₦airaland Forum

CSTRR:
Go and watch America's inauguration ceremonies.

It's filled with hundreds of thousands of common citizens because they know they are practicing a democracy.

The clowns we have in Nigeria still think they are practicing a democracy.

Kakistocracy.

Don't Be Stupid, Nigerians ain't Americans !

Nigeria Democracy is not America Democracy!

Nigeria is Not America !

Listen to the Instructions & Stay Away !

Jennyclay:
Men are to be blame and that’s the truth.

You demonic men would appear as a saint, deceiving ladies into marriage with your useless mouth, then disappear into thin air once you heard she’s pregnant .
Well, the good news is that we are wiser now and you men can’t deceive us anymore!!!

You nonsense men should learn to keep to promises and take up responsibilities.

It shall not be well with all promise and fail men
It shall not be well with all stingy ko ko men.

Honestly God will destroy you nonsense men!!

Mehn, You can't be this cursing on fellow Gender..... Life e be things what about if your own son Messed Up tomorrow....

We need to pray for each Other to Becoming Better !

Jennyclay:
Men are to be blame and that’s the truth.

You demonic men would appear as a saint, deceiving ladies into marriage with your useless mouth, then disappear into thin air once you heard she’s pregnant .
Well, the good news is that we are wiser now and you men can’t deceive us anymore!!!

You nonsense men should learn to keep to promises and take up responsibilities.

It shall not be well with all promise and fail men
It shall not be well with all stingy ko ko men.

Honestly God will destroy you nonsense men!!

Mehn, You can't be this cursing on fellow Gender..... Life e be things what about if your own son Messed Up tomorrow....

We need to pray for each Other !

Ozzyk:
I ignored her barely 48 hours I work up to her message this morning....
I still ignored her

Nigga Simply Man Up & Stop Being Sissy ...

Relationship has no rule ... Do what Your Heart Tells You to Do & Fvck the Rest Without Being Emotional !

So, Reply To Her Text as a Man should Stop playing Her Kinda Game That's why She doesn't Have respect for You .... !

placeofallure:
Big booty sha! OP is a learner. What about hygiene? Come and ask us the struggle to spread apart those two cheeks to wash or clean up, or the inner thighs that are forever glued together like Siamese twins. You have to constantly rub things to ensure that place is tidy. Some prick self no dey see road as pathway is too jam-packed and bumpy. Na parlour some dey stop, thinking dey don enter room. Abeg OP carry your naivety comot for here, big ass my foot!

Gisos Christ of Nazarethi
Mr Allure Come Carry Ya Wife

Theactor:
toor

na billionaire like oni of ife get this kind doings

make no poor man try this one oo

na die be that

six wives kaii

poor man dey do pass!

udede:
Nigerian ladies are messing up now big time. Even the married ones are the same.i taya but just find the one you can manage

I hope You say Nigerian Men are Messing Up Big time By not Being Man Enough to Manned Nigerian Women !

That's How to Develop Sense of Duty and Responsibility Even though you can not come and kill yourself !

swagguElite:
You need to continue your legacy and raise issues. Get married, raise your kids your style.

As for loyalty, you think 19yrs old gurl did not have a boyfriend who kissed and played with her boob while she was 17yrs. Talkmore of twenty sth. You need to start going to gym or hit 100 push ups at home everyday. Focus more 100 is hard, divide it into 5sets-20reps, you're worried about things that will happen with or without you.

As you have options, she has options too. As you decide to be loyal, another gurl is there too - same reasoning. You will keep meeting them until you find one you can manage.

Marriage emerges as a management crisis training camp. You will learn and unlearn, forgive and commit , make sacrifices and be sacrificed.

Na you Understand the Real Deals ... Op Just dey Yearn Dust ...

He has Already Died Billions of Deaths Before Death Itself ... imagine a Man With This Kinda Timidity ....

He already lost his marriage due to insecurity before even contracting the marriage Per Se

Kingsley123456:
I will go straight to the point.....

