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crossbreedwears:
What about billionaires their wives cheat on them??

DimpleDoll:
36 men is 36 body counts is not same as 36 round from 1 man

36 men is 36 body counts.

36 times is 36 rounds.

Even the Almighty Formula can no longer solve her penile mileage.

Why should you an innocent man try to solve it by marrying her?

What happened to the many other wo.men with far lesser or no penile mileage? Would it be fair to the girls who have far lesser or no penile mileage?

Did you quarrel with enjoying the good things of life?

Why is it that while men are marrying wives, you're busy marrying and inheriting the damaging consequences of the other men in her past?

My brother, I ask again

Why You?

jimcaddy:
out parents failed us. Their generation failed us. Now we are also doing the same and failing the next generation. When does this want to end?

jimcaddy:
it's getting worse that one can no longer find true love anymore. It is annoying being liked or 'loved' just because of your ability to provide certain things. It means we are only using ourselves. Which makes no sense to me. That's why a lot of Nigerians are in unhappy marriages. They cannot find happiness in the spouses they got married to because we marry for different selfish reasons. And when those reasons aren't being met anymore, fight starts. Honestly Ive never seen any relationship or marriage that looked like that of my grandparents. Honestly a failed mariage is not a good thing oh. It's better one never marries than to have a failed marriage.

Adewale1603:
Am 29, still never had a girlfriend. Let me come and read lies here. Some people don't really know the concept of boyfriend/girlfriend. You'll see them mentioning 15yrs, 16yrs of age, while still in secondary schools, whereas dating starts when you've been matured psychologically and reach the age of consent which is 18

Goalnaldo:
I'm about to have one for the first time and I'm less than a month of 31 but women get problem walai. I dey fear for my mental health.

Danisaint112:
Never had a girlfriend. Still single. Probably the reason I don't understand what heartbreak or setback by women is. Progressing fine and steadily.

Some have assumed I am a gay. Funny.

I understood at a very young age that as a man if you can control your sexual urge and stay way from women over 77% of your problem is solved.

Emperormartin:
20 yrs...
And the first time I saw a vagina was when I was 24yrs

helinues:
Only if the army operation won't turn to ethnic cleansing claim

achimendy:
Exactly bro, that nigga need to wise up and understand that women like playing psychological game with men, and if you fall for it as a man you're gone.


As a man you don't love a woman with your heart but your brain.

jimcaddy:
Loool it is well. Dating in Nigeria don turn to battle of the richest. Richest takes all. Like it's so effed up. Dating is one of the hardest things to do in this Nigeria

cejaypriesty:
I don't know where you got this idea from but I have a sister and and a wife and both of them isn't what you wrote up there .Maybe you are speaking about your female relatives or girlfriends.If so then you need to change the kind of girls you relate with and for your female relatives,pray to God to intervene in their lives. I'm not trying to offend you only giving you an advice.

Wodu89:
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That's why the entire world destroys the world with lack of love. She's demented and physchotic if he's account is accurate

Depriest2020:

Guy you've lost her to the senator. The person that rented and furnished the room for her warned her not to bring another manchi there.

If am to advise, you don't have to be upset with her, she just upgraded her status. Just see her as a f**k mate and not a girlfriend, as long as you sabi knack her well, she will always come to you for good f**k and to the senator for the money. She can introduce you to the senator as her brother, through the senator you will get better job, meet more senators and more contacts + connections.

If you assure her you won't cause trouble for her and her man-friend, then she would be free to answer her calls in your presence. Am telling you from experience, I got most of my contacts & connection through that way.

Lifestone:
I'm a Nigeria Man too and Married. Anytime my partner is into anything progressive, I get involved without even been invited, I offer advise, share significantly in the advancement and most of the time, they end up thanking and appreciating me for making it happen. But the fact is that I know I have to be part of that success otherwise another person will play my role and I will be left behind. Even if she's going to the wrong direction, I will usually championed her into seeing that the direction she's heading is headless.
The other part is that Men should consistently grow themselves. I am also praying for my daughter to succeed and marry a responsible and successful husband. You can't wish less

Wodu89:
You don't have sense. Not just as a man but as a human being. If everyone keeps dropping people like that would society not be in chaos. Oponu.

Isn't it a nice British Naija lady working in Met police, came for reality show, saw a man, got married to him and today there's bliss and peace all over her.


You think like a wretched poor person. This is your thought pattern. That of wretched poor people. Disloyalty, wretchedness and betrayal.


E go meet you for front

Manigie:
Just count your blessings and move on, man,.
Obviously this one wouldn't have made a good wife.....

jaelz:
What I Just Discovered About Women

A woman loses respect for a man or her current boyfriend once she starts getting intimate with someone that is richer and more well to do than him

Hear my story out before you judge me:

So I lost my ex about 2 months back when she became a Personal Assistant to a serving senator, I just noticed that she stopped appreciating the little money and things that I usually gave her and did for her since she started working with the senator.

