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Well, you never mentioned your age. However, there is every tendency that you are not financially buoyant. I mean on the average. Two things single ladies like in a guy at the relationship stage. Money and being Humorous! is either of this or both. My advise, keep on hustling, work on yourself on either of the two or both and you will see women rolling on themselves.

Ladies beware of unfamiliar guys. This days out of covetousness, SOME LADIES, go extra-mile to meet a guy that they've never known before. Sometimes prostitutes stand by the road side waiting for patronage. This is risky but is not enough justification for the rape and murder but then, this world is filled up with people i call beast, they are not humans. Watch and Pray!!!

RIP

e be like na to japa for this country! freeing prisoners! attack on police station. its like something is about to happen! where are all our intelligence?

Where is number 1,2&3 uniform

Shine your eyes...sometin dey sup for we country

So help us God!

Entanglement

Giroud is a better striker than Messi

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yZecfvKGTRE

enjoy

@Seun: News on Nairaland are getting to front page a bit late this days...my view though.

The tory na lie because how would she have told you she fvcked another guy and she'd tying wrapper for you.

It shows in your write up that you too dull...Just tell her you have no option that to tell her to pack out of your house because you don't want stories that touches the heart. Let it be around evening like 8pm when she will not be able to go out. She will then want to use the reverse psychology statement like " Is it because i didn't allow you to have sex with me?" Emphatically, Yes na ! She will then pretend to be packing her things or may be like" give me sometime like 1 or 2days let me sort things out" say no! then she will be shedding tears . Then you sweet talk her like "I'm sorry, you know i like you but i don't know how to say it" while hugging her . Then you enter am !

N.B: You must have gotten CD at home already o!

Nigeria is disguisedly under siege by the security chiefs especially the Army. This Enenche man is one of the major problem of our country! His lies are usually epic

#YouthDemocraticParty

We are tired of APC and PDP.

It starts from now!!!

Just for your information. A road block has been mounted at Adekunle, Yaba due to the EndSARS protest. Alternative route is advised.

Sorry, I could not take pictures due to the numbers of hoodlums looking protesters...

There might be camera in the bra. Go watch Money heist! #endsars.

Kidd is the realest guy in the house! no pretense! but i won't want him to win sha becos he's already a wealthy guy.

singing: omo see sista...

The Snake can't kill her cos she's got people securing her. #Thinkaboutit

The options are numerous:

1. Hide your food. Just hide it.
2. Dont keep your keys at a notable place
3. Tell her straight-up as a man (my best option)
4. Dont answer your phone or the door whenever she calls. Like let her know you're avoiding her.
5. Give her two shot.. (but e be like say u be Church boy)

I have a lady like that. She just use style dey collect small change for my hand promising she would pay back and she wouldn't. There was a day she said I should see her off to the eatery to get food. Na so we reach o, after ordering for food, at the counter she now expects me to pay. Even the waiter was like expecting me to pay as the guy. Me as a sharp guy I jejeli waka comot for there. Not as if I dont have money to pay cos she noticed I just withdrew cash from the ATM. But I wanted to pass some sense that you not smarter.

After everything, she settled her bills in my absence. I then warned her never to try that again. Sometimes you just have to let these girls know that life is not just about coarsing you.

Happened to me before. Try sex lubricants.

Marriage life is sweet for me o. Imagine bae bringing food on the table and you both eating together, washing the dishes, she reminds you of something forgotten, hugs, kisses, sex every night without fear of any guilt. Sometimes disagree to agree and on and on and above all favour that comes with it. Understanding and Maturity in marriage is key.

#ilovemybae

That's why I will never post on nairaland for advice. People are still living in the past when events have been overtaken by events. My mum and dad are AS and while two of us are AS, other is AA. There is nothing God cannot do, even if you eventually gave birth to SS. If necessary health care is provided from child birth, the child can live normal life till old age.

For how long will you keep searching for AA lady to date. Oga just pray and take precautionary measures.

Peter887:
Ok oh...keep waiting after marriage while someone will fucking her on weekly basis

How are you sure that one better guy is not fucking that your gf?

@OP, I dole my hat for your biblical analysis to justify sex before marriage. #endtime prophet

I left her in the sitting room without any remorse but my mind no carry am. I went to plead with her now & she agreed.

tyup:
Lmao

tha guy mata don taya all of us

How many of una?

tyup:
Donbabaj this is all the message a reasonable fella can give u

you have to man up tbh I wonder what typa men this century is breeding

You're correct. I sense maturity in your response.
Sir, I think she respects me! She cooks, brings food to the dinning, and i reciprocate at times. We gist in the kitchen while she cooks just to create that atmosphere of love.

I'm an advocate of symbiotic relationships.

chatinent:
You both are on the 'bed' and are 'touching' but no sensitive parts as an advocate of bla bla. So you mean you were touching toes right? And who told you it's Christian to live together with sb you are yet to be married with?
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The problem is you don't know what rules and principles you keep.

Correct. I tried to avoid this but you know ladies always inquisitive. In fact, truth be told, we had a romance, but not sex. I had to tell her why cant we just wait for few weeks but that apart, the major thing is the way she switches whenever I tell her the hard truth. At times she listens and adjust. I even gat to tell her that if shes using a reverse psychology for me. Although, sometimes I stand my ground but more often than not I apologise.

xxxtedyxxx:
Stop falling for her mood swings.

A woman won't respect you if she knows what she does affects you in some way.

Be passive.

Stop reacting to her mood swings.

In addition.


Your babe needs betta kpanshing...

Keep that bible/Christianity stuff aside.


Flog her now, or another guy outside will flogg her for you.

I'm sorry I cant, if I wanted to sex her would have done that a long time. I understand guys are not the same.

tyup:
Nothing annoys me more than weaklings like you who always go to pacify a lady either ur at fault or she is

That's an outrageous mumuish attitude from you...shit u should have ur pride

From my predictions she would one day disgrace and embarrass you Publicly n you'll still be the one to beg n this would continue for a very Loooong time till u get frustrated n shattered and she wouldn't care

For the one year we have dated she never for once. I mean for once embarrased me. She respects me in public. My only problem is the way she switches her mood. She just go into her shell and avoid any communication. I've talked to her mildly but this keeps repeating itself.

Sisijetue:
Shalaye FC ko necesstry

Hmm. Can be frustrating

Bola146:
Red flag from the lady. You better sit her down and talk sense to her

@Bola146, I think so too. We have had long discussions after disagreement but laslas I will still be the one to apologise.

dingbang:
I just doubt she will remain faithful because she is sexually active and will collect dk from outside.

From my observations I dont think she is, she claimed not to. She has had only one heart break in the past where a guy jilted her and she told me. I have had cause to investigate from a friend in her office but they all said she is just a tough lady but very hard to get. Guys have tried her but couldn't get her.