I've not dated a faithful lady since I started dating and I've dated up to 6 different ladies aside from Shop and clean mouth).
My girlfriend which I thought I will at least manage to settle down with was cooking for me 2days ago and I took her phone went straight to WhatsApp and telegram to see chats, one was wooing her and she's responding normally, no iota of restrain in the chats and another was inviting her over and she said, sure, she will come, I dropped the phone immediately , I was still thinking of where to start with her when I received a call from work and I had to leave, I message her while I was at work and asked her while she's doing all these to me, as usual she claimed they are platonic friends and nothing more, I blocked her immediately she mention there is nothing wrong in visiting Platonic friends in open places and even at home....this is isn't the type of woman i want, ,that wasn't her first time but she always accuse me of not wanting her to have good male friends.....I'm tired of things like these, I will be 35 by September, initially I thought I'm getting older and I should settle down, but, will I ever meet a Woman of my choice?? Someone I can at least trust?? someone who won't be going round visiting Platonic friends, ano wan loseguard, I need a woman in my life but I think I'm giving up......I don't want to die young...
Lastly Nairalanders

Do I have to look for another relationship again or
Take her back and give her last chance?? Or,
concentrate on money making for another 5yr And forget about getting married,
Pls advice.

if you continue your life like this You Won't last Long ....

Earth is not for Emotional People ... Street is Cruel ... Carry Eyes Comot Some St. upiditi.es

If you wan travel, Do you think About Accidents Nope But Life can Happen Right!!

Simply Close Your Eyes & Enter Pool & If Water Touches Your Body, Welcome to Reality Because Water is Part of Pool Just Go Along with Big Towel(Heart) to Dry out Yourself Fast if Sh.it.s Hits !

Simply Pray to Almighty God and Give Your Best & Almighty God will handle the rest !

No Man is Perfect Nah, No One !

Iamgodskid:
A QUICK QUESTION TO THE MARRIED FOLKS HERE
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During the early stage of marriage, there's usually this level of serenity n respect for each other but as time goes on, the story changes n then over familiarity n all the sh*t that comes with it, starts to set in,

with the level of "over familiarity" involved in marriage,

how do u guys still maintain the honour and regard for each other despite having seen n known everything there is to see n know about your partner...

You know how people can be most times, they start behaving funny when they finally get settled comfortably with you,



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I think the Problem is Maturities & Lack of Clear Goals for the Home:

After See Finish Many People Don't know how to Maturedly handle Home therefrom ..

Also We Human like Varieties so Many Simply wanna escape the Hotness of the Kitchen for Fresh Air & Feeling Younger Again Other than the Boring Daily Routines ...

Many Men Flex their Girlfriend & the Spices Make Most to Forget About Home Also Many Women Lost those Freshness when the Stresses from work Businesses combined with Child Bearing & Raising Warlords ... Most Husband do not understand......

Selfishness too & Extended Families Intrusions ...

Marriage is an Institutions where Children shall be raised into Adulthood but as for the Man & Woman E far no be By Book cuz Practical Realities go clear your mind if you ain't Matured Enough to handle the Intricacies!

E requires God for marriage to hold because E pass Man Brain No be Play cuz Unlike Women of the Olden days wey no Woke... Women of nowadays no go allow one man tie dem down like rope dey misbehave anyhow .... if you do shingbae .. she go carry ya pikin run

Kly003:
You think guys bleep more than gals? #dey play.

Senseless, the girls gotten Fvcked na Aliens dey Fvcked them no be guys !

Una no still get sense join this redpilling sh.its & Hatred for Women !

Black44:
I swear
I literally travelled to another planet and luckily came back

Sin No More Bro
Na so Life dey Open Nyansh Small For Who E Like So You are a Beloved Son of Earth

Life no too Far as We Human Dey Reason Am!

You dey healthy No mean Say make you do Anyhow cuz Na Simple flash-Bang & EveryWhere Go Blank E Finish Be That ...

Me sef Don Go & Come Back in the days .. Colorado No be My Papa Mate ... I Yaff Comot Hands Na Just Trial First Time O But I see Nonsense Wey No Worth Am

Skyview01:
I used to work in a bank and at month ends, accounts and transaction fees are charged. We have an instruction to reverse fees ONLY if the customers asked for it. Most rich people will 100% of the time ask for a reversal of the smallest amount and lots of the poor people never ask for their money back.

