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This is a true life story about me.
I don't know how to write so don't mind my text errorrs.

I came from a very poor background and a divided family with no single love among siblings. Its affected my mental health allot.
My mother gave birth to 8 children. 4 girls 4 boys and i am the last born. I have never enjoy my childhood because i was surrounded with brothers and sisters that don't like each other and the hatred grew that my elder brother from another father bullied and gave me a tough childhood till i grew to be a tennager. i endure everything but i was setting my head on what could be going wrong in the family maybe it is a curse or something.

i fought my way through school and struggled to pay my tuition fee plus accommodation and life expenses. I was living in face me and slap you in abeokuta and i experienced one of the dreadful moments of my existence. But glory to God it made me stronger and wise to be a man i am today.

I finish my service year this feb 2 and i went back to my mothers house because i lost allot of money from a trip that took me and my ex from jos to lagos. i went back to ogun state to stay with my mum God so good she traveled to london to stay with my rich sister from another father ( the family is so divided that nobody love each other, the rich don't want to help but taking care of our mother) She travelled for 4month and i was able to save my apartment money.

Just today to the Glory of God, the poor boy that was digraced and shamed in abeokuta, the boy they have written off and said he can never make it in life or do good things HAS JUST SEALED AND PAID IN CASH HIS APARTMENT DREAM. This will be the first time i will be experiencing maximum privacy.

I am not showing off or trying to brag. I am only setting it out to whoever come accross this story that " whatever you set your mind to do irrespective of coming from a very poor background" with focus and diligence, YOU WILL ACHIEVE THEM. Stay blessed

This is a true life story about me.
I don't know how to write so don't mind my text errorrs.

I came from a very poor background and a divided family with no single love among siblings. Its affected my mental health allot.
My mother gave birth to 8 children. 4 girls 4 boys and i am the last born. I have never enjoy my childhood because i was surrounded with brothers and sisters that don't like each other and the hatred grew that my elder brother from another father bullied and gave me a tough childhood till i grew to be a tennager. i endure everything but i was setting my head on what could be going wrong in the family maybe it is a curse or something.

i fought my way through school and struggled to pay my tuition fee plus accommodation and life expenses. I was living in face me and slap you in abeokuta and i experienced one of the dreadful moments of my existence. But glory to God it made me stronger and wise to be a man i am today.

I finish my service year this feb 2 and i went back to my mothers house because i lost allot of money from a trip that took me and my ex from jos to lagos. i went back to ogun state to stay with my mum God so good she traveled to london to stay with my rich sister from another father ( the family is so divided that nobody love each other, the rich don't want to help but taking care of our mother) She travelled for 4month and i was able to save my apartment money.

Just today to the Glory of God, the poor boy that was digraced and shamed in abeokuta, the boy they have written off and said he can never make it in life or do good things HAS JUST SEALED AND PAID IN CASH HIS APARTMENT DREAM. This will be the first time i will be experiencing maximum privacy.

I am not showing off or trying to brag. I am only setting it out to whoever come accross this story that " whatever you set your mind to do irrespective of coming from a very poor background" with focus and diligence, YOU WILL ACHIEVE THEM. Stay blessed
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This is a true life story about me.
I don't know how to write so don't mind my text errorrs.

I came from a very poor background and a divided family with no single love among siblings. Its affected my mental health allot.
My mother gave birth to 8 children. 4 girls 4 boys and i am the last born. I have never enjoy my childhood because i was surrounded with brothers and sisters that don't like each other and the hatred grew that my elder brother from another father bullied and gave me a tough childhood till i grew to be a tennager. i endure everything but i was setting my head on what could be going wrong in the family maybe it is a curse or something.

i fought my way through school and struggled to pay my tuition fee plus accommodation and life expenses. I was living in face me and slap you in abeokuta and i experienced one of the dreadful moments of my existence. But glory to God it made me stronger and wise to be a man i am today.

I finish my service year this feb 2 and i went back to my mothers house because i lost allot of money from a trip that took me and my ex from jos to lagos. i went back to ogun state to stay with my mum God so good she traveled to london to stay with my rich sister from another father ( the family is so divided that nobody love each other, the rich don't want to help but taking care of our mother) She travelled for 4month and i was able to save my apartment money.

Just today to the Glory of God, the poor boy that was digraced and shamed in abeokuta, the boy they have written off and said he can never make it in life or do good things HAS JUST SEALED AND PAID IN CASH HIS APARTMENT DREAM. This will be the first time i will be experiencing maximum privacy.

