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vickydevoka:
The moment you know your position as a father, the better for you. Most men just wanna be husband n not a father. A father is one who will alway there for his kids , a father is one who lead by example. The kind of man you are attracts the kinda woman who will end up with. Most men want to be living like a bachelor in marriage. No one should pressure you to marry, but when you decides to , please do it with a seriousness and be dedicated. I’m very ok at 32, Buh I don’t want to marry Bcus I know myself. I really want to enjoy my bachelor life , so by the time I gets into marriage I will fully dedicate myself and do away with a lot of things

You are a Wise Man, Amen !

Kobojunkie:
Clean money...dirty money... all na money. If you are busy looking for holy money, na you go miss out there. Priority should instead be on whether your money is legally made/obtained or not. If illegal, na then you go reasonably expect consequences since the law can come after you. Otherwise, it is all left to private interpretation really.

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You make sense this Morning On Money .. ..

That thing wey you dey Smoke No too Affect Monetary Part of Your Head

onumadu:
That keeping family secret is an essential/necessary skill in marriage.
The less others know about your marriage, the better for you.
The most successful families are the ones with the biggest secrets.
E get why.

Isale Oro Legbin(The Root of Wealths' Dirts):

Yoruba Lo Far !

AlphaHakimi:
I am speaking to you as an individual. If your dad was/is a good man, you will still love him whether he is married to your mum or not.

Every woman's gift is conditional and sentimental. Here is an analogy of a sentimental gift from women(Your mum)

" You return home from school and ask your father for 10,000 to buy a text book at school. He will ask you what textbook you want to buy and you may have probably inflated the amount for the textbook. At night, your father stays awake thinking of how he will give you his last 10k for school. Tomorrow morning he calls you and gives you 7k. He give 2k to your mum for food before going to work and he is left with Just 1k. Now he has to pay transport or fuel his car, he has to also buy something to eat from that same 1k.
Now you go back to your room feeling sad that your dad did not give you the complete money. While you are grumbling, your mum squeezes 3k into your hand and tells you 'don't mind your father, he is a stingy man' and immediately you collect the money from her, you feel better and begin to smile and your emotions surpasses your reasoning. You are angry at someone (your dad) who gave you 7k but you are happy with someone who gave you 3k". WOMEN ATTACH SENTIMENTS TO THEIR GIFTS.

Do not misinterpret my message for being misogynistic. I'm just trying to open your mind to properly understand the world and how women think.

Shalom

We Men Determines How Women Think !

Men are the Configurator & Programmer of Women !

Graficient:
Most of you should just keep quiet. Attend seminars, get books about marriage and relationship, read and learn now and stop buying some of these nonsense.
Build your finances and have specific life goals before you look for a partner that you are not only physically compatible with but you two can align your goals and work together as a team.
Build capacity, learn about the fear of God, learn understanding, tolerance, patience, how to love and respect. Don't jump into marriage thinking you will be able to learn everyday without the basic foundations. You might just crash before you start.

E took Elon Musk Considerable time to Launch SpaceX Successfully But Do You Know same guy noh see marriage Manage Despite Multiple Women

Imagine ooo ... Marriage No be Beans for those not well Prepared.....

E be like person wey wan start Businesses without Business Sense .... you Yaff Failed Yakata !

Marriage is a Commitment By Both Parties that E Must Work By water By Soul !

willoly:
If you are lucky to marry a wife you are complete, but if unfortunately you marry that woman then you are completely finished. Just pray, where your wisdom can't reach, prayer will cross you over.

Olohun .. This is the Hack Many Do Not Know .... Prayer with Smart Hustles is the Hack to Marital Breakthrough No Be to Rely On Person Sense alone ... Two Lions With Cubs Packed Inside On House Na Fires But With God, Every One go Understand Their Duties & Sempefy!

Ko si were Where God dey Reign ... But if U no Call Am E no go show & If U no Call Genuinely E still no go show

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chima47:
As a single person, people will always ask you when will you settle down, meaning when will you marry. Don't be deceived, marriage has unsettled many who were settled singles.

Gisos ...
You like playing with words ...

Laslas, We go dey Alright!

Adakintroy:
once capitalism reach its peak, socialism will emerge. From financial gained oriental relationship position to more feasible sustaining social bond oriental one.

The prevailing orientation will be skewed towards Integrative order for humans. It is a natural order process the that the I'm_ persona male (capitalistic order) should emerged first subsequently followed by the personalistic female (communism).

Socialism ain't coming back ....It's a cheat & Unmotivating ....

What is Coming Next is "Humanistic-Capitalism" not Mere Profit-Geared Capitalism as Ruling Presently ....

