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TS2911:
Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready.
One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts.
The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes.
This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.

Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks

Breakup with him and date me biko

Misyarn:
I'm glad I now own my own space, although money never dey to put anything inside oo..but I'm free from my friend wahala..
Controlling me like I'm his house boy.

If u are at Lagos and u av anything u can donate to me to set up my room i'd be glad to accept

Below are screenshot from a video I made

I will donate bed bugs and mosquitoes

Success has numerous parents while failure is an orphan. Congrats Amusan.

Great2017:
Can you also give us the data since 1999 including that of the presidency? We need to compare both to know whether your conclusion is valid.

It has never happened.

1999 - 2007 muslim/xtian
2007 - 2010 muslim/xtian
2010 - 2015 xtian/muslim
2015 - 2023 muslim/xtian
2023 - 2031 atheist/muslim

bet9ja:
You may check https://www.chartjs.org/ I have used it severally.

Gracia

Angel55555:
Easier said than done

Abi

88natzy:
Good evening all.
I am searching for a Muslim male faithfull for my colleague for marriage. She is a 26 years old graduate of mass communications. Beautiful, unique, intelligent and devoted Muslim pearl.
Please she is not desperate.
You must be a Muslim, handsome, tall with a good job. Please she doesn't like a force personnel.
Please I want this year to be her last year of being single.

Habi you kuku be the one ni hiding face...well, let's get this sorted out.

MissMich:
Maturity has nothing to do keeping a long list of exes numbers sir, if you're done make sure you're done for good. I believe some people say Okafor's law is still a powerful tool to bed an ex, why not avoid such a scene from creeping up by erasing the contacts of such people you considered exes.
Once I'm done with a guy, I'm done for my peace of mind and sanity's sake.

She's just your ex, not an enemy that once wished you death. Life goes beyond that time you both separated paths, don't be bitter and block and delete and do all you could to get her out of your world.

There are many reasons people breakup, not always do they breakup because of differences in their behavioral patterns. You should not be bitter with someone for life, mistakes of the past are not always carried into the future. Learn to forgive and forget, you may not necessarily come back to terms, but you can never imagine where you could meet in future. How you handle the breakup today will shape how you handle your meetings tomorrow if you by chance cross paths.

2elliot:
While Nigerians are allowed to run and get elected into offices in other countries, some zombies will rather die than allow a section of the country lead. And they wonder why things are the way they are.

The section that always cry for cessation abi which section are you talking about?

DenreleDave:
Swear with your life that if he gets it, accident shud take away your life


If you are so sure abt it.

Can you?

Accident will wipe off you and your family and your yet to exist posterity.

God1000:
This is 2022, not 1993

Tinubu isn't smart at all

That baba don fuckup...I can confirm today that Tinubu will never taste that number 1 seat.

LoveUdie:
We've been married for two years and have no child. I’m not surprised that we haven’t been able to have a child but what I’m surprised about is my wife’s attitude towards the fact that we don’t have a child.
Yesterday she called me impotent. Some days ago she called me sterile. I warned her, “The next time you call me any other name apart from my name, I will walk out of this mess you call marriage.”

Let me take you back to when we were dating. This girl was very strict when it came to sex. She was the one making the rules. “This month no sex, I don’t want you to be enjoying it every day. We are not married yet.” I won’t fight her about it and she would go ahead and do exactly what she said she would do. Another time she will tell me, “I called you and you didn’t answer. No sex for three weeks.
I didn’t allow those things to bother me. She was a good person. I would have been very wrong to just look at her from that angle and conclude that she wasn’t a wife material. We stayed together for two years before we finally decided to marry.

After marriage, she didn’t stop throwing those rules around. Every new day came with different rules and all of her rules had to do with sex. As I’m writing this, we haven’t had sex for the past three months. What is her reason? She had severe cramps during her menses and according to her, she has never had crumps all her life. She told me, “I spoke to a doctor friend of mine and she said my cramps were due to sex and that if your husband’s joystick is big, it can result in cramps.” I knew she was lying.
I knew she was just looking for another excuse not to have sex. I’m used to that antics so it didn’t bother me.
We are married but we have sex only when she wants and since she doesn’t want sex often, we can go for several weeks without sex. And the annoying part is, she doesn’t want any other style apart from missionary. So, when her goodness comes and she finally opens the way for me to do it, she will tell me, “Just get on with it and leave me alone.

If I kiss her, bue! If I don’t kiss her, bue! “Don’t touch me here. Why are you going side by side, can’t you go straight? Hey…hey…hey, don’t touch my breast, it’s paining me. You’re keeping long, what medicine did you drink?”
She’ll nag throughout the action. Sometimes I don’t even cum. I’ll just get off her and have my peace of mind. It’s been like this for the past two years since we got married. I’m not complaining. Recently, she brought up the topic of childbirth and I told her, “Do you know how many times people have sex before a child can result?

You are here giving me rules and yet want to have a child?” She said, “Alice got married four months ago and she’s pregnant. How many times did they do it? We’ve been doing it for two years and nothing has happened. Go and look for medicine before I give up on you.”
Every marriage has some troubles. She’s my trouble, I understand. What I don’t understand is her attitude towards the problems she herself has caused. I was there one day when she told me, “I spoke to my doctor friend. She said we’ve been having sex unnecessarily that’s why the pregnancy is not coming so we should have sex only when I’m ovulating. From now onwards, you won’t waste your sperms on me. Store them. Grow them. Make them potent so that when you hit one, a child will come. You hear?”

