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Growing up was very difficult and hard for us giving to the background of my family.

After my secondary school, i couldn't further my education because dad had no money and children were much. As the first son, I was forced to join my uncle who is a business man to learn trade but my uncle in turn asked me to learn a skill which was against my plans for myself but because i couldn't resist, i resorted to his ideas and in all, am now a skilled man at 30 with 7 siblings and mom and Dad almost old.
Now, the question is, How can i overturn things ? The poverty is seriously ravaging us as even my 2 married sisters are married to poor men who even know i dont have, yet turn to me for financial help.
I have saved up to 3m in cash but theirs a big need to make money and change the situation of my family.

Nevertheless, i had thought of building a house on the land i secured at my base here in nasarawa but as i type this , am in my village at a wake keep and i could see what people with money do here, thus my quest to know how i can make a better life for myself and family.
House, what should i do? Start a business to start my building since am not growing younger cos i don't even know how good i can be in business.
Thanks all as i expect a good suggestion on how to get to my dreams.

Mine was just three weeks ago, the only woman I took very serious that I have been dating for years (6) though, I couldn't sexually satisfy her but we were cool.
Three weeks ago, she called me and was asking of my plans for her which I made it clear to her that I need to be stable before I can think of marriage but I was really interested in her. To my outmost amazement, I saw her proposal video on her Whatsapp status even without telling me that a man was in her life .
Fear women ooo , thanks to God because I wasn't too affected because I know am not sexually heathy and can't even father a child

Lol. E be like say you no know how much be bag of cement and iron[/quote]I don't understand, u mean 36m can't build the house?

I know what comes to ur mind, hell No!! Not my intentions"
I have created lots of topics Here on nairaland concerning my sexual life .
Staphylococcus infection has ruin my life, I have tried and have decided to accept my fate.

I have gone to several hospital for treatments but couldn't not even get a near successful treatment let alone a successful one . I have spend tons of my scarce earnings just to make myself healed , yet , all is waste.

How on earth will a man cope without a healthy life not to talk of sexual life ?? I have been in several failed relationships just because am not able so satisfy my partner. I properly narrated my ordeal to a medical doctor and he said it's impossible for a man to cum before a minute, I smiled, knowing i cum even before a minute. Recently, the girl am dating came to my house without panties not bra. Which means it's our day for sex but I failed woefully: I touched her , made her wet , when I inserted my dick, hmm.... I couldn't even thourst 5 times before I released. She shouted, "what "? She immediately left my house and didn't come back till date.

Please house , do I still have hope of being a man ?? I even had a test called sperm analysis and culture, I was told I won't be able to impregnate a woman given to the infection that has damaged my homones , what should I do before somebody son will become a living inanimate?

It's really motivating, I have been able to save 1m this year but will spend 500k next tomorrow on my dad's building. Will soon be on 500k savings for the year

If not punctuations, I think he was referring to ur choice of word,served" which means he's less of a teacher to u , do, serves should replace the word "served"

I was 25 then

[quote author=Danzakidakura post=103666831]But the road is double lane, so people can still follow the second lane beside I have not seen any work on the road. @ op stop lying

Who told u he lied?? His reports is just , so, always say what u know

Today was horrible for u , the little the dug before caused an accident before the remember to come back to finish it. We truly have a failed gov. If FERMA had started the work by 1am , we wouldn't have had such experience today. I had to treek from international market to nyanya, even when I bypassed the point, okada still had the guts to demand #150 from abacha road to under nyanya bridge. Thanks to my two legs

What should we do now??

Oh my God!! What I have always wish I have the grace to do as a man. Pls. Keep the baby.

Am in a multiple relationship but not committed, so, I won't cry if I loose any of them.

Very sad to say this:
2013 I had an issue with some hausa men who tried to intimidate me in a vehicle we freely entered leading to our destination. As a novice around FCT, I never knew Nigeria is that deep in tribalism untill I fought with those guys and was taken to a nearby police station at mararaba. Smiles.... I came into the police station and what I saw almost made me to faint. I met a huge hip of men wears with a noisy and smelly environment, Kia... I almost cried knowing I was to be thrown into that hell called sell .

Many will sense evil in it but the fact remains that not every man can be an alpha man.

I see ur ability as a blessing bro. Ur courage to start the move is equally worth commending. I envy U

Women doing unbelievable things from the days of Adam. There was no other way she could get the money than going the way she went. I fear women .

[quote author=Nigga44 post=98935357]Point of correction; not all the zones have gone for 2 times. Enugu west has only been able to produce Sullivan Chime as governor and no one else.

Christian Onoh is from ENUGU EAST. His side of hometown of Ngwo is under ENUGU NORTH LOCAL GOVERNMENT AREA which falls under ENUGU EAST SENATORIAL ZONE.

Having said that, it is quite certain that Enugu west has been grossly sidelined in this rotation. So in the spirit of equity and fairness, the incoming governor should be a competent man/woman from ENUGU west.

Enugu north has been there 2 times.
Enugu east has been there 3 times.
Enugu west has only gone once.

Let us be fair and just in this....so that we can maintain the present peace in our state and not return us back to the dark years of political thuggery and violence.

Who told u all these ?? Enugu under onoh nwangwo was when Enugu was under Anambra state, the dispensation mentioned started from 1999 as stated by the OP. We are the Enugu East and to be precise, it rightfully belongs to ndi isi_uzo

[quote author=cchub post=98534992]He wasn't Selina confirme

Selina still fail bro. 99.9 intelligence matters

For me ,4 boys. I don't even pray to have a girl child.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

I can design SMAN ID card as low as N100.

Just 'hit' me !

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How do I get it

this can't be true na

Its not all about education, there are things education can't change in our beliefs and culture which this is one of them. Every man want a boy that will retain his name just as he retained that of his father's so dear, don't be inquisitive even when u know that if u as a woman can't birth a male child to ur husband, u won't feel relaxed. This what culture and beliefs brought to us.

I had such experience though, I never believed her but before I got to know, she was already healed. Now I have taken my path

Most women are psychopath, later they will say all men are same when they equally appears Same than men. Better tell ur mother and see how she handles it if not, our opinions here won't change oga mind oooo

What do u qualify as needful??

That's my constituency, the clan / family politics PDP runs in Enugu is getting our of hands. I wonder where someone who is meant to represent the people was picked not for merit but to compensate the family for the loss of their son who ones represented without nothing good to show for it. Anyway, still rest in peace Aguiyi

I will count a bit yet anticipating more from God before the year end. It has been a nice going to me, even when Corona struck, I never lacked nor touched what I had, I achieved being a self dependent man even when it was like I was not going to survive it alone but in turn, God multiplied me and made things to work for me. Lastly, my health is another reason to thank the Lord

He looks insane

[quote]and nobody will tell you to delete it after three days you take it my sister. Me and calls, we are so totally worlds apart. I don't know how to make/answer calls. Generally i have problem relating with people. Like i don't like getting closer to people. So the best i always do is to try and make peopls day and be there for humanity sake. After that, we are so done. I'm like so outta this world. Don't know if there's another like me on earth though. I feel so wierd even to myself.

We seems to share something in common.

Am still a senior bachelor

He wasted his supposed useful life... Cultism doesn't pay

She should cry very well.... Thought she was acting as if ozo wasn't needed in her life

Mine was 5k when she said wanted buying a phone