babysnogls: If its a normal delivery, i'l say a month. If she had tears or episotomy, i'l say 3 months(wen d wound is healed). If is CS, 6months to a year. Some husbees too get pepper body. I had episotomy with my 2nd child and my hubby wanted it b4 a month. He almost loosend d thread!

Hahahahah.... Your hubby dey vex oooo. Anyway na mann na. You know men na and their high testereone. Hahahahaha. Abi you want make him go outside?

bukatyne: We don't know the kind of meeting the OP wants to have with the both of them. I like the idea of the meeting since the event involved them both at the same time. However, the way the OP handles the meeting determines the outcome. He should make sure his babe apologizies to his mother. Besides, he intends to marry her in 3 mths so she is no longer a GF and I believe she's not a stranger to the OP's mother. If they don't agree now, when will they agree? Change is gradual and not sharp that's why a MIL to be that doesn't respect the DIL to be can't suddenly change after marriage and vice versa. We complain that men over demand respect yet we are guilty of the same thing. We maltreat house - helps, younger ones, DILs, and everyone below us by age or position. Why can't the OP's mom have a meeting with the OP's wife - to - be?

Hey, I don't blame you. if your children grow, you can be having meetings with their girlfriend. No wahala. That's for you sha, stop misleading the op, its a big insult. Well no need to argue with you, as you lay your bed so you lie on it.

baby_mama:

If any of my brothers ever did such a thing and I get to hear about it,ha
That our fathers house will not contain us at a family meeting
Imagine the nonsense
There is one brother that is still single and searching,,i have begged him to close eye and do tum bom tum bum and marry one and he is still doing bobo,let me hear that he was chastising our sweet mother in front of a strange woman and threatening to throw her out sef
Obasi di n'igwe
I will make sure my father disinherits him.

Hahahahaha. Baby the mama!! Take am easy ooo. This op is not matured at all. He should be like 23 or 24 years. When he grows up, he will look back regret all his actions
. Mum and girlfriend in a meeting?

baby_mama:

With who and who?
What an insult
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How dare you have round table meetings between your mother and a girlfriend
Are you crazy?
As I type,the woman you will eventually marry may be in Asaba right now hopping unto an Ekene bus bound for Jibowu
oh yes,,after all you have not paid bride price on anyone yet,it could be anyone
and you are in Lagos doing round table
If I were your mother I won't take kindly to that rubbish[/size]

Baby mama I so much like you joor.
This guy needs to tell us how old he is. He is just childish and disrespectful. mum and girlfriend in a meeting?

YoungSalute: About to have a round table meeting now !

hmmmmm. Guy, na now I know say you no get respect for your mum. Shit. Have a family meeting with your mum and your girlfriend? Bullshit! If I was your mum I will just leave the house for you. It is not enough to stay with a girlfriend and mum in the same house, it has now gotten to th extent of bringing mama and girlfriend to start arguing. This op is just a boym please how old are you guy?

All these health experts and their stupid reasoning called research. If all these researches are important, why are people still dying anyhow in this modern time of researches, when our grandparents lived very long without all this bullshit called researches.

Hahaha. The thing tire me ooo. I don't know, if he won a lottery. Let me be patient and see sha

ifyalways: Wait oh, did Afam win a big lottery or something?

Yeah am not winning i know. You have won. Clap for youself. As for me even if am married, i will be able to balance the relationship between my wife and my mum. My dad did it when i was a kid before my grandmum died anytime she stays with us. Why should he throw his mum out? Do you think mothers are fool. When you see your child when he is married derailing and uselessing his life, leave him you hear because he is married na. I have seen an old man with my two eyes slap his matured son of 45years because of his son's stupidity. Parents are always there to guide their children no matter. If you like you can leave your own children to useless their life because his married, that one is your own business.

Beync: don't put words to my mouth in an attempt to justify your arguments. I never said the op should throw away his mother. Did you read where i said all the op need is to take good care of his mother and provide for her needs but not under the same roof believing they are marred? the op in his previous posts never said he is not married to the woman.second you weren't talking about girlfriend when you talked about many married women on NL who are cheating on their husbands and ready to divorce their husbands at any slightest mistake. So chill u r not winning anything.