Brothers and sisters, how many times do women ovulate in a month? At least once, right? So why haven’t we had sex for three months? I want an answer so I went to her, “You mean you haven’t ovulated for the past three months?” She said, “I’m tracking it with an app. So far, the app hasn’t said that I’m ovulating.” Eiii! So now it’s an app that’s going to determine when to have sex and when not to?
Dear people of God, that’s my wife for you. No husband will sit and stare while things go wrong in his marriage so I reported the issue to her parents. They called her home and talked to her extensively. Her father called to tell me, “We’ve spoken sense to her. The way I’ve bashed her, I don’t think she’ll come home and do that again.” The day she got home she said, “Shame on you. You ran to my parents and reported me to them? Are you a kid? All because of sex? I thought you are a man. A true man doesn’t need plenty of sex before pregnancy. They hit one, bam! and the child is there.

You want it every day. I can’t.”
Three months. Maybe it sounds very short so let me calculate it into days. I haven’t had sex for over ninety days! I’ve received three salaries without sex, yet she accuses me of not being potent because we haven’t had a child. I’ve reported it to her parents twice and each time, they talk to her. The last time her father told me, “If I have to come and supervise it, I will come there myself. What kind of silly attitude is that?” Even her father is angry on my behalf. At this point, I will be right to take any drastic decision that I want. One day, I will pack her things and send her to her parents. Before she comes back to the marriage, she will sign a bond of good behavior and sign to have sex four times in a week before I will take her back.
A wife doesn’t live her life just to traumatize her husband’s life. Or I should send her packing right away?

Don't send her packing, that'll be too easy for her, if you can, impregnate another woman and don't hide this from her.

T

Joystic:
E be like you bin no learn that format of wearing double shorts inside..

I dey wear 3, when Mr Owojori (Intro tech) and Kayinsoro (English) go wan kill person

MissionaryArchi:
Most of Nigerian youths keep saying "who school epp" Until they lose a great opportunity for lack of simple English expression.
How many graduates can answer this?
mynd44
lalasticlala

"Has" arrived. Double title corcord, we are still talking about one person here.

DiscoverID:
Please, what about Aba and onitsha? Those places that even pigs are protesting the conditions.

They said urban cities, do you expect those villages to make it into the list?

Canvass:
Ajidagba Akanke Mariam is a strong Yoruba name and claiming to be from Sokoto State points to this below;
Unity School Cut off Mark for Each State
Abia – 130
Adamawa – 62
Akwa-Ibom – 123
Anambra – 139
Bauchi – 35
Bayelsa – 72
Benue – 111
Borno – 45
Cross River – 97
Delta – 131
Ebonyi – 112
Edo – 127
Ekiti – 119
Enugu – 134
Gombe – 58
Imo – 138
Jigawa – 44
Kaduna – 91
Kano – 67
Katsina – 60
Kebbi – 9 (male) 20 (female)
Kogi – 119
Kwara – 123
Lagos – 133
Nasarawa – 58
Niger – 93
Ogun – 131
Ondo – 126
Osun – 127
Oyo – 127
Plateau – 97
Rivers – 118
Sokoto – 9 (male) 13 (female)
Taraba – 3 (male) 11 (female)
Yobe – 2 (male) 27 (female)
Zamfara – 4 (male) 2 (female)
FCT Abuja – 90
Some that scored 130 won't be admitted while some with less than 10 would be admitted on merit. When are we going to do away with this madness and let human capacity development be on merit only basis?

Quota system at play...if our government can make sure that this system is being used effectively, why not adopting a system where the rich pay more for prices of goods and services.

PresidObi:
Congratulations to the brilliant young girl.
Peter Obi increased the quality of education in Nigeria.

His impact can be felt already...

zolajpower:
Send them to jail jare

Why are you sympathizing with them?

iCauseTrouble:
Who else noticed that Peter Obi hardly blame the present government for our problem. His focus is mostly on solution to our problem. Obi is not a blame trader, he's a solution finder. #PeterObi4President

I don't have problem with P. Obi becoming President, he seems to be the best man Nigeria can have as a president ...my only concern is for these Igbos, this will just be a liberty for them to finally tell other tribes that Nigeria functions because of them...an average igbo man thinks he is the best thing that has happened to the world, foolery!

I am currently doing a project and I need to create a simple dashboard using JS to render on my client side, I want to know the best library for creating charts to make my work seemless.

I know about D3.js, charts.js, Apache's echarts, etc. I have read something little about their benefits and also downsides.

jimmynauty:
Hello

data is inserted into mysql table in this form

age | 4 | 5 | 6
skil | good | fair | excel

but i want it transoose from horizontal to be vertical like so

age | skil
4 | good
5 | fair
6 | excel

Question is how do i use php and do the above conversion.

You will pivot the table...this is quite easy to do in sql

GREATIGBOMAN:
Any one you choose, just learn it well very very well.

to be a backend developer you need to know a little bit of front end anyways.

but to be a frontend developer you may not need to know anything about backend.

Those thinking front end is easy haven't actually built a full scale app with modern UI.

That's when you'd know even CSS is sometimes more confusing than javascript

with javascript you know your code will run as expected once you've written it properly.

With CSS You will swear to god you've set second elements z-index to even 10000000 and the first to 1 but yet the second will refuse to come up in front of the first

And conforming your interface to render well in all browsers and screen sizes is another big headache.

Let's discuss ZeroEightOne32ThreeTwo91EightSeven

Yes...with your node Runtime Environment and Express as the framework with loads of other dependencies you are good to create backend with JS

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RightToReject:
Cut the guy some slack. Your single sentence has two notable errors. A lot, not "alot" and sentences, not "sentence."

So, the correct version of your sentence should be: "A university graduate typed this episode with a lot of uncoordinated sentences."

The pot calling the kettle black.

Naso you finish person for here...