I am not showing off or trying to brag. I am only setting it out to whoever come accross this story that " whatever you set your mind to do irrespective of coming from a very poor background" with focus and diligence, YOU WILL ACHIEVE THEM. Stay blessed
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OP please push to FP. i need to see people comment and views.

This is a true life story about me.
I don't know how to write so don't mind my text errorrs.

I came from a very poor background and a divided family with no single love among siblings. Its affected my mental health allot.
My mother gave birth to 8 children. 4 girls 4 boys and i am the last born. I have never enjoy my childhood because i was surrounded with brothers and sisters that don't like each other and the hatred grew that my elder brother from another father bullied and gave me a tough childhood till i grew to be a tennager. i endure everything but i was setting my head on what could be going wrong in the family maybe it is a curse or something.

i fought my way through school and struggled to pay my tuition fee plus accommodation and life expenses. I was living in face me and slap you in abeokuta and i experienced one of the dreadful moments of my existence. But glory to God it made me stronger and wise to be a man i am today.

I finish my service year this feb 2 and i went back to my mothers house because i lost allot of money from a trip that took me and my ex from jos to lagos. i went back to ogun state to stay with my mum God so good she traveled to london to stay with my rich sister from another father ( the family is so divided that nobody love each other, the rich don't want to help but taking care of our mother) She travelled for 4month and i was able to save my apartment money.

Just today to the Glory of God, the poor boy that was digraced and shamed in abeokuta, the boy they have written off and said he can never make it in life or do good things HAS JUST SEALED AND PAID IN CASH HIS APARTMENT DREAM. This will be the first time i will be experiencing maximum privacy.

I am not showing off or trying to brag. I am only setting it out to whoever come accross this story that " whatever you set your mind to do irrespective of coming from a very poor background" with focus and diligence, YOU WILL ACHIEVE THEM. Stay blessed
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OP please push to FP. i need to see people comment and views.

This is a true life story about me.
I don't know how to write so don't mind my text errorrs.

I came from a very poor background and a divided family with no single love among siblings. Its affected my mental health allot.
My mother gave birth to 8 children. 4 girls 4 boys and i am the last born. I have never enjoy my childhood because i was surrounded with brothers and sisters that don't like each other and the hatred grew that my elder brother from another father bullied and gave me a tough childhood till i grew to be a tennager. i endure everything but i was setting my head on what could be going wrong in the family maybe it is a curse or something.

i fought my way through school and struggled to pay my tuition fee plus accommodation and life expenses. I was living in face me and slap you in abeokuta and i experienced one of the dreadful moments of my existence. But glory to God it made me stronger and wise to be a man i am today.

I finish my service year this feb 2 and i went back to my mothers house because i lost allot of money from a trip that took me and my ex from jos to lagos. i went back to ogun state to stay with my mum God so good she traveled to london to stay with my rich sister from another father ( the family is so divided that nobody love each other, the rich don't want to help but taking care of our mother) She travelled for 4month and i was able to save my apartment money.

Just today to the Glory of God, the poor boy that was digraced and shamed in abeokuta, the boy they have written off and said he can never make it in life or do good things HAS JUST SEALED AND PAID IN CASH HIS APARTMENT DREAM. This will be the first time i will be experiencing maximum privacy.

I am not showing off or trying to brag. I am only setting it out to whoever come accross this story that " whatever you set your mind to do irrespective of coming from a very poor background" with focus and diligence, YOU WILL ACHIEVE THEM. Stay blessed
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OP please push to FP. i need to see people comment and views.

thank you so much

ibechris:
I want to say something to u,ur journey to greatness is about to start.

But run away from easy women,run away from gamblers both men and women. Run away from un-productive friends and family members.

Avoid night outs and be on track.

omo me self no sleep oo, i know God well just that i am not devoted but i pray and i listen to message. About my job, i am a creative designer and a business administrator

siofragspot:
That's great.....nice one. What job do you do Op?


Op still be aware of those your same village people who set your siblings against eachother. They are still watching and might not be far from trailing your success with evil act.

Success has alot of families, good and evil ones

This is a true life story about me.
I don't know how to write so don't mind my text errorrs.

I came from a very poor background and a divided family with no single love among siblings. Its affected my mental health allot.
My mother gave birth to 8 children. 4 girls 4 boys and i am the last born. I have never enjoy my childhood because i was surrounded with brothers and sisters that don't like each other and the hatred grew that my elder brother from another father bullied and gave me a tough childhood till i grew to be a tennager. i endure everything but i was setting my head on what could be going wrong in the family maybe it is a curse or something.

i fought my way through school and struggled to pay my tuition fee plus accommodation and life expenses. I was living in face me and slap you in abeokuta and i experienced one of the dreadful moments of my existence. But glory to God it made me stronger and wise to be a man i am today.