Did you see my first post on this thread were i asked op of his marital status with his woman. And you immediately jumped into conclusion for him to throw his mum out. Now, if he throws his mum out and things get hard for him, you think the girl will marry him? The girl will just dump him and say this is the 21st century like you women always say. You see my point that no matter wat his mother is his mother and she will be there for him even in time of difficulties whether he throws her out or not. He has not yet married the girl and she is having problems with his mother.SMH. Beync will you be happy to stay with your son and his girlfriend in the same house. The mother is a christain and she knows it is wrong. You can support your own children to co-habit with women, but not all women are like you.

Beync: op in as much as you are trying to save cost
You have not done the right thing. Living together with ur woman r not married to with your mum is not ok . if u r legally married that's a different thing. Any Mother with high moral standards will definitely frown at it.

You aint even married to the woman yet and all the ladies here are telling you to throw your mum out of your house because of your girlfriend like if it is them they will be happy to be thrown away by their son because of a girlfriend. What if you throw your mum out now and you dont end up marrying the girl. SMH....Some women self, fighting with her boyfriend's mum and she will be expecting her mum to approve her son marrying her. Op if you like listen to all these ladies here on nairaland who dont see anything wrong in co-habiting with their boyfriends and throw your mum out of the house. Mtsheeew

Yes madam, enjoy yours too in peace.

berem: Ok cool. Enjoy your new year in peace.

I have so many donchris attached with numbers and i have been around ever since on nairaland just chilling out bro.

ilugunboy:

donchris333 still dey oooooo..! na donchrisss999 una got banned.

ishilove why call me cretin?

So in your whole lifetime you havent had problems with people. Anyway am enjoying my new year peacefully please.

Ishilove:
Same to you, luv.

O yes I am aware of this awesome button. I have used it severally to report cretins like Ogaga4luv and donchris.

berem: Am finally free from that dude.i hope he doesn't resurface this year and continue stalking me.

Hey, i have been around just watching by the corner. why should i stalk you?.................. I have no problem with you ok! So just leave me out of your discussions please as i celebrate my new year in peace.

Happy new year to all my igbo and yoruba brothers.

Dayokanu and ilungunboy we can drink beer together and merry. You know it will make sense and we can make it happen.

I hope this new year will be a year of peace, love and unity between us all.

My brother, the writer of these article just wrote the north's mind. The yorubas should be warming up for another awolowo.

noblezone: Nigeria was never mearnt to be!

One day it will surely scatter.

He that have ears, let him hear.

Yet, we can avoid another "Biafra" before we are Somlia-ed.

This article tells me perhaps that Azazi and Yakowa were murdered!!!!!!!

I call on Jonathan to get the writer of this article and question him for other security issues both now and in the future.

malele:
Nwanne this war go affect us too oo, because to get to niger delta u go pass through southeast.
We have to be prepared this time arm ourselves with chemical weapons incase those fools try any thing stupid.

Nwanne, relax, the yoruba and the north will hear it this time if they mess up. Let them come and follow through southeast na. We are patiently waiting.

nitrogen:
Words of a bigot, thank God you won't be the victims here like the other time. You know what I mean

Mr Offender (that's what you guys are called now, thanks to Afam4ever-your fellow), Please go back to sleep!

COWARDS.

North want to wage war on niger delta, i hope your preparing your new hero that will give them advise on how to wipe them out. Are you ready? Hope your warming up for your postion in the incoming sambo government? cowards.

malele:
I don't know why northerners no get brain.
A christain can never be a sucide bomber.
Jonathan didn't cause anything.
Bombing in north is caused by ur useless leaders that think that power belongs only to them.
And mind you if u decide to attack niger delta, just know that south east will never grant you route to reach there.
Foolish northeners

Brother, let them come and pass through south east na. They think we are cowards like the yorubas. They no born them well to try am. You guyz in the niger delta should just relax, they cant do anything. They are all cowards.

