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Family / Help Needed On What To Do by DonLala1(m): 8:16pm On Sep 14, 2023
I have been married for 17 years and have 3 beautiful girls. Lately my business had some issues and I ran into some serious debts that for the past 2 years my wife have been the one taking care of the house expenses though I chop in bits sometimes.
Crux of the matter,, for the past 15 months my wife have starved me of sex and I haven't had sex with nobody since. I am being honest. Some weeks back my wife says she wants me to give her space for 6 to 12 months so she can sort herself out if she will still continue with the marriage.
I lately found out she's having a discreet affair with her friends husband and unknown to them I have serious damaging details about their affairs. I kept this to myself because I still love her and had even forgiven her in my heart and coupled with the fact that I don't want any scandal for her and shame to my girls.
She doesn't talk to me at home any more.
Please what do I do?
Do I confront her?
Do I tell the guys wife? Hell will break loose.
Do I confront the guy in question?
Do I just walk away and pick up the pieces of my life and forget ahead?
Please no abuses, I have enough on my mind .already. just your candid advice.
A part of me wants revenge for the betrayal and another just want to put everything behind me.
Please advice.

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Investment / Re: 5g-Era Investment Platform by DonLala1(m): 8:59am On May 22, 2023
Morning bro. Is the 5G era platform still paying. Since yesterday afternoon still couldn't cash out. Saying payment pending. Pls come through if they are still on or as the usual 9ja thing we have been scammed.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married Bt Bored And Lonely??, Lets Meet Here by DonLala1(m): 5:07pm On Jan 01, 2023
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Whatsapp Group For Matured Adults. by DonLala1(m): 5:03pm On Jan 01, 2023
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Family / Re: Sex Starved Wife by DonLala1(m): 8:55am On Nov 27, 2022
Really there are two sides to a coin. My wife equally deprives me of sex for 5 months now. I have talked screamed yelled but to no avail and as you said I know she's not cheating on me. That I know but what the matter is I can't lay my hands on it and I don't cheat either, that I can swear on.

I have decided to see how I will help myself outside since I have tried all means.
I am not asking you to do likewise as a woman but try to adopt new routine at home.

Be more sexy, get new dresses, get a new look, be more romantic at home, make your bedroom a love arena. Let him see love in every corner.

Tempt him with sexy lingeries. Hairdo, I'm sure he will have a second thought.
Family / I Need Help by DonLala1(m): 11:55am On Nov 05, 2022
Going to 5 months now my wife doesn't talk to me and we live under the same roof with our kids. She has not allowed me sex for months. She pass messages to me through our kids and she cooks and serve me through our kids too.
Lately she spend hours on the phone talking to only God knows but I know it's a man cos sometimes I hear ok sir but the tone of their discussion is more than that.
I'm so confused, do t know what to do and above all I'm sex starved and I do t want to cheat on her. We have been married for 15 years now.
Please your candid advice is needed. I have begged her severally even though I don't know what my offences are. She won't talk to me. She goes out at will without recourse to me.
Family / Re: Married But Bored And Lonely??, Meet Other Married People Here by DonLala1(m): 9:01pm On Nov 01, 2022
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Agriculture / Re: Agric Grant For Farmers by DonLala1(m): 2:32am On Oct 26, 2022
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Agriculture / Re: Agric Grant For Farmers by DonLala1(m): 10:36pm On Oct 01, 2022
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Business / Re: How 6k Started Me To A Journey Of Making Millions Online With Just My Phone by DonLala1(m): 8:11pm On Jul 24, 2022
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Politics / Re: People Of Yewaland In Ogun Leave For Benin Republic Over Herdsmen Crisis (photo) by DonLala1(m): 9:45am On Mar 01, 2021
Please tell it to DAPO Abiodun, governor of Ogun state to resign and cover his face in shame. A governor that cannot secure the life of his people but rather will chose to dance to the tune of his fulani taskmaster at the detriment of the life and security of his people is not fit to be in office.
Awon Omo ale yoruba gbogbo.
Politics / Re: Ondo Election: The God I Serve Shall See Me Through – Akeredolu by DonLala1(m): 10:08am On Oct 10, 2020
Please somebody should ask him which God is he referring to? These cultist people. Election has come now he suddenly remembers there is a God. Wicked people.

