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Men are complex. Sometimes they just can’t do without us but will still pretend like they don’t need us. Act like you don’t care and you see them going crazy. This is one of the smartest tricks to leave him crazy for you. Ignore! When men get a lot of attention from you they pretend like they can have just about anyone and they don’t need to make efforts. Does ignoring a guy make him want you more? Yes! Therefore, the best way to have the craving for your attention is to practice ignorance.

They like to seek happiness in the fact that they won over someone who was too hard a catch. If you make yourself readily available they don’t consider you a prize. To be honest, men like having someone who is desired by all but ultimately he is the one who wins her over. If you are not difficult to have, you are not worth having. As hard as this sounds, this is how they think.

How to ignore a guy?

Ignite that madness
This is something that is true for all regardless of gender. When we have something easily we don’t really bother about that much. Don’t you get too determined to have something that you are passionate about and haven’t received it yet? This is the same psychology that works in love too. So, make him feel like he can’t have you. Make him feel like you are way beyond his league and see how he leaves everything to get you. This way you will always be a distant catch that he is ever ready to have in his life.

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Heart break is common in our present day society. On daily basis, we see different cases of heart break ranging from your partner cheating on you, or leaving you for another person.

If you are probably going through hear break right now in your life, just know that it is not the end of the world. There are countless people out there who will love you for who you are. This article is tailored towards providing some helpful ways that will help you overcome heartbreak. Some of these ways are;

1. Feel the feelings and don’t force yourself to “just get over it.”

Getting over a broken heart can take a lot of energy, work, and time. Don’t try to force yourself or listen to anyone who says “just get over it”. You might think you’re over it, then have a dream about this person and get flushed with feeling all over again. It can take a long time, and that’s okay, so be very gentle with yourself. It helps to talk to someone about it like a trusted friend or coach for guidance moving through the feelings.

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Having a boyfriend goes beyond beauty, smartness and funny. In fact, there are countless girls out there who have all these characteristics, but they still find it very difficult to get a serious boyfriend.


What could be the reason for this? Some little things you do unconsciously can prevent you from having a serious date. Check out these top 5 reasons why you don’t have a boyfriend.

Young Lady Reasons Why You Don’t Have A Boyfriend
1. Your Actions Indicate Lack Of Interest
One of the reasons why you don’t have a boyfriend could be that your actions indicate a lack of interest. Most times, when guys come around you to strike up a conversation, you normally turn them down.

To put it differently, you are okay being single and don’t want to mingle. If you continue like this, all the guys that show interest may naturally give up. While you will be there waiting for your fairytale lover to come.

So, it is advisable to show interest whenever a guy starts a conversation with you. This is the first step in the right direction.

2. You Don’t Trust Any Guy
Most times, ladies tend to judge every guy coming around based on their past experience. if you are among the ladies that do this, you may not have a boyfriend anytime soon.

That you were heartbroken by your ex-boyfriend doesn’t mean that every person coming around is a “Yoruba demon”. Therefore, it is advisable to allow your experience in the past to remain in the past.


Never allow it to affect your relationship life. Otherwise, you may find it difficult to have a serious date. Remember! Time waits for nobody

3. Keep Cancelling Dating Appointments
One of the reasons why you don’t have a boyfriend is probably because you are fond of cancelling a date. Some guys may naturally give up when you keep cancelling dating appointments you agreed on before.

4. You Are More Focused On Your Career Than Anything Else
Most times, it is advisable to always balance your career and love life in such a way that one will not affect another,

Sadly, when you become too focused on your career, your love life suffers greatly, thus preventing responsible and serious suitors from approaching you.

5. You Always Intimidate Men
Also part of the reasons why you don’t have a boyfriend is that you always intimidate men. Sometimes, your beauty, ambitious, confidence and intelligence may scare men away from you. This is because they may not really know how to approach you.

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People with a micro-penis have a relatively small penis. A true micro-penis is just about 2 ¾ inches or less when erect.

Generally, when a penis is flaccid, it will be an average of between 2.8 and 3.9 inches in length, and between 4.7 and 6.3 inches when erect, with an erect circumference of 4.7 inches.

In general, physicians say, cases of micro- penis are relatively rare, but they do happen anyways.

