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quadriolakunle:
To stay in your own, independent?

How did you survive.

And your parents were still alive and catering for you.

I'm confused, sorry for all the plenty questions

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I started staying alone at the age of 27 but my hustling started at 20

I left my family at the age of 20, one year after my SSCE . What do u have for me To compliment my response to ur question??

[quote author=lefulefu post=91676692]depression tinzs i am seeing here
u should have someone close to u to open ur mind to and i suggestu try and call your family as often as possible
me for example i am far off naija but i call my ppl back home as often as i can
if during the week i cant make it calling them due to my schedule i always make it a priority calling my dad and mom on weekends.my two brothers i chat and make phone calls with them plus my aunt.Family is blood and very important.dont sideline them from your life
Thanks bro. Life isn't just easy for me

[quote author=SweetBuns post=91674047]What turns you on?
Nothing turns me on

[quote author=SweetBuns post=91673786]Have you had wet dreams before


I have repeatedly had

Good day all,
I will just try to make it short. Can one cope in life without love ?? I just found out that I have never been in love, I can't beat my cheast to say I love someone. I hardly call my siblings or even my parents. What could be wrong with me ?? I don't even have anybody to call my friend. I found interest in nothing not even women, hate music, films, comedy and every other thing that is meant to make life friendly. I have nobody to miss. Pls, am I normal cos I even avoid taking to people because I dislike association. What do I think is wrong with me ?? Help me pls because things are not right in my life

Things that appears as mistakes to us are the same things that worked for others.
Therefore, the only mistake that can be considered general among human is not serving God because who fails to must surely regret

Sorry for the experience ma, the society is becoming too corrupt to the extent that our efforts seems to be futile but with prayers, all our wishes and demands will be met. engage her in talks and pray fervently for her to be rescued. God will hear your cries.

Something is missing somewhere, are you here to justify your sexuality as gay or what?? Anyway, I would advice u let go of the past and move on with life. If need be, help regardless of who is involve. My 1 cent

Sorry for my typos..
A friend who introduced me to a client I worked for as a technician came to my shop yesterday after he claimed to have lost my contacts and had to reach me through a neighbor. He came pestering me for a deal, he said there's ongoing grant from the fed gov. On agriculture and the grant is 10m. He had listed how connected he is, how he aids his junior brothers success in the grant and how he had asked the bro. To dispense the money for the benefits of the general family. Now the issue, he said I will have to bring the sum of 150k to process this loan and was sincerely assuring me how it will work out. I asked him how this grant will be paid back and he said we won't pay the money so, he said my name will be Used to apply for the loan and the money will be given to me but will be shared equal since I brought money and he has the connections. Pls. Have u heard of this?? Do u think it's a scam cos I don't know much about him, just the link he gave me that got us connected.

Young man, be specific in your intentions in other not to endanger her future. She's 16 and given to the society, she would want a boyfriend and as an adult, guide her like a bro. Not a boyfriend till she becomes age wise to be sexually engaged.

