joyandfaith:


It is not about you but others. Never trust your heart. Take precautions.

Yes. Thanks. I don't meet females one on one in private by any means


You're right sha. This sex thing. God will help us

joyandfaith:


That is what i am trying to say. Woman and man cannot just be casual friends. Eventually, sexual feelings would develop from one or both parties.

Well. I've had at least seven to ten female companions and never had sex with any or even fantasize about sex with them.


The spirit of a man is subject to a man.


My.rule when it comes to sex is that I must desire it and it must be deliberate and intentional otherwise I'm not taking. It has kept me up and running for years

joyandfaith:

It is not about you. It is about feelings of female friends. You will never know. You are not God.

Joy joy. Well, I've actually caught a few lusting. What I do when females I have casual friendships begin to ooze " come let's have sex vibes " with me is I immediately disconnect and pull away. This is for the one I notice this trend in o. For the ones I don't, I don't know cause I'm not God


A few of them have asked me directly how I manage being friends and all with our clique and almost never exhibited sexual vibes. Yes, two have walked up to me and asked me this sha

mpire:
Keep deceiving yourself and glamourising adultery. You've disrespected your spouse, and still disrespecting him by still being in contact with the guy. But continue, you'll run back to the Holy Spirit right?

Nonsense, you're emotionally cheating but it's acceptable? You're keeping his number so that, may be one day it won't work out on both ends and you two can finally be together, that's your plan stop involving God in your shenanigans. Hopefully your husband is doing the same thing with another woman too and the man's wife also finds out about you. It's only a matter of time, don't block him, keep the lines of communication open.

How do you know all this?


Is it only your partner you've been attracted to in life? If not, did you fvxk all of them?


Judge less my dear. Let your words be salted with grace and inspire repentance, not judgement

joyandfaith:


It is only God that knows the heart.

I swear. I'm not a whimp o Joy. If I like a lady I always make it known o immediately.

omohayek:

You refute my accusation that you spout gibberish by spouting yet more gibberish about my own supposed gibberish! Well done, that must be your 160+ IQ at work ...

You've been attended to


I'm busy. Keep deluding yourself with your self assumed superior logic. You'll be fine. I'm busy

joyandfaith:


You don't have feelings for them does not mean they don't have for you. It happens gradually.
Bolded- very correct. No friendship without deep communication.

We don't. Funny enough. Yes, I've had noticed some in relationships had feelings of lust for me and I would have been in their pant,I helped them where they fell.

But I have a special unit of female friends and we both have nothing for ourselves. Nothing at all. I'm called brother. I call them my sisters


There are exceptions. The maturity of the parties involved, motives and intentions is what matters

omohayek:

Unlike you, I don't "hype" myself by making bogus claims about my IQ, I merely point out harsh realities which ought to be obvious to any reasonably intelligent educated person. No one forced you to spew verbose gibberish making yourself out to be some sort of "genius", even though you display no understand of rudimentary economic principles.

That is why inspire of your lengthy gibberish, you couldn't help a fool gain more insights cause you said absolutely nothing. Empty drum.

Jesus said about Himself someone greater than Solomon is here, it wasn't recorded as sin against him.


You can hurt yourself on my account.

Good day

joyandfaith:


Woman and man cannot just be casual friends. Eventually, sexual feelings would develop.

I have mature christian ladies as friends and we don't have feelings for ourselves. When deep and lengthy communications sets in, then problem sets in

Angela1996:
Please reply email

What's your game plan ?

omohayek:
To read through this thread is to witness the recapitulation of all of the nonsensical development ideas which have led Nigeria to remain a Third World cesspool while many of its former peers have joined the ranks of developed nations: inane conspiracy theories about "the West" plotting against Nigeria for some unspecified reason or other, insistence on the "essential" nature of what is a commodity in the age of machine learning and biotech, vehement appeals to "infant industry" arguments which have never shown any success in all of Nigeria's history, appeals to tribalism and insistence that Ajaokuta would have been a roaring success if only the "right" people (aka their "kinsmen" ) were left in charge, even pompous boasting about a supposed 160+ IQ from someone who clearly couldn't reason his way out of a paper bag!

As far as I can see, only one contributor to the entire thread clearly sees Ajaokuta for what it is: a ridiculous white elephant project which was already obsolete and uncompetitive when it was being initially built by Shagari, let alone today when Chinese operators are flooding international markets with steel at prices no one can compete with - not even the Americans, the South Koreans and the Japanese, let alone a third-rate country like Russia whose sole remaining exports are raw materials like oil, gas and manganese. Pouring more money down the black hole that is Ajaokuta in the name of "development" is the most pointless and ridiculous policy any government could follow, as would be obvious to anyone who understood what the "sunk cost fallacy" means.