So, if the penis you’re working with is officially micro or just semi-micro, there are sex positions that you both can assume in order to have a full-blast enjoyment. So, here we go…

1. Rock and grind

Get on top of your man and instead of thrusting, do more of a slow grind. Roll your hips, rubbing against his penis, his pubic bone, his pubes, whatever is feeling good for you. If he’s inside you, that’s cool, as the most sensitive part of the vagina is the first couple inches. If he’s constantly slipping out, that’s okay too; just slide and rub across the underside of his shaft, and you’ll both be happy.

2. The double down:

Encourage him to spread his legs apart and give him a hand job. When he’s completely panting for you, slide gently into him.

3. The lapping dog:

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everyone imagines the best to happen before getting into relationship with someone, well most of the time the reality is totally different from what we imagine.

Some female watch these ridiculous romantic comedy films and expect their relationships to be played out in the same manner.

All guys don’t express their feelings as they are expected to do. Here are top unrealistic things girls expect from guys.

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1. You learn about loving with no preconceived notions.
When you fall in love in high school, there are ultimately so many outside factors that have an effect on how you view the other person. Let’s face it; when you’re a teenager you still really care what other people think of you. In college you’re more focused on being the person you WANT to be, so you don’t let other people dictate how you view yourself, the world, or others. That mindset allows you to love someone genuinely and freshly, rather than with an idea of who they already are formed in your brain.

2. You’re able to be kids and grown ups at the same time.
You meet and fall in love in the happy middle place of still being young, but also feeling like you kind of know what you’re doing with this whole “life thing”. You get to still view love and things idealistically and without bitterness, but with a certain sense of maturity. It’s a happy balance, and it makes for the strongest relationships.
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There are many levels to mental strength and all are needed to be successful and happy. The one particular area of mental strength that has the greatest impact is that of emotional strength.

Emotions are, of course, a part of our psyche, yet nevertheless, can be distinguished from the remainder of mental qualities because they most directly influence our physical body.

They affect the way our body functions and they drive every single one of our actions. Without emotion, we would have no reason to act, to do anything with ourselves.

Emotions are our greatest motivators. Unfortunately, they can motivate us to act in any direction, even the wrong one. For this reason, emotional strength is essential. There are countless situations that emotionally strong people avoid and many actions they never take. Here are 15 of them:

1. They Don’t Beg For Attention

Needing attention is directly linked to emotion. Those who feel the need for recognition only find themselves experiencing feelings of worth when others make them feel needed; it’s as if these people are uncertain of their value, or if they have any ounce of self-worth.

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The link between relationship status and well-being is a complicated one. Despite plenty of sensational headlines—”Get married and get fat!” “Stay single and die young!”—it’s hard to say definitively whether being a spouse or a singleton (or something in between, as many Americans are today) is healthier overall.


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If you are a human being like me, I am sure you are very familiar with taking up new habits, only to give them up two or three weeks or months later. The most notorious one is New Year’s resolutions. Who hasn’t promised themselves they’d go to the gym three times a week, they’d stop eating junk food, or they’d stop drinking alcohol altogether?

We take up new habits, only to let them die away after few weeks.

Have you noticed how different the feeling is between when you start and when you give up?

When we start on January 1st, we cannot imagine there will be one more day in our life when we will not jump out of bed to go to the gym. We wonder, “How could I ever not have the motivation? It’s so exciting! And how did I not do it before?”
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The last words the apostle Peter wrote in the Bible are priceless. He said: “But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory, both now and forever. Amen” (2 Pet. 3:18). Peter’s plea to the first disciples still screams out to us today: “Grow!”


Remember, a disciple who was up and down in his faith, wrote this exhortation. In his early years, Peter bravely confessed that Jesus was the messiah one minute and then denied Him the next. But in the end, this impetuous, fearful, insecure Peter became one of the strongest leaders of the early church.

That’s because he grew in his faith.

The Greek word for “grow,” “auxano,” means “to increase, to become more fruitful or to become greater.” This is God’s will for every Christian. God does not want us to remain in the same condition year after year. He desires that we be changed from one stage of glory to the next until we are transformed into the image of Christ.

