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airmark: They paid for Psquare and MayD services, only to see the twins on stage without MayD and his verse cut off. Payback's time. You remember Uganda, remember Idi Amin. No nonsense.

vivian chinaza: I'm from a very humble background or should I say poor? Yea poor sounds like it, "humble" just makes it bearable, Lol, ok. But rich guys keep coming for me, and no one has ever cared about my family's financial/social status. In fact, that's the first thing I tell them, I'm always like "dear, don't let my looks deceive you, I'm from a very humble background o." I'm Vivian, and that should be enough!
So contrary to your opinion, majority of guys don't actually care.

A lot of ladies who have misplaced their priorities actually care about how rich a guy is before they consider him and I just pity them. I just hope they realize that the life of a man is a mystery. A man's life can change in a twinkle of an eye.

I'm friends with a lot of people who at one time couldn't even afford a decent meal, but just one phone call changed their lives for best, and vice versa.

Last year, I did a job for this couple that had no house. The groom is my friend and as at then the most valuable property he had was his laptop. In fact, when he told me he was getting married I was like "are u crazy?" Cos he didn't even have a house. Few weeks to the wedding someone gave them a room in his flat and they were squatting there. Whenever I went to the house to discuss their wedding I was always like "how could this girl get married to a man that doesn't have a house?" Honestly, I couldn't understand, I couldn't even think of myself doing it. Well, their marriage is a year old and they are now living in one of the beautifully furnished houses I have ever seen.

Stories like this humble me, and I of all the things I have seen in my few years on earth, I have known that riches cannot be guaranteed. I have also known that life is a mystery.

So if you fall in love with someone from a rich background good, if you fall in love with someone from a humble background good too. Marrying a rich person is not a crime, marrying a poor person is not a crime either, provided that LOVE is the driving force.

deenee: Sorry to bust your bubble but the best way to win her heart is to have a very un-interested stance towards the lady in question. Women are put off by men who try hard at winning their hearts.

I have also realized that women tend to fall for men who are enigmatic and unpredictable. If she can predict your every move even before you make it then you ain't gonna go far.

Women like intrigue, suspense and the occasional adrenaline rush. The funny thing is you won't need to break the coffers of a bank to do any of these. It is either you have it in you or you don't.

Best of luck with your conquest!

uboma: she is stil playing hard to get. U need to give her attention like calling her regularly to say hi, remember her birthday, pay her a visit occasionally with her consent, make her laugh whenever u are with her(ladies love guys who makes them laugh but overdo it so she doesnt take u for a clown) and take her out once in a while but above live within ur means. Dnt stretch urself financially coz at the end of d day she may stil dump u after milking u.

Jerry spaco: Send her countless inspirational SMS nd see if u won't kill her softly

Xflint: But above, that girl loves u and wants u.

iamtheprincipal: @OP, you are almost there. Just a little more of your check-up calls, show of kindness, uncommon interest in her affairs and attention would win you this supposed 'heart' of hers, I bet you.

Goodluck!

Caracta: How am i supposed to know? Get to know her first. Do not judge a book by its cover. Look out for her strengths. Be sincere with her and watch out for red light.
Just keep doing the best you can. Don't try to impress her. Let her love you for who you are. If she's yours, she would stay.

HARDDON: if you aint the player player type, den all is kul! Daz uя major problem.

You can discuss dis your valuing your space with ha and make up seeing time table.... Maybe only evening hour or weekends .

Don't hv to advise you naw Son ...

You ĸпoω you wano hv ha. Wonda y you growing cold feetz here