voizofone:
So according to you, smart woman, marrying by the law gives you the legal rights to kill your spouse? Or to chase away all the members of your spouse family claiming your territory? Does that law mean that you will have no menner? Or does it mean that you will pack all the money in the business claiming that you are saving it for him or her and the person goes aborting, paying interest while you misuse the money buying luxuries in life? Does it give you the right not to do anything in the home claiming first man or firstlady? Do you even know what you are claiming

Claiming uprightness has never won any law suit. You came seeking counsel,ended up projecting the same self righteous conjectures as your brother.

The woman has him by the balls. And if you don't want to see him regret, you better do the needful and face the oresent reality without your self deceiving thesis

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels woman fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched a graudate of uniben with 2.1
Still on menial job . Parents wealthy and Ist son

First get engaged with work that demands your time plentifully. Where will the time for brothel avail itself if you only have time for work and rest?


The root cause is too much spare time and idleness

And you can make it in 30s

Joseph became prime minister in 30s

Jesus began public ministry in 30s


30s is a period God does a lot of repairs to damaged lives

Allow him resolve his shit. If he can put a woman in a home, he should know how to organize it. That aside,you don't remarry without annnulling an unresolved legal union. What is your brother thinking?

NaijaUpdates88:
" If PDP fails to give Peter Obi Presidential ticket, I will kill myself."

Chileem Chileem

RIP. Wike is plotting severely to hijack it. Infact, Orji Uzor Kalu will win as it stands cause he will clinch APC ticket. Greet my ancestors when you see them on the other side

Handsum64:
You see the crab mentality of the South.
Pull him down syndrome
What the North will never do

Did you say this when Tinubu was doing worse to GEJ?

DontBullshitMe:
I have a very big problem with Osibanjo's declaration.

The declaration for Presidency by Osibanjo is borne out of nothing but greediness. C'mon, this man has been in Aso rock for almost 7 years and spent about 1 of it being the President.

Isn't it obvious to him that Nigeria is fundamentally unfixable. To fix Nigeria, there are some harsh, unpopular policies that need to be executed and promoted nationwide. One of them is : to aggressively slow down population growth. Another is : coming to realization that Nigeria is not a very rich country, and taking active steps to foster industrialization so that taxation can be more aggressive.

Osibanjo himself knows he can't fix Nigeria, who is he deceiving?

A person who has never held any position of authority in Aso rock can still pardoned for thinking they can fix Nigeria on the basis of ignorance.

God bless you. Spot on

I agree

SanctifiedSista:


ready to learn attitude
Am u see me, I don't use sanitary pad anymore,make my hair or eat twice a day

You don't use sanitary pad anymore. Is it that bad?

what happened brother? You didn't' pull this out of the air

This war will drag. Stylishly, Syria to Yemen is dragging into years longer than anticipated. This new war will also drag, sadly

Suggest better options. Strike Russia militarily? Criticism is easy, providing superior suggestions is always the problem

SanctifiedSista:
Dear friends
I need a business mentor who can
1. Show me what am doing wrong
2. Teach me how to never beg for money
3. Teach me to be financially empowered and help others as well
4. Have cause to be celebrating his or her birthday and other events because am too grateful

I want to be a blessing to my family and world and not a cause of worry
Who is willing to take d challenge?

I mentor a married woman. She came confused. Today, she can't handle the clients she has and is on her way to millions

What do you offer to be mentored?

How do you compete in a contest you heavily criticized and cursed your fellow competitors.

Shame is lost

WATCHOVER:

Smile in face of difficulties gives you an edge over your problems,
You Nailed it

I've almost made superiors lose their minds doing it personally. It's the masterclass n mastering chaos. Example, i'e been in two incidences where the house was on fire, and while people were shitting in their pants, i practically walked in without the fear, initiated action and the buildings were saved. Stoicism is bae

It is practiced in KGB.

