were one of the pioneers who began persecuting the ladies who dared to post a comment . Now most of the ladies are just readers in the background. But it is good for you to open this thread to confess how wrong you were in your belief that women are pretty much no good. Life has a way of making you eat your words.... most do so silently. Yes you missed a great opportunity... and you would always regret this one.... a good wife is hard to find..... not impossible... just hard to find. Are there more like her?...no doubt... and if you ask me.... right here on NL.... just don't ask me how I know.
Good luck.

BiggyB242:
If she liked you why didn't she say yes when you were asking her out back then. She just wanted you as a friend.

sadoroy:
Look at the way you are talking about it like karma means nothing to you. Let me tell you something I am sure of, "it will end in tears"


This thing you are doing ehn, I did it one time. I was busy snatching girls from their GF's here and there. Bad sharp guy doing survival of the fittest just like you said "overtaking is allowed"

Bro, when I reaped everything I sowed, I cried so much I needed more tears but they were nowhere to be found.

Now them no born me well to dey philander.

Bro, there is always a price for snatching girls all because she fell in love with you and all. If she can meet you within days and forget her guys hustling for her overseas, then who are you "obalende silicon valley?"

The way you will be jilted ehn, even your ancestors will read it on paper.

Best thing, she loves me, infatuation shit, or not, cool. But if you love yourself, let her be please. Imagine you are the guy abroad. Imagine how you felt when your gf treated you the way she did? Imagine the way the guy will feel when she comes. What if it becomes brutal? Cult wars and shit? All for a woman you could have said hi to and moved on.

You will get your own girl, boy. Leave her and face your damn business.

Erediauwa:
"She had told me she has a guy outside the
country who she said want to marry her, she
loves him but then, she doesn't know what is
going on because she can't seem to get over
me and she said she knows it's not infatuation."


God bless you. That is all I have to say















[color=#ff9999]This is simply the "betrayal of trust" and a bitchy attitude from her.

Didn't she know that the dude hustling abroad was uneducated before saying "yes" to him?

And you Op, you're still putting your big head into another man's compound with the hope of chasing him out?

Damn dude, she sees you as the assistant technology boyfriend.

"Commot your hand for soldier man salary"[/color]

Jodha:
Eyah ...

Keep searching at the right places... I'm sure yhull find someone even better..

Prec1ous:
Your first paragraph was not necessarilyneeded. I am wondering why you went on the defensive.

But all in all, in our different perspectives, we are right. So you are too.

Sirjamo:
That was how the ineffectual buffoon gave our electricity distribution companies to some Catastrophic investors who do not have enough money to buy ordinary pre - paid meters.

Prec1ous:
I do not know why this does not intrigue me.

I feel she just wanted to prove a point to you, make your feel like you missed or lost alot by giving up on her. This purpose, sh has achieved properly.

How do I know? Because, like you stated, you tried bringing up the relationship issue again. So she really got you and must be feeling so great too.

Stop looking for a lady that will spend on you, just get one you want. Along the line, she may learn to spend on you even if it is not her money. She will spend yours on you.

Cheers.

Jodha:
Nurse yhur wounds oga...

Yhu are the cause of yhur problem....

Where are those bitter nairaland guys....y'all should come and see this...
Yhur bitterness will land y'all in a tunnel y'all will regret one day..

Op do not lose all hope...if she's truly meant for yhu...y'all will be together las las... I'm glad yhu learnt yhur lesson the hard way..

Legionx:
Please guys, learn that there is a difference when a girl spend on you because she wants to date you, sees you as a romantic partner and when she spends because she sees it as a friendly outing with a guy in the friendzone

Hello Everybody,
I'd like to thank you all for your support, all the advice, reprimands and rebuke. My only interest was saving my marriage which I felt was on the cusp of collapse. Things are being fixed as I write. It's been a case of misconstrued intentions and ultimately my wife is not an evil person. We burt each other by things that we didn't understand especially on my part. I love my wife dearly and it's never been about money. True, my wife currently earns more than I do and shoulders the bulk of the responsibility. I guess the pressure got to us both especially me for being unable to meet my financial obligations.
The story I posted was not real, but a representation of what I felt was going on to protect our identities. Truthwillout is my wife. Once again I thank you all. Right now we're trying to heal and fix the cracks that led to this unfortunate scenario.
Thank you all.

NB: She didn't turn the children against me. She didn't buy land anywhere and she has never referred to me as irresponsible.

justnock:
Awww lemme plan your wedding ceremony ok. I can tell you've fallen for her like crazy. Just take it one step at a time... she's yours. Trust me

Mallamsaka:
the money is for selected low class people that does not have plans of doing something bigger, naira that has no value.hold 20k just spend #100 and u will see the downfall of the money.

nuelzy:
I don't get... The lady looks older..


Abi spiff nah local fowl

funmisticqueen:
why must it be that I am heartbroken, just because you can't wrap your mind around the fact that a monicker like mine exists

luminouz:
In all my years on NL, I have never seen any female as abused as funmisticqueen in any one thread until this one.

38 pages of insults and call-outs. Nawa o


I hope she is strong enough to take it psychologically.

Only other girl I had seen abused like this was Queensuccubus.

funmisticqueen:
uncle the wife has replied to the post and she tells a different story

Mallamsaka:
#20,000 naira to make up business in lagos bro

Yinibixema:
Olosho stfu. Ugly fool who can’t take her family out of okokomaiko talking about making money as if she has mademoney for herself or her wretched family. Go and make money and stop giving foolish advice here mofo

funmisticqueen:
I got 99 problems but a man ain't one

funmisticqueen:
That makes him no better than her and proves me right. Money changes both men and women