Brother, stop spewing thrash about biafrans and trying to rope them in the yorubas stupidity and cowardness. That is why i like the northerners, they are good in these their divide and rule tactics. Instead of you to face the article as written above you are trying to rope biafrans into the yoruba cowardness.

This is another opportunity for the yoruba people to get another hero in the mould of awolowo. We all know that they are the houseboys and servants of the northerners who have always used them as a ladder to climb to power and wage war on a tribe that seems an obstacle to their being in power. Now look at how it works:

The northerners have come with a conspiracy that the ijaws want to wipe the north out through boko haram. Is it just me, i saw in this article were, the writer said that yaradua was killed by poison through a microphone. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm......... Who in nigeria does not know that yaradua was a half dead man and damn sick sick before he became president. I can remember vividly in one of the presidential campaigns of yaradua in 2007 when obasanjo called him publicly from his hospital bed in germany to prove to nigerians that he is well. Now the northerners are saying he was poisoned, so automatically, it was a civilian coup to enthrone goodluck jonathan an ijaw man in power. Now they want to wage war on the ijaws....... I laugh in ijaw.

Now the yoruba man will be getting another hero in the mould of awolowo when the north declares war on ijaw. Yes, we all know what the yorubas can do, they will play a major role through their new hero by giving their own advise to the northerners on how to decimate and wipe out of the surface of the earth the ijaw people. Ijaw people be ready ooooooo.

We now all know that azazzi and yakowa were eliminated by the north because they see them as the biggest threat to their birthright of their hold-on to power. The recent comment of a respected imam sheik gumi justifying the death of yakowa a christain and infidel to the muslims and this article justifying the death of azazzi an ijaw man percieved to be a threat to them is a clear indication that this men were eliminated. Now the plan is to eliminate jonathan so that sambo can take over power, meaning power returning back to the north. Why not, they have already said that yaradua was killed through poison, so they have to revenge back and damn any consequences and kill jonathan an ijaw man.

The yorubas who are well known as coward will be a grooming a new hero and leader that will advise the incoming nothern government(sambo) on how to eliminate the whole of the ijaws if they dare challenge the north. Yorubas are well known cowards and always dances to the tune of the north. And in the future when an ijaw man writes his memoir on the war to elimintate the ijaws by nigeria and they indict their new yoruba hero to be , they will all come out and say that they ijaws are known for whinnig. Well i just pity the ijaws because they should be ready to go it all out as the yorubas and northerners are about to give them the war of their lives.

We at the other end will just sit down and watch as the yorubas and northerners go all out to wipe out the ijaws.............. Who will be the new awolowo of the yoruba people?........... let me guess, maybe tinubu or obasanjo or.......... hmmmmm........lolz. Cowards who are houseboys to the northerners. Oya yoruba people it is time to get a new leader that you will be worshiping like how you worship awolowo. Dayokanu or koruji, this war is an opportunity for you to be a hero in the yorubaland. Better be warming up to go and advice the northernerns on how to deal with the ijaws.

MEHN THIS WAR GO SWEET OOOOO, WHICH CHANNEL WILL THEY BE SHOWING IT ON TELEVISION, BECAUSE I WILL JUST SIT BACK, RELAX AND WATCH AS THEY GO IT ALL OUT.

koruji: Northern politicians and the so-called Biafrans do share one Xteristic.

They are both adept at adding together unintelligent stories all in a naked effort to blame their failures on others.
It goes like this - the Biafrans blame the Yoruba for anything bad that befall them, and the Northern politicians will always blame Ibos for all their issues.

This "concorted" story reminds me of how SLS blamed his attempt to smuggle Sharia banking into Nigeria on Ibos, and how Rufai blamed the same set of people for Boko Haram. Mr. Tilde now blames Azazi for Boko Haram. I guess Azazi was the one that went to Afghanistan to train with terrorists, came back and set up a camp called Afghanistan and started to shoot at the police and the army. It must have been Azazi that sent Hausa men to bomb the UN building and to bomb churches, beer parlours, and much more. Azazi must be the northern politicians that are on record as paying Boko Haram and been in constant communication with the disgusting group too!!!