She was staying at her parents house in Abuja but recently rented a place for herself and furnished it to taste, I was shocked and I asked how a girl that just started a personal assistant job with a senator and a salary of just 120k per month is able to rent a self contained apartments of about 750k per year and even furnished it to taste, she got very angry and said I should be happy for her that if I can't do it atleast she did it herself.

She has also never allowed me to stay in the house 🏠🏡 for once not to talk of coming to visit her

Xtopherprince:
Have got this live in girlfriend. She was previously staying with the brother, he couldn't afford rent so she moved in with me. Been footing her bills but damn girl is never appreciative. It's always all about what she wants and nothing else. Gets angry over petty issues. She's only got male friends, and when I object she limits how often she always visits them, it's silent treatment for a week.
Got her a job last month at a friend's company to keep her busy atleast, Immediately she got her first salary she stopped going. Dude had to call me to ask why she stopped, I wasn't even aware. Confronted her bout it and we've not been on speaking terms since. Recently told her I'd stop footing her bills and she should look for someone else to stay with by the end of this month. Really can't deal anymore...

achimendy:
Don't describe that as emotional strongness but inaction on your part.


Secondly, telling me to get into a relationship them and see is very funny and senseless, because you believe every man will behave thesame way you did.

Saintinoo:
I was planning marriage with her soon, thank God the mask went off, bro if I start telling you my experience, you will really pity me, female covert narc destroy her prey no matter how strong he is.

MS247:
Fulani herdsmen better have sense

Tinubu made a NorthCentral man Chief of Army Staff for a reason

blamingthedevil:
https://www.channelstv.com/2023/07/13/breaking-tinubu-declares-state-of-emergency-on-food-security/

Zee0007:
WHO WINS A GIRL'S HEART EASILY AND WHY?

A) Rich guy

B) Funny guy

C) Caring guy

D) Intelligent guy

irumole1975:
Stop sharing top secrets like this on a public forum

tolue42:
When I tell people that population is one of our biggest problem, people will be looking for excuses


In 1960 Nigeria population was 45million, that same year UK population was 52 million

2023 Nigeria population is above 220 million , that same UK is just above 65 million..

How are we going to live a better life when we are not even productive like the UK..

Edusouls:
the African race is cursed from the onset , and it started from generations way way back, God distastes this race due to their extremely wicked , self centered and Greedy heart, cos such hearts never think anything anything Good towards fellow human beings but only evil and vile things , this is one sure reason African world become in the dark till a thousand years to come

Geovanni412:
Whilst it may be true that sexual immorality is bad...

Don't you think this thought process is wrong?

Because Mr. A slept with miss B., that is why his life is not progressing....

Life is not simple arithmetics

Even in the Bible, in the Book of Ecclesiastes 7:28, it was written that the teacher could not find one upright woman out of a 1000

In spite of this, Solomon had 1000 women

Now, did that stop Solomon from being a great king?

Did sleeping with multiple women and reducing the carbon emisssion on earth by murdering 1/10th of the entire world stop Genghis Khan from being a great ruler?

Mind you, the descendants of Genghis Khan alone are 0.5% of the entire male population on earth. How many women im knack?

The Book of Ecclesiastes has already told you that life is meaningless

Btw, Have you forgotten that God told Hosea to marry a harlot?

What are the chances that a harlot has not been 'used'?

Yet, here you are, trying to suggest that the evil spirit from sleeping with women is inhibiting a man's progress

You don't know if the man himself has demons from his ancestors or if he is just plain lazy

You lack the facts to make any substantive conclusion on the subject matter.

Machinegun91:
Babalawo is not God


Stop giving Satan praises

Nato008:
Omo how this thing u talk take make sense.........like what are saying self

alizma:
If the new babe is what you want, go ahead, the other girl had been very sincere with you. Also don't give more attention to negativity on her decision because girls are more spiritual than boys. She may be setting you free without you knowing, some girls are ogbanje and they know that being with you as partner will ruin your life hence they stay away from you when it comes to marriage. I had similar experience during my service year, there is this girl I saw at the camp and she was hard working, polite and humble but because I didn't want to go into 3 weeks relationship in camp, I just admired her and let her be. coincidentally, we were posted to the same local government, and the moment our eyes met in the vehicle, she made it clear that she was into me too and from there, we became best of friends but deep inside me, ithought since I then had more time to study her, I needed to let her know that I wanted something more than just friends, so within 2 months of our stay, I opened up to her, to my surprise, she said she knew all the while that we had common interest in each other but she had to be sincere with me, we couldn't be more than just friends. This got me disorganized for days. All through our service year, everyone knew that the only person that could say for sure of her whereabouts at any point in time is me yet she said we can't go beyond friends, we shared a lot of things, made love and all that but she refused to accept my idea that we should give the friendship a chance to grow into something better, today we are separately married and I now understand her better, they are passing through a face such that only God can see them through to the end.
With their current situation, I begin to think that she was actually protecting me from something then.
Now that I can see clearly , I think she belongs somewhere because then, she will be sleeping and talking. In fact, you can almost carried her from one place to another without her waking up but she will be seriously arguing with you while asleep. The only thing you will notice is that her conversation will be totally out of point and in most time, you won't understand the language with which she communicate while partially asleep.