It's Obvious Many Human do not have the guts to survive this Fast Changing Techies worlds of Humanities....

The Weak Ones needed to be Helped Without Being Counter-Productive to the Strong Ones ...

Nature is Moving Faster Now Than Before Because We are all Late to the real Assignment Nevertheless, The Slow Ones shall be Helped to also Run Faster But Not Spooned like Socialism would spoil all !

Ugaboy:
What is the best caption for this pic below

Me: Food is life, Happiness is free.

Happiness is a Freedom Food

Gyarah:
Because the level of morality & sense of decency is erupting the society and on the increase.

We must work towards enhancing these values to deal with the menace you have rightly observed.

Who are the We
I know trust Una at all ...

Una dey form Scoffield, Small Chicks na Una own go bad pass ....

Simply welcome to this Generations of Sinatullahi .... !

When the Change will Come, E go Come

Meerahbel:
I believe it's social media.
Back in the day, the only way to cheat was to hookup with someone from work or school on the gym or, meet someone somewhere else and get their number. it's was harder to hide those relationships with only calling, texting, and email as options. If your partner was frequently gone before it was a red flag.

Now they can do all of their communication online right on their phone, and make excuses to cheat in person by "working late".

Now there are accounts with messaging that is private. You can hide all of your bad activity.

Now you can also easily add people you hardly know to social media, where you post your thoughts and feelings and put your whole life on display.
Or to a site where you constantly put up photos of your life for strangers to see. Attention seeking men and women can easily seek out others online from all over to boost their egos on this photo app. People with low morals can frequently bombard taken people with messages.
On facebook, over time people can get a false feeling of "knowing someone". And it's very easy for men and women with no morals to cross that line and cheat online, and take it to real life.
Decent people don't do these things, but temptation for those without morals or weaker humans is much bigger.
Not only is social media destroying our interactions and creating false ideas of "friendship " but it's also making it much easier to meet strangers who want to flirt and people who try to get to know you based on your online persona.
I wish I'd been born during different times honestly.

Lol ... This is also the best time to be born .. Human Are Insatiable ....

This is the first time the World is getting United Across Humanities without Bomb nor Wars But Technologies.....

Ohhh, You would have loved to be born in WWII Era or Era were there is no Medicine for Malaria where still birth was refer to "Abiku" ...

Abeg, I love this Gen Z & There is no Era without the Goods & The Uglies ....

It is part of Life ... we shall Soon Re-Evolve unto Something Else But as Human Keep Advancing In Scientific-Knowledges & Technologies Our Worlds & Civilisations as we Known it are Bound to Change ....

This is the Best Era for Businesses connected the world via same social media you Criticised without Relishing the Beauties .....

You can become a Multi-Millions-Dollars Business by sitting in your home & Selling Product to Americans while living in Nigeria infact In Your Village as far Light, Network, Phone & Sub ....

I love this world... Life has never been about something without its Sacrifices.....

Imredeemed:
My own story 😂

He left and said he was traveling to the east, I was so worried because it was already late and why was he going to the east unprepared..

In the evening around 7pm I started calling him he refused to pick and later after some minutes he called back and said he was at ijebuode going to east😩 haaaa ijebuode kee now now.

Omo I waited till 8pm I didn’t see my husband, I became so uncomfortable, not until I opened the wardrobe to change my cloth hold and behold I saw my husband hiding inside the wardrobe 🤣🤣🤣🤣 but first one security in my estate said he was playing table tennis at the estate park since afternoon… I didn’t know oga sne@k from the backyard and pack himself inside wardrobe for me to be worried because he knew I won’t be comfortable alone 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don’t know if I should laugh or what.. but the way odogwu fold himself eheee 🤣🤣 omo I screamed JESUSSS!!!

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placeofallure:
You Ehn! Long time. How are you holding up?

I'm Fine Mrs Allure
Hope Family is Good !

yusufmurry:
Don't worry too much. Married men don't stress them in the name of love. Since nothing is at stake than just giving them money and having little or no sex with them. They chose married men. Every Nigerian girl will tell you this. My joy is that what goes around, comes around. Na wify wey loose guard, side chic dey kolobi him husband

Na lie ooo .... If as a wife You wan follow ur husband shoulder to shoulder for side chick matter ... You go just wound cuz Na "Opatasion" go Hustle You Finish.....

Some Men are born to Kolobi Obi Kolobi Jaz Kolobi No matter what Dem Wife Do or How Beautiful She Be ....

Street Boy No fit Stay Inside ooo No Matter How Mansion The Home Be

Likewise

Homeboy No fit Survive Street, No Matter Smooth The Street Be ....

