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Kidd is the realest guy in the house! no pretense! but i won't want him to win sha becos he's already a wealthy guy.

singing: omo see sista...

The Snake can't kill her cos she's got people securing her. #Thinkaboutit

The options are numerous:

1. Hide your food. Just hide it.
2. Dont keep your keys at a notable place
3. Tell her straight-up as a man (my best option)
4. Dont answer your phone or the door whenever she calls. Like let her know you're avoiding her.
5. Give her two shot.. (but e be like say u be Church boy)

I have a lady like that. She just use style dey collect small change for my hand promising she would pay back and she wouldn't. There was a day she said I should see her off to the eatery to get food. Na so we reach o, after ordering for food, at the counter she now expects me to pay. Even the waiter was like expecting me to pay as the guy. Me as a sharp guy I jejeli waka comot for there. Not as if I dont have money to pay cos she noticed I just withdrew cash from the ATM. But I wanted to pass some sense that you not smarter.

After everything, she settled her bills in my absence. I then warned her never to try that again. Sometimes you just have to let these girls know that life is not just about coarsing you.

Happened to me before. Try sex lubricants.

Marriage life is sweet for me o. Imagine bae bringing food on the table and you both eating together, washing the dishes, she reminds you of something forgotten, hugs, kisses, sex every night without fear of any guilt. Sometimes disagree to agree and on and on and above all favour that comes with it. Understanding and Maturity in marriage is key.

#ilovemybae

That's why I will never post on nairaland for advice. People are still living in the past when events have been overtaken by events. My mum and dad are AS and while two of us are AS, other is AA. There is nothing God cannot do, even if you eventually gave birth to SS. If necessary health care is provided from child birth, the child can live normal life till old age.

For how long will you keep searching for AA lady to date. Oga just pray and take precautionary measures.

Peter887:
Ok oh...keep waiting after marriage while someone will fucking her on weekly basis

How are you sure that one better guy is not fucking that your gf?

@OP, I dole my hat for your biblical analysis to justify sex before marriage. #endtime prophet

I left her in the sitting room without any remorse but my mind no carry am. I went to plead with her now & she agreed.

tyup:
Lmao

tha guy mata don taya all of us

How many of una?

tyup:
Donbabaj this is all the message a reasonable fella can give u

you have to man up tbh I wonder what typa men this century is breeding

You're correct. I sense maturity in your response.
Sir, I think she respects me! She cooks, brings food to the dinning, and i reciprocate at times. We gist in the kitchen while she cooks just to create that atmosphere of love.

I'm an advocate of symbiotic relationships.

chatinent:
You both are on the 'bed' and are 'touching' but no sensitive parts as an advocate of bla bla. So you mean you were touching toes right? And who told you it's Christian to live together with sb you are yet to be married with?
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The problem is you don't know what rules and principles you keep.

Correct. I tried to avoid this but you know ladies always inquisitive. In fact, truth be told, we had a romance, but not sex. I had to tell her why cant we just wait for few weeks but that apart, the major thing is the way she switches whenever I tell her the hard truth. At times she listens and adjust. I even gat to tell her that if shes using a reverse psychology for me. Although, sometimes I stand my ground but more often than not I apologise.

xxxtedyxxx:
Stop falling for her mood swings.

A woman won't respect you if she knows what she does affects you in some way.

Be passive.

Stop reacting to her mood swings.

In addition.


Your babe needs betta kpanshing...

Keep that bible/Christianity stuff aside.


Flog her now, or another guy outside will flogg her for you.

I'm sorry I cant, if I wanted to sex her would have done that a long time. I understand guys are not the same.

tyup:
Nothing annoys me more than weaklings like you who always go to pacify a lady either ur at fault or she is

That's an outrageous mumuish attitude from you...shit u should have ur pride

From my predictions she would one day disgrace and embarrass you Publicly n you'll still be the one to beg n this would continue for a very Loooong time till u get frustrated n shattered and she wouldn't care

For the one year we have dated she never for once. I mean for once embarrased me. She respects me in public. My only problem is the way she switches her mood. She just go into her shell and avoid any communication. I've talked to her mildly but this keeps repeating itself.

Sisijetue:
Shalaye FC ko necesstry

Hmm. Can be frustrating

Bola146:
Red flag from the lady. You better sit her down and talk sense to her

@Bola146, I think so too. We have had long discussions after disagreement but laslas I will still be the one to apologise.

dingbang:
I just doubt she will remain faithful because she is sexually active and will collect dk from outside.

From my observations I dont think she is, she claimed not to. She has had only one heart break in the past where a guy jilted her and she told me. I have had cause to investigate from a friend in her office but they all said she is just a tough lady but very hard to get. Guys have tried her but couldn't get her.

DanseMacabre:
I hope she won't find out in the next three weeks that you're a one minute man.


Anyway to be honest with you the way things are going there is every likelihood of it ending in tears.

I'm not a 1 minute man. Cos before I rededicated my life to christ. I have had flings with 2 different ladies which I told her and coupled with I did a medical check up recently and was treated of only infection which I told her.

dingbang:
You sef.. But you were touching her and you didn't tell yourself it wasnt biblical too abi.

You know at times you just want to please these ladies at times and give them attention. But not with my faith.

I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

16,000 cases × 50,000 = 800m.

Is not yet billion na, continue to deceive yourself.

Hot water!!! Haba!!! That's too much on the ignorant poor goat. Please go and confess your sins and apologise otherwise...

tulabh:
I smell lies... How can the mother be 44yrs and d daughter 29? Did the mother have birth at age less than 14? 44 years old woman still sexing??

Did you read the gist at all? They said somebody was a sex addict, you are still doing analysis and wandering.



RIP.

Na everyday people dey die?

She knows your weak point. Ladies are usually antagonistic, they know what you will say yes or no too. She knows you are more spiritualistic that is why she would be asking you for sex and you will say otherwise. The day you will tell her something weird.

Madam should have done your preliminary survey of the environment before you embark on you journey.

Good. I want you to see it other way round.

10 billion naira for the account loading...if you know, you know.

@OP, haven't you heard of the music "Warri no get sense"?

its Aljazeera that will broadcast it, CNN or BBC International or Sky news will never broadcast such good news coming out from Africa. This was the same 1 dollar testing kit that Oxford University promised to release, hopefully by the end of the year.

I expect negetive criticisms against this from the international domain.

Whenever Aunty Kemi speaks, just take it with all seriousness o! My people say there is always an element of truth in the words of a drunkard