I finish my service year this feb 2 and i went back to my mothers house because i lost allot of money from a trip that took me and my ex from jos to lagos. i went back to ogun state to stay with my mum God so good she traveled to london to stay with my rich sister from another father ( the family is so divided that nobody love each other, the rich don't want to help but taking care of our mother) She travelled for 4month and i was able to save my apartment money.

Just today to the Glory of God, the poor boy that was digraced and shamed in abeokuta, the boy they have written off and said he can never make it in life or do good things HAS JUST SEALED AND PAID IN CASH HIS APARTMENT DREAM. This will be the first time i will be experiencing maximum privacy.

I am not showing off or trying to brag. I am only setting it out to whoever come accross this story that " whatever you set your mind to do irrespective of coming from a very poor background" with focus and diligence, YOU WILL ACHIEVE THEM. Stay blessed
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OP please push to FP. i need to see people comment and views.

amen, thanks my bro

Candidlady:
Then you are lucky it was your mum who raised you.. you are indeed a lucky dude..

Please you should always try all your best to appreciate that woman...

Wherever she is may Allah always guide and favour her
Amin

i just made the write short so as not to bore you with epistle. Getting a job was just a mircale back then in school. i got a job with my digital skills and i also got to connect with another company in jos when i was serving nigeria. i also have my person brand thags generate income for me. Unfortunately i lost my dad at the age of 5 and my mum single handdely raised us. she gave birth to the first 4 children for a different father and i am part of another set. we were so poor that not everyone has the privilege to graduate from school. 3 of my own set of siblings graduated from scholl and served. My two sister and i. A story for another day. but i just thank God, if you can dream it. you can achieve it.

Candidlady:
Hmmmm

One quick silly question please


What is the nature of your job

Nowhere in your write up did you say anything bout getting a job?

You didn't say nothing bout your dad either... You are lucky you got a mother in your life trust me if it were to be your father this thread wouldn't have this kinda heading


Irest my case


Modified: please celebrate this new apartment of yours by doing giveaway To Samueltemi337 and Miracrood2 the one and only gamblers + beggars of our dearest indigenous forum

Thank you

This is a true life story about me.
I don't know how to write so don't mind my text errorrs.

I came from a very poor background and a divided family with no single love among siblings. Its affected my mental health allot.
My mother gave birth to 8 children. 4 girls 4 boys and i am the last born. I have never enjoy my childhood because i was surrounded with brothers and sisters that don't like each other and the hatred grew that my elder brother from another father bullied and gave me a tough childhood till i grew to be a tennager. i endure everything but i was setting my head on what could be going wrong in the family maybe it is a curse or something.

i fought my way through school and struggled to pay my tuition fee plus accommodation and life expenses. I was living in face me and slap you in abeokuta and i experienced one of the dreadful moments of my existence. But glory to God it made me stronger and wise to be a man i am today.

I finish my service year this feb 2 and i went back to my mothers house because i lost allot of money from a trip that took me and my ex from jos to lagos. i went back to ogun state to stay with my mum God so good she traveled to london to stay with my rich sister from another father ( the family is so divided that nobody love each other, the rich don't want to help but taking care of our mother) She travelled for 4month and i was able to save my apartment money.

Just today to the Glory of God, the poor boy that was digraced and shamed in abeokuta, the boy they have written off and said he can never make it in life or do good things HAS JUST SEALED AND PAID IN CASH HIS APARTMENT DREAM. This will be the first time i will be experiencing maximum privacy.

I am not showing off or trying to brag. I am only setting it out to whoever come accross this story that " whatever you set your mind to do irrespective of coming from a very poor background" with focus and diligence, YOU WILL ACHIEVE THEM. Stay blessed
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OP please push to FP. i need to see people comment and views.

thanks man, God bless you

Chronosvineberg:
Congratulations bro. Keep pushing

Thanks man, God bless you

Xammie001:
CONGRATULATIONS BROTHER

amen, yours is coming soon

eliyke:
Congrat bro,I also pray 4 my own too

amen brother, thanks so much

budaatum:
And this is just the beginning of all the great things you will achieve since nothing can stand in your way.

This is a true life story about me.
I don't know how to write so don't mind my text errorrs.