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Politics / Re: Presidential Jet: Hanan Buhari Was On Official Assignment ― Buhari Media by DonLala1(m): 8:10pm On Jan 13, 2020
Even you Niyi Akinsiju. Haba, has everybody suddenly lost their mind?
Nairaland / General / Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by DonLala1(m): 11:05am On Dec 31, 2019
Lost a very dear friend like brother. Adieu Bayo Amosu. You will forever remain in our hearts. Adieu brother
Politics / Re: Buhari Congratulates Yahaya Bello On His Re-Election by DonLala1(m): 5:58pm On Nov 18, 2019
How can President Buhari congratulate anybody on such charade called elections in Kogi. I weep for this country called Nigeria

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Politics / Re: Why Fayemi, El-rufai Are Attending WEF Despite Fg’s Boycott – Onyeama by DonLala1(m): 7:37am On Sep 06, 2019
What an excuse. If they are already in attendance before the FG pronounced boycott the rational thing to do is to abandon the conference and take the next flight home. Are they not carrying Nigeria tags on their neck, are they not being accorded diplomatic attention there on behalf of Nigeria? Its such a sad scenario that even the FG that pronounced boycott cannot tell Nigerians who went there on tax payers money to return home. I can bet you, these governors were billed to be in the entourage of the Vice President. Citizens from their state should call them out. Fayemi, El Rufai, what a shame. Tomorrow these ones will come out and say they want to rule Nigeria when personal agendas superceeds the life and welfare of an average Nigerian to them. Nigerians wake up.

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Politics / Re: The New Electricity Tariff Across The Country Approved By Discos by DonLala1(m): 6:40pm On Aug 24, 2019
The time is ripe for consumers to rise up and defend ourselves as consumer protection board aren't functioning. If discos refuses to give out meters then we stop paying any estimated bill. We need to be united in this. Nobody will fight our battles for us except we unite on this and if possible seek redress in the law courts.

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Computers / Re: Windows 10 Problems And Solutions (official Microsoft Windows 10 links added) by DonLala1(m): 12:23am On Jun 14, 2019
Please engineers in the house. My laptop refuses to run programmes just displaying "This app cant run on this pc". Please what do i do? its a windows 10
Computers / Re: Windows 10 Problems And Solutions (official Microsoft Windows 10 links added) by DonLala1(m): 2:43am On May 29, 2019
Please engineers in the house. My laptop refuses to run programmes just displaying "This app cant run on this pc". Please what do i do? its a windows 10
Agriculture / Re: Rice Harvester Combine Thresher Machine by DonLala1(m): 7:24pm On Feb 12, 2019
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Politics / Re: Kaduna APC Governorship Campaign Photos by DonLala1(m): 4:26pm On Dec 12, 2018
Rented crowd from Sudan. Lol
Agriculture / Re: Bitter Kola Market by DonLala1(m): 10:03pm On Oct 25, 2018
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Programming / Re: If You've Always Wanted To Learn Programming But Failed, Be Here!!! by DonLala1(m): 7:54pm On Sep 25, 2018
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Business / Re: The Best Site To Build A Website Free-not One But Two. by DonLala1(m): 6:17pm On Jun 03, 2018
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Business / Re: The Best Site To Build A Website Free-not One But Two. by DonLala1(m): 7:49am On Jun 02, 2018
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Business / Re: 20 Businesses You Can Start With 20k-100k Capital. by DonLala1(m): 7:20am On Jun 02, 2018
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Business / Re: Stop Paying People To Design Your Business App You Can Design, Plublish For Free by DonLala1(m): 6:19pm On Apr 30, 2018
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Business / Re: How I Recycled Wasted Disposable Cups To Chandelier Lights by DonLala1(m): 6:25pm On Feb 20, 2018
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Business / Locust Beans (iru) For Sale by DonLala1(m): 12:43pm On Jan 08, 2018
Please call for all your locust bean (Iru) purchases here. Call Tope on 08022297341

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