I am ashamed of people that "believe this 100%" because this is the kind of thinking process they display on this forum each and everyday. Try to go to the link provided in the article and see that it doesn't work. I even indulged him to find the article labeled 340 just to be sure, and what I find is completely unrelated to Azazi:http://fridaydiscourse..com/2012/01/discourse-340-weep-not-kano-be.html The article he meant to point to is this: http://fridaydiscourse..com/2010/11/discourse-310-nigeria-cannot-trust.html.

The current article is simply the usual blame them for our issues, and a great way to excuse the inability of NSA Dasuki to do the job he so boasted he will do upon his appointment.

GOSH!

In as much as i am too skeptical about Gej's performance as president of nigeria, i seriously have pity on nigerians. Nigerianns are just gullible and docile to believe anything, that is why some set of people have continue to manipulate nigerians since independence. I am not in anyway in support of azazzi's so-called indictment on gun-running, if at all is true, but i am just shocked that there is a big conspiracy by northeners to take over power by all means albeit all these their schemings through all these blame-shift theory to justify their self destruction.

These is not a matter of opposition or Gej's supporters, but it is a matter of how can all the south come together to stop these northerners from these part they are about to toe, before they strike. It is no longer about kaduna nzeogwu and igbos killing northern leaders, it is now about the ijaws trying to destabilaze the north. God, every person in the country knows that the sudden violent nature of boko haram is simply because the north lost out of power after the death of late yaradua. Now they are saying that the ijaws want to destabilize the and decimate the north. How many northern leaders have come out openly to condemn boko haram, but we have seen how some of their senators have since been involved in the boko haram activities. How many northerners have condemned the killikng of innocent people and christains through series of bombing by boko haram, but they have consistently condemned the able work of the JTF whenever the retaliate with sorts of propaganda that they kill innocent people and are even pressing for their removal from these zones. HYPOCRITES.

I am igbo, yes, the north decieved the whole world and gullible nigerians to wage a war against the igbos and all the ethnic groups in nigeria fought against the igbos even the south south. I laugh in ijaw. Now, here is another conspiracy theory flying about to decimate the ijaws, so that the north can get back power. It wont be funny this time, not at all, because nigerians are now wiser. Now, it is now the ijaws that want to wipe out the north, not more biafrans killing their leaders. I laugh in ijaw. I am not a Gej a supporter and i am not an opposition and i will calmly sit back as i watch as event unfold in the nearest future. I pity nigerians, many will come online and start to swallow all this conspiracy hook, line and sinker without looking at th bigger picture.

I SIP MY HOLlANDIS YOUGHOURT AS I WATCH MORE EVENTS UNFOLD. WHICH WAY FORWARD MY PEOPLE.

Guy, you make sense jorrh. Just kick her out, no time, why should she compare you with her ex. She wants to place you on a high yardstick by making you feel as if you aint trying your best. Extortion of the highest order. Let her go back to her ex. Simple.

tpacalipse: I will kick her out. She shud go and meet her ex. Shikena!

1) The yoruba girls are very dirty that is why igbo boyz are not interested in them, even their yoruba brothers have deserted them for fulanis, so they prefer the igbo girls who are neat and come after them.

2) The yoruba girl does not know how to cook as it is evidenced in how they use oil as soup. So the yoruba boys need to change their taste of soup(Yoruba), to eat real soup, the igbo soup. Our mothers taught us well oooo and we are proud of them.

3) The rate of promiscuity is to high in the yoruba woman, i mean very high, that is why the yoruba boys want to be marrying the igob girls. The rate of divorce in nigeria is 95percent among the yorubas and just 5percent among other tribes. It is because of this promicous nature among the yorubas that made them to start giving their children tribal marks like a tiger scratched mark to make them look ugly and unattractive to reduce it, still it has not reduced the high rate of promicuity in the yoruba land.

