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Politics / Re: Wike Seals Jones Ogbonda's Hotel, Bar In Rivers State by DonBenny77(m): 6:50pm On May 29, 2023
MisterBanny:


If they pay half, let me know. I will balance you.
Okay thanks
Politics / Re: Wike Seals Jones Ogbonda's Hotel, Bar In Rivers State by DonBenny77(m): 3:38pm On May 29, 2023
MisterBanny:


How much is the salary? Incase you don't get full payment and u got half, let me know please.
Just about 50k. Provided one doesent incure losses within the month. Okay
Politics / Re: Wike Seals Jones Ogbonda's Hotel, Bar In Rivers State by DonBenny77(m): 2:37pm On May 29, 2023
I work as a supervisor at priceys bar I can confirm this news.
Wike's action means no work till further notice
I may not receive or salary for this month even if we do it will be half payment like last time they raided and arrested us after suffering detention for 5 days we were paid for only half month.
I tired

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi And Obasanjo Attend Bishop Kukah's Book Presentation In Rivers (Pix) by DonBenny77(m): 5:39pm On May 27, 2023
DMerciful:
When you fight everybody, you start drying
I didn't even recognize him in the group picture.

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi's Children's Day Speech by DonBenny77(m): 5:27pm On May 27, 2023
One love Sir
Politics / Re: Photos From Renewed Hope Concert For Tinubu/shettima In Abuja. by DonBenny77(m): 7:36am On May 26, 2023
Hungry and tribal affiliated artists go chop money clean mouth normally It doesn't change the fact that there is ethnic cleansing currently in the land and it's not about to change anytime soon
Religion / Re: If Only He Knew Who Was Passing by DonBenny77(m): 7:13am On May 26, 2023
Wetin concern agbero with overload?
Celebrities / Re: Ooni, Pete Edochie And Kanayo Handshake Sparks Controversy Online (Video) by DonBenny77(m): 8:32pm On May 25, 2023
Ooni was a fan before he became king, he enjoyed the handshake

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Politics / Re: Expect Knocks On Your Door Whether You Go To Daura Or Niger - Tinubu To Buhari by DonBenny77(m): 8:29pm On May 25, 2023
Story just like "I am for nobody"
Yeye dey smell
Travel / Re: Lessons We Must Learn From The Emdee Tiamiyu's Saga/blunder. by DonBenny77(m): 3:05pm On May 25, 2023
All I know is he stated facts. Nigerians hate truth when it doesn't favour them.
Truth must be told......
If you don't like it go to court.
Even those that voted and supported ancestral chucky are complaining. Enjoy your Nigeria
grin

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Education / Re: Since Lalasticala Left, My Observation by DonBenny77(m): 9:29am On May 25, 2023
I think its election fracas n tribalism. Nairaland has become anti igbo.
Too many one-sided unwarranted bans.
Tinubu has ruined nairaland.com
grin
Crime / Re: Asari Dokubo And His Men With Machine Guns, Video by DonBenny77(m): 7:09am On May 25, 2023
Family / Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by DonBenny77(m): 11:54pm On May 24, 2023
CuriousMind2022:
It's a known fact that most Nigerian girls marry who they consider ready for marriage and not necessarily who they love. I am exactly in that dilemma and the question I am asking myself is whether I should continue in this loveless marriage or slowly drift and walk away.

My marriage is barely 2 years and a few months, but it has been a rough journey for me. Things I never envisaged I would experience in my marriage, I have suffered, from utmost disrespect to verbal abuse.

I came to the conclusion that she doesn't love or care about me based on what happened yesterday. I was recently transferred from my base to a new location and because of that, I would only be able to visit weekends or twice a month. Prior to that, we barely had sex once a week.

We had already had sex the normal once we usually had it (Saturday morning), but I wanted more because I will only be coming back after two weeks. I initiated a move on Sunday morning, she declined because she was thinking of preparing food for our baby before we leave for church. We went to church and came back, and as usual, my wife was in her undies (just panties and bra) in the sitting room (This was what she wore throughout that Sunday).

