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Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

Have you tried me?

Rastaramsey:
Na mumu be dis thing jare...

Instead make he concentrate on hin music career
Very soon, BB naija go commot, nobody go get him time again

A word is enough for the wise...

All this trending stuff go end one day

Shocker, BBN go still invite him, the housemates go go gaga

delightglobal:
smiles...... what if i stay in mainland

Do you simple calculation, factor in the distances, times spent commuting to and fro from the two places, stresses on and off sites, convert them to money, remove them from the salaries, what is your balance??

delightglobal:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders

I need you guys opinion ..

i worked in the mainland.... but my salary and the side hustles i do.. my monthly take home is about 150k

Now i got an offer in the Island which wants to pay the accumulation of both...



Now the questions is.... Should i accept the offer or stay in the mainland?

Do you actually live in the mainland or offland? If you live in the offland, don't even accept the offer.

blazingblender:
Okay
Have you condemn yours??
Or are we praising those who killed the legislator
Or have they been arrested and we are violently protesting for their release or the 10m bounty placed
Why was it not also placed on Deborah's killers ??
So who is a coward here??

Do they even show face? I meant the unknown gunmen. Somebody was beating cruelly to death, lynched because of a blasphemous words, those who killed him recorded the incidence celebrating and showing their faces boasting of killing a soul for phantom crime. And that idiot has this rubbish to say. I am a muslim, I will never ever support the barbaric acts those guys displayed. Our greatest problem in Nigeria is Tribe and Religion.

9182736455O1999:
Twitter Bro

Aiit thanks

6pack:
Some of una dey do over sabi. Why will u even contact the real owner instead of the person you bought it from? You claim not to know much about the laptop but your write up says otherwise. I hope they arrest u. If I am the girl, I will make sure I implicate u

Contact the girl for what? To tell her that she sold a stolen laptop?

Babatojide:
just post this story, tag tunde Ednut, ruggedybaba it’s easier to claim your ignorance and unintentional involvement
I think �

Which platform can someone effectively gets attention of these guys.

chatinent:
Yes, I can.

Why Togo? That's why you meet the business in large quantities.

Boss, can we share contacts, I need to discuss with you if you don't mind.

GoooodHardDick:
Na ment abi malaria?

Nigeria is completely destroyed by insurgency and werey is planning to help South Sudan fight insurgency. His terrorist Muslim brothers are busy killing and burning people all in the name of blasphemy a daft fellow who's so weak and can't fight for himself. The earlier we divide this country, the better for us all. The Muslims deserve to live in the jungle with wild animals and beasts.

I am a Muslim from South West and you are wrong by saying Muslims deserve to live in Jungles. Point out one religious killing that was sanctioned by South Western Muslims to justify your proposition.

Buckeyemedia1:
Tinubu is a child, when it comes to politics compared to Abubakar Atiku, when Jagaban was running for senate in 1992 under SDP, Atiku was running for the President after Babaginda banned General Yaradua from contesting, na beg Abiola beg Yaradua’s camp to support him.

That amounts to nothing. Tinubu plays by the rule, Atiku plays by money. To become a force in this political realm, give birth to political offstring that will do the clean and the dirty works for you, Tinubu surely knows this and he has paid his dues. As far as SW is concerned, Tinubu has wings across all states. Going to other regions especially northern regions, he has formed a strong bond with creme de la creme in politics there. You can never say same about Atiku, he only believes power of his pocket which doesn't always makes you a force.

Buckeyemedia1:
He ran with a Muslim Muslim ticket with Baba Gana Kingibe & won, When the old heads back then told us they will never give it to Abiola we doubted.

Just the same way I am telling you they will never give it to Bola Ahmed Tinubu, if by chance they make that mistake, APC should kiss goodbye to the Rock.

Who ever will be the VP candidate for APC, must be a present Governor from Northern Nigeria.

VP can be a northerner I agree. I don't argue with you on the ground that Tinubu can be eliminated from the equation, but no one can still categorically say that. He has a very strong political structure that he has been weaving together for years, he has protégés in many states across the country. God does what He wants, but going by the prowess these APC aspirants posses politically, he remains the strongest among them.

Buckeyemedia1:
He won, then the Military cancelled the election, SDP una wan destroy Nigeria?

That means he was winning before he won. Same thing is happening this time around, but unfortunately right now, no military man to cancel the election.

chatinent:
After school, I worked a while. I was this hardworking chap who wouldn't like any errors or queries attached to my name at work for any reasons. I came very early, did my duties in time, and due to my religious obligations as one of Jehovah's Witness, I was honest in all my dealings.

The job itself was a leopard’s tree. Since it was a private business, and the manager a very greedy man who loots the chief oga at whim, trust me, your honesty is a turn-off.

The work was becoming unbecoming and I couldn't continue wasting my life for a 7-5 job. It wasn't like the salary befitted the workload!

I had to quit!

I also had one small car I bought when I no dey think of anything. I sold it and used part of it to buy a land like that. I had saved some N800k already. So I paid my rent with N200k.
So here's what I did:

I thought of a business that'll likely yield profit immediately, and around my budget. I had been to Togo and remembered how selling First Grade OK shoes was the new gold for students and people who wanted a side hustle.