The belief that manufacturing has some sort of sacred role that justifies diverting scarce funds to, at the expense of essentials like reducing infant mortality, providing clean drinking water, and ensuring everyone can get a quality free primary through JSS education, is at the foundation of much that has gone wrong in Nigerian history, even leaving aside all the rampant corruption. This pathetic superstition is what has given birth to Dangote's monopolies that double the price of housing for every Nigerian, it's what has led to rampant smuggling of adulterated food products and drugs that kill vast numbers every year, it's why oil bunkering and "refining" have ruined the Niger Delta with pollution, and it's why "herdsmen" can hold a nation to ransom in the name of more expensive and vastly inferior beef to what could be imported from Argentina and the USA. One would think after 62 years of failed protectionism and import-substition policies, Nigerians would have started to know better, but threads like this are a real eye-opener in that regard. Nigerian history in a nutshell: largely stupid masses go along with largely stupid policies of largely stupid leaders, then act astonished when the results of their stupidity are further failure and impoverishment!

You condemn another's POV to hype yours. Why not blame me.for Nigeria's historical problems na. Mtchew

Hmm

Is the building close to a bank ?

This is strange. Works up, doesn't work well down stairs.

GenBuhari:
Budget $3000 per month (including accommodation) to be safe and comfortable.

If they are willing to live amongst the working class and face the same challenges then $700-$1000 per month should suffice.

Indeed. And you spend such yourself?

cooltola:


Good to hear, hopefully the plans become a reality

It will. I can guarantee it cause I saw detailed schematics on this

limorider:

good to know. do you know the cost of living in lagos?

Answered above.


You'll be fine with $250 - $500 as living. Expense per month for a single person, although depending on taste, preference and life style

limorider:


is living in nigeria cheap? I imagine it is but you know, you get what you pay for.

"Just the few challenges we have, excessive afternoon sun heat and radiation" Radiation? what kind?

Just like Europe is experiencing ice caps melt down, we're experiencing longer sun light durations, more intense sun lighting as a result the afternoons are always hot


You can't cope here without proper HVACsystems put in place for you when you finally visit. Make sure



Living in Nigeria can be cheap and expensive the same time. Its getting closer to the exact standard in EU if you opt for standard treatments. If you opt for close to but not standard treatments, you could save up to 50% on costs

Lagos state has already initiated the process of producing its own electricity.


As we speak there are almost three electric production plans all undergoing different production phase.

limorider:


Even if it's not a real democracy, democracy is evil anyway. Germany is a puppet of the US, it gets bullied by the US army all the time and kneels to the FBI and CIA. You can get arrested by american forces in that "country". Australia is a bad choice, they built camps over there and they probably still operate. Canada is ok. but if you want to go to canada, why not go to the US? lol
I'm not happy with the EU at all. UK made the right choice leaving.

Germany is a policed state. I just don't trust its stance and policies


Definitely US is my top choice any day and time cause its big enough to find space to express and move out as well


BTW, Nigeria's the new front, we're brooding with the establishment of new ideas and more. If there's money, here's a place to relax once in a while. Receive natural sun. Just the few challenges we have, excessive afternoon sun heat and radiation, tiny roads leading to hectic traffics.



I've been an Hillsong Australia fan for two decades, as a reuskt the country has grown into a detonation for me. I plan to visit this country at least one yearly.


We need to explore the works and make the most of our lives you know

limorider:


glad to see some other people understand the new world order nonsense. I can exit if I want to, probably. I'll see how things are in the summer. My country is in the EU so there are probably restrictions.

You don't want to go to the EU. It's strongly controlled and each EU country is a fake country, no sovereignty. You may have an easy time migrating to one, but I don't know. They're all very pro-immigrant. As for the USA? I don't know.