I watched her walk around the house in that and that even turned me on the more. I am a practicing Christian, and I try not to look after other women lustfully, but common this is my wife, even God sanctions that. After being turned on throughout the day, I went to my wife in the night, (note she slept in the sitting room with our baby leaving me alone in the room) to enjoy my conjugal rights with her, but she gave me excuses that she is upset and not in the mood.

I left and went back, seriously konjified, I managed to sleep. The next morning, I woke up with my urges and went to the sitting room to have my morning devotion, but I could barely concentrate because I was still very Hot. I explained to her that so really wants me to go to my new station like this knowing fully well I will not be coming back until 2 weeks time. This woman did not care!

I took my bath, prepared myself, and set out for my office. I was not happy with her but I kept my cool and left for work. She had demanded that I dropped some money for her before leaving and despite the fact that I was not happy with her, I dropped the money in a conspicuous place where I know she will see it before leaving. This was my own way of saying I am not happy with what you did, but I still cared.

I try to do things I usually do for my wife even when I am angry with her. This is my own way of saying I may be angry with you, but I still cared about you and I am open to a resolution. On the other hand, my wife doesn't care what happens to me when she is upset. She immediately stops cooking for me ad any other thing she does for me when she is upset. It is obvious to me now that to my wife I don't really matter in the grand scheme of things. She is only caring and concerned, when she is not angry (when we are good and we don't have any issues). I believe that when you love somebody, you treat them right and show genuine love and care for them even when you're upset with them. This is what I have constantly shown to my wife in our 2+ years of marriage.

Back to my story of what happened weekend/Monday. My wife never bothered to call me to check if I arrived safely since I left the house yesterday. I even called her once (primarily to check on my daughter), but she didn't pick up and she didn't call back, and up till now, we have not spoken.

She obviously does not care whether I arrived safely in my station or not. In this country of insecurities, a family member of yours will travel and you do not care whether he/she arrived safely, that is the height for me, and in the actual sense, I should be the one upset here because she left me high and dry, despite knowing fully well I am very Hot.

I am a family-oriented person, I have always dreamt of having a peaceful, loving, and Godly home but unfortunately, the reverse is the case for my wife. I began to understand why family background is very important in a person's life, after getting married. My wife is from a family where they place little or no value on marriage. Her mother had children with 2 men, and my wife is obviously working very hard to follow that same path. She shows little or no enthusiasm in making our marriage work. I am always the one to initiate moves to resolve issues when we quarrel, whether I am right or wrong, I do not care, my focus is just on making my marriage work and my home peaceful.

This last episode shook me very hard, and I have been asking myself whether I want to continue in this loveless marriage or opt out. Working and living in a different city will even make it easier for me.

I needed to let my thoughts out and thanks to Nairaland, I have done so.



Guess there's a third party in the picture already.
Set traps no dey do like mumu if you catch her cheating send her packing.
Most of all these riggers that work away from home, their wives cheat on a regular.
That's why its important to court for at least 2 yrs before married ladies can't put up act for that long. If she's a cheater she will cheat... if she's a fighter she would have fought you, if she doesn't love you truly it would have shown.
Agriculture / Re: Broilers Needed 3000 To 4000 Pieces 2.0 To 2.2kg 08062773986 by DonBenny77(m): 9:42am On May 24, 2023
banky200:
Broilers needed
3000 to 4000 pieces
2.0 to 2.2kg
08062773986
Location?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Experience With A Lady I Hired And Fired Last Week by DonBenny77(m): 7:09am On May 23, 2023
EmekaStanley:
I hired a lady last week Monday and fired her on Friday same week. I concluded she was not ready yet.

This lady came almost 2 hours late for interview without communicating her reason. If she was going to be late, she should inform the interviewer. Red flag.

I ignored that and decided to proceed with the interview. I decided not to conclude on her based on the interview outcome. I love giving people chances.

I offered her the job, she was excited. She was sent an offer letter which she accepted. On resumption date, this lady came late for work. First day at work. I was like 'Is this 24 year old lady innocently naïve or what?".