But how does that happen? How do we grow spiritually? Is there anything you can do to encourage that growth as you step into this year? I believe you must do the following:

1. Rediscover the Bible. You need the Bible like you need food, but many Christians go for weeks or months without reading God’s Word. No wonder their spiritual growth is stunted. You will never grow spiritually without soaking your mind in the inspired words of Scripture.

2. Restart your prayer life. British preacher Charles Spurgeon told his congregation: “As well could you expect a plant to grow without air and water as to expect your heart to grow without prayer and faith.” A Christian who does not pray is weak, immature and defeated. But when you venture into the realm of the impossible and start asking God to move supernaturally in your family, your personal challenges, your workplace, your church and your nation, you will soon see His miracles.

This year, I was inspired by the movie War Room to make an actual prayer closet in my house. I got an old chair and a bulletin board and created my own private spiritual retreat. As you begin 2019, do something radical to make prayer a lifestyle.

3. Reconnect with God’s people. I often meet Christians who tell me they’ve given up on church. Usually it’s because they were hurt at a previous church or got bored with the way things were done. But no matter how many legitimate reasons you have for boycotting church, the truth is that God calls us to find our place in His house. You will never grow if you disconnect yourself from His corporate dwelling place.

4. Resist your sinful habits. Like the children of Israel in the wilderness, some Christians wander around in circles their entire lives and never get anywhere. That’s because they never break free from habit patterns that prevent them from growing. It’s like taking the same class over and over and always failing.

Have you been stuck in a spiritual rut because of an addiction to pornography, an obsessive fear or an un-yielded attitude that ruins your relationships? It’s time to break free. God has already promised “a way to escape” from any temptation that drags you down (see 1 Cor. 10:13). You will need to humble yourself and confess your sin to a mature believer, but after that, you can find deliverance from any stronghold of sin.

5. Recommit yourself to investing in others. Jesus told His disciples He wanted them to reproduce His life in other disciples. He said: “You did not chose Me, but I chose you, and appointed you, that you should go and bear fruit, and that your fruit should remain” (John 15:16a-b). That means we can’t truly grow into mature disciples unless we lead others to Christ and help those younger believers mature.

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Not everything is as they seem, here is a list that we think are not as good as they look


I’m sure you agree with the title, there are a lot of things that are overrated, remember that time when a friend told you about how great a movie is, and then you went to see it and it was bleh?

You were devastated that you wasted money. We’re here to talk about S3@.x:’ positions that might have been overrated.

P@.rn is easier to come by today better than years ago, when you have to hide the P@.rn CD at the bottom of the bag, so your parents dont find out, and give you the whipping of a lifetime.

It’s available for whatever purpose you want it for, entertainment, learning and of course jerking off but there are some positions that look good on film, but are absolutely frustrating trying at home.

Kristin Collins Jackson from The Frisk analyses these positions
Don’t get me wrong, this move looks great in HD P@.rn with soft lighting and your computer muted. What you get in real life though, it’s hard work.

For one thing, it really works best if you are about the same height as the other person and if the person has a shred of grace in their movements.

I’ve actually been kneed in the face before. Not to mention the fact that I’m just not enjoying myself completely while I’m pleasuring someone else. Maybe I’m selfish or maybe I just can’t multi-task, but this isn’t project management, this is S3@.x:’. Let’s each take a turn, or several, so we can get the best pleasure possible.

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In the beginning stages of a new relationship, determining how connected you are to each other can be tricky. Maybe you’re questioning if you’re really connected to your partner, or if he or she is as invested as you are in the relationship. Maybe you’ve hit it off physically, but you’re wondering if there’s more between you.

Instead of focusing on whether a connection is real with your partner, consider the depth and the width of the connection you have. Think about the main areas where partners can connect: physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and socially.

In how many areas do you share a bond with your partner? How strong is it in each area? Where is it lacking? Take a look at these five important points of connection, and see how your relationship measures up:

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understanding the female psyche and what she really likes.


When it comes to physical qualities and behavioral traits, there are things that you do that really will send a woman headed in the other direction, the one away from you!

So take note, gents, cause this one’s for you!

10 Things That Turn Women Off

So let’s get right to it. Some of these pet peeves have to do with physical appearance and some have to do with personality. If you find yourself guilty of any of these, fellas, pay attention and get ready to make changes. You’ll be on the road to attracting the lovely lady of your dreams.