I came from a very poor background and a divided family with no single love among siblings. Its affected my mental health allot.
My mother gave birth to 8 children. 4 girls 4 boys and i am the last born. I have never enjoy my childhood because i was surrounded with brothers and sisters that don't like each other and the hatred grew that my elder brother from another father bullied and gave me a tough childhood till i grew to be a tennager. i endure everything but i was setting my head on what could be going wrong in the family maybe it is a curse or something.

i fought my way through school and struggled to pay my tuition fee plus accommodation and life expenses. I was living in face me and slap you in abeokuta and i experienced one of the dreadful moments of my existence. But glory to God it made me stronger and wise to be a man i am today.

I finish my service year this feb 2 and i went back to my mothers house because i lost allot of money from a trip that took me and my ex from jos to lagos. i went back to ogun state to stay with my mum God so good she traveled to london to stay with my rich sister from another father ( the family is so divided that nobody love each other, the rich don't want to help but taking care of our mother) She travelled for 4month and i was able to save my apartment money.

Just today to the Glory of God, the poor boy that was digraced and shamed in abeokuta, the boy they have written off and said he can never make it in life or do good things HAS JUST SEALED AND PAID IN CASH HIS APARTMENT DREAM. This will be the first time i will be experiencing maximum privacy.

I am not showing off or trying to brag. I am only setting it out to whoever come accross this story that " whatever you set your mind to do irrespective of coming from a very poor background" with focus and diligence, YOU WILL ACHIEVE THEM. Stay blessed

I have been married for 14 YEARS and 'we' have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me.

5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Lagos to Abuja and our car skidded off the road.
I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children.

I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.
In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process.

I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me.

6 years into our marriage, my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child.
To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA and it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine.

I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife.
My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know.

I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about the situation.
I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.

If you don't have any meaningful things to say, please don't comment

do i know if theh have common 50k and i will repay back by month end

ideatoprince18:
My guy this your entitlement mentality is top notch ooooo

Do u know if they have 50k ?? Are u in their bank account??

Use your 200k play 2 odd in bet9ja then u can get extra 200k ...

Have you ever been in a situation where your own blood family can't come through for you?

I saved 200k for 3month from my salary and income and i plan to get a new apartment in lagos and i only need 50k to complete the payment for a roomself contain.

I asked them to borrow me till i get my salary and non of them responded and said they don't have the money.

I only need to borrow the money is not assive i am not earning and even if i stay till july ending i will definitely get the remaining 50k myself but i just have to move in a hurry and this people are acting this way.

Please nobody should talked about entitlement here because if my own family cannot help me solve a 50k problem which i will return within 3weeks then tell me why allot of people will not neglect their own family when they finally made it?

Please how can i really go about this thanks

why will God have to select who to bless and who not to bless? why is grace so selective that allot of peoole are rich and allot of people are living in deep poverty? what is the faith of poor people after death?will they go to hell and still continue to suffer ??

Commenting on people's marriages is very delicate. In fact, unless you are directly involved it is safer you just keep quiet and mind your business. A marriage may look healthy on the outside but decayed on the inside. Another may look bad on the outside but very healthy on the inside! You will see couples that seem to be always at each other's throat, yet live very long together, and others that look like a perfect replica of the cinderela story crumbling before its second year. I think this whole romanticising of marriages have made people think the only healthy marriage is that where people appear in a certain way outside. Staying together is beyond all these cosmetic dressings that people now paint as priorities.

As an onlooker, you will never understand the nature of the bond that exists between two people because you werent there at the beginning, and you don't live with them. Let me give you one instance:

A married man, a typical bossy kind of husband, but who loves his wife. His wife a gentle and quiet wife giving her all to the marriage. Everything moved on fine, he commands and the wife obeys, the typical marriage setting here. They quarrel and settle and move on, like many marriages, until one day the wife caught him cheating. According to him it was just one silly mistake but the wife finds it hard forgiving him and since then she reacts harshly and acts rude to him. But the man knowing his guilt takes it all in and became the patient one as he doesn't want to lose his wife, hoping she will forgive him someday. At least his case is a litte - a tad little - bit better than those that will be caught cheating and still be imsolent, with a 'do your worst' attitude.

Imagine yourself as the onlooker and you see a woman being rude to her husband, what will be your comclusion? What a useless wife! What a weak husband! I can't tolerate it! He should just divorce her! He should marry another wife, it will calm her down! You see, your ignorance of their circum.

I served in Jos plateau state and we camped at mangu orientation camp in mangu local government plateau state.

Camp where filled with sodliers and they have a base at the hill if anyone has served in jos they will understand what i am saying.