Trust me some of us follow the intricacies of this world. We ain't taking any vaccine no matter how long they try to fool themselves


No mRNA modification. I ain't submitting myself to a vaccine who's long term effects have never been studied. Never


I'm kinda more of US/Canada/Australian person


I kinda see the EU as an anti democratic contraption disguised as a democracy, using its people like tools and subjecting them to policies it mandates upon them, altogether disguised as free will. I'm always careful about anything long term and the EU



I honestly don't trust Germany one single bit when it comes to EU

generalwo:
..... So a mobile phone made in China can't be fixed by a man from USA because it's of Chinese origin The manuals, they can't translate them to English abi?? If there is a panel written in Russian for example, it can't be replaced by a panel that does similar job but made by the English and written in plain and simple English?? Broda, the Russians may have built the plant but it doesn't mean engineers from other countries can't work on the machines if or when needed...... As long a the machines follow the basic working principles of every other machines, it can be fixed by any other person with the expertise and experience

The urge to argue


Answer


Since its multiple repairs and maintenance carried out in the past 40 years, have you ever heard that it worked just thirty minutes in the post maintenance managements?

limorider:


Moved past covid but you still need a vaccine passport? Bleep that. I don't have one and won't have one.




this is what I've heard but I have a morbid curiosity

My dear come over and I'll make it worth while for your fate. I'll buy you a cock tail


It appears you're on our gang anti-new world order madness. I plan to relocate -EU and US in mind once the whole nonsense is put to rest. Ain't undergoing any vaccine thingey



The thing is. Will your country allow you exit without getting the vaccine? I can find out if it has been relaxed for visitors coming in

I recommend this lady


Girlnextdoor1

Realist12:
There's problem in the country, I see a lot of youths discussing how British, Indians, Russian, and Chinese are the best to develop an integral industry in our future , yet no one can actually snap out of it to say we can also develop it , yet the government waste a lot of money subsidizing education in Nigeria, and scholarships to foreign countries. Africa my Africa our ancestors have been taking as slaves to these foreign lands , yet we still beg for our inheritance to be mined for us . My point is if we cannot not do it ourself. Lets wait rather than will it out .

There's nothing in a steel production industry like ajaokuta we can't do ourselves but do Africans belief Africans?

If Africans can believe Africans, let people with resources support ordinary mechanized farming first

grandstar:


The Chinese are money miss road. China has a massive debt mountain that if it comes crashing, it will take cause a global crisis. Even Chinese economists have not championed their economic model outside China. All those skyscrapers and massive housing are sitting on a debt bubble. All that glitters isn't gold

I still hold my ground that we do not need to build steel factories. Let the market pick winners.

By the way, I learnt that a Chinese company in Nigeria that converts scrap to steel exported 200,000 mt of steel in one year! I was dumbfounded.

Yes. Chinese in Nigeria are always seeking our scrap metals. I've had deals to procure hefty tons of those back in my hustling days 15-20 years back.



You obviously have not fully deciphered the Chinese motive in its over production of resources. Let me share the formulae with you bro


By over producing for another country, I make them technically dependent on me. Technically useless. And deprive them of skill development which in technology, one thing is li led with the other and they aren't entirely isolated.


For example, by products of steel production leads to production of reagants, gases like oxygen and likes that can find itself into other aspects of metallurgy, pharmaceuticals, industry building and much more. So when deprived of one core piece, we're delibertaley cut out form a lot

ndukwejoe:
please dont come there are more savages than real human beings

Dude. What's this nau. ?

Stop it pls

limorider:

Yeah. I was considering visiting this summer. Do you guys have covid restrictions and stuff? Those are barely being lifted here in Europe, and it's a real pain to deal with travel

Should you have a vaccine passport and all you're good to go.


Mehn, come groove here. You just reminded me about the social distancing and all in Europe. Here's lit. The fun will drive you mad, you may reconsider not going back



We've moved past covid and all. Technically

Once you have a list of your preferred places, you can plan your activities next


You can plan around what and what activities for each location


I counsel that you make a tour journal to have a solid a vacation plan

limorider:

Are there any of these that I could contact before coming?

Yes. There are definitely tour guides that even operate websites and all. You can check through their brochure to see services you'd be getting before your arrival, so you can plan your visit better.

Let's have a plan B. Visiting without a company.

For this do this. Make a list of as much tourist destinations you can gather let's say between 40-60. You'll further narrow it down to say 20 later on

limorider:

What's your advice? I don't know any Nigerians, and have not had a chance to visit any countries nearby either.

How about a tour guide/company ?

Its more fun with company, I advice not coming without company, you'll miss out on all the fun and excitement


Unless you wanna try

First, you need company. Your company will be the extra fun booster where you get buddies to chat with during your trips

Second. Plan to visit as many states as possibl. I highly recommend states like:

Lagos
Abuja
Akwa ibom/Cross River