These days we hardly get compliments from those we call friends.
Most friends are in competition

IamtheTruth1:



It’s just clout man. Prince Kpokpogri na my neighbor for Asaba. The man is rich man. I know am well. I have seen a lot of Nollywood actors acting on set at his house severally. Forget all those things Tonto said. That man is rich. You no see him house for Abj way government demolish ?

Na churchill not kpokpogarri

No one throws shades more than Davido but when facts and figure are checked he will start forming victim.

Amajuoyi44:



Bro i want stop everything both sport and virtual

You don enter,
to commot no easy

Amajuoyi44:
Hello friends i need help on how to stop betting, it has been a problem towards me. I can't even save or make money from it and it has trying to rode my life, that can't even feed my self well, rather i think of how to get back my lost money
And yet i keep losing.

I wanted to stop it! But it wasn't working for me

I need your help and solution to get out of this

If i do to stop betting it will be a life changer to me.

#virtual
#sport betting
#shopbetting

you go dey do virtual betting how foolish can one be.
Till you get a solution I can be giving you daily 5 odds if you are a huge staker we can make some money together

Benefits of a successful shameless rigging process....

Lol
You were trying to make some half baked sense then you rendered it totally senseless with your mumu conclusion that every mother loves her child. How can you conclude for all
Here on NL we still see mum's who maltreat and even maim their kids and you will personally comment and ask if it's actually her child.
You don't conclude for everyone.

omohayek:

Yes, young and vibrant like Idi Amin, who can have you chopped up and put in a freezer ready for his next big meal, as soon as you open your gob to make the slightest criticism of his insane, "vibrant" directives.

That's not possible, at least selected pot bellied politician won't mock hungry Nigerians in the comfort of their chambers.
I grew up in Abacha's regime it wasn't this bad

Life...
I stopped attending when pastor ibiyeome said if my shoe is worth more than the offering in my hand it's not a quality offering.

Na wetin Nigeria need now
I prefer a young vibrant military dictator to this liveless thing we have now

Yugoslavia247:


Hope you would be happy if your bro sold your gen and tells you story.

Because people like you are very inconsiderate and lack moral standards.

No parent will want you to be dependent at 33.
No parent will tell you to stay put in the house except they are convinced that you lack discipline to handle your self.

Troublesome children are hard to let go because they could bring deadly trouble to themselves.

If you thinking stealing will give you break through makes sure to know that you can not steal from your Father to be rich.
Prodigal son in the bible
Reuben in the bible.

One forcefully took the wealth
The other slept with the Father's wife

One was wise to seek forgiveness having learnt lesson
The other could not. Today in Israel the house of Reuben is the weakest.

Mr adviser better know that it is better you stole from your brother than your Father. Because one has power of your life and blessings in his hand. Prayer will not change it except God comes down or angel fights you like Jacob.

God gave so much power to Fathers and no man can take it away.

Better use your brain. At 33 if you think he made the right choice, I wonder the kind of person you are.

No one begged to be born into the world it's not compulsory every man must birth children. It's a thing of choice some parents just bore children cos their mates have done that. That man has never been there for his son. He is a stingy father, there are parents who impress the streets and let the home suffer.
E get one old Rivers adage. No commot your eye for your pikin anytime, cos if e good na ur own oh if e bad na you make am so. Don't seek for values you didn't input in your children. They are like a clean slate given to you to test you. If you feel they didn't come out well it's your failure, embarrass them embarrass yourself.
It's only a stupid man that won't work with his son in his businesses enterprise or company

Dimaya:
There's a psychology behind ghosting.


More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:

If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.

If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.

Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FrXVbs-1fhA

Now ask yourself if that's not what happened. If a woman ghosts you, 100% there's someone else.

My advice: Cut your losses and move on.

No losses to cut
I don't give a shi shi
Financial loss at least

Demayour:


There are other ways of raising the money apart from stealing. That's the point being made. He's going to à cash-oriented business and he stole the capital. Should he feel safe like that?

Which other ways.
You said it's better to be embarrassed by his friends rather than his dad. Everybody no be the same do you know if he even has friends.

Yugoslavia247:



The first thing a boymust do at the age of 18 is to plan to be man.

Independence is what makes a man.