So my question is, if the govt can deploy soldiers to guide the orientation camp and no external force or whatssoever can penetrate into it. then they should be able to deploy enough soldiers to make things right in mangu and stop the killings. i read it in the news and the total number of dead bodies rise to 125 and counting.

What baffles me the most is the fact that the express way from marambajama to mangu has over 10 military check points and i wonder how herders where still able to get ammunition and go ahead to kill people.

hey no one is judging okay, we are only sharing minds

Orisha17:
You buy something for 5000 and sell for 25,000 is fraud
Monetary system is a scam
If they were wise they will start growing the private system
Nigeria has so many investments opportunities

But don't judge anybody
As long as monetary system is tied to paper currency
Greed must be involved
OP you that is claiming chief judge
Have you not cheated for money before?
But it's internet anybody can be bill gates online while they're Jeffrey Epstein offline

politics is not something easy as people think, uou have to have good qualifications, good good edution. yahoo boys knowledge are centered around scam and most of them cnt even do proper presentation or talk about greats things

TheBillyonaire:
Politics is Home to most scammers, if you are ignorant of this information, then spell timidity in sanskrit.

Yahoo basically is not a new thing again and almost every neighborhood has atleast one yahoo boy.
now considering the fact that some of this boys don't have formal education or handwork but only want quik and fast money and also life extravagant life.

one thing we all need to understand is crime can never last long like what you aquired like skills or edution and when the money stops coming in. what do you think will happen to this young boys?

Imagine waking up at 40 and you can't scam or do yahoo again and you have nothing or asset to your name?

I have a friend that literally want to venture into anything he sees you doing.

He want to rap
he want to be a graphics designer
he want to start designing website
he want to sell perfume
hes into inverter installation
hes into import and export
hes into printing press

but guess what? hes fucking broke to the last kobo and i wonder maybe hes yet to discover hes purpose or talent that will take him far.

so the question is how did you discover what you are doing today?

I earn only 250 dollar monthly and i have 100 dollar every month but its very difficult and everything just seems hard in nigeria.

I want to know if i have a bad habbit of savings or womething is not just wright somewhere thanks

i am trying my possible best to save for my new apartment and everything has just been slow. Onc ei get my salary something must happen that will take away some money from my bank account. i wm tired but not giving up. we keep pushing

GeneralKoko:
So far this year,I have been able to start a business.
Although it is not as Rosy as I envisioned.
There has been lots of ups and downs but I keep redesigning the vision as time goes on.
I will continue to show up.

I also have an industrial training on the way and I'm bracing myself up for all that.


How has the year been for you so far?

i am a very friendly person and i believe in creating good relationship anywhere i am. i am employed by two different organizations. A company pay 70k
B company pay 15k.
Once it month end and i request for my pay and they eventually transfet the money... i will go ahead to appreciate them and they will just kept mute and act assive we have issues. and when i keep sending work and working hard there wont be issue. have you experience this before

na asthma na lol

AchrafHakimi:
Is it by Police or Holy Spirit?
Be specific.

omo goat went missing so funny

illicit:
Hmmmm

I don't know if I should call this one "arrest or invitation or excursion"

What happened was that the vigilante in our off-campus hostel area banned movement from 6pm because some goats went missing

We students won't abide by such rule as free Nigerians and this resulted into a free for all fight one evening because they actually beat one of us who was returning from watching a football match.

They threatened us with guns and we retaliated with stones

When the news got to the student affairs, they called in the police and when the police arrived, they rounded up every student in that fight arena and took us to the station in patrol vehicles.

Most of us were in underwears.

They put us in the DCO's office and that's where we passed the night. It was inconvenient.

We didn't write any statement.
They said they were protecting us.

The following morning they returned us to the hostel in the same patrol vehicles because we had exam to write.

The vigilantes never bothered us after the incidence and we didn't bother them too

Around 2021 while in school, a phone was missing in my apartment and all effort to get the device proof abortive untill someone said they suspected my friend and due to highness I said I will monitor him if I see any strange things or move and the next thing they said was "I said he stole the phone" hin no funny oo.

THe owner went to call gangs and they beat my guh up but I was untouchable because of my physical look then. (I dey gym) my friend did not believe me and the next day he went to the police station to report and I was called to come to the station. I was detained but was freed after 3hrs and the foolish girl have to sleep in the cell.

That was the first time I will enter cell. I don learn my lesson since then not to ever put mouth for wetin no concern me and one advice I will give anyone is never to rent a room face me I slap you house. it more like digging your grave and mental health.

Share yours let learn!!!