4) Igbo women are hardworking ,career oriented and independent also. e.g ngozi iweala, ndi onyiuke okerek, dora akunyili, oby ezeikwezili, to mention but a few. So the yoruba man do not want to miss out on the industrious nature of the igbo woman that is why they run after them in droves and leave their lazy yoruba women for fulanis to ravage and molest them without taking any action.

This is just the few reasons i will give for now why the yoruba man keep on chasing our women and leaving their own for fulanis to ravage them in their own land.

They have started showing their true colour of recent by bathing our igbo girls with acid to kill them, because they feel our igbo girls are too intelligent to handle. I want to use this opportunity to hail all our igbo girls and tell them to be very carefull when the yoruba man comes to sweettalk them before they bath them with acid due to their wickedness and poverty-stricken lives.

chromoTop: man u're gone!
You still had the energy to post on this forum.

Get up and move on (if your story is true), otherwise park well, naija is already overpopulated.

God! Are people these mean? Is this what you can advise him, to park well that naija is overpopulated. Hmmmmmmmm. You need to beg God forgivenes cos i strongly believe that you have been killing people in these country because of your stupid reason of overpopulation. You must be a yoruba man i guess. Your damn wicked and need help asap

@ TOPIC: Please leave your wife for now and try to face you health issues. Dont add emotional trauma to what you are going through, it wont help. May almighty GOD heal you in jesus name. Amen

Hey madam dont mind the people here giving you advise to go and meet the guy oo, especially if the guy is yoruba. He might end up up pouring you acid to eliminate you (Go forbid). It is inherent in them that when they have a baby out of wedluck and they cant take care of the baby the resort to dubiuos means to eliminate the mother.

My advise: be prayerfull and try to work hard to see that you take care of your baby. God will help you dear.

^

Hey baby mama you fall my hand for this comment that yoruba men make good boyfriends. See, i know yoruba people very well as i have been associating with them for so many years. They dont make any good boyfriends at all. The so-called boyfriends are as lousy as husbands, so cruel and wicked.

There is an orientation within their boys that, when they pregnant a girl that they cant take care of, they just have to do anything to eliminate the girl by all means. Was it not everywere on news just some few weeks back how your so-called good yoruba boyfriends bathed an igbo girl with acid to eliminate her and he succeeded. This have been happening in yorubaland for centuries between themselves but people dont know. Why this one made the news this time was because the victim was an igbo girl. Dont joke with the yoruba man, they are cowards, they cant stand their fellow man but, they abuse women and even kill them. Its part of their culture.

baby_mama:

Superior culture
Eziokwu
Juju is superior culture?
Okokobioko
Or is it sleeping with ones own daughter and impregnating her for Goodluck juju
A culture of promiscuity and indiscriminate baby making?
A culture of mistresses and unknown fathers,illegitimate children scattered all over with step this and half that
Of a father impregnating everything in skirt?
Of a married man doing naming ceremonies for countless out of wedlock children and his wife will follow and wear Aso ebi
Of women running around bare chested for protests
Or drawing tire tracks on faces of babies
What is that superior culture please educate us

I have written it here before Yoruba men make good boyfriends but lousy husbands at least to an Igbo woman who wants a traditional husband
Your men are better off single and procreating.marriage and commitment is not in your lexicon and it is no secret
Igbo women marry yoruba men out of ignorance
Many soon regret it
Their idea of what marriage is differs from ours


It is amongst Yorubas that a woman will know her husbands mistresses and be cool with it
She will Born pikin and they will born too,no big deal and his family will rejoice
Tufia

Nairaland the site of jokers. I expect senator iyiola omisore to win next year hall of fame award, by the way he just donated 2.5 million naira to save 2 cancer patients after he had killed so many people including the great bola ige. Nairaland the site of jokers.

Uduaghan has achieve something great. Only just one thing and he surpasses other governors in that. He buys married women blackberry phones, chats with them on how they will have sexx in london and takes them to the best hotels in london to shine their kongo. My people is that not a great achievement? Uduaghan is a great governor shikena