Good morning pals, I plead u overlook my flaws and give the necessary advice please.
I lived with my uncle for 7yrs and before coming to his house, I had in mind to undergo our usual apprenticeship as an igbo man which he agreed. 2013 January, I came to his house to start as earlier agreed but when I got to his place we stayed for like 3 months then he came up with an Idea of a new business outside his field which I never oposed . Prior to his idea, we went to another site (market ) far from where he is then he introduced me to a man who is into tailoring materias so I could start learning the business with hope he opens for me when done with the learning. 2014 February, I was already done and he called my attention citing that there was no cash then to start up the business for me and he promised I shouldn't be worried as I was going to stay with him since his business too needed another hand, I had no objection to his idea as I complied. less than a month, he called me and asked me to go get a skill that he thinks that would be better for me that after 2-3yrs he would open a shop for me that's in his line of his business so he could use me to settle his senior sister which is my mom. I then made my mind to go for the skill though, most of my relatives his immediate siblings were against it citing the main reason why I came which is business and not for skill. Mind u, I had issues with my father before leaving cos people were coming for me to serve them in their businesses but my father never accepted to give me out to anybody to avoid been disappointed. This was his reason why he regected my uncle's step to take me to his place insisting I should go for a skill and he was already planning how to connect me with one of his friends who's an electrician but I detested his idea cos I needed something that would earn me enough money since the person he tends to lead me to had nothing. Dad had to let me go to uncle's place on the ground the I was old enough to decide what to do with my life. Now at uncle's place, started learning the skill and still stays in his shop and most times I travel to onitsha from Abuja to buy goods for my uncle since I already know much about his business. 2016 we had a little problem where I was learning the skill cos our shop was demolished so, having satisfied the necessary things, I moved on since I was already okay with the knowledge of the work, I moved back fully to stay with my uncle and I was doing the work I learned as it was coming small small. I was serving my uncle cos I stay in his house but the little money I was making I was managing it for my needs as he never care about what I needed as a man and was less concerned about my family needs. Most times, he would call and encourage me to learn how to save from the little I was making promising to give me a million (1m) if I could be able to raise a million on my own or even give me more so I could have a good start a he verbally wanted me to go into his business line. To cut the story short, years he promised passed and I was still under his house, my movement was limited, social life same , as a football fan , I could only watch afternoon match even as I was already above 25yrs in his house. There was a day I had to sleep outside during raining season without no shed on my head because I came late. That day I nearly loose my life cos of cold. When he saw how I was growing rapidly with my skill, he started having negative thoughts in his mind as he felt I would overshadow him if I eventually venture into his line of Business, so, he resorted to persuading me to go to Liberia to reside that I would make it there, then I was only having 180-200k and he knew about the money. He was pushing me to go that I would make my route to there through land but I was never interest so I declined. He said I should leave Abuja for Calabar that I will fend better there but I refused so he got angry with me . He called me last year December one Sunday morning to explain to me that he owes me nothing since I was insisting I would not leave Abuja for any place again, he only agreed to give me the money he borrowed from me and also take me to the village to declare me a free man then give me just the money he borrowed from me as he claimed I didn't serve him. Deep down , I was shattered cos I was already planning how I would start my life this past January. My money with him is 800k after we went home for xmass /declaration he promised to give me the money by January I meant the money I made ooo... January came we all came back to base, 1 week after we came back I told him I was set to leave his house that I have gotten a place to stay but he said no I should stay for like 3-6 months again , hmm... I wasn't happy but did not have to argue with him cos I needed to wtach Madrid vs Atletico Madrid super cup finals. I left for the match that night but everything about the house keep irritating me cos I was not comfortable again, am 27 and should take charge of my life so, I went ahead and got a house told him I have gotten and paid and I would be leaving anytime. The day came I left for my new house, now I stay alone but my uncle has refused to give me this my money. Please nairalanders, how can I get this money from this man as I practically have nothing to plan with except the skill that is sustaining me for now and my plan was to get this money and invest it in a side business or save up some money to start up a business. Someone told me that my uncle said he can decide not to give me the money and nothing will happen but instead of such to prevail, I rather close his generation and damn the consequences than let his thought stand. Help me pls, bash me but I need a way forward as that money is the only hope I have now for a sustainable future .

As a Christian, I believe in God. I have at a point dedicated and rededicated my life to Christ, i have been prayerful with high expectations of answers to my prayers but till date, it hasn't been answered. I have been to programs where people chant miracles are real and threw their wheelchairs up to justify their healings but my feventness in prayer has not earned my lingering wishes and prayers. Who else will I resort to? Doctor seemed not to have solution after I have spent wards of cash to get cured.. do miracles really exist? Does God really answers prayers?

[quote author=Ogademo1 post=87501224]Mind you!!! He who reveals the secrets of odin shall die by the secret.... I rest my capping for my BP to cap..... XXXOOOO!!!!?


Bloody!!!!!!!

Lengthy though, truly the gift of God is eternal life.

This what most women are praying and paying to have. Human indeed is insatiable

Josiah like jonsin

Still on the verge with no investment, just planning how to invest and what to invest on. God will see us through

I give it to Ronaldo based on love but for merit, modric deserve it

Happy married life

Me too

Good help us

well said bro. our youthful age should be a dedicated stage for kingdom advancement

Aro rugged!!!!!!!!

Is she from Abia and stay in Abuja? If yes then ' I know her. That's how she live.

It's possible only when the guy is impotent

To many who said HND is forth class should know that my type has no access to it. Education is good irrespective of how it is attained.

This country is more becoming a joke everyday... Pls, stay away from Enugu ooo

Never know this tale this much, thumbs up to Nairaland.
Samson was not just stupid but was foolish as well.. how can such brave man lack wisdom to discern who the enemy was? I think his dullard way of bravery aids his death. lesson to learn.
Do not believe your enemy are only the once you are fighting but extend your search to people who pleases you and in disguise are your enemy.. Never trust any man..

please no insult

I had posted about this sometime last year but am yet to see the outcome. Am 24 , I can't tell what is actually happening in my life. often time I thought of it, I suggest suicide. I had been in series of relationship but no one works out for two months due to my inability to sex them.
Recently, a girl I was dating who has been asking me for sex broke up with me telling her friends am impotent that am not a man. imagine! I don't blame her though, since all her effort to express how much she need me sexually failed. now this same girl resorted to dating my roommate and was also laid by this mate of mine same day they agreed to be date mates. Pls, I am really disturbed about this as I will see my manhood stand erect but I can't fell any sexual impact. last time doctor prescribed ciprotap and I have taken it for over a year yet, can't account for it. pls, what can I do to rid myself this shameful aliment?
your candid advice is welcomed as am almost dying of thinking. is this how I will end? oh God.

[quote author=BeeBeeOoh post=54208895]Nothing to Never to hang leg even at the point of bantering