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Have you just found yourself in a new relationship? Learn what matters in love right from the start using these new relationship advice and tips.

There’s nothing more exciting than a new relationship in love.
A new relationship brings with it a hope for good things and adds a bit of mystery that intrigues you to learn more.


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According to Skycoded Daily, it’s totally normal to worry about these things at the beginning of a new relationship:


That things won’t work out. Your past certainly does not have to dictate your future.
That your partner is too good to be true. Ask yourself if your fears are “fears from within” or “fears that are rooted in what is already going on in the relationship.”
That you aren’t enough. Feeling like your new boo is too amazing to actually be happy with you is another example of a fear that stems from you own self-esteem problems.

That they’ll leave once they see the “real you.” If seeing you in a less-than-perfect state is really enough to send your new partner running, then tell ’em bye.
That they don’t really love you. Don’t let the temptation to self-sabotage push someone good for you away.

That you don’t really love them. This might simply mean that you are going into this partnership with a level head.
That the relationship might not be what you want. You may be falling under a normal “is the grass greener on the other side” mentality.

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Listen, I’m not trying to knock our generation down a notch. I love this generation. And I know not everyone is ruining what love truly means. Millennials are smart, intuitive and most importantly passionate. But with passion, comes a lack of understanding when it comes to our relationships.

The truth is, we don’t know how to communicate anymore.

And I’m 100% included in this. Our generation is so scared of confrontation, that we don’t even have human decency to talk to others face to face.

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Habits can have a powerful impact in your relationship. The definition of a habit is: “a consistent and regular pattern of behavior”. You can either create positive habits or negative habits, and once you start practicing them, they will eventually become an act that is unconscious.

When it comes to having a happy relationship, there are certain habits that can have a powerful and positive impact. It’s important for you to be conciseness when creating routines, especially for your relationship.


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For many of us, being engaged means putting most (if not all) of our attention on wedding planning. It’s so easy to get wrapped up in the fairytale aspect of wedding planning, making it easy to forget that besides planning a party, you are merging your life with your partner.


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My husband and I are getting a divorce after nearly ten years of marriage, and I am having trouble coming to terms with it. I can’t help feeling like I have failed, and worry about how I am going to cope on my own as a single mum. It feels like my future has been erased and I can’t see a way forward.

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Going through even the mildest divorce can shake your self confidence and leave you wondering how on earth you’ll cope alone with finances, children and downsizing the family home. Even if the break-up is amicable, you might still be feeling low about the end of your marriage.

But while separating is rarely easy, particularly where children are involved, it does not have to wreck your self -esteem. Here are some suggestions to help you feel good about yourself when you’re getting divorced.

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Men talk and think a lot about S3@.x:’ while women desire it more often. We explore the reasons.

Gone are the days when ‘demanding S3@.x:’’ was considered exclusively a man’s forte. Today women demand S3@.x:’ greater than men. And they have no qualms about getting vocal about it.

“I read these funny E-mail forwards that stress on men begging for S3@.x:’ and women denying it. It sounds so funny to me. It’s totally the opposite in my case. While men can have a good laugh over it believing that this notion exists, I literally have to seduce my husband to get him hooked on to the act,” quips production assistant Megha Mehra. And she is not alone. Many girls/women had a similar story.

Women from different backgrounds was asked some questions to figure out what is making them addicted to S3@.x:’.

1. It’s physically pleasurable

Amongst all the other reasons to remain glued to S3@.x:’, this is the most prominent one. Good S3@.x:’ satisfies your physical urge, which is very normal for anyone to experience. Psychologist Seema Naina opines, “S3@.x:’ is the most basic need of any person. And I am increasingly getting cases where women are complaining that men are unable to satisfy their physical needs.”

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More than half of all marriages end in divorce. Consequently, many individuals re-entering the world of dating have children from a previous marriage.

While it is not imperative to meet the children of every man you date, you might consider it more as the relationship grows progressively intimate.

In order to get to know your boyfriend’s children, you will need to do some inner work to prepare yourself emotionally, and set some parameters to keep the relationship moving at a natural, authentic pace.

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When a woman is in love, she will do whatever it takes to make her boyfriend feel secure and loved.