I have seen up to $180 reversible charges in transaction fees in a poor person's account and could have been reversed if they had asked for it but, guess what, they are either too proud, shy or ignorant to ask.

The distinction between being rich and poor goes deep into mentality and build up of individuals.

If you give 20million dollars each to all the young people today aged 20 years, in 25 years, the rich will still be rich and the poor would have squandered the 20 million dollars and still remain poor.

I give to people that are really in need; the motherless babies home, orphanage homes and the likes of that.

The Difference Between Poverty & Richness is "Mindsets, Mentality & Maturities"

The Difference Between Mindsets, Mentality & Maturities is Simply "Intentions" !

To Become Whatever You Wanna Become:
"Intentions, Mindsets, Mentality & Maturities Must All Work in Sync .. !

The Area of Lacuna is Your Weaknesses!

sukkot:

Na you spoil am .. Many People Hve entitlement Mentality !

Black44:
After I smoked Colos mixed with loud my mind traveled to another world it felt as if my spirit left me and I could see myself in another realm everything was spinning and I felt momentarily unconscious and unawares of my surroundings until the highness eased off

All this just one puff imagine lol
Imagine what 5 puffs at a go would have done
All the same I saw that atheism is pure foolishness

Lol, Na something do the network of your brain & Body Na....

E be like make robot say e no get Engineer ni ...
Welcome back Sha.. Na so Some people tey Japa go Another Planet dem no know !

Ubanz:
If you remove RELIGION Nigerians will fare better.

Na lie, Every One will go Juju & That's Fierce Competitions Leading to Hazadous Wars!

Aswear, Na Daddy GO dey hold Many people into Ransom Remove Church the Evil wey dey inside Average Nigerian no be Hear ...

American Gun Battles Na Joke ....Despite Church Gan, Dem still Wicked for Heart !

Nevertheless, Nigerians Needs to start Thinking Realities Not Spiritual-Mumbo-Jumbo-Abracadabra

This is 2023 & Humanities has sent Machines to Space Whereas We still dey Fly for Benin.. We need to Advanced Our Traditional Techs into Real Techs...!

Some Combinations No be human Mouth E Suppose Enter Na For Machines ... !

cazchi:
My guy, na you know. I was observing her to see where she'd take it. Reached a point that I new she might not be for me.
Not everyone is for you and that's fine.

I already Posited that Above !

God1000:
Only in Nigeria, the executive isn't supposed to get involved with the NASS elections.

It's not good for our democracy

The three arms of government should function independently and act as checks and balances on each other

You Like English too Much !

Talk What You Know ... Only in Where ..

So, I would want to Run Government for Four Years & I wouldn't Interfere in Who Shall Make or Mar My Administration for the Next Four Years Especially in Powerful NASS & Judiciary..

Dem no dey run am like that anywhere in the world ...

Na me go Put them there .... Na Installations I go Do With Right Grip On You to Work With My Ambitions For Our People & I Would Still Hold The Leeches to Discipline You Within Inner Cycle if You Wan Misbehave!

Saraki is the lesson to behold for any Sane President in Nigeria ... Buhari hear am First tenure !

See this Guy

lhordspy:
This is what you get when you worship these slave masters. Nigerians who are fond of running to them for validation and writing letters to them to interfere in our internal affairs should learn from this. A mere Ambassador running his mouth. Imagine a nonent!ty threatening a sovereign state. Cuba today cant even import a bottle of coke because of heavy sanctions from the US. The only crime they commited was allowing Russia build a military base in their country bordering US. A 'sin' which almost warranted US nuking Cuba. The same thing US are supporting Ukraine for against Russia.

Na Only Letters Dem fit Write ... Make Chimmanda come contest Elections now & Make e see how it tey be for Nigerian Street .... Bunch of Unpatriotic Buffons who go stay for Yankee dey Insult Street ....