I travelled down there then and returned with 100 pairs of OK shoes. As at then, I bought it for N370k.

N370k + logistics rounded the money up to N400k.

Now, I put the goods in one room in my apartment and the chase for a shop began. Since I couldn't afford those ones of N1m that where located at the heart of the business in my location, I opted for an affordable one.

In fact, everything for the rent was some 180k.

Omo, looking for a shop no bi beans.

I did the painting and decor, carpentry (learnt in school), and electricals (learnt in school).

Materials I bought was some N15k. I was left with N5k or less.


Breakthrough
As I cleaned and sampled my petty goods, some customers were already purchasing. Mehn, after the whole stress that day, I made N30k.

In fact, it was then I said I wouldn't work for anyone and be answering “sir” upandan. I'm quite hardworking and in a short time, from retailing...I began ordering in tonnes and have a warehouse.


It has been easy as it is written here but I have seen people ask if N600k can make any profit. Yes, it can. I also do some side hustles like research writing, proofreading, hardware repairs on PC and tracking of lost devices, computer consultancy, and work as an academic assistant.

So I think it all depends on you! Maybe I have not reached the height I want to reach, just mehn, the way my life every year becomes better than the last no bi beans. As a first son, and to say my nuclear family bi like an extended family, I know I am trying...cos it's not easy at all to carry many people's responsibility as yours.

Can you show way to Togo if someone asks you? Why Togo?

TheDemola:
This was how the odds favoured MKO then too. Hmm

But what then happened?

Qw

W

Creamypie:
Good for am. If na fellow guy request for one k, e go say e never eat for three days himself. Useless SIMP-le man. Wetin bad pass is that na guy go dey use her pic to scam am.
Damn

Say you dey help your fellow guys, pot calling kettle black.

Yobabad:
. You hate me as an Igbo man I hate you as a Yoruba Muslim, kini big deal

What about Yoruba xtian?

Desperados:
White in a black skin. Wonderful



I fit bet my two balls say dis guy dey run matas.


if u know, u know.

My own believe too

TheManOfTheYear:
I can imagine bro

The funny thing is, even as the rejections keep coming, we keep getting better and better. Finally, offers would start flying in.

Just keep the grind. We must celebrate soon.

I will appreciate if we can share contacts, we have what we can gain from one another.

Waakanda:
I smell grace all over this dude

His name spells Okikiola, you know what that means?

izac82:
Using that method on humans cannot never be accurate, since humans have different views, perspectives and emotional levels. Soil is consistent, while humans are dynamic. One way you can gouge this is ether through a poll or accurate statistic. Your postulation is wrong bro.

All igbos are the same, they are blindly stubborn, that makes them second citizen of Nigeria. They want to be in center, yet they lack strong socio-political structure to hold firm, since 1967 that they have been dispersed by Hausas, they never get close to wheel this country again.

Ojukwu would say when the civil war was about to start, "Nigerians will be surprised as to what they are going to get (from Igbos). Nigerians were truly surprised, the self-aclaimed President of Biafra Republic ran away after 30 months of serious war, when he has successfully wasted lives of his people through his stubbornness.

Truth be said, Igbos will remain delusional as they are till mama comes home.

HolyMakanaki:
I don't know if it's a Greenlight or anything else..
I have this female friend...
We good together not that close but we okay .. But I noticed she sometimes just send me her pics out of the blue whenever she took cute pictures of herself
She post em on her status and then still send them to my Dm whenever she sees that I didn't view them on her status..
I'm thinking this is green light but I don't wanna loose guard. Never
Does she want me or na me dey Overthink?

Find out if she doesn't this with other guys too, girls generally love seeking for attention, they love to be complemented. It is nothing unusual to me especially if she does it with many guys in her contacts.

August, but next year, still single though, but you said by faith.

Bluntdude:
Thanks bro. Trust me savings is just one aspect of me.. investment is another.

This sounds so great bro, people like you go far in life seriously. I so much love people who have plans for their future. May God bless your hustle big buddy. If people reading your thread here can just emulate your ways of life, we will create a very comfortable world for ourselves, we worry less, we dream big and live more good life.

Bluntdude:
Omo I am o. I celebrate both little & big achievements. At least I'm not going back to sefcon rather I'll be maintaining the one bedroom and even move into a better one soon. Some people pay rent first year and can't renew subsequently. God really helped me so I'm grateful to Him.

You should consider investing as well, might be your long time plan though. Saving money to cater for future needs is great. The question is, can you still make money if you cross your arms and do nothing.

You earn reasonably well today, think about 'what ifs and buts' tomorrow. I can see the smartness in you already, you just need more insights to actually create a world of your dream for yourself. Best regards buddy.

Premiumwriter:
Breeze blow this one enter my room eh

You go spend ham?

Oyiboman69:
Chai see d way u spread money like mat...you try wel well. I suggest you take a pics with you sleeping on top of the money before you pack it....

So that you can locate and rub him bah?

PerfectStranger:
Comrade do me small weekend giveaway

Imagine...na mumu e be abi, you be fool.

Hh