Everybody get dem own Na when e cast Gbege dey happen !

placeofallure:
It's the same for your gender too. They wouldn't let one rest even when it's obvious you are married. I've abandoned my fb account because of them. Last week I uninstalled IG on my phone. I just want peace. My husband feels insecure at times and I don't like that for us. Your folks are predators no cap.

A BigMan Must Know His Wife Shall Be Hit Upon in this Dispensation...

It's a Point of Duty for some Men Once Dey Chop Belleful ......

Just Tell Your Husband to Prepare for this times & Brace Up For Impact Peradventure Some Shots Were Shot & E Enter

dontrulee:
Luck.
Some are destined to be millionaires from gambling, others are destined to loose their millions to gambling.

I don't gamble and that's because I choose to use my brain to work to make money rather than depending on luck alone.

I don't fault those who gamble, I only pity those who go to the extreme like using their school fees, rents etc and squander everything away.

To Become Millionaire Overnight is One thing & to Possessed the Mental Prowess to Manage the Millions is Another Thing ....

To Give the Fund to Hyenas to Manage for him is Another thing .... When all the Money gets Stolen Under guises of Bad Investments & Flush Down the Drain, The Hyenas will Kill Him .... or He Kills Himself!

All in all ... Odikwa Risky for Him Without Money Management Skills !

dangermouse:
Back in the says as a bachelor, moved in newly into an apartment in a block of flats.
My immediate neighbour who is married with no kids always fighting with the wifey at odd hours in the night.

The fights are always so violent and nobody in the entire block of flat will bat an eyelid.

Being new, I rushed out one late night when they were fighting to separate them. Pleaded and was able to separate the fight that night as the hubby left the house to were I don't know. It was as late as 1:30 am.

Coming back following day from work in the night.
, I was met with a resounding slap from the hubby as I was downstairs greeting a friendly neighbour

I was dazed with the unexpected slap and he was ranting bla bla bla.. You what do you know about marriage to put mouth in our affairs, small boy like you wey never marry. What do you know about marriage?
Later got to know that this was one the reasons why nobody in the block never wants to separate the couple whenever they were fighting.

I laugh Sotey I come Mess Join

Nasri100:
Humans continue to delude themselves with this sacrificial vs exploitation idea of love.

Love is between a mother/father to their wards.

Any other thing is a scam.

You are also living in same delusions Because many Fathers/Mothers/Parents abandoned their Wards

madone:
There is love in Africa. Quote or dm me to link up with nice decent Nigerian guys for marriage... please be responsible bf you contact me

There is Hatred & Wickedness too ...

We are too Emotional here in Africa thus We Do Most Excessively Whether Love, Hatred or Wickedness!

Alexxx2000:
As the headline states. What enters your mind when you immediately have money in your account or your hand?

Mine is my FAMILY.

What is yours?

Assets !
Converts Current Assets into Non-Current Assets, Shikena !

Manolo3107:
My son though almost 2 now was 1 day playfully scratching his p**nis, all of a sudden he looked up at me and said daddy,remove this 1 and buy another 1 for me,I don't like this 1, when I asked y? He replied this 1 is chaching( scratching me)..omo I fell of my couch

. E funny

Xscape1993:
Evil party... evil government... evil president... evil senate president....

Nope, The Government must work in Sync as Government for Efficient & Effective Speedy & Operational Governance....

You should be happy they ain't enemies!

luminouz:
I hate turkey. Ileya meat is what I want

Long-Throat Ni e Bobo Yii
Ekun D'Tiger

luminouz:
Lol, that girl that quoted you is iyaebe or rozz or whatever moniker she bears these days. She manipulated you into attacking me because she wanted my attention and I didn't give her. That's what the redpill is about,bro. Don't give attention to those who are undeserving. If you check her posts, you will see she has been on my diick for a while but I have always ignored IT.

N.B: I don't hate women bro. I just understand them.

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I Don't Feel Manipulated Sha & I never attacked You Bro .....

If you see I sha dey rep You Noni ...

Comot that Redpill Thing Jhare ... A "Man" is Owkay... Aseju Leran Ileya, Turkey ti wa Owkay!

crossbreedwears:
I know all these bro. I sabi knack well, i get sense and small change but babe still cheated on me. No dey use that one judge at all! I sabi one babe wey dey die for one guy and the guy bo get anything.

You Can't Judge Yourself Bro ... Only Your Woman Fit Judge You ... ... There are Still Some Important Plug that You ain't Connecting ...

If Woman is a Vehicle, Man is the Mechanic ....

She Get Craze Wey Dey Worry am Wey She Herself No Know, Your Task is to Find Out & Fix It ....

If You Can't, Some will just Siddon dey look You like Weyrey Man While Some Will Carry Demself Go meet another Fixer ... E Deep Sha !