Being emotionless hides intent. Doing this aids him in hiding his next move and keeping all parties on their toes

It's the masterclass " STOICISM " also keenly exhibited by Kanye West

Staying calm regardless of the situation



Putin received superb training and solid experience as a KGB operative. For KGB alumni, staying calm is a freshman 101 skill.

KGB schools used a multitude of techniques to teach newbie operatives how to manage the feeling of permanent, looming threat. They had a whole career ahead of them filled with this on an everyday basis. To survive and succeed in the life of non-stop paranoia, they needed to handle it on their own on a deeply personal level.

Successful spies should know how to relax and act natural at all times. Otherwise, they wouldn’t be able to blend with the scene, operate below the radar, and get below their mark’s guards.

It is also very important to convert the tension of constant paranoia into the habit of calm observation and scanning for actual threats. After a few years, this becomes second nature for a spy.


He gives a very good rendering of that level-headed, friendly, yet sharp composure—the mark of a top-level spy.



Vladimir Putin is an apparent introvert. Concerning him, there’s the same deep understanding of human psychology, self-reflection, and long, often ruthless training. That’s something only the best of con men can achieve on their own.

Smh

Ofcourse, it's clear to see that Wike is intent on scuttling whatever his party may choose to do to clinch the presidential ticket

Although it is his fundamental right to openly declare his intent like every other interested party, PDP as a political party do not have stakeholders that look at issues more holistically by choosing the narrative, this individual has the highest potential an would earn us the victory. This is why PDP will lose 2023.

visitations everywhere

GreyLaw:


God has spoken!

How do you know he has no new ideas? What did he do wrong in seeing a place cleaned up? How do you know he won't make the state economically better?

This is simply armchair political commentary! The man is not even a month into his journey and you are already laying a curse on his performance. A thousand pities.

Called a forum. Public forum

You're excused

Hmm. Many married woman seducing singles. Hmm

Na man you be

If only our politicians understand what it means what the notion, " number is an asset " means

Soludo won't make a good governor. When i saw him at the waste clearing site at Ochanja, i knew it was same ol. No new ideas

He should use his experience in economics in making the state atleast economically better

Hmm

Factoryfitted:


Lolz. Bros, first of all, I no dey stay for alagbole area. Second of all, whether u dey keke o, you dey Range or G-wagon, all of Una dey the traffic together. Even with your escort and all.

And even for Ikoy or Lekki or Surulere, name the place, the air quality na the same. As u get
heavily polluted air for Olodi na so u get for Ikoyi. Except say u dey talk of BI or VGC. So which place undey talk of exactly?

Okokomaiko

Ebubeslym:
Nigerians being disrespected all over the place

In fact. This is too shameful

Buy the business plan.

chioma134:
I wish to say a big thank you to all nairalanders for your input on this thread. To be honest, I typed the first post as a response to the earlier thread I talked about yesterday, but decided to turn it to a thread because I felt it would have a wider reach and more people would benefit from it. I was honestly surprised to see it made front page.

To all those who saw my point and encouraged me in their posts and likes, I am very grateful. You made me not regret posting this thread. You're the very face of humanity.

To those who condemned me, I say thank you too. Because of your words, I'll never walk that path again by God's grace. However, some of you need to be kinder with your words. Someone else would have become depressed, but I'm used to Nairaland and the toxicity some spue.

To the moderators, thank you for making me make frontpage. I'm sure more people would have learnt one or two things.

I myself have also learnt a lot. I picked some good advice which I believe will benefit my marriage. My marriage was and is still good, but one thing I have taken away from here is to cultivate a closer relationship with my spouse to avoid stories that touch.

Shalom

Exactly what I pick in my spirit carefully going through all your comments


There's a void in your relationship and that void stirs up a longing.

You need to do something about this. This void will open up other kinds of experiences on either end if not attended to. You need healthy satusfying relational interactions from what I discern about you. I could be wrong but this is what my soul tells me

Hmm