On Friday last week, this lady came to work by 10.55am. He work time is 8.00am, and she is an office admin. I was on my seat and sighted her walking in, I had to call her and told her to go back home, and that was it.

By the way, she lives like 15 minutes away from the office, and her route is always against traffic.

I wouldn't know when she resumed from Tuesday to Thursday because I came quite late on those days due to field engagements. When I resumed, I met her sleeping twice. After that, she abandoned her work and stepped out to answer a phone call for almost 1 hour.

My experience with this lady made me understand that a lot of people looking for work are not ready for/to work.

ES
No be you employ fine lady?
Lady that comes to work after hookup that pays her 20k.
Employ someone that really needs the job like me and see if I won't arrive 1hr early

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Sports / Re: Day 1 Of 3.7 To 4.3 Odds(22nd May 2023) by DonBenny77(m): 9:08pm On May 22, 2023
No hope oh
First game don dey cut am
grin
Family / Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by DonBenny77(m): 12:48pm On May 21, 2023
grin
No go buy land build your own
No mind my emoji

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Politics / Re: From Spaghetti To Egg – How Buhari Government Changed Nigerians’ Dining Tables by DonBenny77(m): 9:41am On May 21, 2023
grin

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Family / Re: My Encounter With This Troublesome Aged Man In A Bank Queue by DonBenny77(m): 9:04am On May 20, 2023
Ebus12:


It is people like you that make these old men think everything is their right. I'm pretty sure you voted Tinubu as well.
i have nothing to tell you.
Don't mind that myopic dude
I hate it when people hide behind age to bully and intimidate younger ones.
He should have waited for his turn, if he was incapacitated he wouldn't even need to ask I'm sure everyone would have sensibly made way for him like the would for a preggy woman or nursing mother.
Just a troublesome arrogant old man
Imagine he was strong enough to raise a fist
Politics / Re: Seun Kuti Suffers PTSD From Family's Experience With Police - Reno (Throwback) by DonBenny77(m): 12:28pm On May 19, 2023
Yes! Police beat his Dad and wives a lotta times and he witnessed those.
I feel so bad for him
grin

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Business / Re: My Adventurous Trip To A Local Village Market In Delta State To Buy Yam Tubers. by DonBenny77(m): 12:30pm On May 18, 2023
Wow, I love adventures

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Career / Re: Army Rewards Soldiers With Bicycles, Cash For Good Conduct by DonBenny77(m): 10:01am On May 17, 2023
Nsonaso:

That's an expensive bicycle... Is Electric
Don't mind the idiots complaining bicycle is better to improve stealth techniques.
If they were bought expensive power bikes running into millions they would still complain
Career / Re: Army Rewards Soldiers With Bicycles, Cash For Good Conduct by DonBenny77(m): 9:59am On May 17, 2023
Bicycle is good it doesn't need fuel to move, it keeps them fit, they can approach danger quietly enhancing stealth technique.
Remember these are only gifts, If they were given SUVs Nigerians will still complain.
Celebrities / Re: Could This Be The Reason They Want Seun Kuti Remanded In Prison (photo) by DonBenny77(m): 7:24am On May 17, 2023
The loud him smoke is the reason
Dead brain cells
Celebrities / Re: Seun Kuti Being Paraded With Other Inmates At The Panti Police Facility by DonBenny77(m): 12:16pm On May 16, 2023
Naija police go humble you....you go dey slap ojor openly
Even policemen for PH dey celebrate your arrest
P square sing "even if you be superstar dem go still embarrass you"
You forget say dem nak your Papa wey be legend sef wetin no good
grin

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Celebrities / Re: Seun Kuti Appoints Femi Falana As His Lawyer by DonBenny77(m): 9:26am On May 15, 2023
Even if he wins in court. Nigerian police no go forget him matter.
Them fit close that their shrine over this
Celebrities / Re: Davido Puts Up His Banana Island House For Rent by DonBenny77(m): 4:03pm On May 13, 2023
kelvine:
What is Ibiza
"I took a pill in Ibiza" you no know that jam?
Sometimes use Google and stop disgracing yourself

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