You are like a Key, She is a Hole ... If You are truly Her Key, No Any Other Keys Fit Open Her Except a Master Key(U No Dem Na, No Women Wey Dem no fit fvck Even Nun):

Most Women have Psychological Issues & Heavenly Desires, You Must Know How to Block the Gamma in Her Heads & Open New Frontier then Keep the Gamma Blocked Until Adaptations Sets in to Help You Automatically Continue Your Course Then She Twerks towards You ... Na OT ! ...

If You ain't Psychological, Nigerian Women Can be Difficult to Manage Trust Me ... Many are From Bad Abusive & Mentally Fvcked Background ... You must Cleanse the Dirts in Her Emotions ...

Some Believe Na only Money but You must Be a Problem Solver Mentally & Financially, Her Womb must twitch for you in Anticipation of Babies with You .... Na dat time she go dey disturb you with Marriage or Belle Whichever Comes First ... At this Point of Her Mental Journey With You, If You Drop Her A.ss & She Cursed You Na Sure Magnet ... E Go Catch You Because All Her Portals is Already Opened For You

Forget, Some Dudes Go dey Beat Some girls Blue Black & She will Still Stay With Him Night & Days ...

Life is Deep Only Few Understand the Hacks Same as Relationships with Women ... Those Who Understand the Hacks Have as Many Women attracted to them as Possible...

Women No Care, If One Man Understand Womanhood So Well, One Thousand Classical Women & One Thousand Unclassical Women Would Fight For His Attentions & Sire His Children Because His Children Would Make Up For The Care for The Mom ...

Women are Biologically Wired to Sire Children from Great Men ... Na Hacks From Their Subconscious Except She no See then She Would make do with what is Available ...

IconicR:
😂 he's a wicked soul, you don't just know that aspect of him. They are indeed cowards

.. Have you meet any redpiller in Real Life Most na Online Oo .. In real Life they are still begging for Sex o

IconicR:
😂😂😂 please edit his monika, he's a toxic and an intense serious hater and I avoid his hate and toxicity. I really don't understand redpillers and their unnecessary hatred for women, nothing adds up.

are You a Lady ?
Tot I was with a Dude ...

Na My Gee ... He was Just Lost ... I wan make He See This, Part of His Lessons ... He is a Fun Dude Anyway ...
He Just No Understand all the Redpill Nonsense... He sha Dey do Am unto Say Make Woman No Scam Am ...

Redpillers are Cowards, Na Cuz Dem dey Fear Na why Dem dey Create Billions Rule ....

You know some people Once Dem Wicked Dem, Dem Must Wicked Back ...

IconicR:
😂😂😂 I read where you dealt with one(lumi) who tried to sweet talk into it but you ended up schooling the misguided boy. You really understand perfectly how to conquer a woman without being toxic which is what every man needs to learn,

... you know that Boy ... Luminouz is an As.hew.o Boy in Ibadan ... He don Wreck Havoc There na still turn Redpiller .... Is that not Wickedness

How Could You Psycho-Fvck girls & Turn Their Brains Upside Down to Have Your Ways Only to Still Turn Around & Be Redpilling Women

That Boy Na Winch .. I wan Convert am Back to a Man

IconicR:
You are an alpha man and good to know you are not a redpiller. 😂

Lol ...
Redpillers are Small Boys That refused To Learn From Their Young Mothers(Women) ..

Women are Keys to Manhood ... You Can Never-Ever Cross From a Boy to a Man Without Being Tested & Aced Women's Antics... This is an Eternal Continuous Test To Ensuring Nature Gets the Best Men to Serve While Best Men Also Sire Their Women & Raise the Better Children if not ... Mumu Men Go Plenty Which is Not Good for Earth ... O lo Far

Adam was Love Struck With Eve na Ihm Make Him Chop Apple ... Nevertheless, He No Mean Say Make Ihm Hate Eve But He Would learn his Lessons Next Time to Stand his Ground Because Eve go still Bring Another Apple Come ... Na so Women Be ....

If Adam Be Redpiller, He For Create 48Laws Why Women Must Be Dealt with Wickedness

Redpillers Na Mad Small Adult-Boys That Have Suffered in the Hands of Women as a Result of Simping Instead of Now Growing to Becoming a Man They Decided to Hate their Teachers(Women)

IconicR:
😂 alpha man

Na "Ordinary Man" Bro

Small Maturities dey sha !

IconicR:
Hmm you are psych lord and I pity your woman, she'll be under your spell forever

That's the Deal Bro
But Everything is Unto Almighty God No Man Sabi oo Before God Go Clear Your Doubt