To Vie for Elective Positions in Nigeria no be Beans No be By English, Story Books Neither Letters Nor Literatures Na Bunch of Lions, Hyenas, Tigers dey slug it out in the Jungle ... Come to the Jungle to Also Slug it Out & See how e dey run

Anybody wey wan fix Our Democracy should come down to the street, Win Elective Positions & Start the Change from inside ... That's how dem fit understand.......

The People they are writing Letter to Understand the Terrains & How e be to Emerge Winners ...

They are also Part of the Charade Underground ... Ask GEJ how Buhari tey Defeat Am !

Dem dey stay in glass house dey write English !

English no dey win Elections in Nigeria ask Osinbajo .. He came Third even as VP ... Na English ... Nigerians No dey Hear English .. Nigerians Only Hear Money, Amenities, Infastructures & Money !

Sucre6:
Make I shock u, we back together again, I can't lose that babe, she has got a heart of gold

Na Your Heartrob from Heaven .. What a Happy Ending ... Takia of Her wellwell Despite Parolzzz Sha

KORLAR:
Developing interpersonal and social skills is also important for all round progress.
You’d be surprised that asides not being able to talk to a lady to ask her out, he won’t be able to do so to seek assistance too when urgently needed.

He might not be able to talk to male strangers as well as expressing himself freely to friends and family.

Being unable to express your desire to a lady isn’t a metric for success.
Humans are social animals by nature. Hence the absence of socialisation could spell doom.

You Carry Sense ....
Attimes I simply walk to Girls and Ask Her Out just to Clear My Doubt & Test My Toasting Skills ...

It's just not about the Girls Per say ... It's About Social Skills, Marketing Skills, Dusting Shyness, Fatigue, Inferiority Complex & Ability to Represent & Present Yourself as Worthy of Relationships & Possibly Further Businesses!

Some people can't sell Biro Later You go say U no Pass Interview dem just carry First class dey jump Up and Down ...

To Excel in this Dispensation, You need to Break Eyes & Break Voice oo !

Some people na Deep Phobia & Timidity ...

Sucre6:
chai, I escaped only to come back 5 months later to pay the bill with plenty explanation to the manager, my conscience knowing that they will deduct the money from the waitress salary couldn't allow me rest, las las I explained the situation and dashed her extra 4k, collected her number afterwards we end up dating for 6 months 😂

You be Sucre true true... How is Marie Cruz ... U no Well ...

Na so You shall Lose Good Woman sha !

cazchi:
His guys,

I'm deeply worried about these because she always has a response to everything. She rarely wants to be corrected and has strong views of what she doesn’t understand. Are these fundamental issues that can be resolved? Am I being too compromising?

Thanks for your time!

A Man Must Manned His Woman & If Her Womanhood is Beyond What Your Manhood can Manned then She is Above Your League ....

Two Options:

Develop Your Manliness Beyond Her Womanliness !

Or

Go & Find Your League

Because if You eventually married Her & You don't have the Manly Maturities to tame Her, She Would continue to Shitshenanigans test You until You Lose Sanity & Go Violent ..... Which Most Men Result to when they Can't Can Anymore!

You are Surely Running on Feminine Energies & She is Your Domino !

A Man Must Foresee 100years ahead of his solid relationship then Maximise the Pros & Combat the Cons Right from Now ....

Know Your Spouse, Maximise Her Maturities with Your Own Advanced Maturities & Minimise Her Shi.tests ....

You are the One to define the frame But Impeded By your Catholicism your Bound is The beginning of Her Worlds ... She is Smart so She Knows ... & She already placed Calculations On Your Head ...

She won't move into Your world Easily Except You Can Redraft Her Mental Faculties Which You seems to also lack the Wherewithal to Do..

Incompatibility Here, She Pass You Except she tame Herself for You because she wan marry or love You Either way .. you Gat work to do On Your Manhood !

Make Una Run On Masculinity Energies Not Redpilling, Alpha-Males Nor MGTOW ... Raw Man like Our Forefathers... Wisdoms Maturities, Lamba !

Everything in Excess Affect the Psychological Well Being of Any Life ...