There may be a chance that you are thinking of your boyfriend right now and wondering, “how can I make him feel special?” If there are many languages to express the word “love” then there are also many ways to express your feelings of love.

Whether your anniversary is coming up or you just want to make your loved one smile, read on below to know ten lovely ways on how to make a guy’s heart melt like mozzarella cheese on a newly baked pizza:

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Finding that special someone is a challenge for everyone. This is true especially for shy guys who don’t know how to overcome the anxiety of going on a date with someone special.

In contrary to the usually confident image of most guys, there are some who feel the opposite about themselves, and that’s why it’s difficult for them to communicate with other people, and it gets even worse if it’s about starting a relationship.
If you are one of those guys or if you know someone who just couldn’t take that first step into dating, here are some tips that might help:

1. Know yourself.
One of the things that you have to do is to know yourself before you start building relationships. Start by asking these questions: What are the things you like and the aspects of yourself that you don’t like? What are the things that you’re comfortable with? What are your limits?

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relationships is exciting, it should never be the center of an individual’s romantic life.
Lust, without love, is just an empty experience that can unmake a couple’s genuine connection, and you should beware if this force is already taking the driver’s seat in your life as a couple before it completely takes control of you.

In this article, we will discuss the ways to overcome lust in a relationship.

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Do you think there’s a difference between loving someone and falling in love? While these phrases have been used synonymously to describe a typical love story, they are actually two totally distinct experiences.

Knowing what makes them similar and what distinguishes them can make a huge difference especially if you’re in a new relationship.


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Being in love is one of the most beautiful feelings you could ever feel. It could take you to cloud nine and make the world and time stand still. This feeling is so powerful that it could stand against all odds and cause you to swallow your pride.

Nevertheless, like fire, being in love can be either constructive or destructive. If it inspires you to be a better person, then it is something to treasure. On the other hand, if it causes your world to fall apart, then it is tragic.

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If you are faithful to God, you are probably waiting for that guy whom the heaven has sent for you. But how can you know if he’s the one whom God has for you? Are there divine clues that can guide women in identifying the right man for them?

Having the wrong partner in your relationship is not something to be taken lightly. It can break your heart, and worse, it can ruin your life, your future and even the people who are relying on you.


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A girl needs to know she’s loved and appreciated everyday. Never let a day go by that you don’t do or say something that’ll let her know how much you love her.

Probably one of the questions that haunt the minds of many guys out there is… how to make their girlfriend feel loved?

To answer that query, I am here to share with you some simple ways so you can be the champion of her heart.


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Many people are driven by a desire to manifest love; to build a life and a home with someone who can offer support, understanding, and affection.

However, there are dozens of things that can hold you back, and some of these factors may surprise you.

Intelligence might seem like a virtue and a selling point, but it regularly stands in the way of manifesting love. But why is this the case, and what can you do to increase your chances of finding romance?

If you know you’re smart but you’re always struggling to understand why dating is so hard, this guide will help you figure out how you can find love. First, we’ll explore the general link between high IQ and dating problems.

Then we’ll turn to the five most significant reasons why this link exists. Throughout, we’ll note how these problems may be affecting you, and we’ll offer suggestions for positive change.

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Mature couples don’t “fall in love,” they step into it. Love isn’t something you fall for; it’s something you rise for.

Falling denotes lowering oneself, dropping down and being stuck somewhere lower than where you started. You have to get up from falling.

Love isn’t like that — at least not with people who are doing it right. Immature couples fall; mature couples coast. Because love is either a passing game, or it’s forever. Love is either wrong, or it’s right. A couple is either mature or immature.

How do you know? How can you tell if your relationship is in it for the long haul or the two-month plummet everyone predicted behind your love-obsessed back?

First, it should be easy, from the beginning to end. There are no passionate fights with passionate make-up sex. There’s no obsessive calling, texting or worrying.

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It is strange that even today, there are people who believe in the “purity pledge”.

They vow, and want others to promise too, that they will not indulge in sex until they tie the knot. I am totally cool with girls and boys (ahem!) putting off sex before marriage, if that is something they really want to do.

I agree that there are times when even after one practices safe sex, things can go wrong, and you may have to deal with a number of ramifications of what you just did. It can also result in emotionally attaching you to the wrong person.

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