If you can take the risk and work towards it, you must achieve. Face the hunger, pain and come out stronger.

A man of 33 years in his Father house.
His father does not want him in his lounge.

Maybe he is irresponsible in his Father eyes.
If not tell me why.

If he feels he is right then let him face the consequences of his action.

We all can not have caring fathers or good father's. Fate can be bad. But you can choose to be a man. Depending on your Dad's food. For me it is better I received insult from friends why begging for food from them than being embarrassed by my parents.

Because my friends will make me stronger while my parents will hurt me because I will keep being lazy.

Selling his Father gen is also irresponsible of him. That is why his Father does not want him around. If he had no Father nko. Would he steal.

As a boy growing I always had a mindset which was what if I had no parents..

The source of money for a legitimate business matters too. Except he wants to sell drugs.
Good business should start with clean money. Better he borrowed than start a POS with stolen money.

Tell him to go and collect that gen and refund the money.

If he smokes @@@ stop
If he drinks. Stop
Womanizer stop

As far as you are under your parent roof you are a dependant.

Let him bend to his Father's will for now. His Father must have told him what he likes and does not like.

He must not steal from his Father

He must be a son and a child that he is.

If he feels he is Man then take legitimate and wise actions as a Man.

If he's still comfy at his dad's place at that age, that's the way the father brought him up and doesn't even want him to leave his house.
Some parents restrict their children from leaving both male and female until marriage else they are termed irresponsible.
Guy you don't have a manual for everyone's life.
I admire his courage and choice of business.
That young man that stole the gen knows what to do cos he knows his father better.
He better play smart and say "it wasn't me" or "I don't know oh" and stick to that.
Wahala wahala wahala

UnfairLife7:
what if one hardly sleep during day time but at night? Night work without short period to take a nap isn't easy o, especially for those who hardly sleep during day time.

Even a fool must learn
In your vocabulary day has turned night.
That's why it's work and you are being paid nicely.
There's no thing like those who hardly sleep in the day.
If you nap and the child plays a fast one on you and leaves the house you go explain na say you are one of those who hardly sleep during the day

UnfairLife7:
how possible can someone be awake throughout the night without feeling sleepy?

Very possible, night shift. no mind Nigeria wey light no dey. Na normal for Ghana sef, white collar jobs. Public busses run 24 hrs.
For UK guy man go still find another work for morning. Man must Hussle

NL IS SHITTY THESE DAYS
NO LONGER INTRIGUING LIKE 2YS BACK N BEYOND

TheUnsure:


No, I don’t need to tell you anything but your unfortunate mother needs to tell us how she ended up with a brainless mofo like you. Poor woman

I'm sure your lowlife mother raised you as a single mum as well....... talk of running in the family. If God gave you a brain you won't be sharing your shameful story here seeking advice imagine taking marital advice from a forum. Where you born by mistake?

You and the man are a bunch of lowlives.... Yuck!
The kind of foolery people share online these days sef, you should have told us how you ended up a single mother of 2

Religion has nothing to do with the beautiful game

whippersnapper:
she no hate you boss. You should be in your early twenties. The only love in this cold world is a mother's love. Every other love is scam

Leave am!

Me wey Mama come hate, I'm finished then

Nairaland has become shitty these days
No longer intriguing

Abeg keep quiet it either you don't have prick or you don't know how it works

AllenSpencer:


Flogging is not about poverty or frustration. Parents need to set the standards that, their are rewards for bad behavior and excellence.

If your assertion was so true, why do you find the worst sets of kids abroad? Their soft hand produces the worst set of kids you can imagine. Kids who lack basic etiquette's, morals or even discipline. Kids who feel they have a fvckin right to misbehave, which the society supports.

Who says the worst set of kids are abroad we have teenage yahoo boys and online prostitutes all over the country. Abi they were not flogged

djseanjohn77:


Even God says in the bible, flog them to correct them....buy y'all prefer oyibo's advice to God's. We have seen what kind of children they raise. junkies, shooters etc.

No bo oyibo bring word of God to you but you carry am for head pass them
Na why wicked people fool inside churches.

Some red lights shouldn't be ignored

Bradford111:


Yes boss beware of the female gender if I should tell you the kind lie this girl lie bros your ear no go fit carry am

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