The Nervous system Once Adapted to a Continuous Course of Actions Can Conduct the Course Herself Unconsciously Rebuff Other Alternative Courses Unless Trained again ...

When You have too much to Bear Beyond your Maturities, You got Weigh Down in the longrun because There is just normal Your Faculties Can handle at a Point in time talkless of Being Overloaded & Overburdened Beyond your resources & Maturities Thresholds!

Too Many Body-Count Would Deprived You of Ability to Stay & Withstand Only One Woman(Wife) & Because Your Body-Systems is already Trained On Multiple Patner Except You be OG wey Sabi Hang Boot Wella !

The Consequences Would be on Your Managements of Nuclear Family & Future Generations Because of Immaturity to Hold it all Together Except You have the Maturities!

We can Escape Consequences of Many of Our Sins If We Have the Maturities to Beat the Consequences if not Your Sins Would Catch Up with You & Beat Nasty Consequences Out of You Blue & Back till you get to the stage of Had it been I had Known ....

And to Build the Maturities-Wisdoms to Hold all without Consequences On Your Personal & Family Life No be Play Because You will need to Therapeutic Your Mindsets to Normalcy Once it wants to Messed Itself Up & Back to Her Default Settings ....

Thus, You need Justifications, Validations & Higher Sense of Managements if not Karma Shall Pops & Beats You !

MrBrownJay1:
its obvious you are pained (probably on your manly menstruation) because people have different opinion in this world. grow a pair and live with it. your above arrant gibberish yeye nonsense doesnt/wont change my opinion on the said subject!

Lick Ma Ass Crack Then !

MrBrownJay1:
then next time, just read my opinion and move along with yours...i dont care what you think on the subject, and quoting me wont change that fact. i stand for my opinion and really do believe that you are quoting me writing a pile of gibberish utter deluded nonsense.

Stop Being Emotional Dem Use Pant Wipe Ya Head

It's social Media & Public Forum ... You don't make the rules ....

I don't Care You Don't Care & Ya Left Nyansh

Truthsoldier:
How has Nairaland helped you?
in all areas I meant

Since 2008 Nairaland taught me alot across all the Topics From Romance, Sexuality, Politics, Family, Travel, Techs, Education ... Arguements, Debates, Information, Street ... Nigerian Daily Madness....

You no go Miss Our Weyrey !

Infolenka:
This world we live in is very unjust, right from the time we are born. Some people are just born lucky while others are born unlucky.

I know a very well-mannered nice girl that committed suicide because of her body. She was so insecure that she fell into a long bout of depression that finally resulted in suicide. I know some of you may think she is foolish, but you will never understand the pains of a depressed person unless you experience it yourself.

Women are good actors. Forget all the smiles, deep down they are very insecure about their bodies.

While some girl is crying herself to sleep because she was born with a flat body, God just blessed the women on this thread with perfect shape. Many of them are not even fine.

I made sure to only select natural curvy girls and not the plastic surgery ones. And I also made sure to avoid posting fat women.

Just slim and curvy.

Enjoy

Weldone Jhare ... Anyway Na way A sha le Ma Gbe to MI ... No mind The Hypocrites ... Most of them yaff fapp to the thread !

MrBrownJay1:
what a pile of gibberish yeye nonsense!!!!
messing with people's DNA is wrong, designer babies are wrong.... thats my opinion! you can write whatever gibberish clueless nonsense you desire (like the above), it wont change MY OPINION on the subject.

I'm not trying to Change Your Opinion that's non of My Businesses I Only Wrote a Counter-Measures AtLeast Whomsoever That read Your Nonsense can also read My Nonsense!

Shikom !

Divoc19:
Poverty and Copulation na 5&6
But why?

Sex is the Easiest Source of Feel Good Hormones for Poor People, Every other is Very Expensive Including Food .... !

Thank God for Adding Sweetness inside Our Bodies & The Seasonings E for Gel for People no be small !

LaIabobo:
3.4Billion as Consultancy fee?? GOD
Because i dont see anybody capable of turning Nigeria around. Not even Peter Obi
THE COUNTRY IS FINISHED

Olohun !